Ukuthetha phantsi yinto esinetyala sonke, kodwa kufuneka siyeke ukuyenza! NGOKUKHAWULEZA OKUDIBENE NOKUNGXAMA!
Ayisiyongo nje kwaphela ukuzithemba kwethu, ikwathetha ukuba sizivulela ithuba lokugxekwa ngabanye.
Siphela siphulukana namathuba esingaziva 'kufanelekile' kwaye sizibambe kwizinto ezinkulu.
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Nazi izizathu ezi-5 zokuyeka ukuzibeka phantsi…
Abanye Abantu Baza Kukubeka Phantsi, Nabo
Ukuzithoba kunokuba yindlela ukumelana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo , kunye nokufumana uburharha kwiimeko ezinzima.
Ngelixa kunokuba yindlela yexesha elifutshane yokwenza sizive ngcono, ayisiyomkhwa ulungileyo ukungena kwixesha elide. Okukhona uzimisele ukuzibeka phantsi, kokukhona kuya kufane kwenzeke ukuba uqaphele xa umntu othile enye into uqala ukubeka phantsi.
Ukuzibona ngendlela engeyiyo kumema abanye ukuba bakubone ngaloo ndlela, nabo. Ukuba uhlala uchaza izinto ongazithandiyo ngawe, abantu baya kuqala ukukumamela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abathandekayo bakho baya kwamkela ukuba uzibeke phantsi kwaye baya kuzama kwaye bancede ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Abanye banokungakwenzi oku, kwaye banokuthatha ithuba lokuzijonga kakubi.
Ukuba uyaziqinisekisa, kunye nabanye, ukuba awunaxabiso, ngekhe uqaphele xa omnye umntu exhamla koku.
Kutheni unokubuza ukunyuka komvuzo okanye ukubolekwa imali ngakumbi xa wena awucingi nokuba ukufanele?
Kunganzima kakhulu ukutshintsha imeko yakho yengqondo uye kwenye yokuzithemba kunye nenkolelo, kodwa uya kuzuza lukhulu kuyo, ngeendlela ezininzi.
Uyaphoswa
Okukhona uzibeka phantsi, kokukhona uya kuzifumanisa uphuma ecaleni.
Ukuphoswa zizinto kuya kukwenza uzive umbi ngakumbi ngesiqu sakho, kwaye uyakugqiba wenze umjikelo okhohlakeleyo wokungakhathali.
Unokuzifumana usithi 'hayi' ukuya kwimihla, ukuya kwiminyhadala yoluntu, ukuzibandakanya kumathuba omsebenzi, nokunye okuninzi. Ngelixa ungacingi ukuba uwafanelekile la mathuba, ubonelelwa ngesizathu!
Ukuzibeka phantsi kuhlala kuthetha ukuba uqala ukukholelwa ukuba awufanelanga nto, okanye nabani na. Unokuziva ngathi akukho nto unokuyenza, kwaye awunazo iitalente okanye iimpawu zobuntu ezinomdla.
Okukhona uyikholelwa le nto, kokukhona kuya kuncipha ukuba uvumelane neemeko ezahlukeneyo, ezinje ngokuhlangana nabantu abatsha, ngenxa yokoyika ukungafaneleki okanye ukonwaba ngokwaneleyo.
Ngelixa liqondakala ngokupheleleyo, iseyintloni enkulu. Ngokukhawuleza unokumisa ezi zinto iingcinga ezingakhiyo , ngcono.
Ngexesha elithile, uya kujonga emva kwaye uzive ubuhlungu ngenxa yezinto othe 'hayi' kuzo, konke ngenxa yokuba ungaziva ngathi ubufanele.
Zama kwaye ungene kumkhwa wokuthi 'ewe' kwizinto ngoku, kwaye uya kubona utshintsho oluninzi ebomini bakho, zombini ixesha elifutshane nelide.
Abanye abantu balibona ngokucacileyo ixabiso kuwe, nokuba awukwazi ukuzibona ngokwakho. Yithembe le nto, kwaye uzame tshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo iye kolunye ulwazelelelo .
UyaNgabinangqondo
Ndiyazi, ukuzibeka phantsi kunokuba sisiphumo somcimbi wezempilo yengqondo, njengoxinzelelo. Kungabonakala phantse kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukuthanda, okanye nokuthanda, ngokwakho ngezinye iintsuku, kodwa yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba usebenze kuyo.
Ndicinga ukuba sonke sinamava awoyikisayo okuphuma ngaphandle kolawulo emva kokwenza impazamo encinci okanye ukwenza into ehlazo.
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Yintoni eqala njengento encinci iba ngumcimbi omkhulu, kwaye uqala ukuzibuza ukuba / kutheni umntu ekuthanda, nokuba awulungelanga umsebenzi wakho, kwaye nokuba unayo iimpawu ezintle zobuntu .
Ngaphambi kokuba wazi, uqinisekile ukuba wonke umntu uyakuthiya, sele uza kugxothwa, kwaye wena Ndiza kuhlala ndingatshatanga ngonaphakade . Isandi esiqhelekileyo?
Ngelixa konke kunokuziva kunzima kwaye, kuyinyani ngexesha, khumbula ukuba oku kuhla akuyiyo imbonakalo echanekileyo yobomi bakho.
Zama ukubhala phantsi ezi mvakalelo njengokuba zisenyuka. Emva kwexesha, xa sele uzolile, jonga kwakhona kuluhlu lwakho. Umzekelo, 'Ndiyinkunkuma emsebenzini wam' - oku akuyonyani. Ukuba ubuyoyikeka emsebenzini wakho, ngekhe ubenawo. Kunokubakho indawo yokuphucula, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo oku kunokuba yinto elungileyo onokusebenzela kuyo.
Yiya kuloyiko lwakho kunye neengcinga ezimbi kwaye uthathe ixesha lokuzihlaziya. Ngethemba, ekuhambeni kwexesha, oku kuyokukunceda uzolile xa uphinda uzibeka phantsi kakubi.
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Ichaphazela ukujonga kwakho uBomi ngokubanzi
Okukhona uzibona kakubi, kokukhona uya kubona kakubi yonke into .
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Ukuhlala uziva ungafaneleki, ucaphukile, kwaye unxunguphele kuya kuqala kuchaphazela indlela ozijonga ngayo zonke ezinye izinto ebomini bakho.
Ungaqala ukukruqula ithemba kubomi babanye abantu, kwaye ubamonele ngakumbi ulonwabo lwabo kwaye impumelelo .
Oku kuyaqondakala, ewe, kodwa ayisiyondlela imnandi yokuphila!
Ngokuziqinisekisa ukuba awunalungelo lokufumana izinto ezilungileyo, okanye ukonwaba, uya kuqala ushenxele kude kwizinto nakubantu abanokukunika oku. Ungazifumana utyhala abanye abantu bemke kuba unomsindo kakhulu okanye ulusizi ngawe kunye neemeko zakho.
Ukuhlala ndiziva ndiphantsi kwaye ndingafaneleki kuyothusa, kwaye andingekhe ndiyinqwenele nakubani na. Emva kokubandezeleka ngoxinzelelo iminyaka, ndiyazi ukuba lingakanani 'ilizwe langaphandle' elinokuba yindawo engalunganga.
Uqala ukufumanisa kunzima ukonwabela nantoni na kuba ungaziva ngokungathi uyifanele. Kunganzima kakhulu ukuba uzive kamnandi ngezinto xa uhlala uxhalabile kwaye unoxinzelelo lokuba uyavunyelwa na okanye hayi.
Ngelixa oku kuqondakalayo, ayisiyondlela yokuphila ubomi bakho! Kukho iindlela zokutshintsha umbono wakho ngobomi.
Inokuthatha amanyathelo amancinci amaninzi ixesha elide, kodwa wena Ngaba yiya apho kwaye iya kufaneleka kakhulu.
Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu
Ufanele ukonwaba. Yinto elula njengaleyo.
Uxabiseke ngaphezu kokuzifihla kwaye uzokohlwaya.
Awunguye umntu ongenantlonelo, okanye okruqulayo, ongathandekiyo ongenathemba kwaye akukho nto unokuyinikela. Nantoni na ozixelela yona ngexesha lakho lobumnyama ayisiyiyo imifanekiso echanekileyo yobomi bakho.
Ubomi bakho buxabiseke kakhulu, nawe ke. Ufanele ukufumana ulonwabo kwizinto, ukuphonononga kunye nokonwaba ngokungenazintloni.
Nokuba zeziphi izizathu ocinga ukuba zikwenza ungafaneleki ayizizo izinto onokuphila ngazo. Ulapha ngesizathu, kwaye uvunyelwe ukuba wenze into ekwenza uzive ulungile, nokuba yeyiphi na.
Yeka ukuzithethela phantsi-nokuba kungokutshintsha enye ingcinga engalunganga usuku ngalunye. Qala kancinci kwaye uza kubona utshintsho olukhulu…
