Ukuthanda i-empath kuzisa iimbuyekezo ezininzi.
Kodwa inokubangela imiceli mngeni othile.
Iindawo zokulwa zikhethekile ngeendlela ezininzi kwabanye abantu onokuthi uhlangane nabo.
Kwaye ukuthandana kuthetha ukubaqonda kwaye ulungelelanisa indlela oza ngayo kubudlelwane.
Ukuba usemngxunyeni wokuqala wothando, okanye ubukhe waphila ixesha elithile, nazi ezinye zeengcebiso zokunceda ubudlelwane bakho buchume.
1. Thetha nabo ukuba unemicimbi.
Iifaths ziyakwazi ukubona izinto ezininzi, kodwa azizizo abafundi beengqondo.
Ngelixa unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo lubalulekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano, luphindaphindiwe xa iqabane lakho liyimpathombi.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, baya kwazi ukuba into iphakame nokuba ungazama kangakanani ukuyifihla kubo.
Ke ukuba uziva unoxinzelelo okanye uxhalabile okanye ukhathazekile okanye unomsindo, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nabo.
Oku kuyinyani kwimicimbi ebabandakanya kunye nezinye izinto- ngaphakathi nangaphandle.
Ukukhathazeka emsebenzini? Ubuhlobo bobuhlobo? Iingxaki zempilo (emzimbeni okanye engqondweni)? Ngaba uziva ulahlekile ebomini?
Iifaths ngabaphulaphuli abalungileyo kunye namaqabane akhathalayo ngokumangalisayo, ukuze uzive ukhuselekile ekuvulekeni kubo.
Ii-empaths nazo zihlala zithambekele kwizinto ezigqithisileyo. Ke ngokuthetha nabo ngokukhululekileyo, ubanceda ukuba bacinge / bangakhathazeki kangako malunga nawe kunye nobudlelwane bakho.
2. Ungaze ubaxokise.
Ama-empaths ahamba, athetha izixhobo zokuxoka.
Banokuva ivumba le-bullsh * t imayile enye.
Kwaye ubuxoki bunqunywe nzulu.
Impathiso iyithiyile inkohliso yalo naluphi na uhlobo, nokuba uyayenza ukuze ungaziveli iimvakalelo zabo.
Kungcono kakhulu ukunyaniseka kubo kwaye uthembe ukuba banokuphatha nantoni na.
Ubuxoki bokushiya ikwayi-hayi. Banokubona xa kukho izikhewu ebalini okanye xa ufihla into.
ukudikwa ngobomi kufuna utshintsho
Awusayi kufumana ithuba lesibini ukuba uxoka kwi-empath, ke sukuthatha loo mngcipheko.
3. Baphulaphule.
Mkhulu ekumameleni njengeemfesane, banamazwi abo nabo.
Ngaphezu koko, bayathanda ukwazi ukuba la mazwi ayaviwa.
Banezinto ezininzi ezenzeka ngaphakathi kweentloko zabo kwaye zinokubanceda ngokwenene ukuba bakwazi ukukhuphela ezinye zezo ngcinga kuwe.
Xa bethetha, zama ukungaphazamisi, nokuba ubuze imibuzo. Lindela bade bayigqibe inqaku labo ngaphambi kokuba bathathe ithuba lakho.
Ukuba uzama ukuthetha ngaphezulu kwabo, ugqibezele amanqaku abo, okanye ucinga ukuba uyazi ukuba bacinga ntoni, banokungahambisani nencoko kuba bayazi ukuba akuyiva into abayithethayo.
4. Qonda ukuba abanakusoloko bekwazi ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo.
Iimpaths ziziva zineemvakalelo ezininzi, uninzi lwazo azizizo ezazo.
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, abayi kukwazi nokuba luvela phi uvakalelo oluthile.
Ke ukuba babonakala belusizi okanye bexhalabile okanye becaphukile, sukucinga ukuba bazokwazi ukukuxelela ukuba kutheni.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungabuza ukuba ngaba balungile okanye bangathanda ukuthetha malunga nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo, kodwa akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukunceda.
5. Banike ithuba lokuchaza iimvakalelo zabo.
Nokuba yeyabo okanye yeyiphi na into abayifumene kwenye indawo, uninzi lweemfesane zinxiba iimvakalelo zazo kwimikhono yazo.
Ukuba uthanda i-empath, kuya kufuneka ubavumele babonise iimvakalelo zabo ngaphandle koloyiko lomgwebo okanye ukugculelwa.
Oko kunokuba lucelomngeni ngamanye amaxesha xa i-empath ithwala umthwalo onzima weemvakalelo zabanye abantu.
Kunokulinga ukubaxelela ukuba 'bayeke' kwaye bajonge kwenye into, kodwa ayisiyiyo into enokuyenza ngokulula.
Eyona nto unokuyenza kukubathuthuzela xa iimvakalelo ziphazamisekile, okanye ukuqonda ukuba iimvakalelo zibangela ukudubuleka.
Qiniseka ukuba wena kunye nemida yakho niyahlonitshwa, ewe, kodwa funda ukonwaba kunye neqabane elinemvakalelo.
6. Kholelwa kubuchule babo.
Enye yezona zinto zonakalisayo onokuzithetha kwi-empath kukuba awukholelwa kubuchule babo.
Mhlawumbi uyifumana ilandelwe kude, kodwa yazi ukuba oku kuxhomekeke ekungazini kwakho.
Kunokuba nzima kwi-empath yokuchaza ukuba kunjani ukuziva kwaye ubonise iimvakalelo zabanye, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ayiyonyani.
Ukuba uthandana empath kwaye ufuna izinto ukuya phambili, musa nokuba thsuphe ukuba ucinga ukuba benza yonke phezulu.
ukuba wenzeni xa umyeni wakho ekhetha usapho lwakhe phezu kwakho
Esi iya kuba sisiphelo sezinto, ungathembela kuloo nto.
7. Ungazami ukuzitshintsha.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokucinga ukuba amandla emphefumlweni ebomini bakho angangcono xa bechasene nemeko yabo yendalo.
Ungabakhuthaza ukuba banciphise naziphi na iimvakalelo abazifumanayo okanye bazithintele ngokupheleleyo.
Kodwa oku akukho kwahluka kubo bekucela ukuba utshintshe eyona nto uyiyo.
Ayisiyonto intle ukuyenza kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayizukunceda ubudlelwane bakho.
Impembelelo inokuzikhusela kwizinto ezithile, kodwa oku kuxhomekeke kubo ngokupheleleyo.
Basenokungafuni. Banokwaneliseka ngokugqibeleleyo xa besamkela amandla abo okuba novelwano.
Asiyondawo yakho yokubaxelela eyona nto ibalungeleyo.
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8.Qonda ukuba uthando lwabo lunokuba namandla.
Ukucofa iimvakalelo zempathiso kuguqulwe kwafikelela kwishumi.
Bafumana yonke into ngokucacileyo.
Oku kuthetha ukuba uthando lwabo kuwe lungakhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye lubonakaliswe ngeendlela ezinokuziva zincinci ngamanye amaxesha.
indlela yokuziphindezela kwi-sociopath ye-narcissistic
Kodwa abayikhohlisi. Ngokwenene banomnqweno ovuthayo ngawe.
Ukuba awubonakalisi ngokwasemphefumlweni, oku kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo.
Sukubaleka kuyo. Soloko uhlala unxibelelana ngendlela oziva ngayo.
Iqabane lakho elinovelwano linganakho ukuthomalalisa indlela eliziphethe ngayo xa lisazi ukuba likwenza ungonwabi.
Okanye, banokukulungela ngakumbi ukuphendula kwakho ukuba ubaxelele kwangaphambili ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngokulula njengoko besenza.
9. Banike indawo eninzi (xa beyidinga).
Iimpaths zilangazelela ixesha ngokwazo. Yindlela aba decompress ngayo ebomini kwaye banqamle kwiimvakalelo zabanye.
Zilungiselele ukunika uthando lwakho indawo ukuze bakwazi ukwenza ezi zinto.
Ukuba bacela ukuba bodwa, baqonde ukuba sivela phi na eso sicelo kwaye ungasithathi njengokwala kwakho.
Okanye ukuba babonakala ngathi bayarhoxa kancinci xa bekufutshane nawe, buza ukuba bangathanda ukuhlala bodwa na.
Ukuba uhlala ne-empath, oku kunokuthetha ukubuyela kwelinye igumbi.
Ukuba awukwenzi oko, kusenokuthetha izinto ezinjengokungabathumeli imiyalezo kwintsalela yangokuhlwa.
Hlonipha nje isidingo sabo sokuba babe bodwa.
10. Musa ukubanyanzela ukuba banxulumane nesangqa sakho.
Impaths inokuba yinto engathethekiyo kwezentlalo, kodwa zinokuphinda zibuyele kuzo ngokwazo njengoko besesichazile.
Ke sukunyanzelisa ukuba banxulumane nabahlobo bakho okanye usapho ngaphezu kokuba baziva bekhululekile.
Ewe ufuna ukuba babe yinxalenye yobomi bakho obubanzi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uqonde kwaye wamkele ukuba oku kunokuba nzima kubo.
Soloko ubuza ukuba bangathanda na ukuhlangana nawe ekudibaneni nabantu kunokuba bacinge ukuba baya kuthi.
Kwaye kulungile ukuba bathi hayi ukuba abaziva ngalo mzuzu kanye ngexesha.
11. Hlonipha imida yabo.
Kuya kufuneka, ewe, uyihloniphe imida kubo bonke ubudlelwane.
Oku akukho kwahlukile xa uthanda ukuthanda.
Leyo mida inokubonakala yahluke kancinane kuninzi, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uyamkele.
Mhlawumbi oku kuthetha umda kwinto abonwabileyo ukuthetha ngayo. Okanye mhlawumbi bakhetha ukulala kwiibhedi ezahlukeneyo.
Okanye kunokuthetha imida ngokwexesha kunye nendawo njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla.
12. Cinga ngononophelo ngeendaba ozisebenzisayo kunye nabo.
Kukho izinto ezithile ezixhalabisayo.
Ubundlobongela yinto enkulu. Amagama enzondo yenye into. Iindaba zehlabathi ezimbi zisesithathu.
Ngokusisiseko, kuya kufuneka ujonge ithoni yeemvakalelo kwimithombo yeendaba ozibukeleyo okanye umamele xa ukunye nabo.
Nantoni na ebachazayo kwiimvakalelo ezinokubanzima kufuneka ithintelwe.
Mhlawumbi ngekhe bafune ukubukela imovie eyoyikisayo, umzekelo.
Umculo / amazwi omsindo anomsindo angayingxaki kubo.
Nokuba amaxwebhu malunga nemicimbi enzima yezifundo, nokuba inomdla kangakanani na, iya kuba ngumzabalazo.
13. Zimisele ukwabelana nabanye ngezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Iifaths zinobudlelwane bendalo kunye nezilwanyana kwaye uninzi ziya kuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya okanye ezimbini.
Izilwanyana zilula. Banikezela ngothando olungenamiqathango kwaye ngovuyo baya kuhlala nje babe kunye nawe.
Ke ukuba uthandana kunye ne-empath, zilungiselele ngamanye amaxesha ukudlala i-fiddle yesibini kwiqabane labo lezilwanyana.
Oku kunokuba yinto ebonakalayo-banokufuna nje ukugogeka esofeni kunye nekati yabo okanye inja.
Okanye inokuba ngokwexesha kunye nengqwalaselo abayinika isilwanyana sabo endaweni yakho.
Uxolo, kodwa olu luhlobo lokungavisisani.
14. Musa ukuthatha kakhulu ngenxa yokuba bengabaphayo ngokwendalo.
Enye yezinto eziqhelekileyo ubunzima bokuba yimpathango kukuba bazinikela kakhulu ukuze bakholise abanye.
Bathanda ukonwabisa abanye abantu.
Oku kuba lithuku elomeleleyo ngakumbi xa besebudlelwaneni.
Kwaye kungaziva kumnandi ukuba neqabane elinomdla nelikhathaleleyo, kodwa ulumke ungathathi cala kolu hlobo lokupha.
Akufuneki ihlale iyile nto ufuna ukuyenza. Iimfuno zabo kunye neemfuno kufuneka ziqwalaselwe nazo.
Kananjalo akufuneki ubavumele balinde ezandleni nasezinyaweni. Thatha uxanduva lweminye yemisebenzi ngokwakho.
Qiniseka ukuba ulwalamano alubeki macala onke ngokweemfuno zabo ezihlangatyezwayo kuqala.
15. Ungaze ubejongele phantsi.
Ii-Empaths zihlala zinobubele kwaye zikhathala kwaye abantu bacinga ukuba abakulungelanga ukuzimela.
Abantu bahlala becinga ukuba ii-empaths zifuna ukukhuselwa.
Zombini ziyimpazamo.
Iifaths zinamandla njengaye nawuphi na umntu kwaye akufuneki ucinge ngenye indlela.
Ukuba usebudlelwaneni ne-empath, kuyahlawula ukuba ungaze uyijongele phantsi into abanokuyenza okanye indlela abanokuzimisela ngayo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungaqala njani ukuthandana, ukuthanda, okanye ukuhlala ne-empath? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
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