Ngaba ucinga ukuba awuyazi indlela yokonwaba?
Ngaba yinyani leyo?
Okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba ubujonge ubumnandi obenziwa ngabanye ukuvela ukubanabo, kunye nobuso babo obonwabileyo kunye novuyo olucacileyo lokugcina iiprofayili zabo zemidiya yoluntu, njengezisebenza ngandlel 'ithile kunezakho?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyamkele malunga nokonwaba yi-100% yobume bayo.
Inkcazo yesichazi-magama 'yolonwabo' ngu 'Umsebenzi okanye imeko ocinga ukuba iyathandeka kwaye iyonwabisa kwaye ikwenza uzive wonwabile.'
Qaphela ukusetyenziswa kwesimelabizo ‘Wena’ Kule ngcaciso kulapho kungena khona ukuzithoba - konke malunga nawe kungabikho mntu wumbi.
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Yintoni ekwenza wonwabe isenokuba kukuchasana okupheleleyo kwento ezisa uncumo ebusweni bomnye umntu, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ayimnandanga.
Inyani: kukho umfana e-Australia obeqokelela isisu sakhe esineqhosha ukusukela ngo-1984.
Ngoku lo msebenzi usenokungabi ngumbono wakho ‘wokonwaba,’ kodwa ngokucacileyo umzisela uvuyo. Kulungile kuye.
Ukuba ufumanisa ujonga abanye kwaye uziva ukuba into emnandi abahlangabezana nayo ilahlekile ebomini bakho, ke yima kanye apho.
Into eyenzekayo kukuba utolika zonke izinto abanye abazonwabisayo njengekuphela kweendlela ezisemthethweni zokuzonwabisa.
Kukho, njengoko isitsho le nto, ngaphezulu kwendlela enye yokuthambisa ikati.
Xa uzibuza ukuba yintoni le yenziwa ngabanye abantu 'emnandi kakhulu,' ucinga ukuba baya kumdlalo we-baseball okanye nawuphina omnye umdlalo, bayonwaba nabahlobo babo, okanye babambe iqela abalithandayo ikonsathi.
Eyona nto intle kakhulu ebandakanya ukuhlangana ngokwasentlalweni, ingxolo efanelekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi nentwana yeadrenaline iphoswe kumgangatho olungileyo.
Kodwa mhlawumbi ungaphantsi kwebhabhathane ekuhlaleni ngakumbi nangakumbi kwengcuka ekukuphela kwayo, kwaye izinto ezinjalo azizukuzisa uvuyo, nokuba ubunethuba lokuxinga?
Oku kusizisa kwingcebiso yethu yokuqala enkulu…
Lumkela uthelekiso.
Yeka ukuzithelekisa nabanye. Ngoku. Ngale ndlela ingozi ilele.
isigqibo njani phakathi kwamadoda amabini
Okulusizi kukuba, nangona kunjalo, umkhwa wokuzithelekisa nabanye uye wasilela ukusukela ekuqaleni kwexesha.
Kwaye ingxaki kukuba, namhlanje uninzi lweendaba zosasazo, zisivumela ukuba sizonwabise ngamehlo ethu kuko konke 'ukonwaba' okwenziwe ngabahlobo bethu kunye neeselebs esizilandelayo, uthathe lo mkhwa ungathandekiyo ngokunzulu ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
Wonke umntu ubonakala ngathi wonwabe ngakumbi kunathi!
Khumbula, nangona kunjalo, babeka kuphela izinto phaya ngaphandle ezenza ukuba zibonakale zilungile, ke uninzi lwee-shots zabo 'zokuzonwabisa' ziyinxalenye yephakheji.
Ke into oyenzayo uthelekisa ubunyani bakho kunye nezinye izinto ezihleliweyo ezihleliweyo.
Ayinantsingiselo, ewe?
Kwaye ngokufanelekileyo ayinangqondo njengebhentshi lokubala inqanaba 'lokonwaba' abanye banokuthi okanye bangabinamava ebomini babo.
Ukuzonwabisa kukuthobela (kufanelekile ukuphinda).
Ukonwaba akufuneki kube kukucula konke, konke ukudanisa kunye nokwenza.
Akunjalo.
Ukonwaba kukufumana umdla ukuze ukwazi ukubhenela kwilizwe elilinganayo, ushiye inkathalo yemihla ngemihla ngasemva.
Kwaye loo nto ichaphazela wena kunye nawe kuphela.
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba unomdla wokudlala okanye unomdla kwiiphazili…
Nokuba uchitha iiyure uphantsi kwentloko yemoto okanye ujonge kwizinto zetekhi…
Nokuba uzilahlekele ngokwakho kwiprojekthi yobugcisa okanye ukubhala imibongo…
Okanye nokuba uchitha ixesha lokonwaba uqokelela inkaba yakho.
Ukuba umsebenzi uthimba iingcinga zakho kunye nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho ukhutshelwa ecaleni kuyo yonke enye into, kungekho sithuba senkxalabo yemihla ngemihla noxinzelelo, emva koko yindlela yenu yokonwaba leyo.
Yamkele, uyonwabele kwaye uyeke ukuchitha amandla akho engqondo ngokuthelekisa abahlobo bakho okanye nabani na ongomnye.
Ibinzana elidala, ‘elowo aye kweyakhe’ liyinyani ngoku njengokuba lalinjalo.
Sukuba noxinzelelo malunga nokucinga kwabanye.
Ngokuhambelana nemigca efanayo nokungabi nalutho kokuzithelekisa nabanye, akuncinci ukuzikhathaza kakhulu ngendlela abakujonga ngayo.
Ucinga ukuba abantu bakuthatha njengongenalo ulonwabo, kodwa awuyazi loo nto ngokuqinisekileyo, akunjalo?
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezinomda kunokusoloko uzijonga ngamehlo abanye kunye nokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
Ngoba? Izizathu ezibini…
Ekuqaleni, abantu bathambekele ekubeni bangazithembi kakhulu kwaye bajonge kancinci kwabanye kunokuba ucinga, ngenxa yoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba ungabhalisi kwi-radar yabo.
Isibini, Ngokwenyani awunalwazi kwaphela ukuba bacinga ntoni, ke uhlengahlengiso kwindlela oziphethe ngayo ngokusekwe kulolo hlobo alunangqondo.
Kwaye ke, oko abanye bakucingayo ngawe akubalulekanga.
Inokukunceda ukuba uzame ukwamkela isimilo somhlobo wam waseJamani. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko apho evakalelwa khona ukuba ugwetyelwe into ayithethileyo okanye ayenzileyo kukuzibhengeza ‘Bu ** er zem!’
Ngokubetha kwentliziyo, uphumelela ukuyifaka entlokweni yakhe imeko, ke ababukeli ngabo abanengxaki, hayi yena.
Kuthatha ixesha ukuphuhlisa imeko enjalo, kodwa iyakuhlawula izabelo xa unokuyisusa.
Vula amanye amathuba amatsha okuzonwabisa.
Ewe, kunokuba sisizathu sokuba uvakalelwe kukuba uyasilela kwisebe lokonwaba kukuba ubambekile kancinci.
Udiniwe kwaleyo indala, indala.
Nanga amacebiso ambalwa okuzisa ulonwabo ebomini bakho…
zingaphi imihla ubudlelwane
Ukufumana umdlalo omtsha inokuba yimpendulo ekucofeni inkqubo yakho kwaye ikunike ukugxila.
Kungekudala uya kuziva amanqanaba oxinzelelo lwakho esiwa kunye namandla akho 'okonwaba' ongenakufikeleleka nawo aya kuphucula.
Unokuzama umdlalo omtsha wedwa njengokubaleka, ukuqubha, okanye iyoga, okanye ufunde isakhono esitsha njengekhonkco, ukuthetha iSpanish, okanye ukugcina imoto yakho.
Fumanisa indlela eziluhlaza ngayo izithupha zakho ngokumba isiziba ukuze ukhule imifuno okanye ulahlekelwe yimvelaphi yakho.
indlela yokuthembela kumyeni wam kwakhona emva kokuxoka
Shintsha iingcinga zakho ngokubhala ijenali, okanye ngokubhala amabali amafutshane okanye imibongo- ngokuqinisekileyo, awunakuba nguStephen King okanye uJ K Rowling, kodwa iinzame zakho zifuna ukukholisa wena hayi omnye umntu.
Ukuba unako, shiya loo ndawo intofontofo-ococekileyo ngasemva kwaye wenze izinto ezingaqhelekanga, izinto ongazange wacinga ukuba ungazenza.
Zama iicuisine ezahlukileyo kwihlabathi liphela, funda inoveli yakudala ongazange wayifumana, phuma phandle uze uthethe nendalo, ndwendwela igalari yobugcisa okanye imyuziyam ongazange waya kuyo ngaphambili.
Shift ingqondo yakho.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekuphuculeni amandla akho okuzonwabisa kukuhlengahlengisa isimo sakho sengqondo.
Cinga ngokwakhayo.
Xa uthungelwano lweendaba lusigibisela ngeendaba ezimbi 24/7, konke kulula kakhulu sive ngathi sikwi-vacuum apho kungekho ndawo yolonwabo.
Ingcebiso yam kukuba uyeke ngoku ukujonga yonke le nto ungenakuyilawula kwaye uzame ukwamkela ubuhle endaweni yoko.
Oku akuyi kuba lulungiso olukhawulezayo, kodwa okukhona uziqhelanisa, kokukhona uya kuziva ngcono, kunye namandla akho okuzonwabisa aya kuqala ukubuyela.
Yiba nombulelo ngezinto ezintle kunye nabantu abalungileyo ebomini bakho.
Zama ukugxila kwezona meko zilungileyo endaweni yezona zimbi.
Yilwa ukungakhathali kunye namandla okucinga okuqinisekileyo.
Uxinzelelo ngumqobo omkhulu kulonwabo.
Esinye isiqwenga sephazili esimnandi, kwaye sinxibelelene ngokuqinileyo nale ngongoma ingasentla, kukucinezela uxinzelelo kunye nokugxila kwimpilo yakho yengqondo.
Ungonwaba njani ukuba wenzakele njengentwasahlobo ebhijelweyo kwaye uhlala ungalali?
Ukucamngca okanye nokuhamba okude okucingayo kuyindlela entle yokuphumza ingqondo yakho.
Ukuziqhelanisa nengqondo yenye indlela elungileyo yokutshintsha iingcinga zakho kude ne-c ** p engalunganga, apho wonke amandla akho okuzonwabisa athathelwa indawo luloyiko kunye nokubikezela.
Njengoko umdwebi wekhathuni uBill Watterson ebeka, 'Sixakeke kakhulu kukujonga into ephambi kwethu kangangokuba asizukuthatha ixesha lokonwaba apho sikhona.'
Ukuthanjiswa komzimba rhoqo yenye into enokubangela uxinzelelo, njengokuzilolonga kwemihla ngemihla - imizuzu engama-30 yonke imihla iya kwenza umhlaba umahluko kwisimo sakho sengqondo ukuba ube nayo yonke into.
Ngena kwindlela yokulala / yokuvuka rhoqo yokunyusa amanqanaba akho amandla kunye nokomelela kwakho kwimihla ngemihla.
Ayisiyongqondo yokuba ukuziqhelanisa neyoga yindlela elungileyo yoxinzelelo, kunye nemfumba yezinye izibonelelo zempilo, kodwa uvile Ukuhleka iYoga ?
Kulula ukuyenza, nokuba kuklasi okanye uwedwa, kwaye uyakufumanisa ukuba uphinde ufumanise ezo zihlunu zingasasetyenziswanga kwaye ubanike ukuzilolonga okukhulu.
Ukuhleka kweyoga kuye kwangqinwa ukuba kunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokukhuthaza umbono oqaqambileyo kunye nethemba.
Joyina iklasi yendawo ukuba unokufumana enye okanye funda indlela yokwenza ngokwakho kwintuthuzelo yekhaya lakho.
Yenza ixesha lokuzonwabisa.
Nangona kunokubonakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga kwaye engeyomfuneko ukuyenza, licebo elihle ukubekela bucala ixesha lokonwaba kwishedyuli yakho yeveki.
Kula maxesha okubaleka, kulula nje ukuba iintsuku zibhabhe zingene zizeyize yomsebenzi kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya, ke into ebalulekileyo yolonwabo inokuphoswa ngokulula.
Yiyo loo nto, kusengqiqweni ukwenza ishedyuli 'ngexesha lokuzonwabisa' suku ngalunye, okanye ubuncinci kanye ngeveki.
Oku kukuvumela ukuba wehle kwisondo le-hamster kwaye wenze into ukuze uzikholise endaweni yokukholisa abanye.
Ukuyishwankathela yonke…
Xa konke kusenziwa kwaye kwenziwe, ngekhe ube yiTigger, ugxeka kwaye ugcule malunga nale ndawo ngovuyo olubonakalayo (kwaye mhlawumbi ungoyicaphukisayo), kodwa awunguye uEyyore.
ungaxela njani ukuba umfana usangena kuwe
Mhlawumbi ungaphezulu kwePooh, uthatha ulonwabo olunzulu kwizinto ezilula nezizolileyo ebomini kwaye, masijongane nayo, ngubani ongayithandiyo ibhere kaPooh?
Logama nje ikhuselekile kwaye isemthethweni, ke nayiphi na into ezisa uyolo kuwe kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ubaleke ukusila kwemihla ngemihla yinguqulelo yakho 'yolonwabo.'
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ubunayo ngaphezulu kunokuba ubuyaqonda. Njengoko ilivo lombhalo, uWalt Whitman, ukubeka ngokuchanekileyo: Yenza nantoni na ngaphandle kokuyivuyisa. ”
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