Izifundo zibonisa ukuba ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya kubaluleke ngakumbi kulwalamano olonwabileyo kunanini na ngaphambili.
Ngapha koko, ngoku ikwindawo yesithathu kuluhlu lwezinto ezenza ubudlelwane busebenze, emva kokuthembeka (duh!) Kunye nolwaneliseko ngokwesondo.
Oko ngokwe isifundo liZiko loPhando lwePew othelekise izimo zengqondo ngamaxesha amabini ahlukeneyo kwiminyaka eli-17 ngokwahlukeneyo.
Ngalo lonke elo xesha, inani labaphenduli abathi ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya 'kubaluleke kakhulu' ukuze umtshato uphumelele uye wehla ukusuka kuma-47% ukuya kuma-62%.
Eyona nto ibalaseleyo kukuba oku kunyuka kuyafana kuwo onke amadoda nabasetyhini, abadala nabancinci, okanye abantu abatshatileyo kunye nee-singletons.
erik stocklin kunye ne-colleen ballinger
Kwaye iindaba ezimnandi azipheleli apho kwizibini ezabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya ngeenxa zonke.
Inkqubo ye- uphando lwamva nje Ucebisa ukuba izibini ezithe zahlulahlula ngokulinganayo imisebenzi yasendlini zinokwabelana ngesondo ngakumbi kunangaphambili, ngokwesilinganiso, kunalezo apho elinye iqabane lenza uninzi lwemisebenzi.
Oku kuyangqubana nemeko yamaqabane abelana ngesondo elingaphantsi kunakwiminyaka engamashumi edlulileyo.
Ingxelo icacisa ukuba ubulungisa sesona sizathu siphambili soku:
Abantu abatshatileyo baxela ukuba neentlobano zesini ezikumgangatho ophezulu nangaphezulu xa banelisekile bubudlelwane babo. Kwimeko yezentlalo yanamhlanje, ubudlelwane bomgangatho kunye nozinzo ngokubanzi ziphezulu xa izibini zahlulahlula umsebenzi wasekhaya ngendlela ezibona zilingana okanye zilungile. Kwaye ubungqina bubonisa ukuba xa amadoda esenza isabelo esikhulu somsebenzi wasekhaya, umbono wabasetyhini ngobulungisa kunye nolwaneliseko mkhulu.
Kwaye esinye isifundo bafumanise ukuba izibini ezinokwahlulwa ngokulinganayo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya bonwabile kwaye banelisekile.
Njengoko ababhali bequkumbela:
Kokubini amadoda nabasetyhini, elona nqanaba liphezulu le-avareji yolonwabo kunye nokwoneliseka bubomi ngokubanzi kwenzeka ngaphakathi kwendima ekwabelwana ngayo.
Umyalezo ke ucacile kumadoda nabafazi ngokufanayo: ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo kwi ubudlelwane obuphilileyo kwaye wonwabele ubomi obungcono bokwabelana ngesondo, wahlule imisebenzi ngokufanelekileyo kunye nokulingana ngakumbi.
Kodwa yeyiphi eyona ndlela yokwenza oko?
Ukulinganisa i-Chore Rota
Ukwahlulwa okugqibeleleyo okungama-50/50 akuyomfuneko ukuphucula imeko yobudlelwane bakho, ngakumbi ukuba elinye iqabane ngoku likhathalela uninzi lwemisebenzi yekhaya.
uyeka njani ukuthetha kakhulu emsebenzini
Ngokwenyani, abantu banezibophelelo zexesha ezahlukeneyo ngokomsebenzi kunye nolunye uxanduva.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba umntu owenza imisebenzi embalwa ayonyuse ngokuthe ngcembe imali ayenzayo de kube kufezekiswe ulungelelwaniso olusebenzayo.
Mhlawumbi ulwahlulo lwangoku phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho ngama-80/20 kwaye uyayitshintsha lento usondele kuma-60/40. Ngelixa omnye umntu esenza isiqingatha somsebenzi kwakhona njengomnye, loo mntu uya kuziva ukuba ubudlelwane bulungile kunangaphambili.
Ithetha ukuthini xa umfana ekunika ujongo olubi
Oku kulunga kuya kuguqulela kulwaneliseko olukhulu kunye nobudlelwane xa bebonke-kubo bobabini amaqela.
Ngokubanzi, iyavakala into yokuba umntu ngamnye athathe uxanduva kwimisebenzi ethile. Oku kuvumela ukuba basebenze ngakumbi kwaye bagqibe umsebenzi ngamnye ngexesha elincinci.
Ukuba kuyenzeka, zama ukwaba imisebenzi ngokubhekisele kwindlela umntu ayonwabele ngayo - okanye, ubuncinci, akoyiki - ukuyenza.
Ke ukuba omnye wenu akanangxaki ngokuqhuba idastor phezu kwendlu ngelixa omnye umntu efumanisa ukuba uchetywa ingca ngomsebenzi weZen, yenza ezo zinto.
Ewe, kuya kubakho imisebenzi engananditshwa nonke. Ukuba nobabini niyakucaphukela ukukhupha inkunkuma ngaphandle, kwaye ukungavali idreyini akukho mntu uluvo lokuzonwabisa, qiniseka ukwahlulahlula ngokufanelekileyo.
Umntu ngamnye kufuneka abe nomxube wezinto abonwabileyo ukuzenza, izinto abazifumana zidinisa kancinci, kunye nezinto abangathanda ukuzenza.
Kwaye apho kukho ithuba lokwenza umsebenzi kunye, thatha. Imisebenzi efana nokuhlamba izitya okanye ukhula egadini inokubonelela ngexesha lokufumana okanye ukonwabela inkampani yomnye nomnye - ibenza bonwabe ngakumbi kwaye ubudlelwane bakho busondele.
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- Izizathu ezisi-8 zokuba abanye abantu benqabe ukuba babe ngabantu abadala
- Ungayibonisa njani intlonipho kwabanye (+ Kutheni ibalulekile ebomini)
- Kutheni ulwalamano kufuneka lube nzima kangaka?
Ukubonisa Uxabiso
Enye indlela yokwahlulahlula imisebenzi yasekhaya kukusebenzela kukubonisa uxabiso lokwenyani ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle.
Xa uchithe ixesha lakho lasimahla usenza imisebenzi efunekayo ukuqhuba umzi onempumelelo, ndiqinisekile uyavuma ukuba uziva ubaluleke ngakumbi xa iqabane lakho Enkosi ngayo.
Kwaye ungacingi umzuzwana ukuba ukwahlula izinto ngokulinganayo kwenza umbulelo ungathandeki ukukuva.
ungaxela njani ukuba akayena lo ungena kuwe
Kodwa oku akuthethi nje ukuncoma isidlo sangokuhlwa iqabane lakho eliphekileyo. Kuthetha ukuba nombulelo ngokwenyani ngomsebenzi ngamnye iqabane lakho eliwunyamekelayo-ukusuka ekucoceni emva kwabantwana ukuya ekucoceni iifestile.
Ukwazi nje ukuba uxabisiwe liqabane lakho kwenza wonke umahluko kwindlela oziva ngayo ngokugqiba imisebenzi ongayithandiyo.
Ukugcina ibhalansi kwiimeko eziguqukayo
Ukuba kukho ukuqiniseka okukodwa ebomini, kukuba izinto ziyatshintsha. Xa iimeko zitshintsha iqabane elinye, okanye xa iyunithi yosapho itshintsha iyonke, kufanelekile ukuphinda uqwalasele irota yomsebenzi ukugcina ulwabiwo olufanelekileyo.
Mininzi imizekelo yoku, kwaye eminye eqhelekileyo ingaquka:
- Ukuba elinye iqabane lenzakala emzimbeni okanye okunye ukonakala kwezempilo, imisebenzi kufuneka ishenxisiwe ukuze bathathe kancinci, okanye batshintshele kwindima abanokuyenza ngaphandle kokutshintsha kwemeko.
- Ukuba umntwana omtsha uzalelwe kusapho, lindela ukuba ukwabiwa kwemisebenzi kuya kutshintsha ngokukhawuleza okwexeshana njengoko umntwana ethatha ingqalelo kanina.
- Ukuba elinye iqabane lifuneka ukuba lenze umsebenzi ohlawulelwayo, banokulindela ukuba omnye abagcwalise xa kuziwa kweminye yemisebenzi yabo.
- Ukuba ixesha elinye lomlingane lithathwa kunye nemisebenzi yolawulo 'engabonakaliyo' njengokulungiselela iholide yosapho okanye ukujongana nabasebenzi bokulungiswa kwamakhaya, indlela owahlula ngayo eminye imisebenzi inokutshintshwa okwethutyana.
Khumbula, konke kuhla ekufumaneni ukwahlula okuziva kufanelekile kuwo omabini amaqela. Akukho mntu ufuna ukuziva esindwa yimisebenzi ngelixa iqabane lakhe lingenzi nto.
