Sonke siyazi ukuba umhlobo omnye ku-Instagram ohlala 'ephila obona bomi bakhe bumnandi.'
Kodwa oko kuthetha ukuthini-kwaye ungayenza njani?
Ukuba lolona hlobo luhle ngokwethu kuthetha into eyahlukileyo kuye wonke umntu, kodwa nazi iingcebiso zethu eziphambili ekwandiseni izinto ezintle ebomini bakho, ukonwaba kwinto onayo, kunye nokusebenzela ukufikelela kwiinjongo zakho…
1. Chonga ukuba uphi.
Yenza inqaku lokuba uphi ebomini bakho.
Le yindlela entle yokuqala naluphi na uhlobo lohambo lokuziphucula kwaye uza kuza uluncedo kamva ezantsi emgceni.
Cinga ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo iinkalo zobomi bakho , kwaye unyaniseke ngokumasikizi.
Oku kwenzelwe ukuba ufunde, ke yigcine kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye ikhuselekile- kwi-intanethi kunye negama elikhuselweyo, umzekelo.
2. Chonga apho ufuna ukuba khona.
Khawucinge nje ngokuzithemba kwakho - cinga ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo nabenza ngayo, indlela abasabela ngayo kwizinto eziqhubekayo ezibangqongileyo.
Mhlawumbi banesibindi kwaye banesibindi kunokuba uziva ngoku.
Mhlawumbi bazolile kwaye bathambile kunokuba uziva ngoku.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, jonga ukuba yeyiphi eyona nguqulelo yakho ijongeka ngathi, ivakalelwa ngathi, yenza ngathi, kwaye usebenzise oko njengesikhokelo kolu hambo.
3. Lungelelanisa usukelo lwakho.
Unokutshintsha iinjongo zakho njengoko uhamba, kwaye kulungile!
Ayithethi ukuba ‘uwuphumelele’ lo msebenzi okanye awunazigqibo.
Kuthetha nje ukuba uyazazi kwaye uhlengahlengisa amabhongo akho ngokusekwe kwiimvakalelo zakho malunga namanyathelo owathathayo.
4. Yenza uphando.
Kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukujonga okwenziwa ngabanye abantu, indlela abanye abantu abalawula ngayo uhambo lwabo, kunye nokujonga iingcebiso malunga nokufezekisa ingxelo yakho yempumelelo.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto uzithandayo yintyatyambo, hayi umcwangcisi zimali njengokuba unjalo ngoku - unganalo uluvo lokuba ungafika njani kodwa uyazi ukuba uyafuna.
Ke, uphando!
Jonga iibhlog, umyalezo abantu kwi-Instagram abathi baba ziintyatyambo emva kotshintsho olukhulu lomsebenzi kwaye ubuze ukuba benze njani.
Uninzi lwabantu luyonwabile ukunceda, ke vula ingqondo, ungene kuGoogle kwaye uqhubeke nokusebenza kuyo nayiphi na into oyifunayo.
5. Injongo ephezulu yokuhlala isezantsi.
Ke-usebenza kwinguqulelo ebalaseleyo yakho, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uhlale usondele kubani osele unguye!
Ungalahli into onayo, ngenxa yokuba unemincili ngokwenene ukuthatha amanyathelo alandelayo.
Abantu obathandayo bayakwazi kwaye bakukhathalele njengokuba unjalo, ke ubathabathe kolu hambo kunye nawe.
Khumbula ukuhlala uthobekile - kulula ukuba uthathwe xa ugxile ekubeni yinguqulelo entsha ekhazimlayo, kodwa khumbula abantu abasoloko bekuxhasa.
6. Funa uncedo ukuba ufuna njalo.
Musa ukoyika ukujonga ngaphandle ngenkxaso.
Uninzi lwethu - ngakumbi abo banamabhongo ngokwenene - bacinga ukuba kufuneka sizenzele yonke into.
Sizimisele kakhulu ukufikelela kumgca wokugqibela, okanye inyathelo elilandelayo, ukuze singafuni mntu okanye nantoni na isinciphise.
Kulungile ukufikelela kumcebisi ukuba unzima kunye neendawo zakho ofuna ukuzitshintsha.
Ngumbono osempilweni ukuncokola nomqeqeshi wobomi okanye ingcali kuyo nayiphi na into oyithandayo.
Yiba nokuvuleleka ekuqondeni kwaye ucele inkxaso ukuba izinto zifumana umngeni- ngumqondiso wamandla, hayi ubuthathaka!
7. Sebenza kwimingeni yakho.
Cinga ngento ekubambezelayo- inokuba yeyangaphandle okanye yangaphakathi- kwaye wenze uluhlu.
Yiya kuluhlu kwaye usebenze yintoni ephantsi kolawulo lwakho ukutshintsha.
Mhlawumbi omnye umntu wenza ukuba uzive ungazifanelanga kwaye uziva ngathi oko kuthintela ukuba ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo kuye.
Ngaba ungayeka ukuba ngumhlobo wabo? Yenze ke!
Ukuba awukwazi (ukuba bayintsapho, umzekelo, kwaye awukhululekanga ukusika amaqhina), funa indlela onokulawula ngayo unxibelelwano lwakho nabo.
Ukuba uyazi ukuba uyasokola ukuhlala uzolile kwingxaki, kodwa eyona nto uyithandayo ngumntu opholileyo njengekhukhamba, jolisa kuloo nto.
Sebenza kulomda wangaphakathi wokutsiba ukuya kwiziphetho okanye uxinzelelo.
Ukuba yinguqulelo yakho ngokwakho akuthethi ukuba akukho ziphene.
Oko kuthetha ukuba usebenza ekunciphiseni ezo ziphene kunye nefuthe abanalo kwindlela oziva ngayo kwaye uhlala ngayo.
8. Uluhlu lwempumelelo.
Ngena kwingqondo yokuba yonke into mayibe nenjongo- ungenzi izinto ngenxa yayo.
Hlanganisa ubomi bakho kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi kwaye uqale ngesilayidi esingenanto.
Ewe kunjalo, kungafuneka ugcine kwezinye izinto oziva ngathi ‘azilunganga,’ njengokuya emsebenzini, kodwa xa iyonke, ungathatha amanyathelo okususa izinto ezimbi ‘zobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Yenza uluhlu lwezo zinto njengoko unokufuna ukubuyela kuzo kamva ezantsi emgceni.
Ke, unokufuna ukusebenzela umsebenzi wakho wangoku, kodwa ungawuncamathisela kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza kwaye ufake eminye imisebenzi xa ixesha lilungile.
Ngokususa izinto ezikurhuqa phantsi kunye nezinto ezinetyhefu ebomini bakho, ingqondo yakho iya kuba nendawo ethe xaxa kunye namandla okugxila kuzo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ozenzayo.
9. Gcina idayari okanye ijenali.
Kungaba lula ukujonga emva kwakho kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye uzive ngathi akukho nto ingako itshintshileyo, yiyo loo nto ukugcina iithebhu kuyo yonke into kunceda ngokwenene.
Okukhona uyilandela inkqubela yakho, kokukhona uya kuziva unomdla wokuqhubeka.
Musa ukoyika ukugcina umkhondo weemvakalelo ezingalunganga eziza nazo.
Ungaqala ukuchonga ezinye iipateni (umzekelo, yonke imihla ndizama ukusebenza kumonde wam, ndiyolala ndiziva ndikhathazekile), ezinokukunceda uqikelele indlela oza kuziva ngayo emva komsebenzi othile.
Ndiphambene alice kwi Wonderland
Oko kuthetha ukuba, kwixesha elizayo xa ubeka usuku bucala ukuze usebenze kumonde wakho, ungaqinisekisa ukuba unayo iwayini epholileyo kwifriji njengomvuzo emva koko.
10. Bhiyozela lonke uloyiso oluncinci.
Oku kunokuziva ngathi luhambo olude, kwaye ukusebenza kuthi kunokuba nzima.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhiyozela izinto ezincinci.
Mhlawumbi uye wavuma iindawo zokuphucula kuwe-oku kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kwaye kuthatha isibindi, ngoko ke bhiyozela wakube ukwenzile.
Inokuba zizinto ezincinci- itshokholethi entle, ibhafu ende, isidlo sangokuhlwa kwesibane, okanye umdyarho weNetflix.
Okukhona ubhiyozela inyathelo ngalinye olithabathayo, kokukhona uya kuqala ukudibanisa ukukhula komntu kunye nezinto ezintle.
Oku kuyakukukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nanini na uziva kunzima.
11. Bonakalisa ukuba sh * t!
Sithetha iibhodi zemiboniso , iimantras, iinjongo zemihla ngemihla , kunye nayo yonke into ephakathi.
Okukhona ubona ngakumbi indlela obonakala ngayo, kokukhona uya kuziva ufumanekile, kunye nenkuthazo oya kuba nayo ngelixa usebenza kuyo.
Izicaphulo ezikhuthazayo, iingoma kusasa ukuya ekuboniseni kwakho esipilini… yenza nantoni na oziva ilungile kwaye uhambe nokuhamba kule.
Cinga ngeyona nto uyijongileyo kwaye usebenzise onke amandla akho ukuba ube ngoyena mntu ufuna ukuba nguye.
12. Bhala phantsi inkqubela yakho.
Cwangcisa iphepha le-Instagram- inokuba yeyabucala -Ukubonisa ukukhula kwakho.
Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba ugcine umkhondo wokuba wenza malini kwaye ufike phi.
Ungathumela iifoto ezincinci kunye neevidiyo zomsebenzi ngamnye owenzayo.
Ukuba ukhetha ukwenza le akhawunti esidlangalaleni, uya kuba nethuba lokunxibelelana nabanye abantu kuhambo olufanayo-landela ezinye iiakhawunti ezifanelekileyo, ufumane ingxelo ngezithuba zabanye abantu kwaye wabelane nothando!
13. Nciphisa ukunganaki.
Oku konke malunga nokwamkela imiba yesiqu sakho sangoku onokungayithandi, kunye nokusebenza ngendlela yokunciphisa inqanaba lokulawula kunye nefuthe abanalo ebomini bakho.
Umzekelo, ukuba uyithiyile into yokuba uhlala ufika emva kwexesha kwaye ufuna ukusebenza kule nto, thatha amanyathelo okunciphisa ukuba oku kukuchaphazela kangakanani.
Vula ixesha, vula imizuzu eli-10 kwangoko, setha ii-alamu ezi-3, nokuba zithatha ntoni.
Fumana ulawulo lwezinto onokuzenza kwaye uya kuba usendleleni yokuzisusa ebomini bakho.
Lungiselela ukutshintshiselana ngezakhono.
Bamba indawo yokusebenzela kunye nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni kwaye wabelane ngezakhono zakho.
Oku kuya kukunceda uzive uqiniseke ngakumbi kwizinto osele uzazi ukuba uzenze njani, kwaye iya kuba yindlela entle yokuzibandakanya nabahlobo, kunye nabahlobo babahlobo.
Ukutshintshiselana, bacele umntu ngamnye ukuba abelane ngesakhono.
Ninokuthi nitshintshane ngokubamba iindibano zocweyo ezincinci, nabelana ngento eniyithandayo kwaye ninike iingcebiso kwabo bangazithembiyo.
Inokuba yiyo nayiphi na into edibanisa uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali ukusingatha iworkshop yokudanisa esiswini!
15. Yiya eklasini.
Ukuba awunalo iqela elikhulu labahlobo, okanye uzive uneentloni ngokuzama izinto ezintsha phambi kwabantu obaziyo, yiya kwiklasi yoluntu.
Le yindlela entle yokwandisa izakhono zakho kwaye usebenze ngokuzithemba kwakho.
Uya kudibana nabantu abathanda izinto ezifanayo abafuna ukufunda izinto ezifanayo nezakho, ezokukunceda uvuselele uthando lwakho kolu hambo.
Iya kukunika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokucela inkxaso kwabo bafumana into efanayo njengawe.
Ziqhelise ukucamngca.
Sebenzisa ukucamngca njengesixhobo kolu hambo-setha injongo yakho, phefumla umzimba wakho kunye nomphefumlo, kwaye ujonge la mandla kuwo nawaphi na amanyathelo akho alandelayo.
Ukucamngca kusinika indawo yokuzilungelelanisa noko sikufunayo ukuhlala neemvakalelo zethu kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuthi uthathe ngayo amanyathelo alandelayo kwaye woyise nayiphi na imiceli mngeni esijamelana nayo.
Yiba khona ngalo mzuzu kwaye ube nethemba ngekamva…
17. Phumla ngokwaneleyo.
Ukusebenza ngokwakho kuthatha amandla amaninzi, ke ungothuki ukuba uziva udiniwe!
Unokuba uvusa iindawo ezahlukeneyo zengqondo yakho ongakhange uzisebenzise okwethutyana, okanye unokuba uhambelana ngakumbi neemvakalelo zakho kunye neminqweno yakho, enokuziva idinisa ekuqaleni.
Oku kuqhelekile kwaye kuthetha ukuba kufuneka unike ixesha lokuphumla elongezelelekileyo kuwe.
18. Zama kwaye wamkele.
Inxalenye yokuba sesona sinamandla okufunda oko sikuthandayo- emva koko ufumane iindlela zokwenza ngaphezulu.
Ukuzama izinto ezintsha yindlela elungileyo yokuthatha inyathelo lokuba ube lolona hlobo lwakho.
Unokufumana uthando kumdaniso we-salsa owenza ukuba wonwabe ngokumangalisayo ongazange wazi ngaphandle kokuthambekisa.
Cinga eli nqaku ngokukrokra kwakho -Uze uphume uye kwenza into ongazange wayenza ngaphambili!
Okukhona uzama kwaye usenza ngokubanzi imisebenzi yakho, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane izinto ozithandayo-kwaye ukusondela kwakho kuyeyona nto uzithandayo.
19. Musa ukugxeka kakhulu.
Kungalula ukucinga ukuba ukuba lolona hlobo lululo lwakho kuthetha ukuyeka naziphi na iinxalenye zakho ongazithandiyo.
Abanye abantu, oko kunokuthetha ukuba bangaze baphinde bayenze imidlalo kuba beziva ngathi bayinkunkuma kubo.
Ngexesha lolu hambo lokuzibonakalisa ngokwakho, kulula ukuba uzigxeke ngokungagqibeki kuyo yonke into.
Akukho mntu uyamangalisa kuyo yonke into abazama ngayo, ke qhubeka uqhubeke nento ekwenza uzive ulungile kwaye ufunde ukuthanda amalungu akho anokungaziva eyi-100% ngokugqibeleleyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
20. Ncokola nabantu obathandayo.
Ukunxibelelana nabantu obathandayo kubalulekile apha - baya kukunceda bakukhumbuze ukuba amasuntswana ongangathandiyo awadingi ukutshintsha kangangoko ucinga ukuba ayakwenza.
Bakho ukuze bakunike inkxaso, ukomeleza ukuzithemba, kunye nokuchwayita okukhulu (kunye nokuwola!) Njengoko utshayisa iinjongo zakho kwaye woyise nayiphi na imiqobo kuhambo ukuze ube lolona hlobo lwakho.
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