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Ndiwa emathandweni kuyamangalisa, ukubonelela ngeemvakalelo zakho kuyabuyiselwa, kunjalo. Sonke siyazi ngamabhabhathane kunye namajelo ombane kunye novuyo olukhulu lokuchitha ixesha kunye naloo mntu ukhethekileyo. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ezo mvakalelo ziyaphela kwaye ushiyeka ucinga ukuba usafuna nyhani ukuba kubudlelwane? Nantsi imiqondiso emihlanu yokuba ungahle uthandane ...



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Ukuba ucinga ngako ngokwaneleyo ukuba ukhangele ezinye iimpendulo, kukho ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuba izinto azilunganga kubudlelwane bakho ngoku. Iimvakalelo zinokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa sonke sinethemba lokuba iimvakalelo zethu zothando lomntu ziya kuhlala ngonaphakade. Ngokudabukisayo, oku akusoloko kunjalo.

Ukuba kumacala omabini engqekembe apha, andinakugxininisa ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthembeka. Unokucinga ukuba ukuxelela umntu ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uziva njani yinto eyoyikisayo, kwaye ulungile. Yintoni embi, nangona kunjalo? Ukubatyhalela kude ngaphandle kwengcaciso, ukubaphelisa ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye unethemba lokuba 'baya thabatha thsuphe,' okanye, okona kubi kakhulu, kukuqhatha.



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Ukukopa inokubakho ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokweemvakalelo, ngokoluvo lwam. Ukuba iimvakalelo zakho kwiqabane lakho ziyaphela, okanye uhlakulela iimvakalelo zomntu othile enye into , thetha ngaphambi kokuba wenze. Ukuba izinto zitshintshe kakhulu kuwe, kukho ithuba lokuba iqabane lakho sele liyivile, okanye lifumana into efanayo. Ewe, uyakuziva ungumntu owoyikekayo xa unale ncoko, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba uziva unetyala, kodwa akukho ngxaki uyenzileyo. Kungcono kakhulu ukuba ube nale ncoko ngelixa umsulwa kunokuba sele uwele umgca. Ndithembe.

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Uyakhumbula xa yonke into abayenzileyo ibimnandi kwaye iyathandeka? Ndiyazi, kusenokuvakala ngathi kudala, kodwa besikhona. Xa uthandana nomnye umntu , yonke into abayenzayo iyamangalisa kwaye iyathandeka, kwaye uzifumanisa uphuma uye kubahlobo bakho malunga nezinto ezincinci. Ngubani omnye onokuthetha iiyure malunga nexesha elinye iqabane lakho likulethele ikofu emsebenzini? Ndiyazi, ufanelekile umtshato. Ukuba awusafumani zonke izinto ezincinci ezintle, kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba uyawa luthando kwaye ulwalamano alusebenzi.

Amanqanaba okunyamezelana ngeempazamo aphakame kakhulu xa uqala ukuthandana nomntu, kwaye imiboniso ye-rose-tinted ingaba yintsikelelo kwezo ntsuku zokuqala. Emva kwethutyana, izinto ziya peter ngaphandle kwaye uya kuzifumana uhamba-hamba kakuhle kamnandi kunye, kunye impikiswano rhoqo njalo, kunjalo. Kodwa ukuba uqala ukufumanisa ukuba imiba emincinci ifika kuwe, iimvakalelo zakho zisenokuba zitshintshile ngandlela ithile kwaye isenokuba lixesha lokuba uphinde uphonononge.

Ungafumanisa ukuba iingxaki ezincinci ziyakucaphukisa ngoku, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukuxolela iimpazamo okanye ukugweba gwenxa. Ngokulinganayo, mhlawumbi uyekile ukuziva unetyala ngenxa yezinto nguwe ukwenza okungalunganga. Oku kungabikho kwemfesane luphawu lokuba uziva ngokwahlukileyo. Izinto zitshintsha ngokwendalo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano, kodwa zihlala zisethafeni zibe yindawo elula, eyonwabisayo endaweni yeemvakalelo zokucaphuka kwaye, rhoqo, nangona kunjalo.

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Masithembeke - uninzi lwethu lufumene abanye abantu benomtsalane nangona sithandana ngokupheleleyo namaqabane ethu. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuxabisa indlela akhangeleka ngayo omnye umntu, kodwa ukuba ucinga ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba kunye nomnye umntu, izinto ngokucacileyo azilunganga ekhaya.

Njengoko besenditshilo apha ngasentla, ukusebenza kuyo nayiphi na into enomdla okanye iimvakalelo komnye umntu kuyinto enkulu hayi xa usebudlelwaneni- into endicinga ukuba sonke singavumelana ngayo. Oko kwathethileyo, abantu abaninzi bayazenzakalisa ubudlelwane babo ngokunxila umntu ongomnye okanye ukuthatha izinto kancinci kude kakhulu kwi-Snapchat kunye nabahlobo abasebenza nabo okanye abantu ongabaziyo abakhe badibana nabo ebusuku. Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba ngokungazi ukhangela isizathu sokuphelisa ubudlelwane bakho, lixesha lokuba ube nolwazi kwaye wenze ukhetho olusebenzayo.

Nokuba uyayivala, okanye uthetha neqabane lakho. Ukuba uziva oku ngoku sele, kusenokwenzeka ukuba banolwazi oluthile ngalo mbandela. Kuhlala kungcono ukuthetha ngezinto ngaphambi kokuba usebenze kwiimeko ezinje. Ixesha elifutshane, incoko iya kuba buhlungu, kodwa akukho nto ifana nencoko ekuya kufuneka ukuba unayo into uyenzile yenzeka ngomnye umntu.

Umlingane wakho mhlawumbi uchonge kutshintsho lokuziphatha kwakho kwaye unetyala kubo ukuba bachaze ukuba kutheni kunjalo. Akulunganga ukubashiya bexhalabile malunga nawe nokuphambuka nokubonakalisa ngokupheleleyo ukuzithemba kwabo ngenxa yokuba ungakhange uqokelele isibindi sokunyaniseka. Cinga ngento onokuyifuna ukuba iindima zibuyisiwe…

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Kwabanye abantu, ukwabelana ngesondo akubalulekanga kangako. Kwabanye, sisiseko sobudlelwane obuphilileyo. Naphi na apho ukhoyo kwinqanaba le-libido, ukwehla kobuninzi besini onaso kusisilumkiso sokuba iimvakalelo zakho zitshintshile. Nokuba awusafumani liqabane lakho elinomtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni, okanye uziva unetyala ngokulala nabo ngelixa usazi ngokutshintsha kweemvakalelo zakho, le yinto ekufuneka ujongane nayo.

Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyasilahla isondo ngaphandle kwesiqhelo esiqhutywa nguwe, lixesha lokuba uthethe neqabane lakho. Okukhona ushiya izinto ixesha elide, kokukhona kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kuni nobabini. Ukuguqula imeko. Khawufane ucinge ukuba nguwe owenza umgudu omkhulu - uqhelene nobomi obulungileyo besini, kodwa qaphela izinto zithatha unyawo. Uqala ukuzama ukubonisa umdla kwiqabane lakho ngakumbi, nokuba kungokunxiba, ukuzama izinto ezintsha, okanye ukuzibeka phaya ngakumbi. Uqhubeka ukwaliwa kwaye awazi ukuba kutheni. Awuzukuphakuzela malunga nokuba kuthetha ntoni oku kubudlelwane bakho, ukuzithemba kwakho kuzokuhla kakhulu.

Ukuziva ungathandeki kwaye ungafunwa kuya kuqala kuchaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho kwaye kuya kuqhuba umda phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Ngoku khawufane ucinge ukuba kunjalo wena ebangela ukuba uvakalelo kwiqabane lakho. Ewe, ayiziva intle kakhulu! Zibambe kwangethuba kwaye uchazele iqabane lakho indlela oziva ngayo. Oku kuyakuba kuhle, kunjalo, kodwa kuya kusindisa iintlungu kwaye kunciphise 'yintoni engalunganga ngam?!' ukuphazamiseka kwiqabane lakho. Nokuba yintoni, uya kusebenza nokuba ungadibana njani kunye, okanye ufumane indlela yokwahlukana.

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Kumanqanaba okuqala obudlelwane bakho, ufuna ukuba kunye ngalo lonke ixesha. Ndichitha ixesha lakho elininzi kunye, kwaye yonke ithumela ukuthumela ii-Snapchats kunye neetekisi ezintle. Awunakho ukwanela omnye komnye, kwaye kuyaziva kumnandi.

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Kuqala, ushiya ukubambeka kweenwele ezimbalwa endaweni yakhe, emva koko ashiye ibhrashi yamazinyo kweyakho kwaye ngequbuliso, idrowa iba sisitshixo. Nokuba sele ningene kunye ngokusemthethweni okanye nihlala nje ezipokothweni zomnye nomnye, ufuna ukuba phakathi kwabo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye niphose omnye xa ungekho.

Nangona kusempilweni ukuzimela, ukufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ngokwahlukileyo kunesiqhelo luphawu lokuba iimvakalelo zakho ziyatshintsha. Ukuba awusazifumani ulahlekile kwiqabane lakho, kukho into etshintshileyo. Inyaniso yokuba unxibelelwano phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho lutshintshile lubonisa ukuba iimvakalelo zakho nazo zinjalo.

Unokuzifumana ungasaphenduli imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza njengangaphambili, okanye ungabi ngowokuqala ukuyithumela kwakhona. A utshintsho kumanqanaba othando kunye nolwalamano ngumcimbi omkhulu, nokuba ubusemntwini okanye xa nahlukene. Oku kunokuba ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kubandakanya uxinzelelo, umsebenzi, kunye nezinye izinto eziphambili, kodwa kusafuneka uzibuze ukuba zithetha ntoni kubudlelwane bakho.

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Eyona nto imbi ngaphezu kokuxelelwa ukuba umntu uthandana nawe kukuxelelwa ukuba khange athandane nawe ixesha elithile. Oku kuyakwenza iqabane lakho lizive lixokisiwe, kwaye baya kuqala ukubuza yonke into oyithethileyo noyenzileyo kutsha nje, bathathe ubudlelwane bakho bonke kwaye baziqhube. Thetha nomlingane wakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho-kuya kuba buhlungu kuni nobabini, kodwa kuya kufuneka ujongane nomba.

Ukuthetha ngayo kuya kukwenza uqonde ukuba awusafuni ukuba kunye nabo, okanye kuya kukunika isheke yokwenyani kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba usondele kakhulu ekulahlekelweni umphefumlo wakho . Ayisoze ibe yingxoxo elula, kodwa yeyona ifuna ukwenzeka, kuzo zombini iinjongo zakho. Ukuhlala kubudlelwane ngezizathu eziphosakeleyo yinkcitho yexesha lomntu wonke, kwaye akulunganga nakubani na.

Ukuba uqala ukubuza iimvakalelo zakho, zabelane ngazo. Nangona uziva njani kwaye nantoni na ogqiba kuyo, yinyani. Unetyala lolwalamano lwakho, ubuncinci.

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