Idlulela ngaphaya kokudinwa, ukudinwa kwangaphambili… kukuphakama kakhulu - okanye kufanele ukuba kubunzulu - bokudinwa.
Luhlobo lweemvakalelo ezenza ukuba ufune ukuhlala uzigoqile ebholeni ntsasa nganye, phantsi kwekhaka lokhuselo ledyvet efudumeleyo ethambileyo.
imiqondiso hes hayi phezu ex yakhe
Kukudinwa kobomi okukulandelayo naphina apho uya khona, njengesithunzi sesibini esikusukele, sibonisa yonke into oyenzayo.
Ekhoyo ukudinwa.
Endaweni yokuvuka unqwenela ukuhamba, ubulisa ntsasa nganye ngengxolo emnyama yokuphelelwa lithemba. Usuku luye lwaqala, kodwa sele uqhuba ungenanto.
Ikofu, iswekile ezi-4: kuphela kwendlela onokuzishukumisa ngayo izikhwebu engqondweni yakho kwaye usebenze njengomntu 'oqhelekileyo'.
Konakele phi?
Akukho Nantsingiselo, Akukho Sizathu
Impendulo iqala ngo eyona njongo yobukho bakho .
Okanye ukungabikho kwayo okubonakalayo.
Awukaqondi ukuba wenzani apha. Oku ndifuna ukwenza apha. Uqinisekile, nangona kunjalo, ukuba le uyenzayo ngoku ayisiyiyo.
Uyalufumana ulonwabo kusuku lwakho. Awukatyibiliki ude ngokwaneleyo wehla kumthambeka omtyibilizi ukuya kwindawo evuthuzayo ingxaki ekhoyo .
Kodwa amaxesha okonwaba nolonwabo ayadlula, kwaye awanelanga kukushiya ngokunentsingiselo wanelisekile.
Ukugxininiswa kwentsingiselo kwenzelwe. Le yeyona crux yokungabikho kwamandla.
Ufumana amandla esondlo ngokwaneleyo suku ngalunye, kodwa awufumani mandla ngokwaneleyo ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo. Kwaye ke, uziva ikhutshiwe ngonaphakade .
Njengokuba usitya ukutya ukondla iivenkile zeswekile, amanqatha, kunye nezinye iibhloko zokwakha zomzimba wakho, kuya kufuneka usebenzise uhlobo olufanelekileyo lwamava obomi ukongeza isitya sakho somoya.
La mava ahlukile kuye ngamnye wethu, kodwa agcwele ngentsingiselo. Yile ntsingiselo esivusayo ebuthongweni bethu.
Intsingiselo sisibaso somphefumlo, umoya, nantoni na ofuna ukuyibiza. Intsingiselo isinika inkuthazo yokwamkela usuku ngalunye kunye nezinto ezinokubakho.
Xa intsingiselo ingekho, kunjalo ke nenkuthazo. Xa inkuthazo ingekho, ibhetri yakho ekhoyo iyaphelelwa kancinci de unyanzelwe kwimowudi yamandla asezantsi.
Kule meko, iinkqubo ezingabalulekanga ziyacinywa. Awusenakho ukugcina inqanaba lokulumkisa, ukucinga kwakho kunye nobuchule zithathwa ngaphandle kweintanethi, kwaye ukuthanda kwakho kunikwe amandla.
Usuka ekuphumeleleni, uye ekusindeni.
Iimpawu
Ukudikwa okungapheliyo kulandela. Ngaphandle kwamandla engqondo, iimvakalelo zakho ziyadanjiswa. Ngaphandle kwala maxesha amafutshane okonwaba akhankanywe apha ngasentla, bonke ubukho bakho bungento yanto, bungonwabisi, bumdaka.
Ixesha liphawula ngokuthe chu, kwaye ufumanisa ukuba unqwenela imizuzu kunye neeyure kude nje ukufikelela kubunono bokulala okanye ukuphumla kwimpelaveki.
Ujonge iminyaka esemva kwakho kwaye ungaziva ungaphumeleli. Uphosa amehlo akho kwikamva kwaye awuboni nto ngaphandle kokuchitha amandla.
Ixesha, kubonakala ngathi, alibalulekanga konke konke.
kutheni etsala xa esiwa eluthandweni
Ukuba uyasebenza, uqala ukwenza iimpazamo ezincinci ezingenangqondo kuba awukwazi ukugxila. Awunikeli ngokuzithandela kwimisebenzi kwaye ulilele ithamsanqa lakho xa wabelwe wena.
Uzama ukubaleka ngokwenza ubuncinci obungenanto efunekayo kuwe ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungagxothwa.
Inkangeleko yakho yomzimba iyatshintsha: amehlo akho aphulukana nentlantsi, kuvela izangqa ezimnyama ngaphantsi kwawo, amagxa akho awile, uye wagoba kwaye walala, ulusu lwakho luba mfiliba.
Amajoni akho omzimba aba buthathaka kwaye uhlala ugula, nto leyo ebangela ukuba uziphathe kakubi.
Uqala ukubuza yonke into.
Ngaba buza kuba njalo ubomi bam? Ngaba ayikho enye into esinokukhangela phambili kuyo? Ngaba ndimiselwe ukuziva ngale ndlela ngonaphakade?
Ndi…? Kufuneke ndi…? Ungathini ukuba…? Kutheni ndi…? Ikhona i…?
Ingqondo yakho ikhangela isisombululo. Ufuna unyango kunyango lwakho.
Ukhangela kanzima, enyanisweni, kangangokuba unegalelo kwinto yakho yokudinwa. Unxiba ingqondo yakho ngokuhamba kwizangqa, ubuza imibuzo efanayo kaninzi.
Unqwenela ukuthuthuzelwa yimpendulo, kodwa kunqabile ukuba kufike enye.
unxibelelana njani nomyeni ongazukuvuma
Ulwalamano lwakho luqala ukubandezeleka. Ukudinwa kwakho kunye nokungabikho komdla kuyo nantoni na kubeka uxinzelelo lokwenyani kunxibelelwano olwenzileyo nabanye.
Awusekho Ndifuna ukwenza nantoni na kuba awunawo nje amandla.
Uninzi lweencoko zibonakala ngathi ziyinkcitha yokuphefumla ukuze kungabikho nto ixoxayo ngaphandle kobushushu obungenangqondo bobomi.
Uqala ukufumana inkampani yezinja, iikati kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezonwabisayo ngakumbi kunabantu. Ubamonela ukungakhathali kwabo.
Ubona umsinga ongapheliyo wezithuba kwimithombo yeendaba zosasazo lwentlalo kwaye uyarhona. Izigidi zezinto ezinqamlezileyo zincinci zixinene kunye- ngaba bubomi obo malunga nabo?
Uyazenzela amayeza ngotywala, iziyobisi, ukutya, kunye nomabonakude, onokucima inkampani yakhe kuye ngokupheleleyo. Nantoni na enokuthomalalisa ingqondo yakho ediniweyo.
Kuya kufuneka uyitshaje kwakhona. Kodwa kanjani?
Ukuvuselela umphefumlo wakho
Endaweni yokuhlaziya umyalezo omnye kwakhona, ndingathanda ukukukhomba kwezinye iiposti apha kwiA Conscious Rethink.
Kuzo, sigubungela izihloko ezinxibelelana ngokusondeleyo nokudinwa okukhoyo kunye nomnqweno wokufumana intsingiselo.
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Ezi zithuba ziqulathe izifundo ezininzi ezingenakubalwa kunye neengcebiso ezisebenzayo malunga nendlela yokuzikhupha kwislump sakho.
Kodwa nantsi enye.
Funda. Mamela. Bukela. Funda.
Awunguye umntu wokuqala ukuba uzive uphelelwe ngamandla kwaye ungazixakekisi. Awuyi kuba ngowokugqibela.
Ukuqonda indawo yakho kweli hlabathi kunye nokwenza utshintsho olululo ebomini bakho yinkqubo ende, kwaye oyifunayo iqabane lakho.
Vumela iincwadi ( Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ), Iipodcast, iintetho, iintetho, amanqaku eemagazini, kunye nazo zonke ezinye iintlobo zolwazi.
Thatha impilo yakho engqondweni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya. Zondle ngezifundo kunye nenkuthazo yabanye. Yondla umphefumlo wakho.
Kancinci, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kubona amanqanaba akho amandla enyuka kunye nenkuthazo yakho ibuya.
Kwaye xa uziva uphila ngakumbi, sukumisa ukutya. Umzimba wakho, ingqondo kunye nomoya konke kufuna ukondla yonke imihla.
Yenza oku kukuzibophelela kobomi bonke.
Khumbula: inyathelo lokuqala lelona linzima. Uziva wophukile ngoku, kwaye oku kubonakala njengenye nje inkcitho yexesha.
Akunjalo. Ndithembe.
Shinsuke nakamura vs john cena
Inyathelo ngalinye liya kukunika amandla okuthatha elilandelayo, kunye nelilandelayo, kunye nelilandelayo.
Sele uqalile. Qhubeka uhamba.