I-Narcissism sisihloko esixoxwa ngokubanzi kwihlabathi lophuhliso lomntu, kodwa olu hlobo lomntu luye lwasuswa ngokubanzi kunokuba kufanelekile.
Kukho iimpawu ezahlukeneyo ezihlala zihlala, ngokungalunganga, zibangelwa yi-narcissism kwaye ekufuneka, enyanisweni, yamkelwe njengenxalenye yohlobo lobuntu be-Machiavellian.
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Le webhsayithi inetyala lokwenza loo nto-njengabanye abaninzi-kuba ayiqhelekanga into yokuba umntu abonise iimpawu zembali kunye ne-Machiavellian.
Kodwa oko akutsho ukuba yonke i-narcissist yi-Machiavellian okanye ngokuchaseneyo. Ukwazi umohluko kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqaphele ukuba yeyiphi na ojongana nayo.
Okokuqala, makhe sijonge kwiimpawu eziyinyani are enxulunyaniswa ne-narcissists.
UmNarcissist
I-Narcissism iqhutywa ngokupheleleyo yi-ego kwaye oku kuyacaca xa ujonga ezinye zeempawu ezixhaphakileyo ezibonakaliswa ngumntu.
Banombono wento engekhoyo yokuzihombisa, bekholelwa ukuba babodwa, babalasele, kwaye banembono ebaxiweyo yempumelelo yabo kunye namandla abo.
Bafuna ingqalelo, ukunconywa, kunye nodumo lwabo babangqongileyo kwaye bayacaphuka xa oku kungenzeki.
Ukuba bakhe bajongana nokugxekwa okanye izimvo ezingahambelaniyo nezabo, bayazikhusela kakhulu, kwaye bayalahla.
Batyhilekile imvo yelungelo , bekholelwa ukuba bafaneleke kunabanye abantu.
Bazicingela bodwa kwaye abathandi ukubona abanye bephumelela, kwanokuba bayakwenza njalo. Bayala ukwabelana ngombono naye nabani na ongomnye.
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Bathatha umona nomona kwinqanaba elitsha ngokupheleleyo. Lindela ukujongana nengqumbo yabo ukuba banokucinga ukuba ubeka omnye umntu phambi kwabo-ngakumbi kubudlelwane.
Bayakuvuyela ukuthoba isidima okanye babathobe isidima abanye abantu ukuze bazive bonwabile - abaziva bezisola ngokwandisa ukungonwaba kwabanye.
Banokubonisa indlela yokuziphatha engxamisekileyo ukuba ibonelela ngento efuna i-ego.
Ezi mpawu zingasentla zinxulunyaniswe ngokufanelekileyo kubuntu be-narcissistic, kodwa ezi zingezantsi ziyinxalenye yobuntu be-Machiavellian.
Ukufunda okubaluleke ngakumbi kwe-narcissist (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Ulwimi olufihliweyo lwabaseNarcissist: baLawula njani kwaye baxhaphaze amaxhoba abo
- Uwubona njani umahluko phakathi kweNarcissism kunye nokuzithemba okuphezulu
- Iindlela zokuKopa xa ushiya iqabane laseNarcissistic ngasemva
- Izinto ezi-8 i-Narcissist ayinakukwenza yona (okanye nabani na ongomnye)
- Ukuqinisekisa ngokunyanga amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa
- ICoververt Narcissist: Iintloni, iintlobo zoTyikityo ezinokuba ziiNarcissists
IMachivavellian
Inye kuphela into ekuhlala kuthethwa ngayo kumanqaku malunga ne-narcissism kukulungela ukukhohlisa abanye, kodwa lolu luphawu ekufanele luxoxwe ngokufanelekileyo kwimeko ye-Machiavellianism.
AmaMachivavellians abeka ukuzizuzisa phambi kwayo nayiphi na into kwaye kungenxa yoku bafuna ukulawula nokusebenzisa abanye ukuze babonelele. Babona abantu njengamatye okunyathela-njengendlela yokufikelela esiphelweni- kwaye baya kukuvuyela ukuhamba phezu kwabo ukuze bafike apho bafuna ukuba khona.
Ingcebiso yokuphelisa ubudlelwane bexesha elide
Kubo, ukuphumelela yeyona njongo iphambili, kwaye ukuba oku kuyindleko yabanye, makube njalo. Bakhathalele kuphela malunga neempumelelo zabo, kodwa ngokwenyani ziyinyani malunga noku.
Banqwenela ubutyebi kunye namandla ngaphezulu kwayo yonke enye into, kwaye kukuzibandakanya kwabo kwimikhwa yesiqhelo evumela ukuba basukele iinjongo zabo eziphakamileyo ngaphandle kokuzisola kwaye bengenasazela.
Basebenzisa ubuso obahlukeneyo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo njengesixhobo sokufumana into abayifunayo. Baya kusebenzisa ubuxoki nenkohliso apho kufanelekileyo, ngelixa bekwazi ukuba nomtsalane kunye nobuhlobo.
Baya kuchaza 'iinyaniso' malunga nabo ekufumaneni ukuthembela kunye nokusebenzisa ityala ukwenza abantu benze ibhidi yabo.
Iindlela zabo zobuqhetseba- bafuna ukufeza iinjongo zabo ngaphandle kokutsalela ingqalelo enkulu kwiimpawu zabo ezinqwenelekayo. Banokuba nabantu abaninzi ababaziyo, kodwa bayasokola ukwenza ubuhlobo obuqinileyo okanye ubudlelwane.
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Ngokuqhelekileyo babala kakhulu kwaye balumke xa kuziwa kwizenzo zabo. Yonke into ifuna ukuba icwangciswe kwaye yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo ukuze kwandiswe amathuba okuphumelela.
Abakuthembi ukulunga komntu abakubonayo njengobuthathaka kunye nokungazithembi ukuthembela kwabanye ngayo nantoni na.
ICrossover
Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba umntu abe neempawu zokuziphatha kakubi kunye noMacavellian. Banokuba zizidalwa ze-ego ezifuna ukukhohlisa abanye ngokukhohlisa kwabo.
Ngokwenyani, kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho inqanaba elithile lobuchwephesha kwi UMachiavellian , Ukugxila kwimpumelelo yakho-nakwindleko yabanye-kufuna i-ego esebenzayo.
Ngaba indoda etshatileyo indithanda ngokwenene
Kodwa, ngelixa i-narcissist inokuba nomona kakhulu ukuba inqwenelele impumelelo kwabanye abantu, kunokubakho amaxesha apho ubuntu be-Machiavellian buya kwamkela omnye umntu ophumeleleyo ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba banokunyuka nabo. Bangakulungela ukwenza isivumelwano nomntu ojolise kwimpumelelo ngokulinganayo ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba nabo, bazuze ubutyebi namandla amakhulu.
I-narcissist iya kuhlala ineemvakalelo ngakumbi, ikhawuleze ukuba nomsindo, kwaye inyanzelekile, ngelixa iMachivavellian ikwazi ukubeka umgama phakathi kwezenzo zabo neemvakalelo zabo.
Ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho ukufana kwezi ntlobo zimbini zobuntu, kodwa kukwakho umahluko ocacileyo. Icala elikhohlisayo nelilawulayo ngokwenyani ngumboniso we-Machiavellianism hayi i-narcissism njengoko abantu abaninzi bekholelwa. Kuyenzeka ukuba ube ne-narcissist engalawulekiyo kakhulu kunye neMachiavellian engekho ikakhulu Ukufuna ingqalelo okanye inkohliso.
Ukwazi umohluko kuya kukuvumela ukuba uxhobele ngakumbi ukujongana nayo nganye yazo.
Ngaba unokucinga ngabantu abathile aba-narcissistic okanye aba-Machiavellian? Ngaba ukhe wadibana nabantu ababonisa zombini ezi mpawu? Shiya iikhomenti ezingezantsi ukuze wabelane ngamava akho.
