Thina ngokwenene Ndicebisa ukuba uzame le hypnosis elula ekhokelwa njengoko inokusebenza ngokukunceda uzive uqinisekile ngakumbi ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakho.
Ukuba uluhlobo lomntu owoyikayo imihla yokuzalwa kunokuba ujonge kubo ...
…AWUKHO wedwa.
Ngapha koko, le mpendulo ixhaphake kangangokuba kubhekiswa kuyo njenge- 'blues blues.'
Endaweni yokwenza izicwangciso zokuzonwabisa, unokuzibona uxinezelekile kwaye uxhalabile malunga nomyinge ozayo, kwaye woyike naluphi na uhlobo lokubhiyozela malunga nalo.
Olo mpendulo lusebenza ngokupheleleyo, kunjalo, kodwa lunokutsala ngokwenene.
Ukuba ungathanda ukutshintshela iigesi kwaye uqale ukonwaba ngakumbi ngomhla wakho wokuzalwa, kulungile: ukugxila kwithemba lakho kunokuba luncedo kwaye kuphilise ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi.
Makhe sijonge ezinye zezizathu zokuba ungathiya imihla yokuzalwa, kunye nendlela yokubetha iiblues ezinxulumene nazo.
1. Uxinezelekile ngenxa yokuguga.
Xa ndandineminyaka engama-30 ubudala, ndafumana ikhadi elivela kumhlobo wam elalisithi: “ Siyavuyisana ngokusondela konyaka ekufeni. '
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Ndinoburharha obuhle, ke ngoko ndakwazi ukuyihleka, kodwa ibeke into yokuthambisa umzuzwana ngalo mhla.
Asinakuze sazi ukuba sishiye ixesha elingakanani, kwaye imihla yokuzalwa izikhumbuzo zobomi obudlulayo.
Abanye abantu badandatheka nyhani malunga nemihla yokuzalwa kuba bayazi kakuhle inkqubo yabo yokwaluphala. Uluntu lwethu lulungisa ubuhle bobutsha, amandla, kunye nesithembiso, kwaye yonke imihla yokuzalwa ibonakala ngathi ithatha inyathelo elinye kude nembono yethu yobungqongqo.
Kulabo babeka ukubaluleka kakhulu kwinkangeleko nakwiziphiwo zomzimba, oku kunokuba yingozi.
Oko kwathethi, ukuguga yinxalenye yobomi, kwaye kungcono ukwenza uxolo naloo nto kunokuba nexhala kunye nokucaphuka kokungenakuphepheka.
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Endaweni yokujonga ukuba zingaphi iintsuku ezidlulileyo ebomini bakho, zama ukuhlala ukhona kwaye uzinze.
Cinga ngazo zonke izinto ezimangalisayo okhe wahlangabezana nazo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwaye yonke imihla lilithuba lokonwabela ukoyikeka okungakumbi.
Akukho namnye kuthi owaziyo ukuba zingaphi iintsuku eziseleyo. Nokuba ujika i-25, 40, 70, okanye i-100, suku ngalunye sisipho.
Nceda uzame ukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku, kwaye uyayixabisa yonke into encinci ngomdla omkhulu kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Sela iijusi yakho yase-orenji kusasa kwiglasi ye-champagne. Nxiba loo mpahla yangaphantsi imangalisayo ijingxela ngasemva kwidrowa, isephepheni lokusonga.
Qhekeka uvule loo bhotile yewayini ubuyigcinele umsitho okhethekileyo, kuba uyazi ntoni? Yonke imihla sisiganeko esikhethekileyo, usuku lokuzalwa okanye hayi.
2. Awukuthandi ukuba liziko lokuqwalaselwa.
Ukuba ungumngenisi, ngequbuliso ukungqongwa ngabasebenzi abalindileyo abacula 'usuku lokuzalwa olumnandi' kuwe phezulu emiphungeni yabo kunokuba yinto ebuhlungu ngokupheleleyo.
Kuyafana nokuba inqununu yakho yenze isibhengezo malunga ne-PA Inkqubo, okanye umphathi wakho ebhengeza kuye wonke umntu ukuba lusuku lwakho olukhethekileyo.
Oku kuyaqondakala ngokupheleleyo, kwaye akufuneki uzive unyanzelekile ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwimeko ekwenza uzive ungonwabanga!
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Yenze icace gca kubo bonke abaqeshi, abantu osebenza nabo, izihlobo, kunye namalungu osapho ukuba awonwabanga ngokwamatheko angalindelekanga, ucula iitelegram, okanye enye into abanokuza nayo.
Cacisa gca malunga nenyaniso yokuba lo ngumda owomeleleyo ongafanelekanga ukuba uwele.
Kwakhona thintela ukwazisa nabani na ukuba usuku lwakho lokuzalwa luphi. Ukuba bayabuza, vuka okanye uyile. 'Ndazalwa mhla inyanga yancamisa isibhakabhaka okokuqala' okanye into. Ukuba babuza umqondiso wakho weenkwenkwezi ukuzama ukufumanisa? 'Ingcuka ye-Unicorn.'
Unokwala / unqande iimeko zentlalo kwiveki engaphambi nasemva komhla wokuzalwa kwakho xa kukho umntu ogqiba ekubeni aqhubeke enze into engaqhelekanga.
3. Uziva ngathi khange ufeze ngokwaneleyo kunyaka ophelileyo.
Abantu abaninzi bazibekela iinjongo zonyaka othile- njengokukwenza Izigqibo zonyaka omtsha - kwaye bazimisele ukunamathela kubo le ixesha.
Kodwa ubomi buyenzeka, kwaye ezo njongo zinokubekwa kwisitya sangasemva, njengoko izinto zokuqala eziphambili zivela.
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Xa usuku lokuzalwa lukabani lujikeleza, sisikhumbuzo esibukhali sokuba ixesha elininzi lidlulile, kwaye asikayifezekisi into ebesiyifuna. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba singawukratshi umphezulu.
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Le yiVirgo yam enyukayo inyuka okomzuzwana, kodwa ngokunyaniseka? Yenza uluhlu.
Bhala phantsi zonke izinto ezintle ezenzeke kuwe kunyaka ophelileyo.
Ungaze uzihoye izinto ozifezileyo (nangona uzive ukhululekile ukongeza ezo nazo), kodwa gxila kakhulu kumava amnandi owafumanayo.
Cinga ukuphuma nayo yonke ngaphandle ibhodi yombono , ukuba oko kubhenela kuwe. Ngokukrakra, phuma amakishayo kunye nokuqaqamba kwaye wenze oku kuyilo lubalaseleyo.
Ngoku, bhala / zobe zonke izinto ezintle ezikwenze wancuma.
Iincwadi ozifundileyo, iimuvi obuzithandayo, izidlo ezimnandi obuzilungisile.
Ufumene ukuncoma okuhle ebantwini? Bhala phantsi ezo zinto.
Ngaba wenze abahlobo abatsha? Nako usiya.
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo unamava amnandi ukusukela kumhla wokuzalwa kwakho, kwaye ngoku lixesha lokubaxabisa ngokwenene. Umbulelo unokuhamba ngendlela ende ukuphucula imeko yakho kunye nokujonga ngokubanzi!
Ke uza kuthini ukuba awuyifezekisanga le okanye le njongo usaphumelela iLOT, kwaye into oyenzileyo yeyona ibaluleke kakhulu.
4. Uziva ulilolo kwaye ungathandwa.
Kubantu abasokolayo ngobuhlobo kunye nolunye ulwalamano olusondeleyo, ukuhlaselwa kwemibuliso enganyanisekanga kunokubangela ukudakumba nokudakumba.
Abantu abangawenzi nzame zokunxibelelana nezinye iintsuku ezingama-364 zonyaka bavele bayitsalele umnxeba ngesigwebo esibuhlungu kuFacebook, kwaye ukuphela kwayo.
Abanye abantu banokukhetha ngenene ukuba abahlobo abambalwa abasondeleyo babathatha ukuba baye kutya nabo, okanye benze enye into eyonwabisayo kunye. Kodwa ukuba akukho mntu wenza iinzame, akukho mntu ude athumele ikhadi, elinokwenza umntu azive elilolo kwaye engathandwa.
Kungaba kubi nangakumbi ukuba umntu uzenzela izicwangciso zepati yokuzalwa kwakhe kwaye akukho mntu uvelayo. Oko kuhamba ngaphaya kokudanisa ukuya kwintshabalalo, kunye nehlazo.
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Thatha nawaphi na amanyathelo afunekayo ukwenza olu suku lube malunga wena .
Bhukisha iintsuku ezimbalwa emsebenzini, hlala kwimithombo yeendaba, mhlawumbi uye kwi-spa okanye wenze indawo yokucamngca.
Gcina ukutya okuthandayo, cima ifowuni yakho, uchithe ixesha kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya, iimovie ezimangalisayo, itshokholethi eshushu… nantoni na ekwenza wonwabe.
Musa ukuxhomekeka kwabanye abantu ukuba bakuzisele uvuyo namhlanje. Endaweni yoko, zibeke phambili kwaye ugcwalise usuku lwakho ngokukhanya kunye nokuzikhathalela.
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5. Uziva unyanzelekile ukubhiyozela, nokuba awufuni.
Kuyacaphukisa ngokwenene xa abanye abantu belindele ukuba uziphathe ngendlela ethile xa ungafuni kwaphela.
Imihla yokuzalwa inobundlobongela ngale nto, kuba uninzi lwabantu luyonwaba malunga nolwabo, kwaye unethemba lokuba nawe uza kwenjenjalo.
Ukuba awunamdla wokuzonwabisa kunye neziyunguma ezinxilisayo, izihlobo zakho kunye namalungu osapho anokukunika ubunzima ngako.
Kumnandi ukuba baveze ukonwaba kwabo kwabanye kwaye bafuna ukwenza izinto ezithandekayo… kodwa ukuba izicwangciso zakho zokuzalwa zijikeleze kukutya iipopu kwindawo yokuhlambela kunye nokuzinkcinkca-ngokubukela umboniso weNetflix, ke kufuneka bayihloniphe loo nto.
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Ukuba isiyunguma esinyanzelekileyo yinto oyoyikisayo, yenze kwangaphambili uyenze icace kwabanye ukuba ufuna ukuchitha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa uwedwa kulo nyaka.
Ukuba banokukunika nayiphi na intlungu malunga nayo, ungaya kuyo yonke into yokomoya kwaye uthi usebenzisa eli thuba lokucamngca kunye nokunxibelelana nomntu ophakamileyo okanye into.
Wamkelekile ukwenza loo nto, kunjalo, kodwa ukhuthazwa ngokupheleleyo ukuba wenze nasiphi na isizathu esifunekayo sokugxila kukuzinakekela endaweni ye-karaoke kunye neefotyi.
6. Unosizi lokuba iminqweno yokuzalwa edlulileyo ayizalisekanga.
Abanye abantu banethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokuba iminqweno yabo yokuzalwa izaliseke. Abanye… hayi kakhulu.
Abantu abaninzi banethemba lokuba umlingo wokuzalwa uya kunceda ukubonakalisa iminqweno yabo ibe yinyani, kwaye kuyadanisa ngokwenene xa loo minqweno isilela ukuzaliseka.
… Ingakumbi xa isenzeka unyaka nonyaka.
Into onokuyenza malunga noku:
Yeka ukulangazelela, qalisa ukutshisa.
Kwakhona, endaweni yokungazithembi kwaye unethemba lokuba amandla athile omlingo aya kunceda ekwenzeni amaphupha akho abe yinyani, thatha inyathelo lokuwenza azalisekise.
Unamandla amakhulu kunye nobuchule ezandleni zakho: zisebenzise zonke, zisebenze ngakumbi , kwaye uzazise ngokwakho nakweyiphi na indlela ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe!
Ungumbhali webali lakho, kwaye zonke iinjongo zakho, amaphupha akho, njl. Zisesandleni sakho ukufikelela, okanye ukufezekisa.
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M kulula-Gcina ijenali okanye usetyenziso lwe-SmartPhone ukuze ungene kwimigudu kwaye ikugcine usendleleni.
UKUYA ifumaneka - Yenze inyani, kwaye wenze amanyathelo amancinci anokufikeleleka ukukunceda ufike apho.
R ilunge-Qiniseka ukuba le yinjongo oyifunayo ngokwenene, kwaye inokufezekisa ngokuchanekileyo.
T ime-esekwe-Setha ixesha elibekiweyo lokuzabalazela, kuba oku kuyakukhuthaza
Nantoni na ongathanda ukuyifumana, ungayenza. Kuya kuthatha ixesha, kunye nomzamo, kodwa unayo ngaphakathi kwamandla akho ukuyifumana.
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