… Okanye mandithi, kutheni zingakulungelanga njengoko unokulindela, kodwa zingangcono kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakho kunye nokomoya kunokuba uqonda.
Xa uninzi lwabantu lucinga nge-soulmate yabo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba bacinge umntu abanokuba nolwalamano olufanelekileyo, olungenangxabano olugqibeleleyo oluya kuphelela ekuculeni malunga ne-troubadours kwiinkulungwane ezizayo. Konke kulungile kwaye kulungile, kodwa ukuba ukhe wadibana iqabane , ngokwenene ayilulo uhlobo lobudlelwane oza kuba nalo.
Kutheni kunjalo? Ewe, ngenxa yokuba indima yomphefumlo womlingani ayizukugcwalisa ubomi bakho ngamabhinki angacacanga kunye neentaba zentsomi. Indima yabo kukuthatha isledgehammer kwi-ego yakho kwaye utshabalalise zonke iingcinga onazo ngawe ukuze ube namava okukhula ngokomoya ... kwaye oko kungonzakalisa iLOT.
Baza Kukukrazula
Umlingane wakho womphefumlo wenzelwe ukukucela umngeni. Ziya kuba neempawu ezityhala kwiithenda ezingaphakathi kuwe obuzama ukuzikhusela eludongeni kwaye uzikhusele ubomi bakho bonke. Ukufumana ezo zinto zivulekileyo kubalulekile, njengoko ezo ziyimiba yesiqu sakho efuna owona msebenzi, kodwa oh uyakulicaphukela iqabane lakho ngokwenza ujongane nezithunzi.
La ngamalungu abekelwe bucala, acinezelweyo, angakhathalelwanga, kwaye ade alahlwa kangangeminyaka, kodwa umphefumlo wakho awuyi kukuvumela ukuba uzigcine iibhokisi kwikhabethe abafuna ukuzijonga, kwaye baya kuphalaza igazi elingenanto. umandlalo wakho kwaye ukwenze ujonge, JONGA okungaphakathi kuwo.
Iibhantshi.
Ukuzivelela komntu kunye nokukhula ngokomoya kubuhlungu njengesihogo. Sinqwenela intuthuzelo kunye nokukhuseleka ngazo zonke iindleko, nditsho nangexabiso lentlalo-ntle yethu yeemvakalelo, kodwa eyona nto malunga neqokobhe lokhuselo kukuba khusela izinto ezithambileyo kunye ne-squishy, zona thintela ukukhula kwabo. Ukuba intaka esencinci ayiqhekezi iqokobhe ebelikhusele kwihlabathi ngexesha lokufukama, iya kufuthanisela kwaye ife.
Kuyafana nakubantu.
Imiqolomba yethu esizenzele yona ayisiyindawo efudumeleyo kuphela, epholileyo apho sinokufihla khona izithunzi ezimnyama kwaye sihlale sikhuselekile- ziindawo ezinobumdaka, ezifumileyo apho amanxeba amadala fester kuba akukho kukhanya kuvunyelweyo ukungena.
Umlingane wakho womphefumlo uya kuhamba nge-spelunking kule miqolomba (hayi isithethi, ngokunyaniseka) kwaye ukhanyise itotshi kuzo zonke iindawo ofuna ukuzifihla. Baza kukunyanzela ukuba ujongane nale micimbi, ufunde kubo, uphilise kubo, kwaye ube ngulowo uhlala umiselwe ukuba ube…
… Kwaye ungabathiya ngenxa yoko.
Usenokubacaphukela, hlukana nabo amatyeli aliqela ngokwenza ukwenzakala, nangona kukumdla wakho ukwenza njalo. Uya kubacaphukisa ngenkani Ukukutsala ukhululeke kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye ubambe isipili kwiindawo zakho ongafuniyo ukujonga kuzo, kodwa bayabona, kwaye bayathanda, kwaye bafuna ukuba uvume ukuze ubenako ngokupheleleyo.
ungayithanda njani indoda enemicimbi yokulahla
Inkululeko Ukuba sesichengeni
Uninzi lwethu luyithiyile ngokupheleleyo imvakalelo yokuba sesichengeni. Sihlakulela iimaski zethu kwaye amakhaka Kakhulu ngenxa yokuba, ekugqibeleni, sifuna ukuyiphepha intlungu kunye nokubandezeleka ngazo zonke iindleko.
Umlingane womphefumlo uya kususa iimaski zethu kwaye ahlule amakhaka ethu kwaye asinyanzele ukuba sizenze sengozini ukuze sibe yinyani. I-Shivas eyiyo ebomini bethu, iyakusicaphukisa kwaye isikhuthaze ekujikeni ukuze kutshabalalise iingcinga ngathi esizilungisileyo. Nje ukuba zonke ezo ziseko zidilike eluthulini, ziya kusinceda sakha kwakhona ngenyaniso kunye nokunyaniseka.
Kwimeko yethu yokuba sesichengeni, abalingane bethu bomphefumlo basincedile ukuba sizifumane. Oko kuyothusa, akunjalo? Siphulukene nawo nawuphi na umqobo okhuselayo, ulusu luthambekile, ezona ndawo zethu zithandekayo zibonakaliswe kwimikhosi enokusikrwitsha nokusigwaza, sincitshisiwe sibe zizinto ezingabalulekanga ukuba singobani kwii-cores zethu.
Inkululeko enkulu kuloo nto, nangona inokoyikisa ekuqaleni.
Ukuba sesichengeni kuthetha ukuba sibhencisiwe kwaye sivulekele kwihlabathi liphela lenzakalo, kuba loo mathemba kunye neemfuno kunye neemfuno kunye namaphupha esiye sawala kwaye sawacinezela ixesha elide ngokukhawuleza atyhobozelwe phantsi. Umntu onokubanyathela, kwaye oko kunokusitshabalalisa nje. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukhuselekile kakhulu (kwaye kulula) ukugcina ezo zinto zibotshwa ezifubeni zethu kunokuba zibeke emngciphekweni wokophulwa, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba asikhe sibanike ithuba lokuba babekho.
Banokungaphumeleli, ngokuqinisekileyo. Singasilela, kodwa singaphumelela nathi, ukuba sivumela ithuba lokwenza njalo. Umntu oswele umphefumlo ngoyena ukhuthazayo okanye osinyanzelayo ukuba sizise la maphupha ekukhanyeni kwaye siwalandele, nokuba oko kunokuba sisilele. Asinakuze sazi ngaphandle kokuba sizame, akunjalo? Kwaye ohh, bazakusenza sizame.
Umphefumlo wakho uya kukulahla, uhlube ulusu emathanjeni akho kwaye ukhuphe imilo yakho oyikisayo ngokwenene ukuyamkela kwaye uyibhiyozele, kodwa uya kuba kakhulu ngokwenza oko kunokuba ubucinga njalo.
Oko kufanelekile ngethamo eliqinileyo lokucoca ulwelo, akunjalo?
Inye kuphela into ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni kukuba ngelixa ubudlelwane obuninzi bomphefumlo buhlala ngonaphakade, uninzi lwazo alunjalo, kwaye ayisiyonto imbi leyo. Kubantu abaninzi, umntu omphefumlo ngumntu oza ebomini babo kangangexesha elithile ukulungiselela ukukhula kunye notshintsho, kodwa ayingomlingani ofanelekileyo kuhambo lobomi.
Sakha ubudlelwane nabantu ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, ngenxa yezizathu ezingenakubalwa, kwaye ngekhe sazi ngokwenyani ukuba ubuhlakani buya kuhlala ubusuku obunye, unyaka, ishumi leminyaka, okanye ubomi bethu bonke.
Kuyenzeka ngokupheleleyo ukuba udibane noyena mntu ubalulekileyo ebomini bakho kanye xa ufuna ukuba bakuqhekeze kwizinto zakho ezibalulekileyo, kodwa azenzelwanga ukuba zibambelele: zisebenza ngenjongo, emva koko kufuneka ziqhubele phambili . Kwimeko enje, ukubambelela kumphefumlo womphefumlo wakho kunokulungisa ukulunga okukhulu abakubangele ebomini bakho, ke kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukubayeka bahambe.
Uyakwazi ukuba ngaba kunjalo xa kusenzeka, kuba baya kube bakunike izixhobo kunye namandla okumisela eyona nto uyifunayo ebomini bakho . Bakunikile isiqinisekiso sakho, kwaye ukuba nje unamathele kuloo nto, zitsolise kwizifundo ozifundileyo ngelixa wawunabo, emva koko usivumile isipho abakunike sona.
Nokuba kubuhlungu ukufunda.
Ngokukodwa ukuba kubuhlungu ukufunda.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni malunga nobudlelwane bakho obucelomngeni nomphefumlo? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
Inye kuphela indlela yokuba libhabhathane,
kwaye oko kukukhulisa amaphiko akho.
Unokuba ngumbungu kunye ne-hangider ye-hang ixesha elide uthanda,
kodwa uya kuba udlala nje ngokwakho.
Kodwa inye kuphela indlela yokukhulisa amaphiko akho,
kwaye kungenxa yenkuku.
Kodwa kunokuba mnyama kwaye kulilolo apho-kufuna isibindi.
Kwaye ke kukho ukuqanduselwa: ukukhasa ngaphandle ulinde,
sesichengeni kwindawo evulekileyo ebanzi, elinde ukuba wome amaphiko akho.
Kodwa yeyiphi enye indlela oya kuze ubhabhe ngayo?
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