Ihlabathi esiphila kulo linokubonakala njengendawo ekhohlakeleyo, kodwa sonke siyazi ukuba eyona ndlela yokulwa inkohlakalo ngobubele.
Izenzo ezingaqhelekanga zobubele zinokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Xa usekupheleni kokufumana enye, inokuluguqula ngokupheleleyo usuku lwakho, okanye unyaka wakho, ujikeleze.
Kwaye xa inguwe owenza into enobubele komnye umntu, yimvakalelo engafani nenye.
Oko kukhanya kushushu kokwazi ukuba ukhanyisile ubomi bomnye umntu akunakubethwa.
Bathi oko kujikelezayo kuza, kwaye mna ndikholelwa ukuba kuninzi inyaniso kuloo nto. Uthando oluthe xaxa ulukhuphayo, kokukhona uya kubuyela imbuyekezo.
Kodwa ukuphefumlelwa akusoloko kubetha xa ufuna njalo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwenza into entle emntwini, kodwa ubambekile kwizimvo?
Nalu uluhlu lwam lwezimvo zezenzo zobubele ezingahleliwe nabani na anokuzijika zibe yinyani.
Khetha enye yezi uze uyenze ngendlela eyiyo okanye uyihlengahlengise ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Zityhalele ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye wenze unxibelelwano nabo bakungqongileyo.
Yenze injongo yakho yokwenza inyanga, iveki, okanye encinci yonke imihla. Jonga ukuba ibuguqula njani ubomi bakho, ngelixa uchukumisa abanye abantu.
1. Fowunela umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho ongakhange uthethe nalo ixeshana ukuze ubone ukuba banjani.
2. Thumela umyalezo kumhlobo wakho ubachazele ngendlela abamangalisa ngayo.
3. Thumela umhlobo inqaku elibhalwe ngesandla ubaxelele indlela abamangalisa ngayo.
4. Bhala ileta ubhalele umntu omaziyo onamaxesha anzima, umxelele ukuba ukhona ukuba uyakudinga (kwaye uthetha oko).
5. Thumela ikhadi kumntu omkhumbulayo.
6. Khumbula imihla enzima yomhlobo, njengosuku lokuzalwa lukamama ongasekhoyo okanye uSuku looTata ukuba utata wabo uswelekile, kwaye ujonge nabo.
7. Bhala ileta eya kowasemzini ofuna inkxaso, ngesisa okanye umbutho.
8. Hlala emva kwexesha emsebenzini ukhusela umntu osebenza naye ekufuneka emkile ngenxa yengxakeko okanye ukugula.
9. Yithi enkosi komnye umntu, nokuba ukwenzele ntoni okanye wenze nini.
10. Ngena kwiingubo zakho kwaye unikele ngayo nantoni na ongayifuniyo yesisa.
11. Ukuba uza kupha okanye uthengise iimpahla owaziyo ukuba ziya kulungela umhlobo wakho, buza ukuba bangazithanda na endaweni yoko.
12. Nikela ngempahla efudumeleyo neyasebusika kwimibutho yesisa engenakhaya.
13. Nikela ngeencwadi ezingafunekiyo kwisisa, kunye nemiyalezo ekhuthazayo ngaphakathi ukulungiselela umfundi olandelayo.
14. Thumela umntu incwadi uyazi ukuba uya kuyithanda.
15. Cebisa incwadi yokuzinceda okanye incwadi yokukhuthaza umntu ocinga ukuba angazuza kuyo.
16. Nikela ngengubo ezindala kunye nemiqamelo kwindawo yokukhusela izilwanyana.
17. Ukuba ujonga ilungu elitsha losapho ke uhlala u-adopt, sukuthenga.
18. Ukuba awukwazi ukwamkela ngoku, ucinga ukukhulisa isilwanyana sasekhaya ngesidingo sokubanceda ukuba bafumane ikhaya laphakade.
19. Thenga ukutya okungonakaliyo kwaye unikezele ngako kwibhanki yokutya.
20. Beka ndawonye ukuthintelwa kokutya kusapho olunesidingo njengenxalenye yokuqhutywa kwesisa.
Ncuma uncume ubulise abantu obadlula ngendlela.
22. Ukuba ubhaka ikeyiki okanye naluphi na uhlobo lokutya okumnandi, yise kummelwane, kuba.
23. Shiya isimanga emnyango wommelwane.
Jonga ukuba abamelwane bakho bafuna nantoni na ezivenkileni.
25. Khetha inkunkuma kwindawo yakho yengingqi.
26. Lungiselela ukukhetha inkunkuma enkulu kunye nabamelwane bakho.
27. Ukuba utshayela indlela yakho, yenza nabamelwane bakho.
28. Nika iikhadibhodi umntu omaziyo ukuba uyahamba.
29. Cela ukunceda umhlobo wakho apakishe okanye apakishe.
30. Pheka isidlo okanye wenze umsebenzi kumhlobo osandul 'ukuba nosana okanye osokola nangasiphi na isizathu, ngaphandle kokucela.
31. Ukuba umntu unezinto ezimbalwa, mabaye phambi kwakho kwivenkile yokutya.
Umbongo okhuthazayo ngobomi nokufa
32. Beka amanqaku ancangathi kunye nemiyalezo ekhuthazayo kusapho lwakho ukuba lufumane endlwini.
33. Beka amanqaku anamathelayo kunye nemiyalezo ekhuthazayo kwiindawo apho abantu abangaziwayo baya kuzifumana khona.
34. Shiya uphononongo oluqaqambileyo lweshishini elincinci (ukuba nje liyinyani).
35. Xelela abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho malunga namava amnandi kumashishini amancinci, ukuze bakwazi ukubaxhasa nabo.
36. Thenga isipho esincinci kumntu omthandayo ngaphandle kwesizathu.
37. Xa ujonge isipho sothandiweyo, thengisa encinci, yendawo, kunye nozinzo.
38. Yenza umntu isipho esenziwe ngesandla.
39. Ukuba umhlobo uqala ishishini elitsha okanye iprojekthi, yabelana, uphawule kwaye ube ngumkhokeli wabo kwimidiya yoluntu.
40. Ukuba umhlobo wakho uneshishini elitsha, sasaza eli ziko kubantu owaziyo ukuba bangasebenzisa iinkonzo zabo.
41. Nikela ngeethoyi ezindala nezicocekileyo kwiwadi yabantwana.
42. Thatha isixa seentyatyambo usise kwisikhululo sabongikazi esibhedlele (ukuba ulapho nangasiphi na isizathu).
43. Bhala isincomo somntu othile kwi-LinkedIn.
44. Dumisa izakhono zomntu othile kwi-LinkedIn.
45. Fumana malunga kwaye ubhalisele ukunikela ngegazi kwindawo yakho.
46. Shiya ingcebiso engaphezulu kwesisa kumntu oye wakukhonza.
47. Gcina isambrela esongezelelweyo emsebenzini kwaye usiboleke abantu xa kunetha.
48. Soloko unayo ipeni eyongezelelweyo oyibolekayo ebantwini.
49. Soloko uphatha izicubu xa umntu ezifuna, kwaye ukuba uyagula okanye uyalila, mabagcine ipakethi.
50. Yiza nokutya okanye amashwamshwam ukuba ubelane ngawo emsebenzini.
51. Soloko unayo itshokholethi ukuba uyinike umntu xa enosuku olubi.
52. Bhaka ikeyiki yosuku lokuzalwa lomntu.
53. Bhaka ikeyiki ukubhiyozela isiganeko esibalulekileyo kubomi bomhlobo.
54. Yiba ngumhlobo womntu obonakala elilolo.
55. Mema umntu omtsha kwingingqi yakho ukuba aye ethekweni okanye aphume kusela.
56. Ukuba unekhono lokuyila okanye ulunge ngokwenene kumdlalo wakho wokuzonwabisa, cela ukufundisa abanye ukuba benze le uyenzayo.
57. Yabelana nabanye ngezakhono zakho zobungcali nolwazi.
58. Khangela umntu okucebisayo okwimveliso efanayo nawe kwaye ubone ukuba ungenza ntoni ukukhulisa ikhondo lomsebenzi wabo.
59. Mncome umntu kwenye into ngaphandle kokubonakala kwakhe phambi kwabanye abantu.
60. Yenza umsebenzi akukho namnye umntu ofuna ukuwenza.
61. Bulela ngokunyanisekileyo kubantu osebenza nabo ngezinto abazenzela zona.
62. Qalisa incoko nomntu osebenza naye ukuze ubazi.
63. Ukuba uboleka imoto yomntu, gcwalisa itanki.
64. Lincome iqabane lakho kwinkangeleko yalo.
65. Lincome iqabane lakho kubukrelekrele babo, ubuchule babo, isimo sabo sengqondo, okanye nantoni na enokwenza nobuntu babo, hayi inkangeleko yabo.
66. Yenza umsebenzi owaziyo ukuba ulithiyile iqabane lakho.
67. Shiya iqabane lakho liyiphathe kakuhle okanye inqaku elizokufumana emini.
68. Pheka ukutya okuthandayo kweqabane lakho.
69. Nceda abantu ababonakala belahlekile ukuze bafumane indlela.
70. Nika abakhenkethi iingcebiso zalapha ngokufumana ezona ndawo unokuya okanye utye kuzo.
71. Nika umntu into yokuhamba.
72. Nikezela ngokugcina umntwana ukuba ulifuna ngokwenene ikhefu.
73. Okanye unikezele ngenja ukuba ihlale umntu.
74. Hamba ngenja yommelwane oxakekileyo.
75. Thatha ityala lakho xa uphuma nabantu obathandayo.
76. Thatha ityala lakho xa uphume nomhlobo wakho omaziyo usokola ukufumana imali.
77. Thenga isipho kumntu owaziyo ukuba uyasokola ngemali - into oyaziyo ukuba bayakuyithanda ngenene kodwa ayinakuba nako ukuthethelela.
78. Yiya kumsitho wesisa kwaye ubambeke.
Umyeni onomsindo usola mna ngayo yonke into
79. Qinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu umaziyo uhlala yedwa ngamaxesha akhethekileyo onyaka.
80. Ukuba kukho umntu omtsha edolophini okanye osele evela kwilizwe langaphandle, bameme kwiintlanganiso zosapho lwakho ngeentsuku ezikhethekileyo.
81. Nikela ngexesha lakho kumakhaya okhuseleko angenamakhaya okanye kwiikhitshi ezinesuphu.
82. Tyala umthi.
83. Thenga amaqanda, iintyatyambo, ubusi okanye imifuno kumntu othengisa ekupheleni kwendlela yabo.
84. Phekela usapho lwakho okanye abahlobo isidlo esikhethekileyo.
85. Nikela ngokuthatha ifoto yesibini okanye yeqela labahlobo bakho kwindawo yabakhenkethi.
86. Ukuba ungumculo, dlala simahla kumntu oya kuwuxabisa.
87. Nika omnye umntu utshintsha isitrato esitratweni.
88. Bamba ilifti yomntu.
89. Nika umntu isitulo sakho.
90. Bhala uluhlu lwezinto ozithandayo ngomnye umntu kwaye uzithumele kuye.
91. Bhatalela ikofu, itikiti lebhasi, isidlo, itikiti lesinema (okanye nantoni na!) Yomntu osemva kwakho emgceni.
92. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukwenza njalo, buza umntu ongenakhaya ukuba ungamthengela ikomityi yekofu okanye ukutya evenkileni.
93. Thumela umntu umyalezo kumajelo onxibelelwano onomdla kuwo kwaye umxelele kanye loo nto.
94. Thenga umntu iintyatyambo, kuba.
95. Guqula ivili lommelwane xa befika eflethini.
96. Zama ukulandela umnini wesipaji okanye isipaji esilahlekileyo. Ukusilela oko, zinikezele emapoliseni.
97. Nceda umntu aphathe ibhegi / isutikheyisi enzima / isitulo sokutyhala ukunyusa okanye ukwehla amanyathelo.
98. Bamba ucango luvulele umntu.
99. Nikezela ngokuqokelela imigqaliselo yabamelwane abangakwaziyo ukufikelela ngokulula.
100. Vumela umzali onesitulo sokutyhala akhwele / asuse ibhasi / uloliwe phambi kwakho - uhambo lwabo ngokuqinisekileyo lunoxinzelelo olungaphezulu kolwakho!
101. Umhlakulo wekhephu kwindlela yommelwane wakho, ecaleni kwendlela, kwanakwicandelo lakho elincinci lendlela (ukuba kukhuselekile ukwenza njalo).
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