Singabagxeki bethu.
Ewe, sizibethelela izinto abanye abangasokuze bacinge ngazo, singasathethi ke ngathi, kwaye sihlala sizibophelela kwimigangatho engenakwenzeka.
Oko konke kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Yintoni enokuba ngunobangela wenkxalabo kuxa izinto ezininzi ezinegalelo zisenza ukuba sizidele ngokwenyani…
… Enokuba neziphumo ezihle kakhulu ukuba ayilungiswanga kwakamsinya kunokuba kamva.
Inokuvuza kubomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye yonakalise ubudlelwane bethu, umsebenzi, kunye nokuba sempilweni ngokupheleleyo.
Emva kwexesha, siza kuvavanya ezinye zeempawu eziphambili zengqondo yokuzicekisa, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba senze njalo, masibuze ukuba ivela phi.
Iingcambu zokuZizonda
Masicace gca: akukho sizathu sinye sokuzicekisa. Ingqondo yomntu inzima kakhulu ukuba ingafakwa kwisizathu esinye.
Kodwa sinokuzama ukufumanisa ezinye zezinto ezinokuba negalelo kumfanekiso omncinci wobuntu bakho.
Abanye abantu banokufunda ukuzicekisa emva kweminyaka yokungahoywa njengomntwana. Banokuthi 'bafundiswe' ukungazithandi ngenxa yendlela abaphethwe nabathetha ngayo.
Abo babakhathaleleyo banokuthi baqhubele ekhaya umyalezo wokuba bangabo ayinaxabiso kwaye alunamsebenzi kwaye alufanelanga uthando, kwaye umntwana ukhula eyikholelwa le nto.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuphathwa gadalala ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo njengomntu okhulileyo kunokudiliza imbonakalo yomntu esempilweni kwaye kukhokelele ekugqwethweni kweenkolelo neengcinga zakhe.
Umothuko nakweliphi na inqanaba lobomi kunokubangela utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela esizijonga ngayo kunye nokuzithemba kwethu. Iziganeko ezisisinye zinokubangela amaqhakuva asasazeka kwikamva lethu kwaye aphelise iziseko zethu izimvo zakho .
Amaxesha amaninzi amava njengenxalenye yoxinzelelo olubanzi, ukuzicekisa kunokuba nesizathu semichiza. Iingqondo zabagulayo zisenokungasebenzi ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye oku kungakhokelela kukungalingani kweenkqubo ezithile zeekhemikhali.
Kwaye abanye abantu banokuba nayo ubuchopho obunentambo eyahlukileyo kwabanye nto leyo ekhokelela ekubeni uzithiye.
Le ngcingo kunye notshintsho lweekhemikhali olunokubakho lunokunxulunyaniswa namava omntu kwaye banokuba nemfuza.
Ukuzicekisa kuhlala kuhlala kuyomeleza
Ngaba wakha weva ngesiqinisekiso sokukhetha?
Kukutyekela kwengqondo yomntu ukukhangela ubungqina obuxhasa iinkolelo zakhe. Okanye utolike ubungqina obunokuphikisana neenkolelo zabo njengobuxoki.
Ke ukuba uyakholelwa kwimbono ethile-ukuba utshintsho lwemozulu alubangelwa zizenzo zoluntu, umzekelo-awufuni kuphela ubungqina obuqinisekisa uluvo lwakho, kodwa uyalahla nantoni na enokuphikisana nayo (ngelixa kwangaxeshanye uzityeshela iimpazamo ubungqina obuxhasayo).
Yintoni le inento yokwenza nokuzicaphukela?
Ewe, abantu abazithiyi ngaphandle kwesizathu. Banokuba noluhlu olude lwezinto malunga nabo abangazithandiyo.
Iimpazamo bakholelwa ukuba banazo.
Iinkalo zemizimba yabo okanye iingqondo okanye nkqu nemimoya yabo abacinga ukuba 'ayilunganga' ngandlela thile.
Kwaye bajonge iindlela zokuqinisekisa ezi ngcinga kunye neenkolelo ngelixa bephikisa nantoni na enokucebisa ngenye indlela.
Kwaye 'ubungqina' ababufumanayo bokuqinisekisa ukuzicekisa kwabo bahlala bethe tye kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ubumenemene beengqondo zabo.
Ukusilela kwalo naluphi na uhlobo kubonwa njengezinto ezingalunganga kwaye hayi njengamava okufunda okuyinyani.
Kuphela nje sisizathu sokuba bazibethe ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ukujongela phantsi izakhono zabo kwaye bazibone bengenako kwaye bengafanelekanga.
Xa benxibelelana nabanye abantu, bajonge nayiphi na impendulo enokuqinisekisa iinkolelo zabo. Kwaye ukuba ezi azizukuvela, banokubambisa abantu kubo okanye bazenze nje ezingqondweni zabo.
Bazibona 'izinto ekuziphatheni kwabanye abantu ngendlela ethile ebonisa ukuzixabisa kwabo.
Bayeka ukugxeka ngelixa betyeshela indumiso.
Bangena kwezona zincinci iinkcukacha ngelixa betyeshela imeko kunye neemvakalelo.
Bafuna ukukholelwa ukuba ukuzicekisa kwabo kufanelekile.
Abafuni ukukholelwa ekubeni isenokungagwetyelwa.
Iimpawu zokuZizonda
Xa umntu ezidelela, iba nefuthe kwindlela abacinga nabaziphatha ngayo.
Ezi ngcinga kunye nezenzo zinokuthi ziqwalaselwe njengeempawu zenkolo ethe kratya yokuba umntu 'akalunganga' okanye akafanelekanga nangayiphi na indlela.
Zininzi, kodwa nazi ezili-11 eziqhelekileyo.
1. Ngaphantsi okanye ngokuTya kakhulu
Uninzi lwabantu olusokoliswa kukuzicaphukela luyohlwaya ngokwalo ngokutya: nokuba kungatyi ngokwaneleyo, okanye kukubhaka.
Abo bazinqandayo ngokwabo ukutya bahlala beziva ngathi abakufanelanga ukutya, okanye baya kuzikhanyela yonke into ngaphandle kokutya abangakuthandiyo njengohlobo lokohlwaya kwanokuba sele bekho.
Abo batya kakhulu benza njalo ukuze bazive behlazekile kamva: sisizathu esomeleleyo sokuzidelela.
2. Ukungahoywa ngokwasemzimbeni
Abantu banokuyeka ukuhlamba rhoqo, bayeke ukuxubha iinwele okanye amazinyo, banxibe iimpahla ezifanayo zokulala abazinxibe emini, njl.
Bayayeka ukukhathalela inkangeleko yabo, kwaye bahoye kwaneziseko zempilo yomntu…
… Hayi ngenxa yokuba ngenene abakhathali, kodwa kuba banokuziva ngathi abakufanelanga ukubonakala okanye bazive 'belungile.'
Bazohlwaya ngokungakhathali, emva koko bazive beqinisekisiwe ngokuzithiya ngakumbi nangakumbi.
3. Ukoyiswa
'Kutheni uzikhathaza ngokuzama, ndiza kukufunxa nje.'
'Ndizokungaphumeleli koku.'
'Ayizukusebenza le.'
Ukuthetha ngokungathandekiyo okunje kuseta umntu ukuba asilele, okuqinisa imeko yabo yokuzicekisa kunye neentloni.
Ikwabathintela ekuthatheni inxaxheba kuyo nantoni na enokubazisela uvuyo okanye ulwaneliseko, kuba bazithembisile kwangaphambi kwexesha ukuba baya kuncanca nantoni na abayizamayo.
4. Ukuzincama
Nokuba kwilinge lokuzohlwaya ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, okanye kwilinge elibuthathaka lokuzuza ukuxabiseka kwabanye abantu, abantu abasokolayo ngokuzingca bayazincama ngalo naliphi na inani leendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Kuba abanakho ukuzidropa naziphi na iimvakalelo zekratshi kubo, bazama ukubonakala benesidima ngezenzo ukuze abanye babasizele kwaye babaxabise ngokufela ukholo.
Ekubandezelekeni kwabo, bafumana umlinganiselo othile wokuzixabisa, nokuba amanyathelo abawenzayo ayabatshabalalisa nabo bonke abo babangqongileyo.
5. Ukufumana izinto
Umntu ozidelelayo kunye neemeko zobomi anokuthi 'alale angayithathi' endaweni yokwenza nantoni na ngayo.
Banokukhalaza kabuhlungu malunga nesandla ekuye kwenziwa kubo, kodwa ukuba banikwe ithuba lokuphucula iimeko zabo, bakhetha ukwenza njalo yiba nomsi kwaye vele uthathe endaweni yoko.
Olu hlobo lokuziphatha luthelekiswa nokubamba amalahle avuthayo ngokuqinileyo kwinqindi lomntu, ekhala ngendlela etshisa ngayo, kodwa ukwala ukuvula iminwe ukuze ayeke.
Ngokukhawuleza xa oko kusenzeka, baya kuqala ukuphilisa… kodwa endaweni yoko, babambelela.
6. Ubutshaba Kuwona 'Izisongelo' Ezibonwayo
Banokuthatha isigqibo sokungamthandi uontanga emsebenzini kuba becinga ukuba omnye umntu uxabiseke kakhulu kunabo, okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba afumane ukunyuselwa abakufunayo.
Banokungxamela iqabane elithandanayo ngokuthetha nomnye umntu kuba becinga ukuba omnye 'ulunge,' unomtsalane, okanye uphumelele ngakumbi kunabo, kwaye iqabane labo liya kubashiyela elinye.
Yonke into iyisongelo kwisiqwenga esincinci sentuthuzelo abanokuthi bazenzele yona, kwaye baya kuphambana ukuba kukho nantoni na egrogrisa oko, kwithiyori.
7. Inkcitho engeyomfuneko
Xa umntu ezithiyile ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, ulonwabo kunye nokwoneliseka kuhlala kufumaneka ngezinto eziphathekayo.
Umntu unokuba nengqokelela ayongeza kuye naphi na xa benemali yokudlala, okanye baya kuya kwindawo yokuthenga ngethemba lokuba mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, le nto intsha iya kuba sisitshixo somlingo sokubenza bazive bazalisekisiwe endaweni yokuba ezingenanto kunye neentloni nokuzithiya.
Abanye abantu bade bakhethe ukuchitha imali eninzi kwabanye abantu ukuzama ukubonisa ukuba kufanelekile ukuthandwa.
Oku kunokwahlukanisa bona kanye abantu abazama ukusondela kubo, njengoko kungekho baninzi abaziva bekhululekile xa begqalwa 'ngezinto,' ngakumbi ukuba kuyabiza.
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8. Ukuzenza ikheswa
Uninzi lwabantu abaziphethe ngokucekisa badla ngokuzikhetha.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungenxa yokuba baziva ngathi abakho ngokwenyani nakweliphi na iqela lezentlalo kwaye wonke umntu obangqongileyo uyabacaphukela…
… Ke endaweni yokuziva ngathi ungumntu wasemzini, uzahlulwe kwaye uwedwa kwanakwiqela, baya kuzifihla bodwa endaweni yoko.
Ukuba bamenyiwe, bayakuyithatha njengosizi, kwaye banokuziqinisekisa ukuba akekho omnye umntu obaqondayo, kwaye baya kuchitha ixesha bodwa, ekhaya, benqwenela ukuba izinto zahlukile, kodwa bengenzi nto ukuyenza ibe yinyani.
9. Iziyobisi kunye / okanye Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kotywala
Izidakwa zinokwenza imimangaliso yokuphelisa iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo okanye ezingafunekiyo, kwaye zinezibonelelo ezongeziweyo zokwenza ukuba umsebenzisi azive eyoyikeka ngosuku olulandelayo.
Xa abantu benengxaki yokuzicekisa, bathambekele ekuziva ngathi bafanelwe yimingxunya kunye nokuwa ngenxa yokusebenzisa iziyobisi gwenxa.
Bayondla iintloni zabo, baphele ukunxila okanye ukuphakama Konke kwakhona ukuze ubaleke iimvakalelo ezihlazo, ezenzakalisayo.
Ngumjikelo okhohlakeleyo ekunzima ukwahlukana nawo, ngakumbi ukuba umntu ubekhe wanamathela kulo mkhwa kangangeminyaka emininzi. Kukho intuthuzelo ethile enokufunyanwa kukuzikhohlakalela, yeha.
10. Ulwalamano lweSabotage
Kuba abantu abaninzi abazithiyileyo baziva bengafanelwe luthando, okanye ubuhle, okanye ububele, okanye nantoni na eyenye ngaphandle kokukhaba esiswini xa sele behlile, uninzi lwabo Ukonakalisa ubudlelwane babo ukwenzela ukugcina abanye ukuba bangasondeli kakhulu kubo.
Banokungakhathaleli okanye babaphathe gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni amaqabane abo, okanye ukukopela kubo , okanye ubaphathe nje gwenxa…
… Kwaye emva koko xa iqabane lihamba, baziva benelungelo lokuziphatha ngenxa yesihogo, bemkile, andithi?
Abanye abantu abazisebenzisayo baya kude bashiye kwaye baphefumle amaqabane abo, nokuba bayabathanda kwaye bafuna ukuba kunye nabo.
Isizathu sokuba bakhethe ukuthatha uxanduva nokwenzakalisa ngokwabo, kunokuba semngciphekweni wokumangaliswa nokwenzakala xa abo babathandayo ekugqibeleni bebashiyileyo.
Abanye bade baluthathe olu hlobo lokulahlwa njengesenzo esihle: baziva ngathi kuba baya kuthi ekugqibeleni baphathe kabuhlungu abo babathandayo, kungcono ngandlela thile ukuba babakhulule abo babathandayo 'bakhululeke.'
Ukukhululeka kwintlungu abanokuthi bayenze.
11. Ukwala ukufumana uncedo
Okulusizi kukuba, enye yezona mpawu zibalulekileyo zokuzicekisa ukwala ukufumana naluphi na uhlobo loncedo.
Umntu oxineneyo kolu hlobo lwengqondo unomdla wokukhupha nayiphi na ingcebiso yolu hlobo, kuba 'bayazi' ukuba ayizukunceda.
Ayizukunceda nto.
Ukuba naziphi na iinzame abazenzayo ziya kusilela, kwaye bonke oochwephesha kunye nabacebisi baya kubabeka nje kwiimeds (abavakalelwa kukuba azizukunceda) okanye benze ngathi bamamele iingxaki zabo, ke akukho sizathu.
Kungaphantse kubonakale ngathi bayonwabela ukubandezeleka kwabo kwinqanaba elithile: bafumana uhlobo lwentuthuzelo ngokuzisizela nokuzithiya, kwaye ngekhe bazi ukuba baya kuba ngubani ngaphandle kwako konke oko kungakhathali.
Basenokoyika ukuba xa beyikhulula kuyo, iyakuba yinto yokulungisa okwethutyana kwaye emva koko ibuye ibuye nempindezelo…
… Ke kungcono ukuba uhlale uqhubeka ngelixa ukwinqanaba abalithatha ukuba linokulawulwa, nokuba lonakalise kangakanani.
Ukwala kokufumana uncedo sesinye sezizathu zokuba kutheni abo basondeleyo kwizinambuzane ezizodwa bazikhathaze, kwaye ekugqibeleni boyiswe kukuziphatha kwabo.
Awunakho ukunceda umntu ongakulungelanga ukuzinceda, kwaye akukho sixa sokuqinisekiswa okanye uthando olungenamiqathango uya kunyanzela umntu ukuba afumane uncedo aludingayo.
Indlela yokujongana neemvakalelo zokuZizonda
Xa umntu efuna ukuphuma kwingqondo akuyo, bahamba njani malunga nayo?
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuba sithi kuyenzeka ukuba utshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo ngawe. Kwaye ubomi bakho bunokuba ngcono ngayo.
Kuya kufuneka ubonakalise ukuzimisela ukusebenza kuwe. Naluphi na utshintsho lobukhulu luza kuthatha ixesha kunye nomzamo.
Akukho lunyango lomlingo.
Utshintsho yinkqubo kwaye indlela ayisoloko ithe tye. Kuya kubakho ukubuyela umva. Ungekhe uhlale ukwazi ukubona okuzayo malunga nokugoba okulandelayo.
Kodwa ukuba unamathela kuyo, indlela ekugqibeleni iya kuthi ikhokelele kwindlela entsha neqinisekileyo yokucinga ngawe.
Iingcali ziyakwazi ukunceda
Njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla, umntu oxheleke ekuzicekisekeni kwakhe unokuthandabuza malunga nokuba ingcali yezonyango okanye umcebisi uza kunceda kangakanani.
Ukulwa noku, kufuneka bayekise ukungakholelwa kwabo kwaye bahlale ingqondo evulekile ukubanakho ukuba le ngcali iyayazi into abayithethayo.
Basenokungazithembi, kodwa kufuneka bathembele kwiingcebiso abazifumanayo kwaye bazibophelele ekuphumezeni naziphi na iingcebiso abazenzileyo.
Endaweni yokuxhathisa le nkqubo, banokuzama ukusondela kuyo benesimo sengqondo sokuba “ndiza kulahleka ntoni?”
Kuya kufuneka bakuchase ukoyiswa kwabo. Basenokungakholelwa ukuba iza kusebenza, kodwa akufuneki benze izizathu zokungazami.
Oku, kukodwa, ngumlo, kuba baya kukholwa ukuba abafanelekanga ukuba bazive bonwabile.
Ukuba ufuna ukufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha, ungaqala ngokuthetha izinto ugqirha-cofa apha ukuze ufumane enye.
Ukuguqula umba wokuQinisekiswa
Kwangoko, sichazile indlela ukungqina komntu ekuqinisekiseni ukunganyanzeleki kwabo baziva.
Kodwa kwa le ndlela inye inokusetyenziselwa ukulwa ezo mvakalelo.
Ukuze isebenze, umntu kufuneka azame ukuhlala eyazi ezakhe iingcinga kunye nokuziphatha. Kwaye kufuneka bazikhokele ezo ngcinga ziye kwindawo eyahlukileyo kuleyo baya kuye ngokwendalo.
Kwi-loop engalunganga yokunika ingxelo, ufuna ulwazi oluqinisekisa iinkolelo zakho zokuzicekisa.
Kwimpendulo elungileyo, unokufuna ulwazi oluqinisekisa ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani njengomntu.
Ngenjongo ujonge iimeko ezibonisa ixabiso lakho lokwenyani.
Ezi zihlala zihlala zizinto ezincinci, kodwa zinefuthe elongezelekayo.
Mhlawumbi umhlekisile umntu osebenza naye. Mhlawumbi upheke usapho lwakho isidlo esimnandi abakhawuleze ukusincoma.
Ngaba uncede umntu ongamaziyo owakhubeka wawa? Ngaba uceliwe ukuba udlale indima ebalulekileyo ngosuku lomtshato womhlobo wakho?
Xa nantoni na enje isenzeka, buza nje ukuba ithetha ukuthini.
Gxeka xa ucinga uze uzibeke ezihlangwini zomntu obukeleyo. Bangacinga ntoni xa bezibona ezi zinto? Babeza kucinga ntoni ngalo mntu?
Ngethemba, impendulo ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka ukuba bayongeza kwihlabathi abazifumana bekulo kunye nobomi ababelana nabanye.
Alice kwi Wondland Quotes Mad Hatter
Bangumnikeli omnatha. Umbutho uyaxhamla kubukho bawo. Zibalulekile kwabanye.
Ezi ziindidi zeengcinga kunye neenkolelo ezifuna ukungqinisiswa ngumkhethe wokufuna izinto ezintle ozenzayo okanye oyinxalenye yazo.
Okukhona uzijonga ezi zinto, kokukhona ingqondo yakho inokwenza into elungileyo enokuqinisekisa ngalo lonke ixesha.
Kodwa kukho enye inxalenye yale nxaki.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ingqondo yakho ibuyela kutyekelo lwayo lwangoku lokufuna into engeyiyo, kuya kufuneka uthathe ingcinga kwaye ugxeke kangangoko unako.
Oku kuthetha ukuba uhlola ngokwenene ukuba ingcaciso yakho yezibakala ichanekile na.
Ke ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba umntu othile akakuthandi ngenxa yento ayithethileyo okanye ayenzileyo, buza ukuba ingaba kunjalo ngenene okanye ingaba ingqondo yakho ichaze nje esi sizathu ngokusekelwe kubungqina bobuxoki.
Kwaye ukuba ucinga usisidenge , zama ukuqaphela amaxesha apho ulwazi lwakho kunye nobuchule bubale khona. Amaxesha xa umntu ethembele kuwe kuba ubusazi into abangayenzanga.
Ngokusisiseko, kuya kufuneka utyhalele umva ngokuchasene nempendulo yakho yokuqala engathandekiyo kwaye ubuze ukufaneleka kwayo.
Kwaye kokukhona unokukwenza oku, ngelixa ulungiselela impompo elungileyo ngexesha elinye, kokukhona uya kuba nakho ukutshintsha ingqondo yakho.
Ukuzamkela kunye nokuNgaphaya!
Hayi, ayisiyo-Buzz Lightyear's catchphrase entsha. Luhambo oluza kuluthatha.
Uyabona, iimvakalelo onazo ngokwakho zihlala ndaweni ithile kwindawo ebonakalayo ukusuka ekuzicekisekeni nasekuthandeni ngokwakho. Ukwamkela ngokwakho kuhlala kwindawo ethile embindini ngolu hlobo:
Okwangoku, unokuzibeka ngasekhohlo kulo mgca, kwaye umceli mngeni wakho kukuhamba kancinci uye kwiziko.
Ukwamkela ngokwakho kwanele ukujolisa ngoku. Ukuzithanda yinto ephantse yenziwa ngumntu wonke. Kodwa inyani kukuba, uninzi lwabantu luyasokola kuyo.
Ukuba ungagcina isiqinisekiso esihle sokukhetha ukuhamba kwaye umise ukungqinisisa okungathandekiyo kwiitraki zayo, ekugqibeleni uya kuzifumanisa usiya kwicala elilungileyo ecaleni komgca:
Uya kudibana neengxaki apha endleleni. Kuya kubakho ukuxhathisa kolu tshintsho ukusuka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwengqondo yakho engekho zingqondweni.
Akufanele kukutyhafise ukwazi ukuba kuya kubakho imizabalazo. Sonke sijamelana nobunzima. Ukoyisa kuzo kunokuba lelinye lawona maxesha anika amandla ebomini bakho.
Kodwa kungcono ukuba uzilungiselele ngokwasengqondweni.
Isitshixo kukuzingisa nokungaguquguquki.
Kwaye bekungafanelekanga ukuba ungakhathali xa uzifumanisa usiya kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Impilo elungileyo yengqondo ifana nempilo elungileyo yomzimba- ifuna ukuba ugcine imikhwa elungileyo yobomi.
Njengokuba ii-dieters zinokubona ubunzima bayo yo-yo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane amava emva nasemva kokuzithemba kwakho.
Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye le yokwamkelwa kwakho ojolise kuko?
Ingqondo ekuvumela ukuba ujonge ukuba ungubani na apha kwaye uyamnkele- okuhle nokubi.
Ayisiyo mvakalelo yokungabi namandla. Asinguwe othi, 'Andinakutshintsha ukuba ndingubani.'
Nguwe othi 'Le nto ndinguye namhlanje kwaye ndiyayamkela le nyaniso. Kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ndinam ngaphakathi ukuba nditshintshe ndikhule njengomntu. ”
Kuthatha amandla amaninzi engqondo UKUZE ungamkeli ukuba ungubani ngeli xesha langoku. Luhlobo lokwala.
Kwaye nje ukuba uzikhulule ubunyani bento, amandla anokusetyenziselwa ezinye izinto.
Ke gcina ukwamkelwa ngokwakho njengoko ujonge.
Kweli nqaku, sithethe ngeengcambu zokuzicekisa, siqwalasele ezinye zeempawu zayo, kwaye sivavanye iindlela zokoyisa le ngqondo kwaye siqhubele eluxolweni kwaye indawo yomxholo .
Ukuzicaphukela yintolongo ngaphakathi kwengqondo. Ingaziva uqhelekile kwaye ikhuselekile kwaye ungangafuni ukungcamla inkululeko ekhoyo ngaphandle, kodwa wakuba uyenzile, uyakuqonda ukuba wawuthintelwe kangakanani.
Zilungiselele. Yazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuziva ulungile.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kusebenza njani kwaye ugqithise ukuzenyanya kwakho? Thetha kunyangi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
