Zama ukuba ungabi yindoda yempumelelo. Endaweni yokuba yindoda enexabiso. -Albert Einstein
Ngaba ukhe waqaphela ukuba kukho inani elothusayo lemiboniso bhanyabhanya kunye neefilimu ezijikeleza abantu abaya kwiintlanganiso zabo zamabanga aphakamileyo?
Kuphantse kube ngathi ubomi babo ekuhlaleni buphakamile xa babenendawo yabo inqabileyo kwaye inzima kakhulu, kwaye babuya ishumi leminyaka kamva ukubonisa wonke umntu ukuba enomtsalane kwaye baphumelele baye baba.
Kukho izinto ezingenakuphepheka malunga nabantu abaye bema kwiindima ezithile, okanye abantu abangaphantsi abaye ngokukhawuleza bakhangeleka kwaye bazizityebi kwaye badumile.
Kodwa kusoloko kukho olo khuphiswano kunye nokuma okukodwa: ukubonisa ukuba kufikelelwe okanye kufezekisiwe kangakanani.
Abo bafumene ubutyebi nodumo bayanconywa, ngokungathi ngandlela thile bazikhulule kubukrakra bobutsha babo.
… Ngaba yimpumelelo ngenene leyo, nangona kunjalo?
ndinazo iimvakalelo ngaye?
Ngaba lowo ngumgangatho esifanele ukuba sizibambe kuwo xa kufikwa kubomi obuphila kakuhle?
Ngaba uphila ubomi obunenjongo?
Ukuba wenza into oyithandayo, kwaye wenza umahluko (nangona ukhetha ukuyichaza loo nto), ke unjalo ukuhlala no injongo .
Ukuba wenza i-crap-ton yemali, kodwa unayo uxinzelelo yonke imihla kusasa ngaphambi kokufaka umsebenzi owuthandayo, zibuze: yimpumelelo leyo?
Cinga ukuba zingaphi iiyure ngeveki ochitha kuzo usebenza, kwaye ucinga ukuba ukuba awugaleli ezo yure emsebenzini ukuba uyakuthanda, bubungakanani bobomi bakho obulahliweyo.
Ngenxa yantoni, ngokuchanekileyo?
Imoto oza kuyibhatala iminyaka elishumi? Indlu ongazange ungene kuyo kuba usebenza ngalo lonke ixesha?
Ukuba ufumanise ukuba uneminyaka emihlanu kuphela ukuba uphile, ungafuna ukwenza ntoni ngeli xesha ushiyekileyo?
Nokuba injani impendulo yakho, inokuba inento yokwenza nomsebenzi KUFUNEKA ukuba uyayenza… impumelelo ekufuneka ujonge kuyo.
Liliphi Ilifa Olushiyayo?
Xa ilixesha lokuba uphume kwinqanaba elishiyekileyo (ngethemba lokuba alilandelwa ziibhere), luhlobo luni lwesiphumo esingapheliyo ongathanda ukusishiya ngasemva?
Ngawaphi amaqhakuva onqwenela ukuba ingqalutye yakho yobomi ibangele?
Kumntu omnye, ukuphila ubomi obunempumelelo kuthetha ukushiya ngasemva ubutyebi kunye nepropathi eyoneleyo yokuba abantwana babo kunye nabazukulwana baya kuba nakho ukuphila ngokuthozama, ubomi obungenaxinzelelo obunobunzima kunokuba babephila.
Kwenye, inokuba banikele ngemali eninzi kangangoko kwizikhululo zezilwanyana nakumaziko okuvuselela.
Ukanti omnye unokuthathela ingqalelo ubomi babo bephila kakuhle ukuba babekwazi ukunceda abanye bahlakulele ukungazinamathiseli kwaye uxolo olukhulu lwangaphakathi kwimeko yokomoya.
Ngokwenene, elona lifa likhulu sinokushiya yimpembelelo esinayo kubomi babanye, babantu okanye abangahambiyo.
Umntu otyale amawaka emithi wenze igalelo kwintlalo-ntle yomhlaba, kwaye umntu othe wanxiba iminqwazi efudumeleyo yeentsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha usindise ubomi obungenakubalwa.
Elinye lamanyathelo ethu ngenene linempembelelo efanayo nelitye elilahliweyo echibini, elinamaqhuqhuva aphumela ngaphandle ngaphaya koko besinokukucinga ekuqaleni.
Umntwana omncedisayo ukuba axhase ilizwe eliphuhlisayo ukuze afumane imfundo anokukhula abe sisayensi okanye injineli, kwaye enze umahluko omkhulu kumawaka, nakwizigidi zobomi babantu.
Abantu abadala abahlanganisene ndawonye ukulima ukutya kwizitiya zoluntu banokunceda ukondla abantu abangenamakhaya, okanye abasetyhini kunye nabantwana kwiindawo zokufihla intloko, babaleke ukuphathwa gadalala, okanye iimbacu ezintsha kwilizwe, bebaleka izinto ezoyikisayo zemfazwe.
Ngawaphi amatye omthi owaphosayo?
kutheni izibini ziqhekeka zibuye zibuyelene
Leliphi ifuthe ofuna ukulenza emhlabeni?
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Ngaba UkwiNdlela Ekhokelela Kuxolo Nolonwabo?
Abantu abaninzi baziva ngathi benze into ngempumelelo ukuba ibikhathaza ngokupheleleyo, kwaye bayifumene ngokugula nokuzincama.
Cinga ngebhinqa eliselula elalifumana isidanga somthetho, kodwa lafumana ingxaki yokutya, ukukhubazeka kukothuka, i-TMJ ekutshixiziseni amazinyo ebuthongweni bayo ngenxa yoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo kunye noxinzelelo, kunye nesilonda.
Ewe, ufumene isidanga somthetho, ke waphumelela kuloo nto… kodwa isiphelo kukuba wayengakwazi ukuwenza umthetho ngenxa yempilo enkenenkene nengqondo.
Endaweni yoko, waya e-Itali waya e-Italiya, wathabatha izifundo ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo zokupheka kunye nokubhaka ukumnceda ukuba aphile kwisifo sakhe sokutya, kwaye waqalisa ikhondo elitsha lokubhaka isonka.
imiqondiso akazukuphinda aqhathe
Ngaba ungamthatha njengophumeleleyo?
Njengomntu otyayo, wenza iqhezu lemali ebeyenzile njengegqwetha. Lo msebenzi awunakuthathwa njengodumileyo ngabaninzi, kwaye abanye banokumjonga ngendelelo kuba esenza 'umsebenzi ophantsi' wezandla.
Kodwa wonwabe ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Usebenza ngezandla zakhe, esenza ukutya ukuze abanye abantu bonwabe, kwaye ukuxolela intlama kufana nokucamngca ngokwasemzimbeni kuye.
Isonka esishiyekileyo ekupheleni kosuku sinikelwa kwibhanki yokutya yalapha, kwaye xa ezisa izinto ekhaya azibhakileyo ukuze abelane ngazo nosapho, bayancuma kwaye bayambulela kuba oko abelana nabo kumnandi, kwaye kulungisiwe uthando.
Olu luxolo, ulonwabo. Yi le impumelelo yakhe.
Ungayilinganisi njani impumelelo
Amajelo osasazo aqinisa uluvo lokuba impumelelo ilinganiswa nokuba zingakanani 'izinto' okwazileyo ukuziqokelela.
Ukuba unayo itoni yemali ebhankini, nxiba iimpahla zoyilo, ube nendlu enkulu, kwaye uqhube imoto entle.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye abantu banokulinganisa inqanaba labo lempumelelo ngeakhawunti yabo yebhanki okanye iimfumba zezinto eziqokelelweyo, kodwa kwenzeka ntoni ukuba kwaye nini oko kumka ngesiquphe?
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba indlu yakho iyatsha okanye ngequbuliso ujongile, ushiyeke ungenamali.
yintoni umzekelo wokukhanyisa ngegesi
Ngaba awusenguye umntu ophumeleleyo?
Yintoni ekufuneka uyibonisile ebomini bakho ukuba 'izinto' zakho ziyanyamalala?
Endaweni yokulinganisa impumelelo yobomi bakho zizinto ezininzi ozilawulayo ozigcinayo, cinga ukulinganisa impumelelo yakho ngokuthi bangaphi abanye abantu abanokuphila ubomi obonwabisayo, obungcono ngenxa yezenzo zakho.
Musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye, Okanye kuwe X Isixa seXesha eliDlulileyo
Awunguye laa mntu wawuyiyo kwiveki ephelileyo, masiyeke kwiminyaka emihlanu okanye elishumi eyadlulayo.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba ukwazi ukwenza izinto ezifanayo namhlanje owazenzayo ngelo xesha, kwaye loo mntu emva koko wayengenabo ubulumko kunye namava onawo ngoku.
Asinakuze sizithelekise nomnye umntu, kuba sonke siyatshintsha kwaye siyaguquka.
Inkcazo yakho yempumelelo kufuneka ibe njengamanzi kwaye iguquke njengokuba unjalo, njengoko iimeko zobomi zinokutshintsha kwi-dime, kwaye kuphela ngokuziqhelanisa nokuhamba nezinto esinokuthi sikhule ngokwenene.
Namhlanje, impumelelo kuwe inokuthetha ukugqiba isidanga, okanye ukwakha indlu wedwa.
Kwiminyaka emihlanu ukusukela ngoku, impumelelo inokuboniswa ngokuphumelela ngempumelelo ukulima iziqhamo, okanye ukubukela umntwana wakho efunda ukuhamba.
Ezinye izimvo zabantu malunga nokuba uyaphumelela okanye awuphumelelanga azisebenzi kwaphela.
Khumbula ukuba.
Xa kuziwa kwindlela oyilinganisela ngayo impumelelo, thembeka kwiziqu zakho, kwaye uzame ukulandela iNyaniso eyiyo, nangoko unako.
Yiba khona, ukhumbule, kwaye ulinganise impumelelo ngokuncuma kwakho kangaphi, kwaye kangangexesha elingakanani ubanceda abanye bancume ngokulandelelana.
