Sonke siyabazi abantu ababonakala ngathi bahlekisa ngalo lonke ixesha. Endaweni yokuba ziibhola zoxinzelelo ezihlala zibaleka zibaleka njengeenkukhu ezingenantloko, aba bantu bazolile, babanda, kwaye babonakala ngathi bonwabela ubomi kakhulu kunabasebenzi abanoxinzelelo.
… Ke yintoni abayenzayo ngokwahlukileyo kunathi sonke?
Izinto ezininzi, enyanisweni, kwaye uninzi lwazo kunokuba lula kakhulu ukuzibandakanya kwindlela ophila ngayo kunokuba ubucinga.
1. Babeka Ukuzinakekela Kuqala
Abantu abazolile kwaye bekhululekile ixesha elininzi bayazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzinakekela kuqala.
Asinakukhathalela omnye umntu ukuba asizinyamekeli, kwaye uninzi lwethu luphela ikhutshiwe ngokupheleleyo kwaye siphelile ngenxa yokuba sinikela kakhulu kunokuba siphela sizalisa.
Abantu abonwabileyo benza inqaku lokulala ngokwaneleyo, ukutya ngendlela efanelekileyo, kunye nokuzikhathalela-ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Banokuba nokuziqhelanisa ngokomoya rhoqo, okanye bafune iingcebiso xa kufuneka, okanye balandele irejimeni ethile yokutya elungele iimfuno zabo. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, bakhathalela ukuzinyamekela.
Cinga xa ukwinqwelomoya kwaye abagadi beenqwelomoya bekuxelela ukuba ubeke eyakho imaski yeoksijini ngaphambi kokunceda omnye umntu kwezabo: yenza loo mkhuba kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi.
Khathalela isiqu sakho kuqala, ke ngoko uya kuba nakho ukukhathalela abanye.
2. Abangakhoboka kwiifowuni zabo
Awuyi kubafumana aba bantu bejonga iifowuni eziphathwayo rhoqo kwimizuzwana embalwa ukuze babone ukuba baphoswa sisicatshulwa esibaluleke kakhulu, kwaye abayi kuchitha isiqingatha sencoko yakho kunye nawe besebenzisa ukutya kwabo kwe-Instagram.
Kubo, ifowuni yindlela yonxibelelwano, kwaye ayikho kwinceba yakhe wonke umntu ofuna ukubabamba.
Iifowuni eziphathwayo ziluncedo olumangalisayo, kodwa zikwanika abantu imbono ephosakeleyo yokuba uyafumaneka kubo nanini na befuna. Oku akunampilo, ngakumbi xa kuziwa emsebenzini (jonga inqaku elingezantsi ukucacisa koku).
Abantu abaphumle ngokwenyani bahlala bevala iifowuni zabo xa bebuya emsebenzini, okanye ubuncinci, iyure okanye ezimbini ngaphambi kokulala.
Banokuba benza ntoni endaweni yokujonga iifowuni zabo? Bafunda. Okanye yenza iyoga. Okanye bathethe neentsapho zabo.
Uyazi, ngokwenene izinto zabantu ezingabandakanyi ukukhangela kwizikrini.
iimpawu zokutsala amadoda emsebenzini
3. Baseka iMida esempilweni
Ngaba ukhe umqeshi wakho akubhalele into ezinzulwini zobusuku ukuze ugqibe ukukhathazeka de kube kusasa?
Okanye ngempelaveki, ulindele ukuba wenze into ngentsasa yangoMvulo?
Okanye mhlawumbi unesihlobo esikwazisa ukuba baya kudlula ngeX ixesha, kunokuba bakubuze ukuba kulungile?
Akukho nanye kuloo nto ilungile.
Yintoni abantu abaninzi ekubonakala ngathi bayilibele kukuba zizidalwa ezizimeleyo ezingekho kwinceba yabanqwenelekayo nabafunayo.
Abo bazolile kwaye bekhululekile ngabo babeke imida esempilweni nabanye abantu kwimida yobomi babo 'Andisebenzi ngeempelaveki, ke lento izakuhoywa xa ndibuyela eofisini,' kwaye 'Nceda ungahlali ngaphandle kokuqinisekisa nathi ukuba kulungile.'
Unelungelo lokumisela imigaqo malunga nokuba abanye abantu banxibelelana njani nawe, kwaye impilo yakho yeemvakalelo / yengqondo iya kukhula kakuhle ngenxa yoko.
4. Bayayiphepha iMidiya yokuncokola
Ngoku, imidiya yoluntu ilungile ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kodwa yeyona nto iphosakeleyo ngengqondo yakho kunye nokuba sempilweni.
Izifundo zibonise ukuba abantu abancinci banokudandatheka ngakumbi, ukuxhalaba, kunye noxinzelelo kunanini na, kwaye uninzi lwayo inento yokwenza nokuvezwa kwabo kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zemidiya yoluntu.
wafa kangaphi igoku
Abantu abachitha ixesha labo elininzi bejonga i-Facebook, i-Twitter, i-Instagram, kunye nezinye izinto ezahlukeneyo ezikwi-Intanethi bakwachitha ixesha elininzi Ukuzithelekisa nabanye , ukuziva ungonelisekanga xa kuthelekiswa nezinto abanye abantu abazithumelayo, Ndiziva ndishiyiwe xa bebona iifoto ezivela kumaqela ahlukeneyo nakwiindibano, njl.
Banokusebenza ngokwabo kwiinyanda becinga zonke iintlobo zezinto ezingenangqondo ukuba babona amaqabane abo abathandanayo benxibelelana nabanye abantu kwi-Intanethi: nokuba ayinatyala kwaphela, bacinga zonke iintlobo zokuziphatha ngokungekho semthethweni kwaye baphele ngokonakalisa ubudlelwane babo.
Buyela umva kwimidiya yoluntu. Ngokukrakra.
Zininzi izinto ezinomdla onokuzenza ngobomi bakho, kwaye uya kuziva ukhululeke ngakumbi ukuba awusoloko 'UVULEKILE', uskena ukondla ulwazi olucinga ukuba uyalufuna.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu ezi-5 zoMoya oSimahla ngokwenyani
- Izinto ezi-7 zabantu abazinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo Benza ngokwahlukileyo
- Iingcaphuno ezi-7 Malunga noXolo lwangaphakathi ukuKunceda ufumane ezakho
- Iindlela ezili-11 ezahlukileyo zokuba abantu baphendule kuxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka
- Izizathu ezili-10 zokungabuthathi kakubi ubomi
5. Bazilolonga (ngakumbi ngaphandle)
Ukuzivocavoca kwenza imimangaliso kwimpilo yakho iyonke, kwaye esona sibonelelo sayo sikhulu kukuba kunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo.
Ngapha koko, ukuhamba nje isiqingatha seyure ngemini kunokuhlisa ukuxhalaba, kunciphise ukudakumba, kunyuse amajoni omzimba, kunye nokunyusa impilo yentliziyo.
Abo bakhululeke ngokwenene bahlala behamba kakhulu, ukhe wakuphawula oko?
Banokuhamba baye emsebenzini (okanye behle ebhasini bahambe iindawo zokugqibela ezimbalwa zokuma eofisini), okanye kwivenkile yokutya, okanye nokuba bathathe uhambo olude kunye nenja yabo.
Wakhe wambona umntu ohamba nenja oxinezelekile? Ngokunyaniseka?
Bahlala bencuma, kwaye ngesizathu esivakalayo: baphume kumoya omtsha, behambisa imizimba yabo, bebona imithi neentyatyambo kunye ne-SUNSHINE… kwaye bangajongi iifowuni zabo ngalo lonke ixesha.
(Sikhankanye ukubeka ifowuni yakho phantsi, akunjalo? Ukuphinda uyiphinde loo nto.)
Ukuzivocavoca ukudibanisa ukuhamba komzimba kunye nokucamngca, njenge-tai chi okanye i-yoga, kunenzuzo enkulu. Ngokwenyani bashenxisa amandla amabi emzimbeni wakho, bakushiye usemhlabeni, 'ungatyibilikanga,' kwaye ukhululeke ngakumbi emva kweseshoni.
6. Bayazixabisa Izinto 'Ezincinci', Okwangoku
Bangaphi kuthi abadlayo ngelixa sisebenza, okanye ngelixa sibukele iTV? Bangaphi kuthi abahlukeneyo kwimisebenzi emininzi kangangokuba silibale ukuba kunjani gxila ngokwenene Umsebenzi omnye, okanye ukunandipha isidlo?
Abantu abazolile kwaye bezolile bayazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ubekhona, ngalo mzuzu , kwaye uthathe ixesha lokonwaba ngokwenene kwizinto ezintle ebomini.
Oku kunokuba lula njengokuzonwabisa ngecephe linye le-ayisikhrim ngexesha ledessert, okanye ukubhabha kulonwabo olupheleleyo lokuhlamba okushushu emva kosuku olude.
7. Bayonwaba ngeZithintelo ezingalindelekanga
Aba bantu bayazi ukuba i-sh * t iza kubetha fan ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye balungile kuloo nto.
izinto zokwenza ne-bff yakho
Ingxelo yabo yokujongana nobunzima bobomi yi-100 yepesenti ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye nokuba kukho into ehamba kakubi, banokuyiphatha. Zizo ukomelela .
Ngenxa yale nto, bayazi ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuzixinzelela kwi-lathers malunga nantoni na: akukho nto abangakwaziyo ukuyiphatha, kutheni ke udidekile?
8. Babusondela kuBomi ngokuQiniseka nokuBulela
Abantu abakhululeke ngakumbi ngabo baseluxolweni neziqu zabo.
Abazami ukuba yinto abangayiyo, kodwa endaweni yoko bahlala kwiNyaniso yabo yobuqu, banxibe ngendlela ebenza bonwabe, kwaye bazingqonge nabanye ababathandayo nabahloniphayo njengokuba benjalo.
Ukuphila iNyaniso enje kukhuthaza umlinganiselo omkhulu wombulelo. Akukho nto ithathwa njengesiqhelo , kwaye bazakuthatha ixesha ukuxabisa ngenene yonke into abanombulelo ngayo ebomini, nokuba liqela elixineneyo ubahlobo abasenyongweni , usapho oluxhasayo, imoto esebenza ngendlela efanelekileyo, okanye nokuba kukutya okumnandi.
Yonke into ibalulekile ngendlela yayo, kwaye bayayazi le nto… kwaye baye baqonda ukuba ulonwabo olukhulu lunokufumaneka phantse kuyo yonke indawo, ukuba bangathatha nje umzuzwana bakuqaphele kwaye bakuxabise.
