Phantse wonke umntu emhlabeni uya kuziva elahlekile kwaye engenanjongo ngaxa lithile ebomini babo.
Banokuvuka ekuqondeni ukuba bagcina imeko yangoku kunokuba ngokwenene uyaphila.
Uninzi lwabantu ludlula nje kwimikhwa abaziqhelileyo, bahlolwe ngokweemvakalelo ukuze kungafuneki bajongane nenyani yokuba lusizi kwiimeko zabo zangoku.
Abanye bayazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba bafuna / bafuna ukwenza into eyahlukileyo, kodwa abazi ukuba yintoni. Zininzi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo phaya, zininzi iindlela onokuzithatha, eziya ziphelela ekubeni uzive ungakhululekanga kwaye ungashukumi.
Ukuba ufumana into enje, kulungile. Silapha ukunceda.
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Into endinqwenela ukuba uyenze ngoku kukuthatha kancinci ukuphefumla kwesisu. Emva koko zenzele ikomityi yesiselo sakho osithandayo, bamba incwadana yokubhala kunye nepeni, kwaye uzisongele kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Siza kuhamba nohambo lwamanyathelo asi-8 anokukunceda ufumane ulwalathiso ebomini bakho.
1. Zibuze imibuzo ebalulekileyo.
Bhala oku phezulu kwiphepha elitsha:
Ndingenza ntoni ngobomi bam ukuba imali, ixesha, kunye nezixhobo bezingeyonto?
-Ungawenzela ntoni umsebenzi / ikhondo lomsebenzi?
- Ubuya kuhlala phi?
-Uya kwenza ntoni ngexesha lakho?
- ubuya kunxiba njani?
- Ngaba ungabonakala ngokwahlukileyo kunangoku?
-Ungayintoni usuku olufezekileyo kuwe?
- Ungumlingani onjani onokuba naye?
-Zeziphi iindlela zokuzonwabisa onokuzonwabela?
Yiba kakhulu eneenkcukacha malunga nazo zonke ezi mpendulo, kwaye uthathe ixesha elininzi kunye nabo ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Nje ukuba wenze njalo, tyhila kwelinye iphepha kwiphepha lakho kwaye ubhale phantsi zonke izinto ebomini bakho ngoku ezenza ukuba wonwabe kwaye uzalisekiswe.
Emva kokuba uzibhalile, tyhila kwelinye iphepha. Apha, uza kubhala phantsi zonke izinto ebomini bakho ngoku ezikwenza unxunguphale, ungonwabi kwaye ucaphuke. Yiba neenkcukacha malunga nazo zonke ezi zinto zoluhlu ngokunjalo. Bhala phantsi indlela nganye nganye ekuziva ngayo, zombini ngoku kunye nexesha ohlangabezana nalo.
Injongo yolu luhlu kukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi iinkalo zobomi ungathanda ukutshintsha, onqwenela ukuyigcina, kwaye enokuthi okanye ingakulungeli ubomi bakho obulungileyo ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela ohamba ngayo.
Umbono kukuba ukufumana ulwalathiso ebomini bakho kuthetha ukuba uyaqonda indlela yokufumana kubomi bakho namhlanje ukuya kubomi obukhethileyo bexesha elizayo. Imalunga nokwazi ukuba yintoni ekufuneka itshintshile kwaye usebenze ngendlela yokwenza olo tshintsho.
2. Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho.
Nje ukuba ugqibe ngotshintsho ofuna ukulwenza, thembeka ekubeni ululungele na ukwenza olo tshintsho.
Unokuba kwimeko apho ukhubazekile ngoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ngenxa yokuba uziva ubambekile emsebenzini owuthiyileyo, usebenza iiyure ezingama-80 ngeveki ukuxhasa usapho olucaphukisayo kunye neqabane ongazange ufune ukuba nalo iminyaka.
Nokuba ubhale ephepheni, okanye uyazi nje nzulu, awufuni kuphinda ubekhona kule meko.
Kodwa ngaba uzimisele ukwenza into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuzisusa kule ntlekele?
Ngaba ukulungele ukwenzakalisa nokudanisa abanye abantu ukuze uphile ubomi obuyinyani kwiimfuno zakho, iimfuno kunye namaphupha akho?
Mamela, siyazi ukuba ubomi abuhlali bulula njengoko inqaku le-intanethi lisenza ukuba libekho. Ukuba awukakulungeli ukwenza utshintsho olukhulu ngoku, unga sill uzame ukufumana umkhombandlela ukuya kuthi ga ekuqhubekeni kolunye ulonwabo. Usenokwenza utshintsho oluncinci ukusondela kubomi bakho obufanelekileyo, nokuba uhlala ungafikeleleki okwangoku.
Unokuba ukulungele ukwenza utshintsho olukhulu kungekudala okanye nakwikamva elikude. Ngokucacileyo kungangcono ukuba ubenze ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kamva, kodwa mhlawumbi ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci ngoku kuya kuba sisixhobo esikuqhubela ekwenzeni olo tshintsho lukhulu kamva.
Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukwenza utshintsho olukhulu ngoku, licebo elihle ukusebenza ekuchongeni inkxaso eyahlukeneyo kwaye iindlela zokulwa Kuya kufuneka uyinyamezele imeko okuyo de ube uyakwazi.
Ngenye indlela, ukuba ufikelele kwinqanaba lokuba ukulungele ukufumana ngokupheleleyo, indlela ekhululayo ekhululekileyo kwizithintelo zemo, kuya kufuneka wenze isicwangciso.
3. Yenza isicwangciso samanyathelo.
Unokuba ne-crossovers kolu luhlu ulozibhale ngaphambili. Umzekelo, ukuba iphupha lakho losuku olugqibeleleyo luya kubandakanya ezinye izinto ozenzayo zemihla ngemihla, okanye ixesha olichithe neqabane lakho langoku, ke ezo zezinye zeebhloko zokwakha ubomi obutsha ojolise kubo.
Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukuba akukho nanye kuluhlu lwakho lwezinto ozithandayo onokuzithatha uhambe nazo kubomi bakho bamaphupha, kulungile… sisilayiti ekuya kufuneka usicime.
Chonga uluhlu lwezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kwizinto ozifunayo / ofuna ukuzitshintsha. Dwelisa ezi zinto ngokokubaluleka, ukusuka kwizinto ezicaphukisayo nezikwenzakalisa kakhulu ngoku, ukuya kwizinto onokuzinyamezela okwethutyana.
Umzekelo, ukuba ubudlelwane bakho / umtshato wakho ububuhlungu kodwa umsebenzi wakho uyadinisa, uyazi into ekufuneka ilungiswe kwangoko.
Ngenye indlela, ukuba umsebenzi wakho ukuqhubela kwimbono yokuzibulala kodwa ulungile ngokuhlala kwindawo ohlala kuyo okwethutyana, ngumsebenzi / umsebenzi wakho ekufuneka ubekwe phambili.
Zeziphi izinto onokuzenza kwangoko?
Ukuba uyawuthanda umsebenzi wakho kodwa uyithiyile imeko yakho yangoku yomsebenzi, hlaziya i-resume yakho / i-CV nje ukuba ugqibile ukufunda eli nqaku. Emva koko qalisa ukukhangela umsebenzi omtsha, mhlawumbi ngoncedo lomqeshi.
Ngenye indlela, ukuba uyidelile le ndlela yobomi ixesha elithile kwaye ufuna ukwenza into eyahluke mpela, jonga kokuya kubandakanyeka ukulandela elo phupha litsha.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuziva usoyika kakhulu ukuqala into ngokutsha, ngakumbi ukuba kudala usebenza apho ukhoyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukutshintsha kwemisebenzi kunokubandakanya ukuphulukana nokhuseleko lwezezimali okanye iwonga. Unokuba nesikhundla esiphezulu apho ukhoyo, kwaye umvuzo owufumanayo unokukuvumela inqanaba elithile lentuthuzelo, kodwa zilunge ntoni ezo zinto ukuba ulila ebhafini ubusuku ngabunye?
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Imimandla yokuthuthuzela kulapho amaphupha aya kufa khona.
4. Chonga into oyithandayo.
Ngoku, esinye sezizathu zokuba abanye abantu babenobunzima ekufumaneni ulwalathiso ebomini kukuba balibale (okanye abayiqondi ncam) eyona nto bayithandayo.
Banokuthi bawele kumakhondo athile ngenxa yokuba bebefanele ukwenza into, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba bayayonwabela.
Ke, uthanda ukwenza ntoni?
Ngaba unayo into oyithandayo okanye usukelo lwakho oluzisa uvuyo olukhulu? Kutheni uyithanda kangaka? Ngaba ungaqhubeka uyithande ukuba uyenzile ngokusisigxina?
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uzixhase (kunye nabo baxhomekeke kuwe) ukuba ungakwenza oku njengomsebenzi?
Isikhokelo sihamba sivela kuthando kunye nokuzinikezela. Xa usenza into oyithandayo, unemvakalelo eyomeleleyo yenjongo kunye nokuzaliseka.
Nokuba awenzi mali ingako njengokuba ubunokuba nayo ngaphambili, kulungile. Ugxininiso olukhulu lubekwe kubutyebi bezemali kule mihla kangangokuba abantu bayalibala ukuba ukuzaliseka ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya kubaluleke ngakumbi.
Kwakhona, ubomi abukho lula njengeli nqaku okanye enye into onokuyifunda yenza-siyayifumana loo nto. Asitsho ukuba wonke umntu angayenza into ayithandayo njengomsebenzi kuba ayisiyonyani leyo.
Kodwa abanye abantu bakufumanisa kungasebenzi ukuzalisa umsebenzi otshabalalisa umphefumlo ngakumbi kunabanye. Kwaye ukuba uyifumene indlela yakho eya kweli nqaku, ungomnye wabo bantu.
Ke, ukuba kukho nayiphi na indlela onokuthi uphile ngayo ngento oyithandayo, kuya kufuneka ubeke yonke imizamo onokuthi uyenze ukuze ibe yinyani.
5. Yeka ukwenza izinto ozithiyileyo.
Lungakanani ixhala noxinzelelo onalo kuba usenza izinto ongenakukwazi ukuzimela?
Inokuba njani imeko yengqondo yakho ukuba ubuxakwe yinto onokuthi ukhethe ukuyenza endaweni yoko?
Unga ndiziva ndibanjisiwe okwangoku ngenxa yokuba wenza izinto ozidelelayo ukuze uzigcine (kwaye mhlawumbi nosapho lwakho) uhlala kwaye wondliwe. Ukuba kunjalo, thetha neqabane lakho / iqabane / amalungu osapho ngokukhululekileyo nangokunyaniseka malunga nendlela oziva ngayo. Akukho ntloni ekuceleni uncedo ukuze uzikhulule kwimeko enzima.
Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukwenza ikhondo elitsha, kungafuneka uchithe ixesha elithile (kunye nemali) ufunda ngale ndlela intsha. Yenza uphando ukuze ufumane ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo kunye neenkqubo ezikhoyo kwimfundo yesibini yomsebenzi. Unokufanelekela ukuba uncediswe ngemali-hayi nje kwimfundo yakho, kodwa kwiindleko zakho ngelixa uqeqeshwa kwakhona.
Isangqa sakho sentlalo (usapho, abahlobo, uluntu ngokomoya) unokukwazi ukukunceda nawe. Uya kunyuka kwaye uncede abo bakungqongileyo ukuba baphume kwimeko ebebenzakalisa, akunjalo? Ewe, kukho ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuba abo ubathandayo bangakuvuyela ukukunceda.
Ngaphandle komsebenzi, ngaba zikho ezinye izinto ebomini bakho oqhubeka uzenza nangona zikwazisa okwahlukileyo kokonwaba? Ngaba bakho abahlobo ongasakonwabeliyo ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo? Ngaba zikhona izinto ozikhethileyo ongakhange uzenze? Kuya kufuneka unazo ezi kuludwe ozenze ngaphambili.
Ungasusa njani ezi zinto ebomini bakho? Kuya kuthatha ntoni?
6. Chonga ukuba yeyiphi eyona ndlela isebenzayo kuwe.
Ngaba uluhlobo lomntu osebenza ngokugqibeleleyo ngeenjongo kunye nolwakhiwo olufikelelekayo? Okanye ngaba ukhetha indlela yefom yasimahla?
Ngokufanayo, uyathanda ukusebenza kwiiprojekthi ezahlukeneyo ngaxeshanye? Okanye uyathanda ukujongana nezinto nganye nganye?
Akukho ndlela-yokulinganisa yonke indlela yokufumana (kunye nokulandela) imikhombandlela emitsha. Endaweni yoko, umntu ngamnye kufuneka ahlele oko kuya kubagcina bekhuthazeka kwaye bekhuthazeka njengoko beqhubela phambili.
Abanye abantu banokuchuma ngeenjongo zeSMART, ngelixa abanye bezenzekelayo ngaphandle kotshintsho.
Ukuba upholile ngokuyeka umsebenzi, upakisha izinto zakho, kwaye uhamba ilizwe lonke, yiya khona! Ngaphandle koko, ukuba ukhululekile ngakumbi ukudala iziganeko ezibalaseleyo kunye nekhalenda yokubuyela emsebenzini, ke jolise oko endaweni yoko.
7. Hlanganisa utshintsho olukhulu noluncinci.
Ngelixa usebenza kweminye yemicimbi emikhulu ebomini bakho, jonga ezinye zezinto ezinokufikeleleka / ezifikelelekayo ngokulula.
Oku kunika ukwaneliseka okukhawulezileyo, okuya kukukhuthaza njengoko usiya phambili kunye notshintsho olukhulu.
Umzekelo, masithi izinto ezimbini ezisendleleni yakho yotshintsho ziya zimila, kwaye zitshintsha ukuhonjiswa kwekhaya lakho. Ixesha langaphambili liyakuthatha ixesha ukuba kwenzeke utshintsho lokwenyani, kodwa ukugcina incwadi yeencwadi apho uphawula khona ukuba inkqubela phambili yakho inokukunceda ujonge inkqubela phambili yakho mihla le, ngeveki, nangenyanga.
Ngelixa kuthatha ixesha ukulandela, unokukhetha igumbi endlwini yakho ukuze utshintshe. Masithi igumbi lakho lokulala liphambili. Bekela bucala impelaveki yokupeyinta, hamba uye kuzilungiselela izinto zokulala ezintsha, mhlawumbi ezinye izityalo. Lahla nantoni na engasakulungelanga, lungisa kwakhona ifenitshala, mhlawumbi usasaze amavumba amatsha phaya.
Oko kuyakwenza umohluko omkhulu, kwaye kuya kuqinisa into yokuba ukwinkqubo yokutshintsha yonke eminye imiba oyibhalileyo.
8. Yiba nesibindi.
Abantu abaninzi bayazibamba ekulandeleni izinto abazithandayo ngenxa yokuba boyika ukubeka emngciphekweni (kunye nokuphulukana) nezinto abanazo.
Bayakuhlala kumakhondo omsebenzi, ubudlelwane, kwanezixeko abazicekisayo ixesha elide kunokuba befanele, kuba besoyika ukuba ukutshintsha iimeko zabo kungakhokelela kwintlungu enkulu kunokuba sele befumana.
Oko kwathethi, ukuhlala emngciphekweni. Akunakubakho nayiphi na ukuzalisekiswa okanye umvuzo ukuba akukho nqanaba elithile lezinto ezingasebenzi njengoko ungathanda. Ewe kunjalo, ekuphela kwendlela yokuqinisekisa ubomi bokuphoxeka kunye nokuzisola kukuma kwindawo okuyo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungalufumana njani ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo ebomini bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
Ukuhleka kukubeka emngciphekweni wokuvela isidenge.
Ukulila kukuzibeka emngciphekweni wokubizwa ngokuba unomdla.
Ukufikelela komnye umntu kukuzibandakanya emngciphekweni.
Ukuveza iimvakalelo kukuzibeka emngciphekweni wokuveza ubunyani bakho.
Ukubeka izimvo zakho, amaphupha akho phambi kwesihlwele umngcipheko wokubizwa ngokuba ungazi.
Ukuthanda ukubeka emngciphekweni ukungathandwa njengembuyekezo.
Ukuphila kukuzibeka esichengeni sokufa.
Ukuba nethemba kukubeka emngciphekweni wokuphelelwa lithemba,
kwaye ukuzama kukubeka emngciphekweni ukusilela.
Kodwa umngcipheko kufuneka uthathwe, kuba eyona ngozi inkulu ebomini kukungazibeki emngciphekweni.
Umntu obeka engozini nantoni na akenzi nto, akananto, kwaye akanganto.
Unokukuphepha ukubandezeleka kunye nosizi, kodwa akanakufunda nokuziva kwaye atshintshe akhule athande aphile. Ebotshelelwe zizitifiketi zakhe, ulikhoboka, uphulukene nenkululeko yakhe.
Kuphela ngumntu ozibeka emngciphekweni okhululekile ngokwenene.
-U-Leo Buscaglia
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