Kukho amaxesha ebomini bakho apho uya kudibana nomntu ongakuthandiyo.
Ukuqiqa kwabo kunokuba sengqiqweni kwaye kufaneleke…
Mhlawumbi wenze into ukubenzakalisa okanye mhlawumbi benzakaliswe sisenzo esingangqalanga ongasaziyo.
Okanye isenokungabi nangqondo kwaphela…
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bacinga nje okanye bakholelwa izinto ngaphandle kwesizathu, kuba uvakalelo alusoloko lusengqiqweni. Abantu banokuba nokungqubana kobuntu apho bangabonani ngamehlo.
Ungazama ukubasika abo bantu ebomini bakho, kodwa kuthekani ukuba awukwazi?
Banokuba ngamaqabane elungu losapho okanye umntu osebenza naye ekufuneka usebenze ngokusondeleyo naye.
Kwezo meko, uya kufuna ukuba nezakhono zokuhamba kule meko ngaphandle kokuyenza mandundu kunokuba ifuna ukuba njalo.
Uhlangabezana njani nabantu abangakuthandiyo?
1. Yamkele into yokuba wonke umntu ungumgxeki.
Abantu bathanda izinto. Abantu abazithandi izinto.
Abantu bayathanda ukugxeka nabani na owenza into ethile, amaxesha amaninzi ngenxa yomona wokuba ayinguye okwaziyo ukuyenza.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bayithiyile ukuze bakwazi ukuthiya kwinto ethile.
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Banokuba ngumntu olusizi ojonge ukufumana iimpazamo kwenye indawo ukunqanda ukujongana neemvakalelo zabo ezimbi.
Banokuba ngumntu ophuma emgceni njengoko besokola ukufumana ulawulo ebomini babo.
Zininzi izizathu zokuba umntu angakuthandi.
Ingxaki inokuba yinto ongakhange ubenoxanduva layo kwaphela…
Wena nomntu osebenza naye nifaka isicelo sobume obufanayo, ufumana isikhundla, kwaye bayacaphuka. Akukho nto uyenzileyo ngokuthe ngqo. Uvumelekile ukulandela umvuzo ongcono, ubomi, kunye nenkqubela ngokwakho, kodwa basenokuba nomsindo malunga nawe.
Kulula kakhulu ukuba nentiyo kunokuba unegalelo elifanelekileyo. Ngokwenyani ayithathi mzamo mkhulu kumntu ongathandekiyo ukuba abe mbi okanye abe nobutshaba kwabo babangqongileyo. Kwelinye icala, kufuna umgudu omkhulu ukuba nethemba xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle.
Nangona kunjalo, ayingabo bonke abagxeki abathiyileyo. Ukugxeka okwakhayo , nokuba ayihanjiswanga kwezona ndlela zinovelwano, iyimfuneko ekuphuculeni. Ngamanye amaxesha unokufumana iiperile zobulumko ezingcwatyelwe kwiimvakalelo zabo nakumazwi abo kuwe.
Musa ukugalela kakhulu ukutyalomali ngokweemvakalelo kukujonga okuhle okanye okungalunganga ngawe.
Wonke umntu uya kuba nembono eyahlukileyo kwaye ayizizo zonke ezifanelekileyo. Nkqu nezintle.
2. Yenza uvavanyo oluthembekileyo lwemeko leyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu akamthandi omnye umntu ngaphandle kwesizathu. Iyenzeka.
Kodwa kukho ithuba elihle lokuba kukho isizathu.
Ngokwenyani, kunokuba baninzi izizathu zokuba umntu akakuthandi .
Kwaye ezinye zisemthethweni ngakumbi kunabanye.
Thatha ixesha lokuvavanya imeko, indlela aziphethe ngayo omnye umntu, nokuba kutheni usenokungakuthandi.
Isizathu sinokucaca. Umntu osebenza naye unokuba nomona xa unezimvo ezahlukileyo kwiprojekthi ebalulekileyo kunye namacala omphathi wakho kunye nawe.
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Iimvakalelo zabo zinokuba buhlungu kwaye abanandlela yakuthetha ngokwenyani ngendlela eyamkelekileyo ekuhlaleni kwindawo yomsebenzi. Oko kunokujikela ekubeni ndlongondlongo okanye ubundlongondlongo.
Uyakwazi ukubona ukuba kutheni lo mntu engakuthandi?
Ukuba akunjalo, ngaba kukho iqela elingenamkhethe, nelinyanisekileyo othembela kulo onokulibuza malunga nemeko?
Usenokuba wenza into engakhathaliyo okanye ekhubekisayo eyonakalisa umbono wabanye abantu ngawe.
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3. Yamkela ukuba akufuneki uhlangane nabo bonke abantu abasehlabathini.
Mhlawumbi awenzi nanye into abanye abanokuyithatha njengokucaphuka okanye ukungakhathali.
Kungenzeka nje ukuba nina nobabini ningadibani - njengeoyile namanzi.
Abanye abantu ucofa nabo, abanye abantu awubenzi. Ayingomsebenzi wakho ukweyisela wonke umntu ehlabathini ukuba akuthande.
Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukufumana indlela yokuhlalisana ngoxolo nabantu ongadibaniyo nabo ukuba ufuna ukusondelelana.
Usenokungabi nako ukunqanda umntu osebenza naye ongavaniyo naye, kodwa ungagcina ubudlelwane bobudlelwane bomsebenzi ngokusebenza ngentlonipho nentlonipho.
Oko kunokuba nzima ukuba ngumbandela wokungqubana kwabantu. Abantu abanobuntu obomeleleyo banokuphela bengquzulwano ukuba abawufumani umhlaba ophakathi ofanelekileyo abasebenza kuwo.
4. Nciphisa uqhakamshelwano kwaye ungazibandakanyi neengxabano ezincinci.
Umntu ongavaniyo naye unokuzama ukuphosa ubutshaba kuwe. Kulumkele ukuyiphosa kubo, nokuba ithetheleleka kangakanani na.
Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuyaphikisana neengcebiso eziqhelekileyo zokuzimela, kodwa ukuzimela akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uziphose kwimpixano engenakuphumelela nayo.
Unokuphela usilwa naloo mntu, ulahle amandla emvakalelo, uxolo kunye nolonwabo.
Kwaye yintoni? Ukwenza konke kwakhona ngomso.
Akufanelekanga kwiimeko ezininzi.
Ngokwala ukubandakanyeka kwaye uphendule ngokungakhathali kwakho, ubahlutha amandla kwimpixano.
Umntu osebenza naye angazama ukukukhokelela ekwenzeni okanye ukuthetha into enokukufumana uqeqesho okanye ugxothwe. Banokuya kubaphathi kwaye bathi ubangela indawo yokusebenzela enobutshaba kubo.
Kwaye emva koko kuya kufuneka uzibonakalise. Ungathini ukuba awukwazi? Ngaba ufuna ukunyanzelwa ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi okanye ubudlelwane? Akunjalongo noko!
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Ukuba kufuneka usebenze nalo mntu, hlala ujolise kuyo nayiphi na into umsebenzi kwaye wenziwe ngokufanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo. Emva koko unokumka kuloo mntu kwaye uye kwenye into.
Oku kunokuthetha ukunikezela umhlaba ngendlela owenziwa ngayo umsebenzi odibeneyo. Banokufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela yabo-indlela eyahlukileyo kweyakho.
Zibuze ukuba ungagobela eli xesha kumzamo wokunciphisa uxinzelelo- ucinga ukuba indlela yabo ayinabungozi kwiziphumo zomsebenzi.
Ewe kunjalo, ekuphela kwendlela onokuthi ukhethe ngayo kukunciphisa unxibelelwano nomntu ukuthintela nakuphi na ukungqubana okungafunekiyo.
Kwaye ukuba ufikelela kwinqanaba apho ukungqubana nomntu kungenakuthinteleka, jonga ngononophelo okusingqongileyo kunye neziphumo ezinokubakho xa usenza njalo.
Kungangcono ukujongana nomcimbi nomntu wesithathu. Emsebenzini, oku kufanele ukuba kube ngumphathi wakho okanye umphathi wecandelo. Banokulamla ukungavisisani kwaye ubukho babo bunokubenza bazole kwaye bangathandi ukubonisa umsindo wakho.
5. Wukhuphe umsindo wakho nokukhathazeka.
Eyona nto imbi onokuyenza ngokungathandwa kukuhlala kuyo.
Yinto efuna ukukhutshwa ngaphandle kwengqondo xa ungazibandakanyi nayo, kungenjalo iya kubangela uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko.
Awufuni kuphila unxibelelwano oloyikisayo kunye nomntu ongakuthandiyo kwaye ongakwaziyo ukukuphepha.
Ungabavumeli babe negumbi lasimahla kunye nebhodi entlokweni yakho.
Abafanelekanga.
Yenza nantoni na ukuze ususe ezo ngcinga entlokweni yakho. Zithobe ngalo mzuzu kwaye ujonge kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe. Kuya kunceda ukukhupha ingqondo yakho ekuhlaleni kwimicimbi owawunayo naloo mntu.
6. Chitha ixesha elininzi nabantu abakuthandayo nabakhathaleleyo ngawe.
Eyona ndlela ilula yokurhoxisa umntu ongathandekiyo kukuzijikeleza nabantu abanothando, abakukhathaleleyo.
Loo mandla aqinisekileyo anokunceda ekulweni uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo olubangelwa kukujongana nomntu ongathandekiyo.
Kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ubekwindawo apho ungenazo ezo ndidi zesangqa, jolisa ekwakheni ezinye.
Musa ukulahla ixesha elibalulekileyo kunye namandla emvakalelo kolo nxibelelwano lubi. Fumana kuzo xa kufuneka kwaye uqhubele phambili kwizinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi.
Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungadlala imidlalo engenantsingiselo nabantu abancinci.
