Unokulibazisa, kodwa ixesha aliyi kubakho, kwaye ixesha elilahlekileyo aliphinde lifumaneke. -Benjamin Franklin
Isenokuba lilizwi elipheleleyo, kodwa kukwayinyaniso engenakuphikwa: ixesha liyabaleka, kwaye iminyaka ibonakala ngathi ityibilika kwiminwe yethu.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ayindim ndedwa oziva ngathi uEva woNyaka oMtsha olandelayo ubonakala ngathi uyajikeleza ngaphambi kokuba sicule uAuld Lang Syne.
Ixesha leholide lisondele kwakhona, kwaye kungekudala liza kuba lixesha lokwamkela ngo-2021.
Oko kuthetha ukuba iingcinga zakho kungekudala ziya kujikela kwizisombululo zonyaka omtsha, kunye nombono wakho kwiinyanga ezili-12 ezizayo.
xa uziva ngathi awungowakho
Ngaphambi kokuba ubhale nantoni na phantsi okanye usete nantoni na elityeni, thatha ixesha elincinci lokucingisisa.
Funda izinto ezimbalwa osenokuba sele uzazi nzulu, kodwa onokuzenza ngokukhumbula ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nezigqibo.
1. Unyaka oMtsha ayisiyiyo kuphela ixesha onokuthi utshintshe
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukucinga ngezigqibo zakho, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho sidingo sokuzicinezela ngombono wokuba unethuba elinye ngonyaka lokwenza isenzo sakho kunye kunye nokwenza utshintsho ebomini bakho.
Uninzi lwabantu lubonakala ngathi luphantsi kwembono yokuba xa usenza izigqibo ezingalunganga uya kubambelela kubo kude kube li-2022.
Kwaye leyo yingcinga eyoyikisayo.
Ngapha koko, yonke into oyifunayo kufuneka uyenze yinyanga entsha, iveki entsha, okanye nokuba liphuma nje ilanga elitsha.
Unamathuba angama-365 ngo-2021, hayi elinye.
2. Kodwa kwelinye icala, yindawo entle ukuba uqale
Ngelixa inqaku elingentla lingaphezulu kwenyani, oko akuthethi ukuba uJanuwari ayisilo xesha lilungileyo lokuphinda uhlaziye kwaye wenze utshintsho oluthile.
Awunamathele kwizisombululo ozenzayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akufuneki uzenze. Akukho xesha linje ngoku, ngapha koko!
Ngokwengqondo, kuvakala ngathi sisiqalo esitsha ngoJanuwari. Inokwenzeka isemoyeni.
Ngelixa wonke umntu ezama ukwenza kunye nokunamathela kwizisombululo, kuninzi umfutho okukujikelezileyo wokugcina usiya kwiinjongo zakho, ke qiniseka ukuba usebenzisa imali kuyo.
3. Izigqibo mazivele kwindawo yokuzithanda
Abanye abantu babonakala ngathi bafuna ukuzohlwaya ngoNyaka oMtsha, ngenxa yokuba bengabhityanga ngokwaneleyo, belingana ngokwaneleyo, benobubele ngokwaneleyo, begqibelele ngokwaneleyo… Okanye ngokwaneleyo ngokubanzi .
Oko akunampilo.
Ngelixa kuhlala kukuhle ukuzama ube ngumntu ongcono , Akufanele uqale kwisiseko sokuba ungubani ngalo mzuzu awukho phezulu.
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Kuya kufuneka uzamkele kwaye zithande ngokuba ungubani, kwaye kuphela emva koko cinga ngendlela izinto ezinokuba ngcono ngayo, kwaye ungasenza njani esona sipho siphezulu osinikiweyo.
Akukho nto yokuzikhupha, nceda.
4. Cwangcisa ukonwaba
Kwelo nqaku, nceda ungazenzi iinjongo zakho ezingama-2021 zizinto onokukhetha ukungazenzi.
Ukuba uyayithiya indawo yokuzivocavoca, ungabhaliseli ubulungu. Awusoze uhambe kwaye uyazi. Kwaye ukuba uyayenza, uyakuba lusizi.
Ukuba injongo yakho kukuzilolonga ngakumbi, fumana indlela yokuhlala ukhuthele owaziyo ukuba uya kuyithanda. Umdaniso. Nyuka iintaba. Umkhumbi. Ukusebenza kufuneka kungabi ngumsebenzi.
Yenza i-2021 unyaka wokuzinyamekela. Cwangcisa ixesha elininzi lokuhleka kwaye wenze izinto ezininzi ozithandayo nabantu obathandayo.
5. Uphila Kuphela Kanye
Enye into, ndiyazi. Ndizele ngabo. Zilungiselele ngokwakho ezinye ezimbalwa.
Ubusoloko uzibekela amangomso? Yintoni le uzixelele ukuba uza kuyenza kwixesha elizayo? Yintoni le ubuyiphepha kuba awukabi nawo 'umzimba wamaphupha akho'?
Ubomi asikokuqheliselwa kwengubo kwaye awufumani thuba lesibini lokuphila. I-carpe diem nayo yonke loo jazz.
Yenza u-2021 unyaka wenze into eyoyikisayo, kodwa ikonwabise ngaxeshanye.
Qalisa elo shishini. Thatha olo hambo.
Ukoyikeka njengoko kusenokuvakala, nabani na kuthi angatshayiswa yibhasi ngomso, kwaye ukuzisola akukuhle. Awunakufa, ngoko ke yeka ukuzibekela ecaleni izinto ozifuna kakhulu.
6. Kufuneka Uyifune Ngokwenene
Oku kufuneka kuvele kuwe, hayi nabani na okujikelezileyo.
Ngaba iqabane / umama / umhlobo wakho uzama ukukutyhala ukuba wenze utshintsho? Okanye ngaba uziva uxinzelelo oluvela eluntwini?
Kufuneka uyifune, njengoko inguwe ekufuneka uyenzile. Gxila kwizinto ozifuna ngokwenene.
Wena uyakwenza, kwaye wonke umntu makazilungise.
7. Zibekele iinjongo ezingcono kunezigqibo ezingacacanga
Akukho sizathu sokwenza izigqibo ukuba awukhange ufumanise ukuba uza kwenza njani ngazo. Kuya kufuneka uzibekele iinjongo ezithile.
ungajongana njani nendoda ezithandayo
Ukuba, umzekelo, uthathe isigqibo sokuba iSigqibo sakho soNyaka oMtsha kukuhamba ngakumbi, kuya kufuneka uzinikele ekufumaneni uhambo lwakho lokuqala, yithi, phakathi kuJanuwari, uhambe ngoFebruwari okanye ngoMatshi.
Ukuba ujonga ukwenza umthambo ngakumbi, ziphathe ngokwakho kwimpahla oyifunayo kwintengiso kaJanuwari, zibhalisele iklasi yokuzivocavoca, ujoyine iklabhu, okanye ubhatalele ubulungu bomthambo…
Ukuba unethemba lokugcina imali eninzi, uphando ngeyona akhawunti yolondolozo ilungileyo, vula enye kwaye usete ngqo kwi-debit ukuze imali idluliselwe ngokuzenzekelayo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe inyathelo elibambekayo nelibonakalayo, ekukhethwa ukuba ubandakanye ukuzibophelela kwezemali, ukuze ibhola iqengqeleke.
8. Iinjongo zakho kufuneka zifezeke
Akukho nto inokubangela ukuba uNyaka oMtsha uqalise ngaphandle kokuzibekela iinjongo ezingafikeleleki kwaphela.
Ngelixa kuhlala kulungile ukuzityhala, kwaye ungaze woyike ukuphupha umkhulu, kuya kufuneka ugcine izinto zinokufezekiseka.
Khawukhumbule nje: uyakwazi ngaphezu kokuba ucinga!
Ukuba awuzange ubaleke ngaphambili, umzekelo, mhlawumbi akufuneki wenze iinjongo zakho zokubaleka umdyarho weembaleki phakathi kwisiqingatha sokuqala sika-2021. .
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Kufanele ukuba ibhalansi elungileyo phakathi kokumisela iinjongo zakho eziphakamileyo kangangokuba uphoxeke kwaye ndidimazekile xa ungaziphumezi, kwaye ukuthathela phantsi oko ukwaziyo.
Zithini izigqibo zakho ngo-2021?
Ngayo yonke loo nto engqondweni, lixesha lokwenza izigqibo ezimbalwa.
Hlala phantsi, wonwabe, uzithululele ikomityi yekofu okanye iglasi yewayini (ibingunyaka omde!), Bamba usiba nephepha, ubhale phantsi zonke izinto ongathanda ukuzenza okanye ukuzitshintsha ngo-2021.
Ndihlala ndifumana ipeni kunye nephepha ukuba lingcono kakhulu kunokwenza oku ngokwamanani, njengoko iingcinga zakho zihamba ngcono.
Emva koko, jonga ixesha elide kubunzima obubhalileyo. Thatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi eyona nto ufuna ukuyenza, kwaye zeziphi izinto oziva ngathi kufanele ukuba uzenzile, okanye omnye umntu ucinga ukuba kufuneka uzenze.
Yiba nolunye uludwe lwakho, kwaye uzibuze ukuba ngaba kuya kubonakala ngokufanayo ukuba uyazi ukuba lo iya kuba ngunyaka wakho wokugqibela emhlabeni. Ngoku kongeza izinto obungathanda ukuzenza ukuba bezikhona.
Nciphisa uluhlu lwakho ukuya kwizisombululo ezi-2-3 ezikwenza uzive unemincili kwaye usoyika kancinci ngaxeshanye.
Uluhlu lwakho kufuneka lubase umlilo esiswini sakho, nokuba yinto nje encinci yelangatye, ke ukuba ayenzi njalo, zama ukongeza into kancinci.
Mba nje ujule kancinci, ndiyazi ukuba unephupha ungcwatyiwe.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba zeziphi izigqibo ekufuneka uzimisile? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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