Uyayikhumbula imovie yoMphambukeli kaRidley Scott? Kwimeko yokuqaqamba kwesifuba esidumileyo, uMphambukeli uzikrazula ngaphandle kwendoda emithiswe sisidleleli.
Ukuba uyibonile, uyazi ukuba ayiyiyo eyempama. Ngoku, kunokuba kuncinci kwimeko yethu, kodwa ukuba sivumela uMphambukeli wentlungu ukuba akhule ngaphakathi kuthi, uyakufumana indawo entle, emnyama yokuhlalisa kwaye yomise iijusi zethu ezibalulekileyo.
Yiyo loo nto kufuneka siyinqumle.
Kodwa endaweni yokusebenzisa isikhafu, bamba usiba kunye nephepha kwaye ukhuphe usizi ngamandla oonobumba bonyango.
Zisebenza njani iileta zoNyango, kwaye ngoba?
Ngamafutshane, i iimvakalelo esizivayo Ngexesha lenkqubo yokubhala zezi ngokwenene . Ukuba silila ngenxa yokuba kufuneka sithi ndlela-ntle kwinto ethile, ndlela-ntle kukuba ngokwenene . Nangona 'sibhala nje,' iimvakalelo zibhaliwe ngokwenene .
Ke ngoko, isenzo esingumfuziselo sokuvalelisa sinefuthe lokwenyani kubomi bethu ndiziva ndiyinyani kwaye nayo yinyani .
Ngamanye amaxesha, isenzo esingumfuziselo sokuvalelisa kuphela kwendlela esinokuthi sichaze oko sikuphethe ngaphakathi. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuvalelisa akusekho kunokwenzeka.
Okanye, kufutshane nasekhaya, asifuni ukujongana ubuso ngobuso nomntu osonzakalisileyo. Ayizukuphela kakuhle, kwaye siyayazi.
Iileta zonyango zinceda ukuphelisa ubudlelwane obungavalwanga ngokufanelekileyo. Basivumela ukuba sithethe izinto esingasokuze sibenazo-ngenxa ye uxinzelelo , uloyiko lokuyeka ukugada, ukungathembi , okanye isimilo esihle.
Iileta zonyango zezona zidalo zethu zisenyongweni. Ukuzaliswa kweemfihlo, ukuzisola, ubutyala , ityala, kunye neebhombu ezimbalwa ze-F okanye amanye amagama esiqalekiso ukuba sisitayile sakho kwaye siziva silungile.
Indalo yethu yobuntu iqhuba ukuba sifikelele ekuvaleni. Sidinga amava okuvalwa ukuthintela imeko okanye ubudlelwane ukukhupha amandla ethu .
Ngaphandle kokuvalwa, sisidleleli esihlala ngaphakathi. I-Goodbyes ihlala inzima, kodwa ukunqanda ukuvalwa kufana nokondla uMphambukeli.
Musa ukondla uMphambukeli!
ukuxoka ngokushiya ubudlelwane
Amandla oonobumba makhulu njengokujongana ngokunyanisekileyo…
Kuphela kukhuseleke kakhulu. Kwaye iyakha.
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Ufanele ubhalele bani iileta zoNyango?
Rhoqo - komnye umntu:
- ex
- ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo oswelekileyo
- Umama wakho, ongafuni ukuxoxa into naye okanye ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi
- abantu abakuhlukumeza ngaphambili, njalo njalo
Kodwa ungabhalela neemvakalelo zakho:
- umsindo oshushu kuwe
- usizi olutsala yonke into
- Ukudakumba okunqumlayo ebomini
- uloyiko olukuthintelayo
- okanye nayiphi na enye imvakalelo
Njengoko ubhala, cinga ngeemvakalelo ngokungathi zizinto ezahlukileyo. Njengomntu wasemzini.
Esi sidalwa senza into kuwe - mhlawumbi iyakukhathaza, kodwa mhlawumbi ikunceda ngandlela thile ngaxeshanye.
Isimntwiso esinjalo semvakalelo senza ukuba kube lula ukusombulula, ukuba nomsindo kuyo kunye nokuvalelisa.
Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, ungabhala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo:
- umzekelo wexesha elidlulileyo, ukuzondla xa wawusengumntwana omncinci
- kwinxalenye yakho onikezela ngokulula
- kwinxalenye yakho ongafuniyo makhe ndiyeke okudlulileyo
Uyazi kakuhle indawo nganye yakho. Uyazazi iinjongo zakho nezinto ezibasemva kwazo. Uyazi ukuba inxenye yakho iqhutywa luloyiko, ityala, okanye enye into.
Zama ukuvusa idosi efanelekileyo yokuqonda ngokwakho. Kuzo zonke iindawo ozikho kukho okuncinci, uyoyika kwaye awuxhaswanga. Wanga lo mntwana mncinci ngaphambi kokuba uthi ndlela-ntle.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba uyathandabuza?
Asisoloko sazi xa sikhuleliswa ngaBaphambukeli bethu. Ngamanye amaxesha sihlala kunye nabo amashumi eminyaka. Akumangalisi ke ngoko, ukuba kuthi ndlela-ntle kwiqabane ekudala lihlangabezana nenkcaso. Mhlawumbi nguMphambukeli, kodwa iphantse yafana nenxalenye yakho ngoku!
Kwaye kulungile.
Kufuneka sivuthwe siye kwiindlela ezilungileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha asinawo amandla okwenyathelo elikhulu kangaka. Ke njengoko ndihlala ndisitsho- thatha lonke ixesha olifunayo. Kodwa musa ukulinda ixesha elide kunokuba ufuna. Musa ukububekel 'amangomso ubomi bakho.
kutheni abafana behlehla xa bekuthanda
Uyenza njani kwaye kufuneka uyiphephe njani?
Ummkeli akaze afumane ileta yonyango. Ngoko musa ukuzibamba. Khumbula, ukuba isiqalekiso yinto yakho, ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba uyeke ukukrazula. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, kulungile kwakhona.
Bhala yonke into ethi qatha engqondweni yakho, elungileyo nengalunganga, enkosi kunye nokusola, iimvakalelo nokuzisola.
Ukuze wenze eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo, khetha umzuzu xa uziva ukuba ezi mvakalelo kunye neengcinga zikulungele ukuphuma. Njengamaqhakuva alungele ukuphuma (ugh!).
Kuya kufuneka ulale kuyo kangangexesha elithile, ucinge ngayo kwaye uqokelele amandla. Nje ukuba ulungele, khetha umzuzu oza kubhala kuwo, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unexesha elininzi njengoko unokufuna. Nokuba uyakhala emva koko okanye uzive uphelelwe ngamandla.
Ithemba intuition yakho , mayikhokele indlela. Bhala okuza engqondweni yakho kwaye ungahleli kakhulu.
Xa ubhala, khangela indawo onokuthi ubonakalise kuyo into oyithethayo:
- La mava akunike ntoni… kwaye ithathe ntoni?
- Itshintshe njani wena?
- Yeyiphi into elungileyo evela kuyo?
- Uya kuthatha ntoni kuyo njengenxalenye yobulumko bakho obungaphakathi?
Nje ukuba ileta ikulungele, unokufuna ukuyikrazula, uyitshise, okanye uyiphose loo loo loo. Okanye ugcine, kunjalo.
Kodwa ungaze uyithumele!
Ukuba uphosa yonke into kwileta yakho, umntu owamkelayo kuya kufuneka abe ngumntu okhanyiselweyo ukuze angachaphazeleki. Kwaye ukuba uyithumela ukuba yenzakalise okanye icaphukise lo mntu ngenjongo, ayinanto yakwenza nokuvalelisa.
Ubunzima bendlela elungileyo yenzeka kuthi. Akunakuze kubonakale.
Kwaye okokugqibela ndlela ntle ayinanto yakwenza nomntu oyinyani. Kodwa inento yonke yokwenza nento ebithethwa ngulo mntu KUWE. Jongana nentlungu yakho, ingqumbo yakho nomsindo wakho.
