Abahlobo bakho bangakuchaza njengomntu onenkathalo, kodwa bangathi womelele?
Xa uninzi lwabantu lucinga ngomntu onenkathalo, luyabadibanisa nobuntu obuthambileyo nobumnene.
Oku kunokuba okanye kungabi yinyani ngawe, kodwa inye into oyiyo uyiyo Yomelele .
Ngapha koko, umphefumlo wakho okhathalayo yeyona nto ikunika amandla amabi, nokuba ifihlakele kwimbonakalo ecacileyo.
Abanye basenokungayiboni kwaye usenokungayiboni ngokwakho, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uyakhathala, uyakwazi ukwenza izinto ekungekho mntu unokuzenza.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Awuyi kuma ngokungakhathali kwaye ujonge umntu osokola
Ukubandezeleka kuza ngeendlela ngeendlela kwaye, nokuba siyathanda okanye asithandi, umhlaba ugcwele.
Ngelixa abanye abantu banokuyijonga ngamehlo kwaye benze ngathi ayikho, xa ubona umntu ehlupheka, umlilo uvutha ngaphakathi kuwe kwaye akunike ukuzimisela ukwenza okuthile ngawo.
Ukuzimisela kwakho ukunceda kunokuza ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kodwa uya kuzama ukufaka isandla ekunciphiseni ukubandezeleka kwalomntu nangayiphi na indlela onokuyenza- nokuba umkhulu kangakanani okanye mncinci kangakanani isenzo.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Ungancama into yokunceda omnye
Siphila kwihlabathi elingaqinisekanga, kwaye enye yeendlela abantu ababonisa ngayo oku kukubambelela nkqi kuyo nantoni na abanayo.
Nokuba bubutyebi bemali, ukuba nezinto, nokuba lixesha labo, abanye abantu abakulungelanga ukwahlukana noko banako.
Bahlala besenza ngale ndlela ngenxa yokoyika- uloyiko abanokuthi ngolunye usuku bafune okanye baxhomekeke kwezi kunye nezinye izinto.
Kodwa wena, umntu okhathalayo, awonwabanga kuphela ukuncama into ukuba inokunceda omnye, uhlala ufuna amathuba okwenza njalo.
Uya kujonga izizathu ezilungileyo kwaye unikele ngexesha lakho, amandla, imali okanye izinto kubo.
Nawe, uyakuqonda ukungaqiniseki kwelizwe esiphila kulo, kodwa womelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungajonga ngaphaya kweemfuno zakho nakwabanye.
Uyazi ukuba nantoni na ezayo ngomso, kukho ukuqiniseka kwisakhono sakho sokunceda abanye namhlanje.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Uphatha Abanye Ngendlela Onqwenela Ukuphathwa Ngayo
Uluntu lwethu ludele kakhulu kwaye alunantlonipho kakhulu kwabanye abantu.
Singo ukukhawuleza ukugxeka abanye kwaye sikholisa ukujonga inani lokuqala.
Konke oku kubonakala ekuphatheni ngokungakhathali kwabanye.
kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ubhaqwa ukopela
Kwelinye icala, wena uthanda ukubona okuhle kuye wonke umntu odibana naye.
Unesibindi soku yamkeleni njengokuba injalo - ezilungileyo nezimbi- kwaye ubaphathe ngothando.
Uyayixabisa into yokuba sonke sineziphene kwaye awungekhe unqwenele ukuba umntu akuphathe kakubi ngenxa yakho.
Uyazi ukuba sonke sijongile- kwaye sizakuqhubeka nokujongana- umzabalazo ebomini bethu.
Uyabona ukuba usikelelwe ukuba uphile ubomi obutofotofo kwaye ungawaphiki amalungelo akhe nabani na ofuna ukuphucula awabo.
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Kuba ukhathalele…
Uya kuma ngokuSebenzisa gwenxa amandla
Enye yezinto ezikucaphukisayo kukubona abantu okanye amaziko esebenzisa kakubi izikhundla zawo.
Unamandla okuma egxalabeni nabantu abaneengqondo ezifanayo - kunye nabo babanjelwe amandla - ukulwela into oziva ilungile.
Ukulungele ukuhlela izikhalazo, hamba imatshi, kwaye ufikelele nakwabanye abantu abanefuthe lokunceda ukonyusa injongo.
Oku kuhlala kuhamba kunye nokuncama ixesha lakho, imali yakho, inkululeko yakho, kunye nobomi bakho kwiimeko ezinqabileyo.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Uthatha Inyathelo Xa Abanye Bengayi
Xa kuziwa kwiingxaki ezibanzi uluntu olujamelana nazo, uninzi lwabantu lukhona ngokwentando kakhulu .
Uninzi alufuni ukuqonda imiba ngcono, kungasathethwa ke ngokwenza okuthile ngayo.
ungambuyisa njani umyeni wakho emveni kokuba ekushiyele omnye umfazi
Kodwa ayinguwe lowo.
Nokuba uzama ukunciphisa i-carbon footprint yakho okanye uxhasa amashishini endawo, uyasebenza ekuncedeni ukusombulula ingxaki.
Ufumana ulwazi olwenza ngokulingeneyo ekuvuseleleni uluntu kwaye oku kukuxhobisa ukuba ukwazi ukuma xa bambalwa abanye besiva isidingo.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Awu Khohliswa ngokuLula
Kukho amandla okwenyani ekuziphatheni kwakho nasekukholelweni kwaye oku kuthintela ukuba ungaphazanyiswa ngamagama okanye zizenzo okanye enye into.
Ngamanye amagama, awungekhe utyhalelwe ngaphandle kwikhosi xa usete ingqondo yakho kwinto ethile.
Izizathu zicacile: uyakhathala ingqibelelo yakho kwaye uzikhathalele ezo zinto zisondele entliziyweni yakho.
Ngelixa abanye banokukujonga oku njenge neenkani , yinkolelo yakho yokwenza umsebenzi olungileyo.
Abanye banokukhubeka kwingcinezelo yoontanga okanye benze njengezimvu ezilandela umhlambi, kodwa wena ukulungele ukudada ngokuchasene nomsinga xa kukho imfuneko yokwenza into okholelwa kuyo.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Ujongene nabahlobo bakho xa beyidinga
Njengoko bendithetha nge inqaku ngemiqondiso yobuhlobo obukhulu ngokwenene , kukho amaxesha apho ungabona umntu osondeleyo kuwe esenza ngendlela eyingozi kwimpilo yabo.
Kodwa, njengomntu onenkathalo, unamandla kunye nesibindi sokujongana nabo malunga nabo indlela yokuziphatha eyonakalisayo .
Uyayiqonda into yokuba kunokuba nzima kubo ukuyiva, kwaye ungathwala umthwalo wengqumbo yabo okwethutyana, kodwa awuyi kuma ubabukele bezenzakalisa.
Uninzi lwabantu alunqweneli ukuzibandakanya kwiingxaki zabanye ngale ndlela banokuthi bakhethe ukubukela umhlobo esokola okanye umane uziqhelanisa nengxaki.
Le ayisiyiyo khetho kuwe.
Kuba ukhathalele…
Uya kuvumela abanye babone iimvakalelo zakho
Nditshilo ngaphambili, kodwa kufanelekile ukuphinda apha: ukukhala ayilophawu lobuthathaka kwaye kungafuneki noncedo.
Kanye njengokuba ubakhathalele kwaye ubathanda abanye, uzama ukubonisa inkathalo kwaye thanda isiqu sakho .
Inxalenye yoku kukuqonda ukuba kukho abantu phaya njengawe abaya kukunceda xa uziva uluhlaza.
Abanye bahlala bezama ukuzifihla kwiimvakalelo zabo ngenxa yokoyika ukubonakala bebuthathaka, kodwa amandla okwenyani alele ekubeni nakho ukubonisa umhlaba xa usokola.
Iququzelela ukuphilisa kwaye kuthetha ukuba akufuneki ujongane nezinto wedwa.
I-Conscious Rethink: ukuba unokunxibelelana namanye, okanye onke, ala manqaku, ke unamandla ngakumbi kunokuba ubungacinga.
Unamandla kwisimilo esikuvumela ukuba uyekise ukulinda kwakho kwaye uvumele abanye kuwe babe namandla okumela into okholelwa ukuba ilungile kwaye unamandla okubona izinto kude kube sekupheleni.
Ngoku ukuba uyayazi le nto, ungaze uyilibale.
