Ukuba nothando olungenathemba yinto uninzi lwethu olungenakuze luyivume, kodwa ngasese kunjalo!
Ukuba uzibona uphupha malunga nendlela eziza kuba mnandi ngayo iintsana zakho xa uthe watshata 'nentombazana entle yekofu # 3,' kukho ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuba uyintloko phezu kwezithende ngombono wothando.
Nazi ezinye iimpawu ezilishumi ozijonga rhoqo (ukuba uthe cwaka) umphefumlo wakho ...
Uxoxa ngomtshato wakho ngeenkcukacha ezinkulu, nangona ungatshatanga
Ndicinga (kwaye ndiyathemba) ukuba andindedwa ekuvumeni ukuba iibhodi zam ezifihliweyo zePinterest zigcwele amalungiselelo eentyatyambo kunye ne-DIY bunting yosuku olukhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, anditshatanga, kodwa loo nto ayindithinteli ekuphupheni ngomhla endithi 'ndenza' kuthando lwam lokwenyani.
Ayikwenzi ukuba 'uphambane' okanye uyithande ngokungathi ucinga ngexesha ekuya kwenzeka ngalo ekugqibeleni. Ukubonisa ezi bhodi komnye umntu kumhla wakho wokuqala kukude kude, kodwa kulungile ukuba namaphupha. Umbono wokufumana eyakho uthando lokwenyaniso , ukutshata, nokuhlala kwikhaya lamaphupha ngokuqinisekileyo kuluhlu lwakho lokujonga ubomi. Uzibona sele uphupha malunga nokunxiba amantombazana asebenza nabo bonke oogxa bakho, kwaye uphendlo lwakho lwamva nje lwe-Instagram lubandakanya #ukutshata, #Bahamaswedding, kunye #Isaidyes.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uceba ukuphendula njani kwisindululo somphefumlo wakho, kuyaqinisekiswa: uyathandana ongenathemba.
Unene Ngokwenene Kwizimbo zomzimba
Iimuvi ziyiphembelele ngokwenene indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngokuthandana, ukuya kuthi ga kulo naluphi na uhambo oluya kwisikhululo seenqwelomoya luzisa imincili yokuba uthando lwakho lokwenene luya kufika, ukubila, ukubamba isipha, kunye nokulibazisa ukubhabha kwakho ngelixa ubhengeza uthando lwabo kuwe.
Izimbo zomzimba ezinkulu zezona ndlela zokugqibela zokubonisa uthando lwakho kumntu, kwaye sele uphuphe iimeko ezininzi eziza kumisa intliziyo yakho. Umphefumlo wakho womphefumlo unokuba luhlobo lomntu oqeshe ibhaluni yomoya oshisayo ngexesha lokuqala yithi 'Ndiyakuthanda.' Banokulandelela umsesane wakho omkhulu kaMakhulu kwaye bakucebise ngawo ukutshona kwelanga apho wahlangana khona okokuqala.
osweleke kuhlaselo lwexesha lesine le-titan
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, uthandana ngokupheleleyo nombono wesenzo esikhulu esibonisa ukuba ulikhathalele kangakanani iqabane lakho, kwaye ubala nje iintsuku kude kwenzeke ...
Izinto ezincinci zibalwa nazo
Ewe kunjalo Izinto ezincinci zenza umahluko omkhulu nazo . Uzifumanisa udilika qho xa iqabane lakho ligcina ifriji kunye neyogurt oyithandayo, kwaye unyibilike ukuba bayayikhumbula ngokuchanekileyo iodolo yakho yekofu. Ukuba awutshatanga, uphupha usuku lothando lwakho lokwenene luyeka kukuzisela iintyatyambo xa usiya emsebenzini, wenze ukuba wonke umntu eofisini abe nomona.
Izinto ezincinci zibonisa ukuba iqabane lakho likujongile, kwaye bafuna ukwenza izinto ukuze wonwabe. Ukukhumbula iinkcukacha ezincinci malunga nawe kuthetha lukhulu, kwaye kukunceda kuphela ukuba uthandane nzulu nabo.
IiRomcom Ngaba YiBhayibhile Yakho
Ah, romcoms, yonke into engenathemba yothando. Ezi bhanyabhanya ziyasiqinisekisa ukuba thina ndiza kuthanda fumana uthando, nakwimeko ezingalindelekanga. Kananjalo, uzilungiselele ngokupheleleyo ibasemathandweni Kuzo zonke iivenkile ezithengisa iincwadi, ikhefi, kunye neemarike zabalimi oya kuzo. Uqinisekile ukuba ezi bhanyabhanya ziya kubukhuthaza ubomi bakho, kwaye ukuzibukela kukwenza uzimisele ngakumbi ukufumana 'enye.'
Emva kwayo yonke imihla emibi okanye ubusuku obunesizungu, uzibona ujika kwiiklasikhi. 'Incwadana yokubhalela' ikunika ukholo olomntu wawuthandana naye kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ndiza kuthanda zivele kwakhona ebomini bakho, ngonaphakade ngeli xesha. 'Abahlobo abaneziBonelelo' bayakuqinisekisa ukuba kulungile ukuba ungatshatanga kwaye ube nobomi obudidayo besini - uthando lokwenyani lusaza kukufumana. Kwaye, ukuba konke okunye kusilele, uBridget Jones uyakukhumbuza ukuba awuyi kuba wedwa ngonaphakade.
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Ubiza abahlobo bakho emva kwayo yonke imihla
Wena nje ube kumhla wokuqala, kwaye ngokulula unayo ukwabelana nazo zonke iinkcukacha. Ke ubiza uMama wakho ukuba umxelele iindaba ezimnandi kwaye ugcwalise incoko yeqela ngama-anecdotes amnandi kunye neefoto zobuqhetseba ozithathileyo ngomhla wakho. Ngethemba ukuba ukhumbule ukucima isibane.
Umhla ngamnye omtsha kukuqala kwento engakholelekiyo, entlokweni yakho, ubuncinci. Ukwabelana ngakho konke nabahlobo bakho yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza yonke into eyenzekileyo- ngaba wayethetha ukuba uchukumise umlenze wakho? Ngaba yayiyinto enqabileyo ukubuza igama labo le-Instagram? Ngaba wayejonga i-waitress? Kuninzi kakhulu ukuthatha kwaye kufuneka wabelane ngeenkcukacha zonke. Ewe, ubuyile kwi-Pinterest ukuvuza amathe ngaphezulu kweengubo zomtshato. Bayihlawulele i-latte yakho, ke ngoku utshatile ngokucacileyo, akunjalo?
Ulindele 'Ukudibana' kwakho
Iintlanganiso zokuhlangana zizo zonke iphupha elingenathemba lothando. Ngaba likho ibali elixeliweyo elinokuxelwa kusuku lwakho lomtshato kunendlela nobabini enifikelele ngayo kwikopi yokugqibela yencwadi oyithandayo evenkileni? Izandla zakho zadibana nentlantsi yombane, kwaye ukusuka apho, naningabomnye. Ngonaphakade. Utyelelo ngalunye kwithala leencwadi, i-IKEA, naphina, naphi na, ngokwenene, ikunika olo 'luvo lweentsuku ezingama-500 zasehlotyeni, kwaye akunakukunceda.
Uqinisekile ukuba uza kudibana nomphefumlo womphefumlo wakho kweyona ndlela isemagqabini, neyona isenyongweni. Uzifumana uphuma kwindlela yakho ukuya kwiiklasi zeyoga (mhlawumbi amehlo akho aya kudibana ngelixa usenza inja esezantsi?) Kwaye uchithe ixesha elingenampilo ulinde i-dreamboat ye-ndeard ukuba athathe ikofu yakho yokuthatha endaweni yakhe (ubuncinci uyayazi Igama ngoku - ufumana i-baristas ukuba ibhale igama lakho elipheleleyo kwindebe, ukuba ufuna ukukukhangela kuFacebook kamva).
Ujonga ukuhambelana kweMpawu yeNkwenkwezi yakho. Emva komhla wokuqala.
Ngobuqili ubuza ukuba usuku lwabo lokuzalwa luphambi komsindo kangakanani xa bejonga uphawu lwenkwenkwezi xa ufika ekhaya. Ngaba uyahambelana?! Ubhekisa phambili kuyo yonke into enikelwa ngumhlaba, ufuna impendulo. Ngowuphi unyaka wamaTshayina abazalelwa ngawo, leliphi inqanaba lenyanga ukuqala kwakho ukudibana, kwaye konke oku kuthetha ntoni kwiintsana zakho ezizayo?
Ukubonisana namagunya aphezulu ukubona ukuba ukutyumka kwakho okutsha kunokuba 'yeyona' luphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuba uyathandana ongenathemba. Ubeka ukholo lwakho ezandleni zeehoroscopes, kwaye uzifumanele ukhuphele usetyenziso ukuze ujonge zombini usuku ngalunye.
Uyaphuma kwindlela yakho uyokubabona
Usenokuba sele ungenathemba ngothando, kwaye ufumane iindlela zokubona ukutyumza kwakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuhamba ngaphaya komsebenzi wabo kongeza imizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu kuhambo lwakho lokuya ekhaya, kodwa unayo imvakalelo ukuba namhlanje lusuku abaya kukuqaphela ngalo.
Impumelelo Dating Abahlobo bakho Ngaba Yimpumelelo Yakho Too
Nangaliphi na ixesha umhlobo ehamba kumhla omkhulu okanye wabelana ngamabali amaxesha athi 'Ndiyakuthanda', uzifumana uvuya kakhulu ngabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuba njalo ndinomona kancinci , nayo, kodwa ilungile. Ukholelwa kakhulu kuthando lokwenene kangangokuba uyavuya xa ubona umntu onalo.
oku ukwenza xa ukruqukile
Wonke Umntu “Nguye”
Uthandana kakhulu nombono wothando kangangokuba uqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu uyiyo. 'Umhla usenokuba awumangalisi, awunanto ininzi ufana ngayo, kodwa unga zive ukuba izinto zahlukile. Ufunda kuyo yonke into abayithethayo nabayenzayo, uqiniseke ukuba konke ngokufihlakeleyo kuthetha ukuba 'Ndiyakuthanda.'
Uthumela imiyalezo kubahlobo bakho ukuba ubaxelele konke malunga nomntu omtsha odibene naye, kwaye nendlela abamangalisa ngayo. Ucinga ngokuzazisa kusapho lwakho, kwaye uphupha malunga namagama amnandi abaza kukubiza ngawo.
Ukuba izinto azisebenzi, bekungafanelekanga ukuba zibekho. Sele uthandana nalo mfo umdibanisile naye kuloliwe ongaphantsi, kunjalo…
