Njengoko ufunda le nto ngoku, amawaka ezigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela ahamba ngobomi babo.
Kodwa ulapha kuba awufuni nje ukuphila ubomi bakho obufunayo Yenza into ngobomi bakho.
Ufuna ukwenza into ebalulekileyo, into enentsingiselo, into entle.
Ufuna ubomi bakho bubaluleke, wenze umahluko, wenze umhlaba ube yindawo engcono.
Kodwa kanjani?
Ungenzani? Kufuneka wenze ntoni? Wazi njani ukuba yeyiphi 'into' efanelekileyo ebomini bakho?
Masikhuphe eli nyathelo ngenyathelo.
1. Zilungelelanise nesizathu.
Isizathu siqhelekileyo yindlela yokuphucula ubomi babantu okanye bezilwanyana okanye yendalo. Ihlala ifuna ukulungisa ukungabikho kokusesikweni, kodwa ikwabandakanya ukuqhubela phambili kokuqonda komntu okanye itekhnoloji.
Kukho izizathu ezingapheliyo ezahlukeneyo ezihlala zihambelana nento ethile okanye iqela okanye i-engile.
Eminye yemizekelo yezizathu zezi:
-Ukuphelisa indlala nokungondleki.
- Ukugcina iintlobo ezinobungozi bazo.
-Ukukhusela imeko yezilwanyana zasendle.
-Ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntwana uyafikelela kwimfundo.
- Ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uyafikelela kumanzi acocekileyo.
-Ukuphelisa ucalucalulo lohlobo oluthile.
-Ukubonelela ngenkathalo yokuphela kobomi kwabagulayo nakwabo badala.
Ukunciphisa ungcoliseko lweplastiki.
Ukuhlangula izilwanyana zasekhaya ezilahliweyo.
-Ukwenza ukuba indawo ohlala kuyo ibe yindawo engcono yokuhlala.
Ngaba ikhona into oziva ngamandla ngayo? Ukuba kunjalo, leyo yindawo elungileyo ukuqala.
Ukuba awuyazi eyona nto ilungile kuwe, akukho nto ikuthintelayo ekuzibandakanyeni nabambalwa ukuze ubone ukuba yeyiphi evakalelwa ngokusondelelene kakhulu neenqobo zakho kunye neenkolelo.
Kodwa kungumbono olungileyo ukuhlala kwisizathu esinye ukuba unako. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye namandla kuyo enceda ukomeleza ukuthanda kwakho.
Ukuba uzisasaza ngokuthe chu kwizizathu ezininzi, ubeka emngciphekweni wokunciphisa ifuthe onalo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuzilungelelanisa nonobangela akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uzilungelelanise nombutho okanye isisa. Unokwenza into ngobomi bakho wedwa nje, nangona siza kuphinda sixoxe kamva, kunokuba kuhle ukujoyina abanye besenza into enye.
indlela yokwakha kwakhona ukuthembana kubudlelwane emva kobuxoki
2. Fumana iindlela onokuthi ube negalelo ngazo.
Ukufaka isandla kukunika, kwaye oko kunokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo.
Unokufuna ukufumana izandla kwaye ubandakanyeke ekwenzeni izinto ezinxulumene nesizathu.
Oku kunokuthetha ukuvolontiya ixesha lakho ukuhamba izinja ezishiyiweyo kwindawo yokuhlala, okanye ukuchitha ngokuhlwa nje ngeveki kwikhitshi lesuphu.
Ungaziva ngathi unezakhono umbutho onokuzisebenzisa. Oku kunokuvela kubuchwephesha bokuyilwa kwewebhu ukufikelela kuthutho lwabantu, iimpahla kunye nezixhobo.
Nokuba kusembindini okanye ngaphezulu ngasemva kwemiboniso, yonke indima ibalulekile kwaye iyimfuneko ukuba kufuneka kwenziwe umahluko wokwenyani.
Kwaye awuphelelanga kwifomu enye yegalelo. Into oyinikayo inokwahluka kwaye iguqule ngokusekwe kwindlela ophila ngayo, izakhono zakho, kunye neemfuno zesizathu sokudibana.
Mhlawumbi unikezela ngempahla efudumeleyo kwabo bangenamakhaya, ubapheleke ukuya kwintlanganiso neenkonzo zentlalo, okanye ubancede bagcwalise iifom ukuba bayasokola ukufunda nokubhala.
Mhlawumbi unceda kwimisebenzi yolawulo yesisa sendawo, kodwa ikwayinxalenye ephambili yokuqokelela imali ngenxa yeqhina lakho kumaphephandaba asekuhlaleni okanye kulwazi lwakho lwentengiso lwedijithali.
Okanye mhlawumbi igalelo lakho liya kuba ikakhulu kwezemali. Mhlawumbi unikela ngesisa okanye umbutho owenza umsebenzi omkhulu okholelwa kuwo.
Imali ibalulekile nakweyiphi na into esebenzayo, kwaye ukuba uziva ukuba ubekelwe indawo ukuba usebenze nzima, uziphilise kakuhle, kwaye unikele enye yaloo ngeniso kwisizathu osikhathaleleyo, kulungile.
Akufanele uvakalelwe kukuba igalelo lakho lingaphantsi kunelabantu abanikela ngexesha labo nangamandla abo ngqo. Usenza into ngobomi bakho ngokuguqula ipesenti yomvuzo wakho uye kwisizathu esifanelekileyo, kwaye loo mnikelo unokuba yiyo ekuqhubela phambili ukuba uzabalaze ngakumbi kwikhondo lomsebenzi okanye kwishishini.
3. Ungaze ulijongele phantsi igalelo lakho.
Unokukholelwa ukuba ukwenza into elungileyo ebomini bakho, kuya kufuneka unike ixesha lakho elininzi kunye / okanye nemali.
Kodwa oko akunjalo kwaphela.
Zonke izinto ezenziwayo zibalulekile-ezinkulu nezincinci.
Ibalulekile kuba sisenzo esinye ngaphezu kokungasenzi nanye into. Kwaye ukuba yinto oyenzayo rhoqo, iqala ngokudibanisa.
Masithi uthatha inkunkuma epakini okanye kwindawo enehlathi kufutshane nawe kanye kwiiveki ezimbini, kwaye ixesha ngalinye uqokelela ingxowa yenethiwekhi igcwele. Ewe, xa kuphela unyaka, ziingxowa ezingama-26 ezigcwele inkunkuma oyisusileyo- khawufane ucinge ezo ngxowa zingama-26 zifumbe phezulu kwaye uza kubona ukuba mkhulu kangakanani umahluko owenzayo.
Okanye mhlawumbi ubonelela ngeyure yokhathalelo ngeveki kumntu onakekela isalamane esikhulileyo okanye esikhubazekileyo. Kungabonakala ngathi lixesha elifutshane, kodwa kuloo mntu, iyure leyo ngumzila wobomi ngokungathandabuzekiyo abanombulelo ongazenzisiyo. Kwaye, kwakhona, kujongwa ngaphezulu konyaka, ilingana ngaphezulu kweveki yokusebenza yexesha lakho- ayisiyonto incinci nangayiphi na indlela.
Nokuba igalelo lakho lincinci nokuba lincinci, kubalulekile ukuba ulijonge njengento efanelekileyo. Ngenxa yokuba uyazi yintoni, ngokwenene.
Kwaye ukuba ukhe ujonge umfanekiso omkhulu kwaye uzive udandathekile okanye woyisiwe ngawo, zama ukugxila kukumahluko owenzayo kubantu ngabanye okanye kwizidalwa obuphila ubomi babo. Xa izinto zibonakala zimfiliba, ziya kubonelela nge-spark oyifunayo ukuze uqhubeke.
4. Nxibelelana nabanye abantu ababandakanyekayo kweso sizathu.
Unokwenza okuninzi okuhle ngokwakho, ngezenzo zakho.
Kodwa kuninzi ekumele kuthethwe ngokukhangela abantu abanomdla ngokulinganayo ngesizathu esinye.
Okokuqala nokuphambili, kukho uluvo loluntu oluzisayo. Ukuba wabelana ngento ebalulekileyo neqela labantu, akunakuphepheka ukuba uyakwenza iqhina kule nto.
Ungaqala ukubajonga abanye baba bantu njengabahlobo bokwenene, okanye basenokuhlala nje beqhelene nabantu obabona rhoqo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ukuba yinxalenye yoluntu kubonelela ngengqondo yokwenyani kuba ixesha kunye namandla odityanisiweyo nonke nikhokelela kwiziphumo ezikhulu ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Ngapha koko, iqela labantu abacinga ngokufanayo liya kondla omnye nomnye ngokuzimisela nokuzinikela. Uya kutyhilana ukuze wenze okungakumbi ngesizathu (ucinga ukuba uyafuna) kwaye uluntu lubonelela ngenkuthazo yokuqhubeka.
Olunye uncedo lokuzibandakanya nabanye kukuba uya kuziva ulilolo. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna ukwenza into ngobomi bakho, kunokuba njalo awuzive ngathi ungowendawo ngakumbi ngoku.
5. Rhoqo ujonge ngokwakho ukuba uziva njani malunga nonobangela.
Ngamanye amaxesha siphulukana nomdla okanye ukuthanda into ethile. Yinxalenye yendalo yemo engatshintshiyo yobomi bethu.
Kodwa xa uzibophelele kwisizathu sexesha elithile, kunokuba nzima ukuyiyeka, nokuba ayisiyiyo le unqwenela ukuyenza.
Kodwa ukuba unobangela awusavisisani nawe, okanye ubomi bakho butshintshile ngendlela eyenza ukuba kube nzima ukuqhubeka, kuya kufuneka uzive ukwazi ukuyeka ukufaka igalelo okanye ukulungelelanisa igalelo lakho.
Unokufumanisa ukuba umsitho-owakho okanye owenye-utyhila into entsha onqwenela ukuyixhasa kwaye uzibandakanye nayo. Ukuba esi sizathu siyinto ekukhuthaza ukuba wenze, ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuqhubela phambili.
Kodwa, ukuba awunalo ixesha, amandla, okanye imali yokuzinikela kwinjongo yangoku kunye nesizathu esitsha, kulungile ukubiza ixesha kwimizamo yakho enxulumene nenjongo yakudala.
Elona nyathelo lakho linentsingiselo lithathwa kwindawo oyithandayo, kwaye ukuba olo thando luyashukuma okanye luyavela, kuya kufuneka uye apho kukuthatha khona.
Kufanelekile ukuqaqambisa, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ezinye zezizathu ziya kubandakanya ukujongana neemvakalelo ezinzima kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziya kuba nzima kuwe. Ukuba zinxulumene nesizathu onomdla kuso, kufuneka uhlale uzikhumbuza ukuba kutheni usenza le uyenzayo.
Umzekelo, ukunceda abantu boyise amava abuhlungu ebomini babo yinto ebaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo izakuzisa umthwalo weemvakalelo. Kuya kufuneka umamele izinto ekunzima ukukuva kwaye ubekhona njengoko abantu beveza zonke iintlobo zeengcinga kunye neemvakalelo.
Ngelixa kufuneka usoloko ubeka phambili impilo-ntle yakho, unokufumana umsebenzi owenzayo nesizathu esinzima kakhulu. Kuhle ukuyazi le nto kwaye uyilungiselele ukuze ukwazi ukujongana ngcono nayo.
Kwaye ukuba ikhe yafumana into eninzi kakhulu ukuba uyiphathe, akufuneki uzive unetyala ngokuthatha ikhefu, ukufumana indlela entsha yokwenza igalelo, okanye ukuyishiya ngasemva kwaphela.
6. Tshatisa ikhondo lakho lomsebenzi kwinjongo yakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kungenjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uziphilise ngesizathu sokulungelelanisa kwakho.
Le isenokuba likhondo lomsebenzi kwinkalo efanelekileyo…
Mhlawumbi ufumana umsebenzi njengebhayoloji kuba ukuqonda kunye nokukhuselwa kwendalo yinto oyikhathaleleyo.
Mhlawumbi uba ligqwetha elisebenza egameni labantu abahluphekileyo nocalucalulo.
Uninzi lwezizathu ziya kubandakanya imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakho imibutho enoluhlu lwemisebenzi evulelekileyo kuwe.
Ukusebenza ngokusisigxina emsebenzini osondelelene nesizathu sokuba uzinikele kungakonwabisa kakhulu.
Ke kukho ukubakho kokuqala into ngokwakho-ishishini, isisa, okanye enye indlela yombutho- enegalelo kwinjongo yakho ethile.
Ngaba unomdla wokunciphisa ukukhutshwa kwekhabhoni? Unokwazisa inkampani yamandla ahlaziyekayo, ube sisifakeli seengcali sogqibo lwendlela yokusebenza ephezulu, okanye uqalise iinkampani zokucebisa ukuba zinokuba luhlaza njani.
Ngaba ufuna ukunika izilwanyana ezingathandwayo okanye ezingafunekiyo ikhaya elilungileyo? Unokuseta indawo yokuhlala engenzi nzuzo kwaye uthathe umvuzo kwinkxaso-mali kunye neminikelo oyifumanayo.
Ngaba ungathanda ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi wabantu abakhubazekileyo? Unokuyila, wenze, kwaye uthengise iimveliso ezilungiselelwe iimfuno zabo ngqo. Nokuba ilungile, isekhona indawo yokwenza imali kuyo.
Eli nyathelo alinyanzelekanga, kuba, masijongane nayo, ayinguye wonke umntu oza kukwazi ukufumana umsebenzi kwindawo abanomdla kuyo. Kodwa nokuba awukwazi, usengazama iindlela zokuzisa isizathu sakho inkampani oyisebenzelayo.
Umzekelo, unokucwangcisa iminyhadala yenkampani ebuyisela kwisizathu osikhathaleleyo. Okanye unokucinga ngokukhankasela inkampani ukuba yenze imigaqo-nkqubo enxulumene neso sizathu.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayenza njani into ngobomi bakho, okanye yintoni efanelekileyo kuwe? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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