'Ingaba uthanda ntoni?'
Uyarhwaqela xa usiva lo mbuzo.
Awunayo ngokwenene.
Kodwa ungathanda enye.
Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba ufuna into oyithandayo ukuze ube ngumntu onomdla ngakumbi.
Mhlawumbi unamaxesha amaninzi okushiyeka okwangoku unganqeni ukwenza nto ngokukodwa.
Okanye ngaba ufumanisa nje ukuba ukuphindwaphindwa kobomi bakho bangoku kuyadika?
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ukhangela into yokwenza.
Kodwa kanjani ngokuchanekileyo uyahamba malunga nokufumana into oyithandayo?
Uyikhetha njani into ekufaneleyo kwaye ungakhethi into oza kuthi ekugqibeleni uyenyanye?
Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwinto entsha oyithandayo, kukho izinto ezithile oza kufuna ukuziqwalasela.
Nazi iingcebiso ezili-13 ezinokukunceda ufumane into oyithandayo oyithandayo. I-6 yokuqala ibandakanya ukuzibuza imibuzo ethile kunye nokuphendula ngokunyaniseka.
1. Uya kuyenza nini le nto uyithandayo?
Ngaba kukho ibhloko ethile yexesha ongena simahla kwaye ongathanda ukugcwalisa?
Ayizizo zonke izinto zokuzonwabisa ezifanelekileyo kuwo onke amaxesha emini / ebusuku kwaye ke kuya kufuneka ubenokwenyani malunga nento onokuyenza.
Ukuba ukhangela into yokwenza ubusuku obunye okanye ezimbini ngeveki, ukuhamba ehlathini kungenakwenzeka - ubuncinci, hayi unyaka wonke.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba kukho iqela lezemidlalo lasekuhlaleni apho imidlalo idlalwa rhoqo ngentsasa yangeCawa, kodwa ungumntu ozinikeleyo ecaweni, kuya kufuneka uyilahle loo mbono, nokuba iyakutsala (ngaphandle kokuba ungaya kwinkonzo yasemva kwemini).
Ngelixa izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa zinokwenziwa nangaliphi na ixesha ngalo naluphi na usuku, yazi ukuba abanye banamaxesha abekiweyo apho banokuzonwabisa.
2. Ufuna ukuchitha malini?
Ezinye izinto zokuzonwabisa zisimahla. Abanye babiza imali eninzi.
Luluphi uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali ekufuneka usebenze nalo xa ukhetha into oyithandayo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ixesha lokulingwa kwebhayisikile lendlela linokuvakala linomtsalane, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uza kuchitha imali eninzi kwibhayisikile nakwikhithi elungileyo.
Ukuba awunalo olo hlobo lwemali olukhoyo, akufanelekile ukuba uqwalasele ukulandela ixesha elide.
Umqolomba kukuba unakho na ukuqesha okanye ukuboleka into oyifunayo, ubuncinci de ufumane imali eyimfuneko kunye.
Isibonelelo sesibini sokukwazi ukuqesha okanye ukuboleka izixhobo kukuba ungazama into entsha oyithandayo ukuze ubone ukuba uyayonwabela na phambi kokuba ungene nzulu kwaye wenze utyalomali olubi ngakumbi.
Oku kuyakuphepha ukuba uthenge izinto ezininzi ezithi ziqokelele uthuli kwikhabhathi yegaraji ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba into oyithandayo ayikufanelanga.
3. Loluphi uhlobo lokuzonwabisa olifunayo?
Kukho ngokoqobo amawaka emisebenzi eyahlukeneyo enokuthi ichazwe njengezinto zokuzonwabisa, kodwa zibilise kwiimpawu ezimbalwa.
Ngaba ujonge i ukuzonwabisa ngokwasemzimbeni efumana intliziyo ibaleka okanye efuna amandla amakhulu?
Ungathanda ukuthatha i umdlalo wokuyila Ukuguqula izimvo kunye nezinto zibe bubugcisa, umculo, okanye izinto onokuzisebenzisa?
Mhlawumbi umbono wakho wexesha lokuzonwabisa ucela umngeni kwingqondo yakho. Kwimeko apho, i ukuthanda ukuzonwabisa yinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele.
Ukuba kukunxibelelana nabanye abantu onqwenelayo, zininzi zokuzonwabisa ekuhlaleni apho unokuthatha inxaxheba khona ngelixa ukonwabela ukuba kunye nabanye.
Ungahlulahlula kwizinto ozithandayo ngaphakathi / ngaphandle , nayo ingaluncedo, ukuba ukhetha enye okanye enye.
Xa usazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwento oyifunayo, unethuba elingcono lokuyifumana.
4. Uzimisele kangakanani ukuhamba?
Unokwenza izinto ozithandayo ukonwaba kwindlu yakho, okanye eyadini yakho yangasemva.
Abanye banokukusa epakini yakho yasekuhlaleni okanye edolophini.
Kukho ezinye ezifuna uhambo olude kakhulu.
Apho uhlala khona kuya kudlala indima yokuba zeziphi izinto zokuzonwabisa ezifumaneka ngokulula kuwe.
Akunakwenzeka, umzekelo, ukuthatha i-surfing ukuba unenani leeyure ukusuka elunxwemeni.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana iiklasi ezimbalwa zokupheka kwindawo yasemaphandleni kunakwisixeko esikhulu.
Amaqela ezemidlalo angadlala kude nemidlalo ekude nomhlaba wabo.
Ukuqwalaselwa kokuhamba kudlala indima kumanqaku angaphambili malunga nexesha kunye nemali okwaziyo ukuyinikezela kwinto oyithandayo - kuthatha ixesha kwaye kunokuba kubiza ukuhamba kakhulu.
5. Ngaba ifuna abanye abantu?
Izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa zinokonwatyelwa wedwa, nokuba ezinye zinokonwabisa ngakumbi xa uphakathi kwabantu.
Eminye imisebenzi ifuna umntu ongaphezulu komnye ukuba athathe inxaxheba kuyo. Kwaye ukuba awufumani klabhu okanye umbutho kwindawo ekufutshane nawe, uya kuba nakho ukufumana abantu abanokwenza umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa?
Mhlawumbi kufuneka uqinisekise abanye babahlobo bakho ukuba bazame nawe.
Mhlawumbi ubeka igama kumaqela asekhaya e-Facebook okanye ngokubeka iipowusta kwiivenkile zevenkile kwaye uququzelela umsitho ngokwakho.
Okanye ukuba yinto onokuyonwabela phantse nabanye abantu kwihlabathi liphela, bahlala phi abo bantu kwaye ungazibandakanya njani?
6. Ngaba kukho igophe lokufunda elinyukayo?
Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho malunga nokuba ungakanani umceli mngeni owufunayo.
Ngelixa imisebenzi emininzi ifuna ukuba ufunde izakhono ezitsha okanye imigaqo, eminye ibandakanyeke kakhulu kunenye.
Ukubuyisela iimoto zakudala kunokuvakala kuyinto emnandi ukuyenza, kodwa kuya kufuneka ufunde okuninzi njengoko usiya.
Kwaye loluphi uhlobo lwezakhono onobuchule kuzo? Ukuthatha iifoto ezintle yinto enye, kodwa ngaba uqinisekile ukuba usebenzisa ikhompyuter ukuzilungisa nokuzilungisa?
Lixesha elingakanani ofuna ukulichitha ulungile kwinto ethile (ngokuthethileyo) ngaphambi kokuba ufumane okona konwaba kuyo?
Kuya kufuneka uchithe iiyure ezininzi uziqhelanisa nezinto ezisisiseko ngaphambi kokuba udlale uninzi lwezixhobo ukuya kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo, kodwa ukutyelela iimyuziyam kunye neegalari akufuneki lwazi lweengcali ukuze uzonwabele.
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7. Buza abahlobo bakho ukuba bathanda ukwenza ntoni.
Ukuba okwangoku unamathele ekuphefumlweni kokuzonwabisa, indawo elungileyo onokuthi uqale ngayo kukubuza abahlobo bakho ukuba benza ntoni ngexesha labo lasimahla.
Oku akunako ukubonelela ngezimvo kuphela, kodwa kunye nethuba lokubabuza imibuzo malunga nomsebenzi ukuze usebenze ngcono ukuba uya kulungela okanye hayi.
Mhlawumbi unabahlobo abanezinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ubuncinci wabelana ngento efanayo nabo bonke, ngenxa yoko izinto abazithandayo zinokukulungela.
Kwaye, njengebhonasi eyongeziweyo, banokonwaba bakukwazise ngokobuqu kwimidlalo yabo. Oku kuluncedo ngakumbi ukuba inezinto ekuhlaleni njengoko kungasoyikisi ukudibana nabantu abatsha xa umhlobo wakho enokuthi asebenze njengongena phakathi.
8. Phinda ujonge izinto ozithandayo kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Ngaba ukhe wanento oyithandayo oyithandayo?
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba sele kudlule iinyanga okanye iminyaka, kufanelekile ukuba uphinde uzame kwakhona ukuze ubone ukuba usakonwabela ngokufanayo na.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuba nomhlwa kancinci ukuba yinto yokuzilibazisa efuna ubuchule, kodwa konke kuya kubuyela emva kwakho ngokukhawuleza.
Mhlawumbi jonga kude kakhulu emva kwaye ucinge ngento owawukonwabela ukuyenza njengomntwana.
Sivame ukubandakanyeka kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo xa sisebancinci, kodwa uninzi luya kuwa ecaleni kwendlela.
Kodwa ukuba wenze umphefumlo wakho uncume ebutsheni bakho, akukho sizathu sokukholelwa ukuba ayizukuyenza ngoku.
9. Khetha, kodwa phumela ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela.
Zininzi izinto zokuzonwabisa ezinokubakho kunokuba ngumceli mngeni ekukhetheni ezimbalwa ukuze uzame.
Yiba nokuqonda malunga nezinto ozithandayo ozizamayo, kodwa ungoyiki ukuqaphela izinto ezinokubonakala ngathi azikulungelanga.
Unokufumanisa ukuba ukwenza izinto ezingaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kunika ulonwabo olukhulu njengayo nayiphi na enye into. Emva kwethutyana, ezo zinto ziya kuqala ukuziva zikhululekile.
Kwaye uya kuba namava okuziqhenya ngokuzicel 'umngeni kwinto obungayi kuyenza ngesiqhelo.
10. Sukuzama izinto ezininzi ngexesha elinye.
Kubalulekile ukuba ungazisasazi kakhulu ngokusampula imisebenzi emininzi ngexesha elifutshane.
Ngelixa unokufuna umdlalo, awuyi kufuna ukuphulukana nalo lonke ixesha lakho lasimahla. Uyalidinga elo xesha lokudodobala ebomini.
Kuyacetyiswa ke ukuba ungazami ngaphezu kwesinye okanye ezimbini zokuzonwabisa ngexesha. Yenza amatyeli ambalwa, kwaye ukuba ayizezakho, emva koko ungaqhubeka uzame enye into.
Ukuba ugcwalisa ishedyuli yakho ngemithwalo yemisebenzi emitsha, uya kufumanisa ukuba awufumani lonwabo olupheleleyo kuyo nayiphi na kuzo.
Unokuziva ukoyiswa yiyo yonke le misebenzi kwaye uzabalaza ekuchongeni into oyithandayo nengayithandiyo.
11. Fumana umdlalo wokuzonwabisa obonisa umdla wakho kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni.
Yintoni oyithandayo ngoku?
Zeziphi ezona ziseko uzixabise kakhulu?
Iimpendulo zakho kule mibuzo mibini zinokukunceda ekuchongeni iindlela zokuzonwabisa onokuthi uzame kuzo, kwaye zinokukunceda uzibuse ngaphandle ezo zingenakulunga ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuba uyakonwabela ukufunda ngoku, mhlawumbi ukujoyina iklabhu yencwadi kunye nokuthetha ngezinto ozifundayo kuya kubhenela kuwe.
Ukuba uyayonwabela inkampani yezilwanyana kwaye unenkathalo enkulu, ukuvolontiya kwiprojekthi yasefama yoluntu kunokuba yile nto uyifunayo.
12. Hlanganisa umdlalo kunye nokuziphucula.
Mhlawumbi kukho iinkalo ezithile zobuntu bakho obungathanda ukuzitshintsha zibe ngcono.
Jonga ukuba kunokubakho into oyithandayo enokukunceda uhlakulele olo phawu.
Umntu ufuna ukufowunela endaweni yokubhaliweyo
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukusebenzela ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nezakhono zokuthetha. Unokujoyina ingxoxo-mpikiswano okanye iqela leengxoxo kwaye uziqhelanise nokucinga nokudlulisela iingcinga zakho kwabanye.
Ukuba ufuna ukusebenza kumonde wakho, into elula njengephazili inokukunceda wenze oko.
Izinto zokuzonwabisa zivame ukukhuthaza ukukhula komntu ngendlela enye okanye enye, ke ukuba unqwenela ukujolisa kwinto ethile, zibuze ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zemisebenzi ezinokuba luncedo ngokukodwa.
13. Qaphela amandla akho engqondo nawemvakalelo emva kokuzama umdlalo omtsha.
Xa uzama into entsha, ungazi njani ukuba yinto oza kuyonwabela ekuhambeni kwexesha?
Njengoko besesitshilo, kufanelekile ukuzama into entsha oyithandayo ubuncinci amaxesha amabini okanye amathathu ukuze uyifumane.
Emva kwexesha ngalinye, zibandakanya kancinci kwaye uzibuze ukuba uziva njani.
Into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqaphele kukuba ingaba lo msebenzi uluchithile ugcino lwakho lwengqondo namandla emvakalelo.
Uninzi lwezinto ziya kuba kukunkcenkceshela amandla ekuqaleni njengoko uyiqhela, kodwa ukuba uziva ukoyiswe kakhulu yinto ethile, isenokungalingani nohlobo lwakho lobuntu.
Into oyithandayo oyithandayo iya kuba yinto engumthombo wamandla engqondo. Kuya kufuneka ujonge phambili kwaye uzive ukhululekile emva koko.
Ngokucacileyo ezinye izinto ozithandayo ziya kukushiya uziva uhluthwe emzimbeni, ke kungcono ukuba ujonge nje kumandla engqondo kunye neemvakalelo ophulukene nazo okanye oza kuzuza.
