Imvakalelo yokungabi nto yanto yahluke ngokupheleleyo kwiimvakalelo umntu amele ukuba uziva. Ihleli njengomngxunya omnyama esifubeni sakho, ngaphandle kwento ekufanele ukuba ikhona.
Ithomalalisa iimvakalelo, umdla, iminqweno, ithemba, amaphupha, kwaye inokudlulela ngaphaya koko sikulindeleyo kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga. Ukungenamsebenzi kunokutya usizi ngokulula nje njengokonwaba kunye nethemba, kukushiye uziva ulilolo kwaye ulilize.
Ukubiza ukungabinanto uvakalelo olubi kunokuziva ungachanekanga, kuba yimvakalelo eyomeleleyo, enokubambeka yento engekhoyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayiziva ilungile, kodwa isenokungaziva ingonwabanga. Akukho nje.
Unokuziva ngathi akukho nto ibalulekileyo, yonke into iyadika, okanye awunakuva naluphi na uhlobo lweemvakalelo ezinamandla.
Ngaphandle kwento engekhoyo, uvakalelo lwento eneneni yimvakalelo yokunxibelelana nento ngawe, impilo yakho, okanye indlela ophila ngayo.
Abantu zizidalwa ezikhula kakuhle kukudlamka kweemvakalelo kunye namandla eziwazisayo. Ukungabikho kwaloo mandla kunokuba nzima xa uhlala nawo rhoqo okanye ungazange ube nawo. Ukuba awuzange ufumanise ukungabi nto ngaphambili, kunokuba yinto eyothusayo ngokungavakaliyo xa ungaziva yonke into, okanye ubuncinci into.
Abantu bakhetha ukujongana noku kungabinanto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, uninzi lwabo alunampilo. Singazama ukugcwalisa loo mngxunya ngesondo, imali, ukuthenga abathengi, imidlalo yevidiyo, iziphazamiso, iziyobisi, utywala, nakwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu - ukuzenzakalisa nokuzibulala. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iintlungu zomzimba ubuncinci zisikhumbuza ukuba sisaphila, sisava… into.
Nantoni na.
Kodwa akufuneki kubenjalo. Ukungabinanto luphawu olukhomba kwingxaki enkulu umntu anokungaqondi ukuba uhlangabezana nayo.
Leyo ngxaki ayisoloko igula ngengqondo. Kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo kunye neengxaki ezinokubangela ukuziva ungento yanto.
Unobangela wokungabikho kokuyalela ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwezenzo ezinokunceda ukunciphisa le mvakalelo. Kule nqaku, siza kuqwalasela ezinye zezizathu eziqhelekileyo kunye nezinye izisombululo ezicetyiswayo zokujongana noluvo olungenanto.
Ukungabinanto kunokuba yinto enzima ukuyenza ngokwakho. Ingxaki enokuthi ijongwane kakuhle nomcebisi ngezempilo yengqondo, ngakumbi ukuba unesifo sengqondo esinokubangela ezi ntlobo zeemvakalelo. Musa ukuthandabuza ukufuna uncedo lweengcali, ngakumbi ukuba ufumana ixesha elide lokungabikho.
Yintoni ebangela ukuziva ulilolo?
1. Ukungabikho kwenjongo.
Abantu abaninzi bayasokola ekufumaneni injongo yenjongo kwindalo iphela enkulu engenamda.
Ndenza ntoni ngobomi bam? Ngaba oku kuthetha nantoni na? Ndingenza ntoni ngam?
Uloyiko olubakho ngokungabikho kwenjongo lunokubangela ukuba kungabikho nto njengoko kuvakala ngathi siphoswa yinto esimele ukuba nayo. Abanye abantu bazama ukugcwalisa ukungabinanto ngezenzo zabo, njengokwenza umsebenzi wamavolontiya okanye ukufumana umsebenzi kwicandelo elinokunceda abantu.
Ukufuna injongo ngumcimbi onomdla kuba usenokungakulungeli ukufumana injongo ethile. Kwaye asithethi ukuba kwi-abstract, uhlobo lwe-destiny yengqondo. Endaweni yokuba kunokubakho amava obomi ekufuneka uwenze kwaye nomsebenzi ekufuneka uwenzile ngaphambi kokuba injongo egcwalisekayo ucofe nawe.
Mhlawumbi ukuba ngumzali kukunika uhlobo lokufezekiswa oluya kuzalisa oko kungamampunge, kodwa ngekhe uyazi ukuba kude kube semva kokuba nomntwana. Okanye mhlawumbi yinto ejolise ngakumbi kwikhondo lomsebenzi. Mhlawumbi intliziyo kunye nengqondo yakho ziyahambelana nokuba selwandle, into ongayaziyo de ube uyahamba ngenqanawa.
Usenokuziva utsala into enokukunika inzaliseko, njengomdla oqhubekayo okanye into ethetha nawe. Oko kunokukunceda ufumane isikhokelo.
2. Intlungu, ukuswelekelwa ngumntu omthandayo.
Intlungu yindlela oziva ngayo xa uswelekelwe. Ngamanye amaxesha sinokubona ukuphela kusiza kwaye sibe nexesha lokulungiselela ngokwasemphefumlweni nasemphefumlweni. Ngamanye amaxesha sinokuphulukana nomntu esimthandayo singalindelanga. Kuhlala kukho unogumbe weemvakalelo zokujongana nokufa, nokuba akukhawulezi.
izinto onokuthetha ngazo nabahlobo bakho
Abantu abaninzi babhenela ku iimodeli zentlungu ukuzama ngcono ukuqhubekeka nokuqonda intlungu yabo ngaphandle kokuqonda iimodeli. Amanqanaba amahlanu obuhlungu yenye yezo ndlela. Oko abantu bathambekele ekuphoseni malunga nezi modeli kukuba ayingomthetho onzima kwaye okhawulezayo. Akunakwenzeka ukutyhala umda opheleleyo weemvakalelo kwibhokisi emxinwa, inyani ethi abaqulunqi beemodeli ezinjalo bathethe rhoqo ngazo.
Banokusebenza njengesikhokelo ngokubanzi. Kukho amanqanaba onokuthi ungafumani. Abanye abantu bafumana amanqanaba amaninzi ngexesha elinye. Abanye bayabhabha bajikeleza ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo xa bezililele umntu abamthandayo.
Uninzi lweemodeli zithetha 'ngokuba ndindisholo' okanye 'ukukhanyela' njengokubandakanyeka kwinkqubo yentlungu kwaye oku kungachaza ukungabi nto kwakho oziva kuko. Kungangamava anzima kuba, ngokusengqiqweni, uyazi ukuba ungaziva ulusizi kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ezininzi, kodwa awunayo kwaye kunzima ukuyilungelelanisa.
Intlungu kunye nokuzila kunzima kunokuba zibonakala. Oko kuyenza ukuba ibe licebo elilungileyo ukufuna umcebisi wentlungu. Ingcali yentlungu inokukwazi ukukunceda kwezo mvakalelo zingapheliyo kunye nokuzila.
3. Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi notywala.
Abantu abaninzi babhenela kwiziyobisi nakutywala ukuze bakwazi ukumelana neenzima zobomi babo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwemvelo ngokusela okanye ukusebenzisa izinto ezisemthethweni. Iingxaki ngenene ziqala ukuqokelela xa ezo zinto zisetyenziswa kakhulu okanye njengendlela yokunceda ukumodareyitha iimvakalelo zikabani.
Ukuzalisa ukungabikho kwento enokubakho kunokukhokelela ekubeni likhoboka, ubudlelwane obubi ngakumbi nabanye abantu, ukuphulukana nemisebenzi kunye nokutshintsha kweemeko zobomi.
Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi nako kunokukhokelela kwimicimbi eyahlukeneyo yempilo yomzimba okanye yengqondo, ngaphandle kwesifo sokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi, njengokuqaqamba kwesifo sengqondo okanye isifo sesibindi. Inokwenza imicimbi yezempilo esele ikho ibe mandundu.
Utywala baziwa njengegalelo kubantu abaneengxaki zemood, ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, kakhulu kakhulu kunabantu abangenayo. Isebenza nje ngokwahlukileyo ezingqondweni zabo kwaye inokubangela ukungazinzi ngokweemvakalelo kwaye yenze uxinzelelo lube mandundu.
Esinye sezizathu zokuba abantu basebenzise izinto ukubanceda baphile kwinto abadlula kuyo. Bakholelwa ukuba iyabanceda kuba iyabazolisa ngalo mzuzu. Ingxaki kukuba ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okwandisiweyo kunokuba neziphumo zexesha elide ezinokuthi zibe mandundu kwimicimbi yezempilo yengqondo okanye kubangele ukuba ezintsha zikhule kwixesha elizayo.
4. Uxinzelelo lwexesha elide.
Abantu abakhelwanga ukumelana noxinzelelo lwexesha elide kakuhle. Uxinzelelo lubangela ukuba kuveliswe iihormone ezahlukeneyo ukunceda umntu ukuba aphumelele kwimeko yoxinzelelo kwangoko, kodwa ezo hormone zinokubangela iingxaki ezibaluleke ngakumbi ukuba zikhona.
Uxinzelelo lwexesha elide lunokubangela ukudakumba, unxunguphalo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, i-PTSD. Abasindileyo ekuxhatshazweni ekhaya, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana, kunye nentlupheko banokuphuhlisa i-PTSD eyi-Complex, ethi ibange ukuba bangaze bafumane ikhefu kwiimeko abasinde kuzo.
Ukuphepha uxinzelelo lwexesha elide okanye ukutshintsha iimeko zokuhlala kunokunceda. Kodwa ukuba iingxaki zempilo yengqondo ziye zakhula, kuyakudinga ingcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuba iphilise kwaye ibuye kwakhona.
5. Usapho, abahlobo, okanye imiba yobudlelwane.
Abantu abasingqongileyo banefuthe elibi kwimeko yethu yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo. Ukungabinanto kunokuxhokonxwa bubundlobongela, ubudlelwane, okanye nje uxinzelelo olunokubangelwa ngabantu esibathandayo ngamanye amaxesha. Kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi ukugcina impilo yakho yengqondo xa umntu omthandayo ehlupheka okanye esenza izigqibo ezimbi.
Ubudlelwane bezothando bunokuzisa zonke iintlobo zoxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo ezinokubangela ukuba kungabikho nto. Mhlawumbi iqabane linengxaki abangaziphenduliyo. Unokuba ungavisisani kakuhle nosapho lwabo, olungumthombo woxinzelelo kunye nobunzima. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buye buphela kwaye usendleleni eya esiphelweni. Olo hlobo lokophuka kwentliziyo xa izinto zingasebenzi lungasoloko lubangela ukungakhathali.
Le micimbi inokufuna ukuba yenziwe ngokobuqu okanye ngoncedo lomcebisi ngobudlelwane. Ewe kunjalo, kukho eminye imiba ongenakukwazi ukuyilungisa, kwaye unokufuna ukuphinda uvavanye ukuba ulwalamano luphilile na ukuba uhlale kulo.
6. Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweendaba zosasazo.
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, iziphumo ezibi zokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwemithombo yeendaba zentlalo ziqala ukubonakala. Ukuqhubeka usoloko usasazwa ziindaba ezingathandekiyo kunye nokuqaqambisa ubomi babanye kubangela ukungazithembi okukhulu, ukuphazamiseka kubuntu, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye neminye imiba emininzi.
Kuyavela ukuba ayiyondibaniselwano elungileyo xa ubomi bakho bunokuba buncinci kunokugqibelela abantu abaninzi abasebenzisa imidiya yoluntu abakhetha ukuyibonisa.
Oko akubalulekanga nakwiindawo ezinamajelo eendaba ezentlalo. Iinkampani zemidiya yoluntu zibandakanya inkqubo yomvuzo we-dopamine yomntu kunye noloyiko lokuphoswa kukugcina uskrolela kukuzibandakanya kunye nokuqokelela ukuthanda.
Njengazo zonke izinto, imidiya yoluntu kufuneka isetyenziswe ngokumodareyitha ukuba iza kusetyenziswa. Uninzi kakhulu alusempilweni ngokwengqondo kwaye lunokubangela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga njengokungabi nto.
7. Imithombo yeendaba egqithisileyo kunye nemidlalo yevidiyo.
Ngokufana nemidiya yoluntu, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweendaba kunokwenza izinto ezifanayo.
Zingaphi iziqhulo okanye izingqinisiso ozivileyo ngabantu ababukele ukubukela ixesha lonk ixesha leemiboniso kwiinkonzo zokusasaza? Olo hlobo lokuziphatha alunampilo kuba lusivumela ukuba siphume siye kwinto esiyijongileyo endaweni yokujongana nobomi obuqhubekayo ngokusingqongileyo.
Olo hlobo lokuziphatha luququzelela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga njengokungabinanto, kodwa ibangela ezinye iingxaki ebomini kuba sisenokungahoyi uxanduva lwethu.
Imidlalo yevidiyo isebenza ngendlela efanayo. Kulula kakhulu ukungeniswa kumdlalo wevidiyo oyilelwe ukuba ube lixesha lokuntywila lokugcina uzibandakanya kwaye ugcine udlala rhoqo. IiMMORPGs (iMultiplayer Multiple Online RolePlaying Games) kunye neeMOBAs (Multiplayer Online Battle Arenas) ziiintlobo zemidlalo ezenzelwe ukuba ziitreadmill ezingapheliyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ziyindlela eyonwabisayo yokudlula ixesha elithile. Kodwa ukusebenzisa imidlalo yevidiyo njengokubaleka kubomi bokwenyani kunokubangela ukuba likhoboka lomdlalo wevidiyo ngendlela efanayo nomlutha wokungcakaza. Uyarhintyelwa ziziphatho ezibonakalayo zomvuzo kwaye uqhubeke ubuyela ngaphezulu.
Akukho nto igwenxa kwezi zinto ngokumodareyitha, kodwa umntu kufuneka asebenzise ukumodareyitha ukunqanda ukuyenza mandundu impilo yabo yengqondo.
8. Utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini kunye notshintsho.
Utshintsho kubomi kunye notshintsho luzisa uxinzelelo ekunokuba nzima ukujongana nalo. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kuyacwangciswa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha batyhalelwa kuthi kukuphulukana nomsebenzi, ukuphela kobudlelwane, ukutshintsha kwezindlu, okanye enye into eyenzekileyo.
Kuqhelekile ukuba ube noxinzelelo kwaye ungonwabi xa uhlangabezana notshintsho olunje, ikakhulu ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ikamva lakho likhokelela phi.
Ubume obugqithisileyo bololu tshintsho kunokubangela ukuba ingqondo yakho ifune ukuvala kunye nokuphepha uxinzelelo. Ezo mvakalelo zinokubandakanya ukungabinanto.
Ungafumanisa ukuba ukungabinanto kuyadlula emva kokuba imeko isonjululwe kwaye usiya kwenye into.
Ewe, ungaphulukana nomsebenzi, kodwa ufake ezinye izicelo kwaye udliwanondlebe ludwelisiwe. Ubudlelwane buphela, kwaye ngelishwa, kodwa kuhlala kukho ithuba lokufumana ithuba elitsha kunye nothando olungcono olufanelana nomntu okhulele kuye.
Olu tshintsho luya kudlula, kwaye uya kuyifumana indlela yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha sidinga nje ukuba nomonde omncinci ngelixa ubomi bethu buvutha bujikelezile.
9. Iinjongo ezingafezekisekanga kunye nokuzisola.
Bambalwa ubunzima obunzima kunokuba ukuzisola. Wonke umntu unento anqwenela ukuba ngewayenze ngokwahlukileyo okanye ayenze kwaphela. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu banezinto ezingaphezu kwesinye okanye ezimbini zokuzisola ngokuzola ngokuzolileyo ezingqondweni zabo.
Ukuhlala kwilixa elidlulileyo kunye neengcinga zento ebinokubakho ngokulula kunokubangela iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezinje ngokudabuka, ukuzisola, ukuzila nokungabi nanto.
Ixesha alinyangi onke amanxeba. Ngamanye amaxesha, iyabahlanganisa kwaye ibenze babe mandundu ukuba asifumananga ndlela yokujongana nabo kwaye siphilise kubo.
Oko kunokufuna uncedo lomcebisi ukufumana ukwamkelwa kwinto eyayikho kwaye engazange ibe khona ukuze ujonge phambili kwizinto ezingcono kwixesha lakho langoku nelizayo.
10. Ukuyityeshela impilo yokomoya.
Impilo yokomoya ayithethi inkolo okanye uhlobo lwenkolo yokomoya. Endaweni yoko, libinzana elisetyenziswa luluntu lwezonyango ukuchaza imo engaphathekiyo yeemvakalelo zethu.
Impilo yokomoya ibandakanya izinto ezisenza sizive siphile, sonwabile, silungile okanye sigqibelele.
Abanye abantu basebenzisa inkolo ukufumana olo hlobo lweemvakalelo, kodwa inokufumaneka nakwimisebenzi yokuzithandela, ukudala ubugcisa, ukwenza okuhle kwabanye abantu, ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obunothando, ukuphuma kwindalo, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi.
Siphila ubomi obuxakekileyo apho kuhlala kukho into ekufuneka yenziwe. Kunqabile ukuba kubonakale ngathi iiyure zanele emini ukwenza yonke into ifezekiswe. Oko kushiya ixesha elincinci lokuzonwabisa kunye nokufezekisa imeko yethu yokomoya ngaphandle kokuba sizenzele ixesha lokudlala.
Ukuzama ukuhlala usila ungapheli kungekho zikhefu, iiholide, okanye umdlalo yindlela yomlilo eqinisekileyo utshe waphela , uxinzelelo lwepetroli, kunye nokwenza into engento.
11. Imiba yonyango okanye yengqondo.
Imiba emininzi yonyango kunye nezempilo yengqondo inokubangela iimvakalelo zokungabikho - ukuphazamiseka kwemood, ukuphazamiseka komda, ukuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya, idysmorphia yomzimba, isifo sengqondo kunye nezifo zomzimba ezichaphazela iingqondo nemizimba yethu.
Ukuba akubonakali ngathi kukho nantoni na ebomini bakho kwaye uziva ungenanto, kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo ukubonisana nogqirha malunga nengxaki. Ukungabinanto kunokuba luphawu lokugula emzimbeni kunokuba kukugula ngengqondo.
Ndijongana njani nokudana okwethutyana?
Njengoko sixoxile kweli nqaku, uninzi lweengxaki ezibangela ukungabi nto ziya kuba ziiprojekthi ezinde ezifuna uhlobo oluthile loncedo lobuchwephesha. Olu lulwazi oluluncedo lokwenza utshintsho kubomi bexesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, oko akuthethi ukuba kuluncedo xa uxakeke kwezo mvakalelo ngalo mzuzu.
Makhe sijonge ezinye zeendlela zokufikelela kula maxesha asezantsi de ufumane uncedo lweengcali onokulufuna.
Fikelela kunethiwekhi yakho yenkxaso.
Unokwazi ukufumana inkxaso kunye nabahlobo bakho kunye nabantu obathandayo ngelixa uhlangabezana nale nto iphantsi.
Nangona kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu onethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba nabantu abanjalo ebomini babo. Unokufumana inkxaso kwimithombo ye-Intanethi njengamaqela eendaba ezentlalo okanye umcebisi okwi-Intanethi ukubonelela ngenkxaso yexeshana.
Kuyalinga ukufuna ukuzisonga ngokwakho xa uziva ungenanto, kodwa zama ukungavumi. Zinyanzele ukuba ufikelele kangangoko unako ebantwini owaziyo ukuba ungabathemba.
Ngumbono olungileyo ukwenza olu hlobo lwamalungiselelo ngaphambi kwexesha nomhlobo othile okanye umxhasi, nangona kunjalo. Babuze ukuba bazimisele ukukunika inkxaso ngamaxesha akho aphantsi, ukuze bazi xa izinto zinzima. Lukhetho olungcono kunokudubula imiyalezo kunye nokuva ubuye ungabikho mntu.
Bhala usuku lwakho kunye neemvakalelo.
Ijenali sisixhobo esinamandla xa sisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo. Inokukunceda ukubhala malunga neziganeko zosuku, okwenzekileyo ukuze kuvuse ubuze, kwaye uphonononge iimvakalelo zomsitho.
Ukungabinanto kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuzama ukucinezela iimvakalelo, eziyimfuneko ngamanye amaxesha ukugqiba usuku. Emva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukuchitha usuku lwakho ulila emsebenzini, ngokwenene.
Into onokuyenza kukubuya kwaye uphinde utyelele ezo mvakalelo kamva xa unexesha lakho kunye nokuzimela.
Kukho imiyalezo emininzi engenabubele yokuba 'uyifunxe' kwaye ugqithe kuyo, ngamanye amaxesha eyimfuneko. Loluphi uhlobo lwesimo sengqondo esingakhathaliyo ukukhankanya kukuba ungabuyela umva kwaye uphonononge ezo mvakalelo kamva.
Uninzi lwabantu abazivale iimvakalelo zabo ukuze bajongane nabo ababuyeli emva kwaye baphonononge kamva. Oko kunika ezo mvakalelo ixesha lokudibana kwimiba ebaluleke ngakumbi eyila kwaye igcine ukungabikho.
Cinga ngeenjongo zakho kunye nento osebenzela kuyo.
Ngaba unayo iinjongo? Ukuba akunjalo, kuya kufuneka usete ezinye iinjongo zexesha elifutshane kunye nexesha elide. Ukwazi ukuba unezinto osebenzela kuzo kunokunceda ukukhaba ukuqala iinkqubo zovakalelo ezijikeleze ezo njongo.
Ukukwazi ukutyhala kunye nokugqabhuka kwethemba okanye ukwamkelwa kokufezekisiweyo okudlulileyo kunokuba nakho ukubangela ukukhanya ngokungabinanto kancinci.
Gcina iirekhodi okanye ijenali malunga neenjongo zakho, nendlela ofuna ukufikelela ngayo, kunye nento onethemba lokufumana kuyo. Kuya kuba luncedo ukujonga ngasemva ukuze ubone ukuba ufike phi xa ufumana ixesha elinzima.
Yenza izinto obuzithanda.
Uxinzelelo, ukungabikho, kunye neemvakalelo ezingalunganga ezijikeleze ezi zinto zinokuthintela ukonwaba kwethu kwezona zinto sizithandayo.
Nokuba awukwazi ukuzonwabisa ngalo mzuzu, kunokuba luncedo ukuzibandakanya kubo nakanjani na. Lithuba lokuphinda uqhakamshelane nolonwabo kunye novuyo ongasayi kuba nalo ukuba ungena kwimisebenzi engenangqondo okanye engonelisiyo.
Yenza ezi zinto ngokumodareyitha nangokubonisa. Zama ukucinga ngento ekwenza wonwabe ngalo msebenzi.
Zama ukunqanda imisebenzi onokuyifumana ngokulula ngokulula, njengokujonga ukubukela okuthandwayo. Oko kunokukhawuleza kujike kube yinto engenangqondo ebhebhethekisa ubuze endaweni yokulwa nayo.
Funana uncedo lobungcali.
Khangela uncedo lweengcali ukuba uziva uziva ulilolo. Aziqhelekanga, kwaye aziyondlela esempilweni yokufumana amava kubomi bakho.
Ixesha elide liqhubeka, kunzima ukujongana nokuphilisa. Ukuba uyasokola okanye kubonakala ngathi awufumani sisombululo ngokwakho, akukho ntloni ukufikelela kwingcali ukuze ufumane uncedo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba kutheni uziva ungenanto ngaphakathi okanye wenzeni ngayo? Thetha kunyangi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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