Ukuba ufunda isihloko sale nqaku kwaye umhlobo othile uvele nje entlokweni yakho, sele uyazi ukuba kukho ingxaki.
Sonke sikhupha ubuhlobo ngexesha elithile ebomini bethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sisondele kangakanani kumntu ngaphambili.
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ngaba sisigaba okanye eyona nto siyiyo, sinemiqondiso ecacileyo onokubaleka kuyo.
Kunzima ukukuqonda oku malunga nomntu omkhathaleleyo kakhulu, kodwa akufuneki uzive unetyala- kwaye siza kuchaza ukuba kutheni kwaye kutheni…
1. Awubaphosi.
Mhlawumbi ubheyile ngeentsuku ezimbalwa zekofu okanye ukufowuna mva nje kwaye uye waqonda ukuba awukhathali!
Usenokufumanisa ukuba awumphosi ngokwenyani lo mhlobo wakho xa ungakhange ubabone okwethutyana, okanye awenzi mgudu wokuchitha ixesha nabo.
Ukuba awusenamdla wokuncokola nabo okanye ucinga ngokutsalela umnxeba xa uziva unesithukuthezi, usenokuba usukile kubuhlobo-kwaye kulungile!
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2. Ziyawachitha amandla akho.
Ngaba uziva udiniwe emva kokuchitha ixesha kunye nabo?
Sonke sikhula ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngamaxabiso ohlukeneyo, kwaye kungadinisa kakhulu ukwenza ngathi ukukhula akukwenzekanga ukuze sihambelane nabanye abantu.
Ungafumanisa ukuba uphelelwe ngamandla emva kokubona umhlobo othile - mhlawumbi kuba uzama nzima ukuzincama ubuyele emntwini abakwaziyo.
Oku kuqhelekile ngokupheleleyo, kodwa akunampilo kakhulu, kwaye yinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele njengoko kusenokuba luphawu lokuba uphelile kobu buhlobo.
3. Ziyakubamba.
Abanye abahlobo basiphakamisa basityhalela phambili.
Bafuna ukuba sifezekise amaphupha ethu kwaye sonwabe endaweni yethu malunga nezinto ezintsha esinokuziqalisa!
Abanye abahlobo bayasibamba.
Basenokungabi nantando, kodwa basenza sizive ngathi asikulungelanga ukuzama into entsha.
Ukuba uziva ngathi omnye wabahlobo bakho ukubambezele kwaye akakuxhasi izigqibo zakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba luphawu lokuba awusekho kwakule ndawo inye kwaye usukile kubuhlobo.
4. Wenza izizathu zokubaphepha.
Ukuba uqala ukwenza izizathu zokuphepha ukudibana nomhlobo okanye ukuphoswa ngabom iifowuni zabo, kuya kufuneka ube ucinga ngento eyenzekayo.
Kungenzeka ukuba uhambile kwaye awufuni ukuyivuma. Awusafuni ukuthetha nabo kakhulu kwaye awunamdla wokwenene kwinto abayithethayo.
5. Akukho nto nifana ngayo.
Unokuba udibanise into xa uqala ukuba ngumhlobo, kodwa, ukuba awusenayo into efanayo, luphawu lokuba ukhule kumacala ahlukeneyo.
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Usenokuba uphuhlise umdla omtsha okanye waqala ukuxhoma nabantu abahlukeneyo abanezinto ezahlukeneyo zokuzonwabisa.
Oku kuhle, kodwa isenokuqaqambisa ukuba incinci kangakanani into enifana ngayo nomhlobo wakho kwakhona!
6.Akuvumelani kwinqanaba elisisiseko.
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba izimvo zakho azihambelani konke konke, yiflegi enkulu ebomvu.
Kulula ukusondela emntwini kwaye ugxile kwinto enifana ngayo okanye uqhuba kakuhle kangakanani, yiyo loo nto kunqabile ukuba sabelane ngamaxabiso ethu asisiseko kwangoko.
Ukuba uya umazi umhlobo nangakumbi kwaye uyaqonda ukuba awuvumelani namaxabiso athile asemgangathweni (amalungelo oluntu kunye nokuhamba ngokuchasene nobuhlanga, umzekelo), mhlawumbi awubufanelanga ubuhlobo bexesha elide.
7. Usoloko ufuna abahlobo abatsha.
Ukuba uqalile ukufikelela kwabanye abantu ngakumbi, kwaye wenza iinzame zokwazi abantu abatsha, obu buhlobo mhlawumbi abuthethi lukhulu kuwe kwakhona.
Unokuba unqwenela uhlobo olutsha lwamandla, okanye ufuna ukuxhoma nabantu abenza iintlobo ezifanayo zezinto njengawe.
8. Ngewunakuba zizihlobo ukuba beninokudibana ngoku.
Ngoku, oku akuyinyani kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuba ubuhlobo bakho abusakukhonzi.
Ewe kunjalo, uninzi lwethu luyadibana kwimbali yethu kunye kwaye kulungile ukuba nabahlobo ekudala bakho ebomini bakho kwaye bazi konke ngawe.
Kodwa, ukuba ubudibene namhlanje, ngaba ubungafuna ukuxhoma kunye nabo ngokusekwe kubomi eninabo nobabini ngoku - ingekuko nje ukuba nanikade ninjani
9. Ubambe ingqumbo.
Mhlawumbi kukho into ongenakukuyeka, okanye kukho impikiswano ongazange uyisombulule ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba kukho into engalunganga exhomekeke kuni nobabini, kuyaqondakala ukuba uziva ukulungele ukuqhubeka.
Kubuhlungu, kodwa akukho sizathu sokuqhubeka nobuhlobo ukuba kubuhlungu kakhulu!
Ngamanye amaxesha, kuye kufuneke sinciphise ilahleko zethu, samkele ukuba izinto zitshintshile, kwaye siqhubela phambili.
10. Kuye icala elinye.
Kungenzeka ukuba nguwe kuphela owenza umgudu kwaye uye wakhathala ekubeni nguwe kuphela ophethe ubuhlobo.
Kungenzeka ukuba ngabo bahlala befikelela kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumdla kubuhlobo okwexeshana.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, ukuba izinto ziyenzeka icala elinye , luphawu lokuba usukile kulo mhlobo- kwaye mhlawumbi yinto entle!
11. Ubafumana bengenaxabiso.
Mhlawumbi sele uqalile ukuqonda nje kangakanani isikhalazo somhlobo wakho - ngayo yonke into!
Unokuba ubuxhasa kwixa elidlulileyo kwaye wazama ukubanceda babone izinto ezintle, okanye usenokuba uye wazibandakanya nokugxeka kwabo kuba uziva ngendlela efanayo nabo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ukuba ngoku ubafumana bengalunganga kakhulu, ukhulile-kwaye ukhulile ngaphandle bobuhlobo.
12. Nijinga ngokwamaqela kuphela.
Ukuba uyekile ukuchitha ixesha nomntu kunye nomhlobo wakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uye waqaphela ukuba ukuhlala wedwa nabo akuyiyo yonke into emnandi.
Unokuhlala kakuhle kwiqela kwaye unabahlobo abaninzi, kodwa, ukuba awukwazi ukufumana izihloko zencoko kwaye uxhomeke njengo-2, cinga ngento eyiyo ekugcinayo izihlobo.
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13. Bafuna izinto ezahlukeneyo.
Oku akuthethi ukuba bonke abahlobo bakho kufuneka babe zii-cookie-cutter versions zakho kwaye bafuna izinto ezifanayo ngqo…
… Kodwa kuyanceda ukuba nedrive efanayo, imbonakalo, kunye nenjongo ebomini.
Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba ufuna ukuhamba emhlabeni, kwaye bafuna ukuhlala ekhaya.
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Asikuko nokuba omnye wenu 'angcono' okanye 'mbi' kunenye kungenxa yokuba iinkanuko zakho azisekho emgceni kwakhona - kwaye indlela yakho yokuphila itshintshile njengesiphumo.
Uqhubeka njani ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala!
Ke, ufundile uluhlu lwethu lweempawu kwaye awazi ukuba wenzeni ngokulandelayo.
Mhlawumbi uye waqonda ukuba awusayi kuphinda uqhubeke kwakhona, okanye ukuba amaxabiso akho atshintshile kwaye awasahambelani nexabiso lomhlobo wakho.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, lixesha lokuba uqhubeke kobu buhlobo.
Uninzi lwethu luziva lunetyala ngokucinga ngokuphelisa ubuhlobo, kodwa akufuneki lube nzima njengoko besinokucinga njalo.
Nantsi indlela yokubuphelisa ubuhlobo ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala.
1. Khumbula ukuba kungokwemvelo.
Sonke siyakhula kwaye siyatshintsha ngeendlela zethu njengoko sikhula kwaye sinamava amatsha.
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba sitshintshe abo sichitha ixesha kunye nabo kwaye ayisiyonto yokuziva kakubi ngayo.
Ubuhlobo buyindlela-mbini, ke, ngokuphelisa enye, awusatsho ukuba yi-100% ngenxa yomnye umntu-uyayamkela into yokuba awusayi kuphinda kwaye oko kungenxa yokuba nobabini nitshintsha .
Sidibana ngamava ekwabelwana ngawo, kwaye ukuba loo mava awasekho apho, ubuhlobo bunokuphela.
Ungaziva ungonwabanga ngale nto - ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha nabantu abakwiyoga kunye nokuba sempilweni, kunjalo uza kubakhupha abahlobo owakhe wanxila nabo!
2. Basenokuba baziva ngokufanayo.
Ukuba uqaphele ukuba ubuphelile ubuhlobo, kufanelekile ukuba uqwalasele indlela oziva ngayo omnye umntu.
Unokuba nobabini uxhomeke kuyo kuba uziva unetyala kakhulu ukuba ungayipheli!
Nyaniseka malunga nendlela oziva ngayo kwaye banokumangaliswa kukuziva ngendlela efanayo.
Kunzima ukuyivuma indlela oziva ngayo ngomhlobo, kwaye akukho mntu uthanda ukujongana okanye ukuziva ngathi bazokucaphukisa umntu abamkhathaleleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukunyaniseka kunye nokuphambili malunga nendlela oziva ngayo-kwaye kuya kwenzakala kancinci ekuhambeni kwexesha nako.
Unokubanceda ukuba baqonde indlela bona Ndiziva ngokwenene, kwaye ndibanceda ukuba bajongane nomba ekwakunzima nawo.
Ukuba kuyacaca kuwe ukuba ubuhlobo buqhubekile, mhlawumbi bayazi ukuba into itshintshile nayo.
Ngokuyizisa kwaye uthembeke, nenza nobabini ubabalo.
3. Ayenzi into ongabelani ngayo ingasebenzi.
Elona nyathelo likhulu lokuziva ungaziva unetyala kukwamkela oko, kuba ubuhlobo bakho buphela, oko akuthethi ukuba khange yenzeke.
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Siba nexhala lokuba ukuphelisa into kwenza ukuba ingabinantsingiselo kwaye ngandlela thile kususa iinkumbulo ezintle esinazo nomntu.
Musa ukuziva unetyala ngokuphelisa ubuhlobo, kuba kwakusathandeka ngelo xesha.
Ayisasebenzi ngoku-kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye isempilweni, kwaye ingcono kakhulu kuni nobabini kunokuba nirhuqe into enokuba yinto enetyhefu kwaye ikhathazeke.
Ubuhlobo konke malunga nokunyaniseka-nokuba baphela.
Nyaniseka ngendlela oziva ngayo, ngaphandle kokuthukisa.
Yibani nokuthantamisa kangangoko ninako, sombulula nantoni na efuna ukusonjululwa, emva koko niyeke nobabini niqhubeke nobomi!
Ukuba banobunzima kuyo, banabanye abantu abanokubhenela kubo ukuze bafumane inkxaso, ke musa ukuziva unetyala ngayo.
Ukuba ukwenzile oku kwinqaku, uyazi ukuba uziva njani ngokwenyani- landela oko kuthethwa yintliziyo yakho kwaye wenze okona kulungileyo kuni nobabini.
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