Uninzi lwabantu luyathemba ngokuzalwa, kude kube kwenzeka into ethile kubo etshintsha loo nto.
Ngokubanzi, ngakumbi ukuba sinyanisile ngokwethu, kukwindalo yethu ukukholelwa koko abanye abantu basixelela kona, ngakumbi abo basondeleyo kuthi.
Inkqubo ye- Ukhohlakele ngakumbi phakathi kwethu yibize ukuba ibe lula, kodwa, kum, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthembela ekubeni siseti yakho emiselweyo.
ndikhetha ukuba ndedwa ixesha elininzi
Kukho, nangona kunjalo, umgca.
Nangona kufuneka sibathembe abantu, kwaye uninzi lwabantu luthembekile ngokwemvelo, sonke siyakufika silwe ne-serial liar ngexesha elithile ebomini bethu.
Ukwazi ukubona enye kunokukusindisa kwintlungu kunye nentlungu, nokuba kukwimeko yobuqu okanye kwimeko yomsebenzi.
Sonke sixoka ubuxoki obumhlophe yonke imihla, nokuba kungenxa yokunceda okanye kungenxa yokuba nabani na ngenene akadingi kwazi.
Kusenokwenzeka nokuba kwenziwe ukuba omnye umntu azive engcono ngeziqu zabo, nangona oko kungqineke kunjalo ngaphezulu kwempawu yabasetyhini , ngelixa amadoda kusenokwenzeka ukuba axoke ukwenza ngokwabo yiva ngcono.
Nangona kungumgaqo-nkqubo olungileyo ukuzama ukunyaniseka rhoqo kangangoko, ukunyaniseka konke kunokuthi, ngamanye amaxesha, kuphele nje kwenzakalise iimvakalelo zabantu okanye kubangele iingxaki.
Nangona kunjalo, kuxa ubuxoki obukhulu buqala kubudlelwane obubalulekileyo, nokuba ngaba uneqabane, umhlobo osenyongweni, okanye ilungu losapho, apho izinto zinokuqala ukubonakala ngokukhawuleza.
Ubuxoki busenokuba yingxaki enkulu kwiimeko zeshishini nakwiindawo zobungcali.
Sihlala silungile ngokufanelekileyo ekufumaneni imiqondiso yokuxoka ngokwendalo, kodwa siyazityhala ezo ngcinga kwelinye icala kwaye siziqinisekise ukuba kufanelekile.
Ukuba unexhala lokuba umntu othile uzama ukutsala uboya ngamehlo akho, nantsi imiqondiso embalwa onokuyilinda eya kuthi iqinisekise ukuba bangaphantsi kunokwenyani kuwe:
1. Baqala Ukujija
Xa sixoka, siye sibe novalo, nokuba sikwenza kangaphi ngemini.
Amandla avalo anokufunyanwa xa umntu edlala ngeenwele zakhe, eshukumisa iinyawo zakhe, ethepha iminwe yakhe etafileni, okanye ngequbuliso etshintsha kakhulu esihlalweni sakhe.
umfazi wam uyala ukufumana umsebenzi
Kungenxa yokuba ngokungazi balungiselela ukubaleka, kwimeko yokuba ubuxoki babo bufunyenwe.
2. Bayaziphinda
Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuxelela ukuba umntu uxelela ii-pie zehagu zezinyama kukuba bayaziphinda izinto abazithethileyo, kwaye bazivolontiye ngakumbi kunokuba ubucelile.
Ekuzimiseleni kwabo ukungqina ukuba bathetha inyani, baya kude kakhulu.
Uvavanyo olulungileyo kukuhlala uthe cwaka ixesha elide kunokuba uhlala ubona ukuba bayaqhubeka bethetha, ukufumana ukuthula kungonwabisi kwimeko yabo yokungonwabi. Ukuthula kwakho kuya kubenza bacinge ukuba awubakholelwa, ke baya kuzama ngakumbi ukukuqinisekisa.
Ukuphinda-phinda oko sele bethethile luphawu lokuba bazalisa ixesha ngelixa bezama ukufumana ubuxoki babo ngqo entlokweni yabo, okanye ukuhlobisa ibali labo ngakumbi.
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3. Azingqinelani
Yonke le nto bayithethayo bayenza? Ukuba bahlala betshintsha iinkcukacha ezincinci malunga nebali labo, ke leyo yingcebiso yakho.
Kuyinyani, akukho namnye kuthi uneenkumbulo ezimangalisayo, kodwa ukuba kukho ukungangqinelani okubonakalayo ebalini labo kwaye kugcina kutshintsha kwaye kuguquka, emva koko unokuqiniseka ukuba abalunganga nawe.
4. Bayayogquma Amalungu Omzimba Abasesichengeni
Njengoko mhlawumbi uyazi, ukuxoka kunokukwenza uzive ubhencekile kwaye usengozini.
Ukuziva unokuthi uhlaselwe kunokuthetha ukuba uyayigquma intloko, intamo, okanye isisu ukuze uzikhusele.
Unokubabona bevale umlomo wabo, baneentloni ngamazwi abo kwaye bezama ukuvala unxibelelwano.
5. Ulwimi lwabo loMzimba kunye namagama awathethi kwali linye
Ngaba bakuxelela ibali elibuhlungu, kodwa bencuma kwaye bevuselelwa, ulwimi lwabo lomzimba ezibonisa ukuba zikwimeko yokuphapha phezulu?
Iintsimbi zesivusi kufuneka zihambe.
Kulula kakhulu ukuxoka ngamagama, kodwa kuphela li-pro-liar eliya kuthi likwazi ukuhlala lazi ngolwimi lwabo lomzimba ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba banokunika imiqondiso ehambelana nobuxoki babo.
6. Utshintsho lwabo lokuphefumla
Xa sixoka, imizimba yethu iyaphendula. Isantya sentliziyo kunye nokuhamba kwegazi kuyatshintsha, oko kuthetha ukuba siphefumla ngamandla.
Ngokucacileyo, ukuba bathe bahamba nje ngezinyuko, esi ayisosalathiso onokuthembela kuso, kodwa ukuba bahleli esofeni okanye ngasemva kwedesika yabo kunye notshintsho lwabo lokuphefumla, unesizathu sokukrokrela .
7. Abenzi uMdibaniso Wamehlo
Le icacile.
Abanye abantu bayoyikeka ngokudibana kwamehlo nangona kunjalo, kodwa ukuba umntu oqhele ukuvuya ukukujonga ngqo emehlweni uphepha ngequbuliso ukujonga kwakho, banokuba belele ngamazinyo abo.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba banxibelelana kakhulu namehlo okanye banxibelelana kakhulu kunesiqhelo, oko kunokuba ngumzamo ngabom kunye nobundlongondlongo bokukuqinisekisa ukuba banyanisekile kuwe.
8. Bajonge ukusaba
Kukho okungakumbi emehlweni abo kunokuba nje bajonge ngqo okanye hayi.
ukwenza njani kubudlelwane
Amehlo abantu aya kujonga kwicala elithile xa bexoka, kodwa ngelishwa, oku kunokuba phezulu kwaye ngasekunene, okanye kungaphantsi nasekunene.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi ipateni yamehlo yabo yesiqhelo ngaphambi kokuba uxele, ngenxa yoko uya kuyikhetha kuphela kubantu obazi kakuhle.
Ngokwesiqhelo ayinamsebenzi ngokuchanekileyo ukuba bajonge ngantoni, ngaphandle kokuba bajonge emnyango. Lowo ngumqondiso wokuba, nangona bengazi ukuba bayayenza, bajonge indlela yabo yokubaleka ukuba bayayifuna.
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Akukho mntu uphilileyo uyakonwabela ukuxoka okanye azive ekhululekile ukukwenza, ke ukungabikho zingqondweni ujonge ukuphuma okukhawulezayo kwincoko.
9. Balungiselela Ukubaleka
Akunjalo nje ngamehlo abo aya kukunika umkhondo. Umzimba wabo uphela uya kuthi ujonge ngasemnyango, kwaye ukuba bayama ungawaqaphela kancinci kancinci kwaye esiya ngakuwo.
Ukuba bebekhululekile xa uqala ukuthetha nabo kwaye ube noxinzelelo njengoko isifundo esithile siza, okanye ukuba bayaziqinisa ngokukhawuleza bakukubona, ikwaluphawu lokuba ngokungazi ukuba bangathanda naphi na kwaye nomzimba wabo ulungiselela ukubaleka.
10. Baziphatha ngomsindo
Ukuba umntu othile uyacaphuka okanye abe nengxabano ngakuwe, ngulowo uxela ngenene. Ukuba umntu othile uqala ngokuziphatha ngokungenalusini ngaphandle kokucaphukisa, ke ziindlela zabo zokuzikhusela ezingaziwayo ezikhaba ngaphakathi.
Jonga umfanekiso omkhulu
Ayizizo zonke ezi mpawu eziyakuba yinyani kubo bonke abantu oza kuthi uhlangane nabo kuzo zonke iimeko.
Ukuba ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe, sebenzisa into oyaziyo malunga neempawu zabo eziqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ucinga ukuba bayaxoka okanye hayi.
Ukuba ngumntu ongasondelanga kakhulu kuye, qiniseka ngakumbi ukuba uyawuthathela ingqalelo umxholo.
Iingqondo , umzekelo, musa ukudideka xa bexoka kuba sibonisa kuphela le miqondiso ukuba siziva sinetyala malunga nobuxoki esibuthethayo.
Ekupheleni kosuku, kanye njengokuba wenza izinto ngethuku xa uxoka, ukwangobuchule bokuchola imiqondiso kwabanye abantu.
Mamela iimvakalelo zakho zesisu kwaye awusoze uhambe gwenxa kakhulu.
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