Ngaba udiniwe kukuziva ngathi uphila ubomi obuphakathi?
Siyayifumana. Ubomi bubonakala ngathi lukhuphiswano oluqhubekayo kunye nokugaya ukuya phambili. Ixesha libaleka nje ngelixesha singajonganga nokujonga, lisishiya ngothuli lwalo. Iintsuku zinokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba kunokubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukufumana iinyawo zakho phantsi kwakho ukuze ume ubude.
Masitshintshe leyo-ukuqala namhlanje! Masilungiselele ikhosi elula ukuze ufikelele kumandla akho apheleleyo.
1. Phuhlisa ukuzazi kwakho.
Ilitye lembombo lako nakuphi na ukuziphucula ukuzazi . Awunakho nje ukwenza utshintsho olufanelekileyo kuwe ukuba awuqondi ukuba kutheni utshintsha okanye ufuna ukutshintsha.
Esi sisizathu sokuba ungakwazi ukunyanzela okanye ulindele ukuba omnye umntu atshintshe. Olu tshintsho kufuneka lube yinto efanelekileyo kwaye luzalisekise inxalenye yakho.
Yintoni ebonisa umdla wakho? Yintoni ethetha nomphefumlo wakho? Yintoni ekubiza kuwe xa yonke into ithule kwaye ingqondo yakho ibhadula? Yintoni ebangela umdla kuwe? Uvuyo? Intlungu? Umsindo?
Okanye mhlawumbi unengxaki ngoku, kwaye akukho nto ivelisa olo hlobo lomdla kunye nemvakalelo.
Kulungile! Ngokwenene. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uphonononge umbuzo kunye nengcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuze uqonde ngcono okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kuwe kwaye ngoba.
Elo iya kuba linyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo ukuba unengxaki yokudakumba, unxunguphalo, okanye ezinye iingxaki ezenza kube nzima kuwe ukunxibelelana nesiqu sakho sokwenene, isiqu esingaphantsi kwayo yonke loo nto.
2. Chonga ubuthathaka bakho, yiya ngamandla akho.
Ukuqonda ubuthathaka kunye namandla akho kunokwenza inkqubo yokuziphucula ibe lula kakhulu.
Yintoni onengxaki nayo? Ngaba lukhona ulungiso okanye izilungiso zoko? Ngaba zikhona izixhobo zokukunceda udlule kobo buthathaka? Ngaba obo buthathaka ungabusebenzisa?
Elokugqibela linokufuna inkcazo. Kobu bomi, sifumana iiyure ezingama-24 kuphela kumhla wethu. Kwaye xa ezo yure zimkile, zimkile. Akukho kujika emva kwexesha ukubabuyisa.
Ngoku, ukuba kukho into ongayilungelanga yona emi endleleni yempumelelo yakho, kungcono ukuba uzabalaze ngayo okanye ufumane uncedo ngayo?
Mhlawumbi uthatha isigqibo sokubuyela esikolweni kwaye unengxaki yesifundo. Ungasokola kwaye ubandezeleke ngenxa yakho ngokwakho, okanye unokufuna uncedo kunjingalwazi, umhlohli, okanye iwebhusayithi yezemfundo.
Into inokukuthatha iiyure ezilishumi ukuyifumana ngokwakho, kodwa ngewuyikhuphe ngemizuzu engama-20 ngoncedo lomntu onolwazi.
Okweeyure ezili-9 kunye nemizuzu engama-40 kungabhetele ukuchitha ixesha lokuphumla, ufunda ezinye izinto, okanye uhambe nzima kumandla akho.
Okukhona ugalela kumandla akho, amandla amakhulu onokudala. Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho uzama ukugqwesa kubuthathaka bakho. Bazi, baqonde, jonga iindlela zokunciphisa ifuthe labo elibi ukuze udale ifuthe elikhulu ngakumbi kumandla akho.
3. Chonga iinjongo zexesha elifutshane nelide.
Abantu abaphumeleleyo bazibekele iinjongo. Isizathu sokuba ufuna iinjongo kukuqonda apho ekugqibeleni ufuna ukuphelela khona. Cinga ngazo njengemiqondiso kwindlela eya empumelelweni yakho.
Zininzi iindlela zokubeka iinjongo phaya. Ezona zixhaphakileyo kwezi ndlela mhlawumbi yindlela ye-SMART.
I-SMART sisifinyezo se-Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Timely. Njengakwi, la ngamacandelo ento eyenza ukuba injongo ibonakale kwaye isebenze.
Ngokukodwa - Musa ukuba abstract. Chonga ngokuchanekileyo ukuba yintoni injongo.
Ukulinganisa -Uya kwazi njani ukuba uphumelele okanye akaphumelelanga?
Ukuzuzwa - Yiba sengqiqweni ngento onokuyiphumeza.
Ifanelekileyo -Iinjongo kufuneka zihambelane neenjongo zakho ezinkulu kunye nesiqu sakho.
Ngexesha elifanelekileyo -Iinjongo zexesha elide zilungile, kodwa iinjongo zexesha elifutshane ziyafuneka.
Iminqweno ephosakeleyo ayilunganga kuba ayinikezeli ulwalathiso olunentsingiselo. Abayi kukunceda ufezekise amandla akho apheleleyo. Ngapha koko, zinokujika zibe kukuphamba kwengqondo okuchitha ixesha elibalulekileyo.
4. Yenza imephu yendlela eya empumelelweni.
Isikhokelo sempumelelo siza kukukhokela ukusuka kwindawo okhoyo ngoku ukuya kwindawo oya kuyo. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ufika njani kwindawo ofuna ukuba kuyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba ngugqirha, kukho yonke inkqubo yemfundo, imfundo eqhubele phambili, ukuvavanya, kunye nelayisensi oya kuyidinga ukwazi nokuqonda ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukwenza amayeza.
Indlela elula yokuphuhlisa imephu yendlela kukuqala ekugqibeleni kwaye ubuyele umva umva. Unokuzama ukubuza abantu abasele belufezile uhlobo lweenjongo ozibekela ukuba bahambe njani malunga nokufumana impumelelo yabo. Uya kumangaliswa kukuba bangaphi abantu abazimiseleyo ukuthetha ngohambo lwabo ukuba ubuza kuphela!
Sukucwangcisa ngaphezulu. Eyona ndlela yokuceba ikhosi yakho kufana nolwandlalo. Ufuna ukubetha onke amanqaku aphambili, kodwa ungazami ukucwangcisa ngaphezulu ukuba kwenzeka ntoni phakathi kwala manqaku.
Ukubuyela kumzekelo wangaphambili wogqirha, ukuba awunaso isidanga, unokufuna ukufumana isidanga sebhayoloji ngaphambi kokuzama isikolo sezonyango. Musa ukuzilinganisela ekufumaneni kuphela isidanga sebhayoloji kwisikolo esithile. Kuthekani ukuba eso sikolo asikwamkeli?
Hlala ulwelo ekucingeni kwakho kunye nolindelo lwakho kwaye luya kukunceda kakuhle.
Tyhala uloyiko lwakho.
Uloyiko luya kukubamba ebomini ukuba awungeni mngeni kuzo kwaye ufumane indlela yokugqobhoza kuyo.
Uloyiko yinto egcina umntu kwindawo yakhe yokuthuthuzela, apho banokuqhubeka khona ngobomi babo kungafuneki babonakalise isibindi.
Kodwa amandla akho apheleleyo angaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela. Kwindawo apho kufuneka kuthathwe umngcipheko, imiceli mngeni yamkelwe, kwaye uloyiko loyiswe.
Mhlawumbi ubona amandla akho kwilizwe eliphambili lokubhabha okanye njengomntu oqhuba isisa okanye i-NGO. Kodwa ufumana ixhala ekuhlaleni kunye nengcinga yokunxibelelana okanye, okubi ngakumbi, ukuthetha esidlangalaleni kuyakoyikisa. Kwimeko apho, kuya kufuneka ujongane kwaye woyise olo loyiko ukuba uza kufikelela kwisakhono sakho.
Ukwesaba akuyona into eya kuhamba ngokupheleleyo kwiimeko ezininzi, ngoko ke kuninzi malunga nokulawula nokufumana iindlela zokuthatha isenzo nangona kunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokukunceda ukujongana noloyiko lwakho ngengcali yezempilo yengqondo, ngelixa ngamanye amaxesha iyinto onokuthi usebenze ngokwakho ekuhambeni kwexesha.
6. Qhubeka ufunda.
Uluvo lwamandla akho 'apheleleyo' yinto elahlekisayo kuba yonke imihla ohlala kuyo, kuhlala kukho izinto ezininzi zokufunda, amava ngakumbi okufumana.
Kunokukunceda, endaweni yoko, ukucinga ngamandla akho njengenqanaba elinyukayo ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye ukuba ukusondela kwakho kwinqanaba ngalo naluphi na usuku olunikiweyo, ukusondela kukukwazi kwakho ngelo xesha.
Oku kuthetha ukuba, xa kukho amathuba okufunda into entsha, kufuneka amkelwe.
Okanye, endaweni yoko, kufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngokufanelekileyo, kuba ayizizo zonke izinto ezilungele ukufundwa. Ngamanye amaxesha unokufumana iingcebiso ezimbi okanye ulwazi olungabalulekanga, kwaye ngumsebenzi wakho ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni efanele ukubambelela kuyo kwaye yintoni ekufuneka ilahliwe.
Kodwa umntu akayeki ukukhula kunye nokutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye oku kuyenzeka kuba bayafunda, nokuba bayakuqonda oku okanye hayi.
7. Nciphisa imisebenzi yokuchitha ixesha.
Umhlaba ugcwele zizinto zokuchitha ixesha ezinokuphazamisa iinzame zakho zokufikelela kubuchule bakho obupheleleyo. Awufuni ukubulala nje ixesha okanye ulitshise ngezinto ezingenangqondo, zokuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kokuba le yindlela yakho yokuthatha ikhefu lethutyana.
Oko kuthetha ukuba ungachithi ixesha ngokungakhathali uskrolela imithombo yeendaba zentlalo, ukucanda ubungakanani bokubukela ukuzinkcinkca kwiinkonzo zokusasaza, ukulahla iiyure ezigqithileyo kwimidlalo yevidiyo, okanye ukuchitha ubomi bakho usenza izinto ezingenampilo okanye ukusebenzisa gwenxa iziyobisi.
Ngaba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kuyabalwa? Kutheni kungenjalo? Uninzi lwabantu luphakama okanye lusele ukungacingi ngobomi babo okwexeshana. Kwimeko yeli nqaku, ingxaki kukuba yinkcitho enkulu enjalo yexesha lokunxila okanye ukuphakama.
Ewe, kumnandi okwethutyana, de kube akunjalo. Ke iba yinto oyenzayo. Emva kwethutyana, kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi ujongene nobudlelwane, umsebenzi, kunye nemicimbi yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi ezivela kuyo.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuzonwabisa okanye imisebenzi yolonwabo xa isenziwa ngokumodareyitha. Igama eliphambili kukumodareyitha.
Kwaye ukuchitha ixesha akukhawulelwanga ekuzonwabiseni - zininzi iindlela zokuchitha ixesha xa usebenza. Unokucinga izinto ngokugqithileyo, uzama ukucwangcisa ngocoselelo xa ungangcono ngokwenza into. Unokuchitha ixesha elininzi kwizinto ezingabalulekanga kunokujongana nezinto ezinkulu ezihambisa inaliti. Musa ukwenza impazamo kuwo wonke umsebenzi womsebenzi onemveliso.
8. Faka umsebenzi.
Ukufezekisa nantoni na yenqaku kunye nokufaneleka kufuna umsebenzi. Rhoqo kufuna ukuba wonke umsebenzi usasazeke ixesha elide.
Isidanga asenzeki ngobusuku. Ukuqhubela phambili nokuba yinkosi kwikhondo lakho lomsebenzi kuya kuthatha amashumi eminyaka ukuzilolonga ngokwenyani kunye nokuphuhlisa umzimba wolwazi.
Ukubonisa nje yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yedabi. Yiba lapho, ubekhona, wenze umsebenzi ophambi kwakho ngokugqwesileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Kwaye oko akuthethi nje ukuba umsebenzi wekhondo lomsebenzi nokuba. Nantoni na okhetha ukuyenza, yenze ngokugqwesa. Ukutshayela umgangatho, ukuba ngumzali, ukuhlamba imoto yakho, ukufaka isicelo semisebenzi, ukufunda… akunamsebenzi! Yenze ngononophelo kunye nokugqwesa. Kwaye ukuba awukwazi, funda indlela yokwenza ngononophelo kunye nokugqwesa.
Yindlela elungileyo yokuchitha ixesha elithile.
Isenzo sokusebenza ngokugqwesa kuyo yonke imisebenzi yakho yesiqhelo iya kudlulela kuyo yonke eminye imiba yobomi bakho, ukusuka emsebenzini ukuya kubudlelwane ukuya kulwaneliseko lomntu.
9. Yamkela ukungafezeki.
Masicace - amandla akho apheleleyo akafani nokugqibelela nangayiphi na indlela, imilo, okanye ifom.
Inyani yile, ukugqibelela ngokubhekisele kuso nasiphi na isakhono okanye ubugcisa abukho. Iirekhodi zihlala zisophulwa, iindlela ezintsha zokwenza izinto zikhula ngokuhamba kwexesha, izinto ziqhubela phambili.
Ngelixa ujonge ukusondela kangangoko unakho, awunakulindela ukuba ungabinasiphako kuyo nantoni na kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ulindele ukuba ungazenzi iimpazamo.
Kodwa naziphi na iimpazamo ozenzayo ngokwenyani ngamanyathelo okuqonda amandla akho kuba zibonisa iindawo apho unokufunda, ukukhula, okanye ukuziqhelanisa.
10. Ukuphumla, ukuphumla, kunye nokuzikhathalela.
Ubomi bunokuba yinto yokusila ngamanye amaxesha. Kulula kakhulu ukutshayelwa ngokuzama ukufezekisa iinjongo kunye nokwenza izinto.
Inyani yento yeyokuba abantu abanazintambo zokugaya nokugaya kunye nokugaya kungabikho kuphumla okanye ukuphumla.
Ukubonakaliswa koxinzelelo kudala i-cortisol, eyihomoni ekufanele ukuba ikuncede okwexeshana ngamaxesha anzima. Kodwa xa uphantsi koxinzelelo ngalo lonke ixesha, uhlala usebenza, uqhubeka usila, loo hormone inokuhlala kwinkqubo yakho kwaye iyenze mandundu impilo yakho.
Umsebenzi omninzi kwaye akukho mdlalo unokubangela unxunguphalo, uxinzelelo, ukukhulisa ukugula ngengqondo, ukwandisa izifo emzimbeni, ukoyisa amajoni akho omzimba, kunye nokubuyisela emva kweenjongo zakho.
Ukuba ungumntu oxakekileyo okanye uzabalazela ukuba ngumntu oxakekileyo, kufuneka wenze ixesha lokuphumla, ukuphumla kunye nokuzikhathalela!
Yibhale kwishedyuli yakho kwaye uyiphathe ngokubaluleka okufanayo oya kuthi unike olona xanduva lwakho lubalulekileyo- kuba lolona xanduva lwakho lubaluleke kakhulu! Ukulala rhoqo, ukuzilolonga, ixesha lokuzihlaziya, kunye neeholide konke kuyanceda ukuhlala usempilweni.
Kuya kufuneka uyihloniphe imizimba yakho kunye nengqondo yakho yokuphumla kungenjalo, uya kutshiswa uphele.
11. Phinda kwakhona.
Phinda! Ungabakha bonke ubomi bakho ngokuhamba nje rhoqo kule nkqubo. Beka iinjongo, qonda indlela yokufikelela kuzo, cwangcisa, usebenze, ufeze, kwaye uphinde.
Kuya kufuneka wenze uhlengahlengiso njengoko ulandela iinjongo zakho xa ubomi busenzeka kwaye iziganeko zisongela ukuphazamisa izicwangciso zakho, kodwa kulungile.
Leyo yinxalenye nje yobomi. Yamkele kwaye uqhubeke nokusebenza nzima kwiinjongo zakho. Uya kufika phaya ungekayazi.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ufikelela njani kubuchule bakho? Thetha nomqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo kwaye akubambe uxanduva njengoko usebenza ukufezekisa oko. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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