Indlela okhetha ukuphila ngayo iya kushiya uphawu kweli hlabathi.
Olo phawu iya kuba lilifa lakho.
indlela yokwenza amasoka bday ekhethekileyo
Iya kuba yile uyidlulayo kuzo zonke ezo zizukulwana ezizayo emva kwakho.
Iya kuba ligalelo lakho kwihlabathi.
Iya kuba yindlela okhunjulwa ngayo.
Iya kuba yingqokelela yeenyawo ozishiya entlabathini ukuze zilandelwe ngabanye.
Ufuna ukuba lilifa elihle, akunjalo?
Ufuna ukushiya ngasemva ilizwe elingcono ngandlela thile.
Ufuna ukuba nefuthe elihle kwicala umhlaba ohamba kulo xa sele uhambile-ngakumbi iqhekeza lakho elincinci.
Kodwa uyenza njani loo nto?
Ungaqiniseka njani ukuba liyakuba yintoni elo lifa?
Nazi izimvo eziphambili ze-9 eziya kuthi zichonge ilifa lakho.
1. Yenza yonke imizuzu yokubala nabantu obathandayo.
Ngaphandle kwaso nasiphi na isithunzi sokuthandabuza, ezona mpembelelo zininzi abantu baya kuba nazo kulo Mhlaba zizinto esinazo kwabo sibathandayo.
Kwaye sikhetha ukuba ifuthe lakho libukeka kanjani ngendlela esilichitha ngayo ixesha lethu nabo sibathandayo, kwaye lingakanani ixesha esilifumana.
Ilifa lakho libonisa kwinani lexesha lokwenyani lokwabelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo.
Ke khetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo bantu babaluleke kuwe.
Kwaye xa ukunye nabo, musa ukuba neliso elinye kwifowuni yakho kunye nelinye iliso kwewotshi.
Yiba kunye nabo ngokupheleleyo kwaye uvumele lonke ixhala lakho liphumle, okwethutyana ubuncinci.
Kwaye zama ukushiya nayiphi na impahla engalunganga emnyango apho kunokwenzeka khona.
Oku akuthethi ukuba awukwazi kwaye akufuneki uxoxe ngemicimbi yakho nabo ubathandayo kwaye ubathembileyo. Yinto eyimfuneko ngamanye amaxesha.
It yenza kuthetha ukuba ungenzi ukuhleba kunye nokugcuma kunye nengxoxo engathandekiyo. Ayilo lifa oya kufuna ukulishiya nabani na.
Endaweni yoko, yenza izinto ezizalisa wena kunye novuyo.
Phuma uye kwindalo, makhululeke kwaye wonwabe, yabelana ngamaxesha aya kuba ziinkumbulo ezimnandi wakuba uhambile.
Sukuyijongela phantsi indlela oku okuya kubachaphazela ngayo kunye nobomi babo.
2. Yenza umzekelo wakho ubale.
Enye indlela onokuba nefuthe ngayo kwabanye-nakwilizwe-yindlela obuphila ngayo ubomi bakho.
Nokuba uyayiqonda okanye awuyazi, izinto ozenzayo kunye nokhetho olwenzayo lubeka umzekelo kwabo bakungqongileyo.
Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kubantwana bakho nakubazukulwana, kodwa nabahlobo, abantu osebenza nabo, nkqu nabantu ongabaziyo.
Xa bekubona usenza izinto ezinceda abanye, baya kufuna ukulandela ekhondweni lakho.
Ngokunceda abantu, ngokuzithandela, ngokuxhasa izizathu ezilungileyo, uqhele le ndlela yokuziphatha ebenza ukuba benze okufanayo.
Kwaye ayizizenzo zesisa ezenza ilifa lakho.
Indlela ophatha ngayo abanye abantu, indlela ophatha ngayo okusingqongileyo, indlela oziphatha ngayo-zonke ezi zinto zibeka umzekelo wokuba zilandelwe.
Ukuba ufuna ukushiya ilifa elilungileyo, khetha ukuseta umzekelo olungileyo.
Khetha ukusebenzisana, ukulalanisa, kunye nokwamkelwa endaweni yengxabano, neenkani, kunye nomsindo.
Khetha ukuzinza. Khetha ubulungisa. Khetha ukuhlonipha abantu kunye neplanethi.
Khetha ukuba nobubele kuwe.
Umzekelo owusetayo ukwabonwa kula manqaku maninzi alandelayo, ukuqala ngo…
3. Yenza isibalo ngasinye sedola ngendlela oyisebenzisa ngayo.
Idola usomandla- okanye nantoni na eyimali yakho yasekuhlaleni- ibambe amandla amakhulu.
Kungcono okanye kubi, imali inendawo yayo emhlabeni, kodwa into okhetha ukuyenza neyakho iya kuba nefuthe kuhlobo lwelifa osishiyileyo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ulichitha, wenza ingxelo malunga nohlobo lomntu onguye kunye nefuthe onqwenela ukuba nalo emhlabeni.
Kwaye imali inenkumbulo. Idola oyichithayo namhlanje iya kuba nefuthe elibi elihlala iminyaka kunye namashumi eminyaka ezayo.
Idola yakho inokwenza okanye yaphule iinkampani. Inokujika kwicala ezo nkampani zingena kuzo.
Apho kuchithwa imali kunefuthe kwicala lokuhamba kuyo yonke intlalo.
Okulusizi kukuba, ubukhulu becala, oku kuye kwathetha ukuba uluntu luhamba ngendlela yokuxhaphaza abantu nendalo.
Kodwa iyatshintsha kancinci.
Baninzi abantu abakhetha ukuchitha imali yabo ngeendlela ezikhuthaza uzinzo kunye nokwabiwa ngokulinganayo kobutyebi kunye namathuba.
Unokwakha ilifa lakho ngezinto okhetha ukuzithenga kunye neenkampani onika imali yakho kuzo.
Ukukhetha iimveliso kunye neenkampani ezinesimo esomeleleyo sokuziphatha kunye nokusingqongileyo kwindawo yazo ngamanye amaxesha kunokubiza imali ethe kratya, kodwa umahluko owenziweyo ongaphezulu awuthandabuzeki.
Wenza ingxelo yenkolelo yakho kunye nenjongo. Unika loo mali ngamandla aqinisekileyo okuba nefuthe elihle kubomi babanye.
Yazi indlela inkcitho yakho echaphazela ngayo ilifa lakho.
Ngokunjalo…
4. Yenza ubutyebi bakho babale ngendlela obushiye ngayo.
Ukuba unayo imali eshiyekileyo ebomini bakho, kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba iyaphi.
UPaul london kunye noBrian kendrick
Nokuba ithamsanqa okanye isixa esilinganiselweyo, ukuba isetyenziswa njani imicimbi.
Unganqwenela ukushiya konke kusapho lwakho, kwaye kulungile ngokupheleleyo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba unqwenele ukubona abantu obathandayo bekhululekile kwaye bekhululekile kuxinzelelo olunokubangelwa kukusilela kwemali.
Okanye unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba obunye bobutyebi obuzifumeneyo kufuneka buye kwiinjongo ezilungileyo ozixhasileyo ebomini bakho.
Ewe, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ulinde de ubhubhe kwaye ungcwatywe ukuze wabelane ngezinto onazo nabanye.
Ungayenza ebomini bakho.
Mhlawumbi unceda abazukulwana bakho ukuthenga iimoto zabo zokuqala.
Mhlawumbi uququzelela kwaye uhlawulele iholide enkulu yosapho- eya kudala iinkumbulo zokuphila ubomi bonke.
Okanye unganikela ngesixa esikhulu semali kwisibonelelo ukuxhasa iprojekthi abasebenza kuyo.
Njengokuchitha kwakho kwemihla ngemihla, ukhetho olwenzayo kwezi zixa zinkulu zemali kunye nobutyebi lubonisa uhlobo lomntu olulo nendlela onqwenela ukukhunjulwa ngayo.
5. Yenza umdla wakho ubale.
Abantu abaninzi umzabalazo wokuziva unomdla ngayo nantoni na .
Kodwa uthando luyosulela, kwaye ngokubonisa uthando lwakho- nokuba luyintoni na-ukhuthaza abanye ukuba bafumane olwabo.
Ungafumanisa ukuba inkanuko yabo yahluke mpela kweyakho, kodwa ngokunceda ukuyivusa, inkanuko iba yinxalenye yelifa lakho.
Ukuthanda isenzo, kunye nesenzo yintoni edingwa lihlabathi ngaphezulu .
Inkanuko inokuqhuba utshintsho olukhulu, kodwa inokushiya uphawu ngakumbi.
Inokuba nefuthe elihle kwimpilo yengqondo yabanye. Inokubanika amandla, amandla kunye nokuzimisela.
Umnqweno unokunika intsingiselo yobomi. Inokunceda abantu bazive benethemba ngobomi babo kunye nehlabathi liphela.
Ke nokuba ukuthanda kwakho kubugcisa, okusingqongileyo, izilwanyana, ezemidlalo, okanye ukubuyisela iimoto zakudala, zamkele kwaye wabelane ngazo nabantu abakungqongileyo.
Musa ukoyika ukubonisa uthando lwakho kwabanye, nokuba uyazi ukuba ababelani ngokuthanda okufanayo okanye abanokwazi okungako ngalo.
Abantu bahlala beziva bebandakanyekile nomntu obonisa kwaye ethetha ngomnqweno wabo.
6. Yenza ubulumko bakho babale.
Ngelixa ubudala bunganyanzelekanga ukuba bunike umntu ubulumko, wonke umntu uya kuba ubuncinci izifundo anokuzifundisa abanye.
Ngexesha lokuphila kwakho-nokuba usenexesha elininzi eliseleyo - uya kufumana izinto ezikutshintsha ngandlela thile.
Inokuba sisiganeko esinye esikhulu kwaye esinamandla esiguqula yonke indlela obujonga ngayo ubomi, okanye isenokuba sisiphelo sezinto ezininzi ezincinane ezikwenza ukuba uqaphele inyani ebalulekileyo.
Imibongo malunga nokulahleka nokufumana indlela yakho
Ubomi buya kushiya uphawu lwakho kuwe.
Emva koko ungashiya uphawu lwakho ebomini nakwihlabathi ngokwabelana ngento oyaziyo, oyiqondayo, okanye okholwayo kuyo.
Mhlawumbi usebenze iiyure ezininzi kakhulu emsebenzini oxineneyo ukuze ufumane ubutyebi obuninzi. Kodwa uyazisola malunga nexesha elincinci elishiye wena nosapho lwakho, abahlobo, kunye nokwenza izinto ozithandayo.
Mhlawumbi ukuphulukana nomntu omthandayo ngaphambi kwexesha kukufundise ixabiso lalo lonke ixesha kunye nokuphefumla.
Okanye ixesha likubonise ukuba imbonakalo igcinwe njani kwindawo ephezulu kakhulu kwaye abantu kufuneka bazamkele ukuba bangobani kwaye babukeka njani, kunokuba balwe nayo.
Nantoni na oyifundileyo, musa ukuthatha obo bulumko ukuya engcwabeni nawe - yabelana ngaso.
Cebisa abanye, cebisa xa ubuzwa, cacisela izizukulwana ezizayo ngezinto ozifundileyo ebomini bakho.
Bhala incwadi. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ipapashwe okanye ibe yeyona nto ithengiswayo. Inokuba yincwadi yobuqu oyishiya nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho apho wabelana khona ngobulumko bakho.
Uya kumangaliswa yindlela into encinci kangaka enokuthi ibe nefuthe ngayo kubomi bexesha elizayo labo bayifundayo.
7. Yenza ukuba ithemba lakho namaphupha akho kubalwe.
Njengobulumko bakho, ungadlulisa amathemba akho namaphupha ngekamva.
Eli isenokungabi lixesha elizayo oza kuba yinxalenye yalo, kodwa usenokunqwenela ilizwe elingcono kunelo ulishiyileyo.
Unokuba nethemba namaphupha kwizizukulwana ezizayo.
Banokukhetha ukungabelani ngethemba elifanayo kunye namaphupha, kodwa olo lukhetho lwabo kwaye akufuneki lukuyekise ekuvakaliseni olwakho.
Ngandlel 'ithile encinci, uya kushiya uphawu kwabo ubaxelelayo.
Unokunxibelelana ngokuthembileyo kunye namaphupha kumntu ngamnye obalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukubhala ileta yindlela entle yokwenza oku.
Kuyo, ungabonisa uthando lwakho kubo kwaye emva koko uthethe ngezinto onqwenela ukuba bazenze kwintsalela yobomi babo.
Mhlawumbi yiyo loo nto fumana uxolo lwengqondo kuba uyazi bahlala bexhalabile zizinto.
Wwe kurt angle umxholo wengoma
Okanye mhlawumbi unqwenela ukuba bazalisekise yabo iphupha lokuqala ishishini kwezentlalo.
Sukuyijongela phantsi impembelelo enokuba nayo loo leta. Ngokwazi ukuba banenkxaso nenkolelo yakho kubo, banokufumana isigqibo sokwenza ukuba amaphupha akho azaliseke.
8. Yenza amagama akho abalwe.
Amagama owathethileyo, kwaye oza kuwathetha kwintsalela yobomi bakho… mfana, maninzi kakhulu!
Kwaye la magama abambe amandla amaninzi.
Indlela othetha ngayo nabantu. Imiyalezo oyidlulisayo. Izimvo othetha ngazo. Ubulumko, ithemba, amaphupha owabelana ngawo.
Amagama akho lilifa lawo onke.
Ifuthe abanalo kwabo ubathethayo linokuba likhulu.
Ke kufuneka ubakhethe ngononophelo.
Qaphela into oyithethayo, indlela ozithetha ngayo izinto, kunye nexesha ozithetha ngalo.
Thetha kakuhle. Thetha amazwi wentuthuzelo kunye nokuqinisekisa. Thetha amazwi obulumko.
Thetha ngentlonelo. Thetha ngenkalipho. Thetha uyazi ukuba ilizwi lakho libalulekile.
Zama ukubona impembelelo yelizwi ngalinye eligqithisa imilebe yakho - hayi ifuthe kwangoko, kodwa nefuthe elihlala linokubakho kwabo balivayo.
Amagama akho angaba sisipho, okanye angaba sisiqalekiso.
Qinisekisa ukuba basisipho.
9. Yenza ivoti yakho ibalwe.
Awunakucinga ngezopolitiko njengenxalenye yelifa lakho, kodwa kunjalo.
Iinkokeli esizikhethayo njengoluntu- kuwo onke amanqanaba aseburhulumenteni nakuyo yonke imibutho- banegunya lokuchaphazela ikamva lokulungileyo okanye lokugula.
Naphi na apho uhlala khona kwezopolitiko, vota ngesazela sakho, kodwa jonga imigaqo-nkqubo yeqela ngalinye kunye nomgqatswa ngamnye ngononophelo.
Zibuze, ngokunyanisekileyo nangokunyaniseka, ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto unokukhetha ukuyenza kwixesha elizayo, hayi umjikelo nje wezopolitiko.
Kunokulinga ukuvotela nabani na othembisa ukukunceda kakhulu, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukushiya ilifa, kuya kufuneka ujonge ngaphaya kwakho.
Ngubani oya kuba nefuthe elihle kubomi babantu abaninzi, ngoku nakwixesha elizayo?
Yiloo nto kufuneka uvotele. Kwaye ayinamsebenzi ukuba oku kuthetha ukushiya imibutho yexesha elide ibambekile.
Kananjalo ayifanelekanga ukuba oku kuthetha ukuvotela umntu owaziyo ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele.
Ingangathi iyaphikisana, kodwa nevoti yokuphulukana nemicimbi.
Ukuba abantu abaneleyo bavotela iseti ethile yemigaqo-nkqubo, nokuba elo qela okanye umgqatswa uphela elahlekile, itshintsha incoko yezopolitiko ukuya phambili.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abaphumeleleyo kulo naluphi na unyulo baya kufuna ukutsala okanye ukonwabisa abo bantu bangabavotelanga, kwaye ke banokuyila imigaqo-nkqubo yabo ngendlela yokuba ezo zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, nakwabanye abavoti, zisasebenza phezu.
Ivoti yakho namhlanje yinxalenye yelifa olishiya ngasemva.
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