How To Be Single And Happy After A Long Relationship Ends

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Ukuba kutshanje ungatshatanga emva kobudlelwane obude, sele uyazi ukuba akukho lula. Nokuba nguwe okhethe ukubuphelisa ubudlelwane, ukungatshati kunokuza njengomothuko emva ukuzibophelela emntwini ixesha elide. Kuza kubakho amaxesha owonzakalisa ngawo, amaxesha ozithandabuzayo ngawo, kunye namaxesha ongazi ukuba mawenze ntoni. I-ex yakho mhlawumbi ibinguye umntu obhekisele kuye kuyo yonke into evelileyo ebomini bakho, kwaye ngoku lo mntu akasekho. Nokuba ubukulungele okanye awukakulungeli, ubomi bakho buza kujongeka buhluke kakhulu ngoku ungatshatanga.



Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zendlela yokwenza ungatshati kwaye wonwabile emva kokuba ubudlelwane obude buphelile. Ngelixa kungekho fomula yomlingo, kukho amaqhinga ambalwa anokukunceda uqhubeke.

Zinike ixesha lokulila

Ukuyeka ubudlelwane obude kunokuba nzima. Inokuziva ngokufanayo nokufa. Inkqubo yokulila iya kusebenza ngokupheleleyo emva kokuphulukana nexesha elibalulekileyo elibalulekileyo. Ukuba uyaziphika ukuba unakho ukuya kwinqanaba ngalinye, uya kongeza ixesha lokulila. Qhubeka kwaye uzivumele ube lusizi. Khala. Isiqalekiso. Ziva zonke iimvakalelo ozifunayo kwaye ufuna ukuziva. Unokuzifumana uhamba ngokufanayo amanqanaba osizi njengawe ukuba iqabane lakho lasweleka. Musa ukukhawulezisa inkqubo. Kuthatha ixesha.



  1. Ukukhanyela - Usenokucinga ukuba ayikapheli. Kukho indlela onokuzilungisa ngayo izinto ukuze ubuye iqabane lakho. Uya kugxila kwikamva apho bobabini nibuyile kunye. Ngelishwa, unokugqibela ngokuthumela izicatshulwa zasebusuku ngokuchasene nesigqibo sakho esingcono.
  2. Umsindo -Umsindo kwi-ex yakho ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuseta emva kokuba ugqithile kwinqanaba lokukhanyela. Uya kuba nomsindo kwi-ex yakho, unomsindo kwindalo iphela, okanye ubenomsindo kwabanye abantu ngenxa yezizathu ezingaqhelekanga. Zama ukunqanda ukubetha umntu wakudala kuye nakubani na oya kuphulaphula, nangona usiya kwi umhlobo olungile ayisoze ibe yinto embi.
  3. Iingxoxo -Ungazama elinye ixesha ukubuyela kwi-ex yakho. Ngeli xesha, nangona kunjalo, uya kuxoxisana naye. Unganikezela ngokufuna iingcebiso okanye ube ngumntu ongcono okanye umcele ukuba enze njalo.
  4. Uxinzelelo Uxinzelelo alusoloko lukhangeleka lusizi. Ingazibonakalisa ngeendlela ezininzi-uzive udiniwe ngalo lonke ixesha, ungafuni ukwenza izinto obukade uyonwabela, okanye ukungabinamdla wokutya. Ungaziva ngathi ngekhe ukwazi ukuqhubeka nobomi bakho.
  5. Ukwamkelwa - Ekugqibeleni! Eli linqanaba apho iinyembezi ekugqibeleni ziqala ukoma khona. Ungaluyeka ulwalamano lwakho kwaye uqhubeke kancinci nobomi bakho. Isigaba sokwamkelwa sinokuza kancinci, kwaye unokuphinda ubuye kwakhona kuxinzelelo okanye kwinqanaba lokuqala.

Chitha ixesha usenza izinto ozithandayo

Eyona ndlela ikhawulezayo yokufumana imali emva koqhawulo-mtshato kukugxila kuwe. Fumana imisebenzi obukade uyonwabela xa wawungatshatanga. Bhalisela imisebenzi ethile yeqela okanye umeme umhlobo omdala ukuba akujoyine. Chitha ixesha lakho. Funda iincwadi ezimbalwa ezilungileyo. Yiya kwimuvi. Yiba esebenzayo! Nokuba yintoni na oyenzayo, zama ukonwaba.

Zama ukwenza imisebenzi obuyithanda ukuyenza njengesibini, nayo. Ukuba nobabini benikade nihamba kunye, hike wedwa kwaye ubonise ukuba ungakonwabela ngaphandle kwe ex yakho.

Yenza into ekwenza uzive wonwabile. Fumana i-massage, i-pedicure, okanye uziphathe ngokwakho kwi-makeover epheleleyo kunye ne-hairdo entsha. Zithengele ijeans entsha okanye ibhatyi okhe wajonga kuyo. Kulungile ukuba nezinto ezincinci emva kokuqhekeka kobudlelwane obude.

Cima i-Ex yakho kwimithombo yeendaba

Nceda uzenzele inceba kwaye uyeke ukulandela umntu wakho wakudala kuzo zonke iiakhawunti zemidiya yoluntu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ungabahlobo kwangoko ukuba awufuni (nangona ndicebisa ukuba wenze njalo emva kwethutyana), kodwa ususe kwi-newsfeed yakho. Into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyibonile bubungqina bokuba i-ex yakho iyaqhubeka ngelixa ungekho.

Kulumkele ukuthumela imifanekiso engeyiyo okanye yokubeka iifoto zakho kumajelo onxibelelwano uzama ukubonisa ukuba uqhubekile (xa kucacile ukuba awunayo). Eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukuzama ukuhlala kude kwimidiya yoluntu kude kufike isigaba sokwamkela.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

Sukuzama ukuba ngabahlobo kunye ne-Ex yakho kwangoko

Nokuba ubudlelwane benu buphele ngokwemigaqo yobuhlobo, anizizo izihlobo zokwenyani. Akunakwenzeka ukuba Abahlobo ne ex yakho kanye emva kokuqhekeka kobudlelwane bexesha elide. Nobabini nixheleka ziimvakalelo ezibuhlungu. I-ex yakho isenokude ithi bafuna ukuhlala bangabahlobo, kodwa ndithembe-yena wayezama nje ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho. Ubuhlobo kunokwenzeka endaweni ethile ezantsi komgca, kodwa kuphela emva kokuba zonke iimvakalelo zothando ziswelekile (kumacala omabini).

Awudingi ukuthandana ngokuchanekileyo kude

Kunokuba sisilingo ukutsiba ubuyele ngqo kwindawo yokuthandana, kodwa zama ukumelana naloo mnqweno. Awuyi kukulungela ukubuyela kubudlelwane, kwaye unokugqibela ukhathaza omnye umntu. Ngelixa imihla embalwa engaqhelekanga ingangonzakalisi mntu, eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukonwabela ukungatshati kwaye ufunde ukuchitha ixesha wedwa. Xa u ngena emva echibini lokuthandana Kamva, uya kuba uxhobele ngcono ngokweemvakalelo.

Ukwahlukana kunokuba nzima ngokwenene, ngakumbi ukuba ubudlelwane bexesha elide. Banokuphazamisa ubomi bakho bonke kwaye bakwenze uzive ngokungathi ngekhe uphinde ubuye umva. Unokuziva usoyika kwaye uxhalabile kakhulu, kodwa zonke iimvakalelo zakho ziqhelekile. Ngelixa kuthatha ixesha ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo, ungathabatha amanyathelo okwenza ukuba kungabi buhlungu kangangoko. Zinike ixesha lokuba usizi, kwaye ungangxami. Ingabonakala ngathi ithatha ixesha elingenammiselo, kodwa khuthazeka kwinto yokuba nayo le iya kudlula ekugqibeleni.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungamelana njani nenqanaba lakho elitsha? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.