Masijongane nayo. Siphila kwihlabathi elilawulwa ngamampunge.
Sonke sifuna ukubonakala silungile kwaye siziva silungile, kwaye siya kuyeka nganto ukufezekisa loo 'mfanekiso' unqwenelekayo kunye nemvakalelo.
Amampunge anamhlanje asibangela ukuba siye kugqithiso ukuze silingane.
Singena ematyaleni ukuthenga loo moto iqhubekekayo, sichitha ixesha lethu elixabisekileyo phambi kwezibuko, sichitha ixesha elininzi siziphulula emqolo endaweni yokuthanda, kwaye sizibeka nakwiitafile zokusebenza konke ukuzama ukuba yinto esikuyo 't.
wazi njani xa umntu ekuncwasa
Amampunge yenye yezona zono ziphambili ezithwaxa uluntu namhlanje.
Ininzi yelizwe lethu kunye noqoqosho lwakhiwe kwizinto ezingento zabantu, kwaye zinokutshabalalisa umhlaba njengoko sisazi namhlanje.
Kutheni Amampunge Ayingozi?
Kungavakala kusisihiba ukuthi uphawu lomntu luyingozi, kodwa ndive phandle.
Ilize lanamhlanje NGU mnyama kwaye iyingozi.
Awundikholelwa?
Jonga bonke abantu abasokolayo (okanye abafileyo) ngenxa ye-melanoma ebangelwe yimibhede yokuqhawula ulusu okanye ulusu olugqithisileyo.
Babefuna ukujonga okuhle kwabanye kuphela.
Okanye kuthekani ngabo bonke abantwana abaye bazibulala ngenxa yokuxhaphazwa?
Abaxhaphazi babecinga ukuba bayaphola kwaye babonisa abanye umdla - babelilize.
Ixabiso lamampunge liphezulu.
Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa zokuba into engento iyingozi kuthi nakwintlalo yethu.
Nye. Asinakuvuma ukuba asilunganga
Ukuvuma ukuba ungalunganga kunzima.
Ndiyayifumana.
Sonke sinoluvo kwaye sifuna ukuba zichanekile.
Ngoba?
Kungenxa yokuba ukungalunganga kuya kuwutshabalalisa umfanekiso wethu omncinci ogqibeleleyo esisebenze nzima ukwakha.
Icala elisezantsi kukuba ukuba akukho mntu ehlabathini ongalunganga, ngubani olungileyo?
Singakholelwa ukuba silungile, kodwa enyanisweni simane siyilahla kude inyaniso.
Kwaye ngenye imini, iya kuzimela kwaye isilume ngokwenene esileni.
usweleke njani unyana ka-ric flair unyana
Inyaniso inendlela ehlekisayo yokwenza oko.
2. Abantu Abangento Abathembekanga
Mhlawumbi uphumelele kakuhle okanye ujongeke ngobuhlanya.
Mhlawumbi usisityebi.
Mhlawumbi unguMongameli wase-United States.
Kodwa ukuba uzele lilize kwaye uzikhukhumalisa oko kubonisa, uxelela umhlaba ukuba awunakuthenjwa.
Amampunge abangela ukutyeba. Ukuba uzikhathaze ngesiqu sakho, yiyo kuphela loo mntu umkhathalele ngokwenene.
Abantu abacingelwayo abanayo into efunekayo ukuze babe ngabahlobo. Abanayo into efunekayo ukuze babe yinkokeli. Awunakuthembela kubo. Bazi angathembeki .
3. Amampunge aBangela ukuGqibela Ukuzicekisa
Ukuzimela ngokwakho kukhokelela ekubeni ube nengqondo emxinwa enokukufamekisa okwexeshana kwiimpazamo zakho, kodwa ekugqibeleni uza kusilela kakhulu.
Uya kusilela ngokwaneleyo kangangokuba nokuba imbono yakho engathandekiyo iya kuyisithelisa emehlweni akho.
Kwaye ekubeni uzikhathaze kakhulu ngokugqibelela, uza ukuzibetha xa usilele.
Amampunge yinto yokududula ngokweemvakalelo ngokuzincoma nokuzibetha.
Olu hlobo lokukhwela alonwabisi.
Okukhona uzibetha, kokukhona uzithiyile .
Amampunge afana nesiyobisi. Okwexeshana uziva ulungile, kodwa ukuba uzifica kakhulu, uphelela konehla olubi ngokwenene.
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Ungayiyeka Njani Ilize
Ukuzithemba nokuzithanda ngokwakho zizinto ezintle.
Banika amandla, bayakhuthaza, kwaye banesibindi.
Nangona kunjalo, ngumgca olungileyo phakathi kokuzithemba nokungamampunge.
Nje ukuba uwelele kokungamampunge, ulahlekelwa kukuzazi kwakho. Uphulukana noxanduva lokuphendula ngenxa yento oyiyo.
Inyani yile yokuba amampunge abangelwa kukungazithembi, ke, enyanisweni, abantu abalambathayo abazithembanga kwaphela.
Bahlala befuna ukunconywa kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwabanye. Bafuna ukuba 'bapholile' kwaye bazingene.
Ke uwela njani emva kokuvela kwilize uye kukuzithemba?
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa.
ndingazi njani ukuba umntu udlala ngam
Nye. Yeka Ukuzithelekisa Nabanye
Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, kulula kunakuqala ukukhangela kwimithombo yeendaba kwaye ubone imifanekiso yeemodeli ezintle, abanini bamashishini abaphumeleleyo, kunye nabantu abazizityebi.
Kunzima ukuba ungaqali ukuzithelekisa nabo kwaye uza neendlela zokubonisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo kwaye ujonge, kodwa kuya kufuneka uxhathise.
Uyile nto uyiyo, kwaye ugqibelele ngaloo ndlela.
2. Yakha Ukuthobeka Kwakho
Ewe unokuba ulumkile. Ewe, unokuba mhle. Ngokuqinisekileyo ulungile kwizinto ezimbalwa.
Kodwa ungaze uyilibale into yokuba umncinci kakhulu kweli hlabathi lidala.
Awulunganga kuyo yonke into, kwaye kukho abantu phaya abakwaziyo ngakumbi kunokwazi kwakho.
Awunamandla njengokuba ungathanda ukucinga. Thobeka . Liyeke lonke ikratshi.
3. Yiba Nombulelo
Ngaba unayo uphahla phezu kwentloko yakho? Ukutya kwipleyiti yakho? Umvuzo?
Ngaba uyazi ukuba kukho izigidi zabantu phaya ngaphandle ezinqwenela ukuba nazo?
Andizami ukuba yiDebby Downer, kodwa oku kuyinyani.
Ngelixa uxakekile ukhathazeka ngendlela iinwele zakho ezigqibeleleyo, umntu onomhlaza uphulukana nezakhe.
Amawakawaka abantu kwilizwe lethu balala ezitalatweni kwaye bacela ukutya yonke imihla.
Kukho abantu ababulawa zizifo esigonywe kuzo. Ke yenze umkhwa wemihla ngemihla ukuba nombulelo ngezinto onazo.
Awudingi ngaphezulu. Kufuneka wonwabe yile nto unayo.
Silawula olu hlanga lungento yoyikekayo. Kufuneka ibe ngabo abatshintshayo.
Yeka ukukhathalela malunga nendlela wena nabanye enibukeka ngayo okanye ukuba ninamandla kangakanani.
Ixesha liyadlula. Yisebenzise kakuhle. Yamkela ukungafezeki kwakho. Bathande abanye. Yiya konwaba kwaye wonwabele ubomi bakho.
Yenza zonke izinto ezililize ezikuthintelayo ukuba ungazenzi.
Sukuvumela isono esibi ukuba silawule ubomi bakho okanye uluntu lwethu.
Amampunge anamandla kuphela njengoko sivumela ukuba abe njalo… ke masingavumeli ukuba ibe njalo.
