Ke, ufuna ukuxhotyiswa. Ufuna ukuthatha ulawulo. Uyondliwa kukuziva ungenamandla, kwaye ukulungele ukuba kwisihlalo somqhubi sobomi bakho.
ungaxela njani ukuba umhlobo wakho yinyani
Kodwa awuqinisekanga ngendlela yokwenza oko kwenzeke.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ingaba uziva njani uxhobiso? Wazi njani ukuba unikwe amandla?
Kwaye unokuzixhobisa njani, kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho?
Qhubeka uskrola isikhokelo sokuzixhobisa, nokuba zithini iimeko zakho.
Uziva njani ukuxhotyiswa?
Ukuziva unamandla yinto echasene nokuziva ungenamandla.
Uyayazi ukuba imvakalelo eyoyikisayo yokungabinakulawula imeko, ubukele into eyenzekayo ngaphandle kwendlela yokumisa?
Ukuziva uxhotyisiwe malunga nokwazi ukuba ulawula kwaye ubiza isibhamu. Imalunga nokwazi ukuba uphethe ubomi bakho kwaye unamandla kunye nokuzithemba okufunekayo ekuthatheni izigqibo kunye notshintsho.
Imalunga nokwazi ukuba izinto ozenzayo mihla le ziya kukunceda ufezekise iinjongo zakho zexesha elide, kwaye ngokubanzi uphile ubomi bakho ngenjongo, ukhuselekile kulwazi lokuba unamandla okutshintsha imeko yakho, okanye unefuthe elihle kwihlabathi elirhangqileyo wena.
Le ayisiyonto ozelwe nayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abanye abantu bazalwa bezithembile kwaye beqinisekile ngakumbi kunabanye.
Kodwa kukho izinto esinokuzenza sonke ukuzixhobisa xa siziva sidimazekile, singonwabanga, okanye silahlekile, esikwenzayo sonke ngaxeshanye.
Ukuba uziva ungaphantsi kokuxhotyiswa okwangoku, emva koko funda ezinye iingcebiso zendlela yokubuyisa i-mojo yakho kwaye uqale ukhanye ngokuqaqambileyo njengoko kufanelekile.
Iingcebiso ezili-16 zokuzixhobisa
1. Mamela amathumbu akho.
Uninzi lwethu luzivalela ngaphandle iimvakalelo zethu zesisu kunye nethuku kwaye sizivumele sikhokelwe yimikhosi yangaphandle kunye nabanye abantu endaweni yoko.
Ke, zama ukuba ngcono malunga nokulandela imeko yakho. Thatha ingcebiso yabanye abantu, kunjalo, kodwa sukuyivumela ngokuzenzekelayo loo nto igqithe kwinto ekuxelelwa yithumbu lakho xa uzama ukuthatha isigqibo.
2. Zingenele ngokwakho.
Kweli hlabathi lixakekileyo, lixakekile, ngokuzithathela ixesha ngaphandle kosuku lwakho kuba ungangomnye wezona zinto zixhobisayo ozenzayo.
Imizuzu nje eli-10 yokunqamla wonke umntu nayo yonke into ekujikelezileyo kwaye ujonge ukubona ukuba uziva njani ungakunceda uphile ubomi bakho ngenjongo. Lala phantsi, ucamngce, okanye uthathe uhambo.
3. Yenza indawo exhobisayo.
Kunzima ukuziva unamandla ukuba ujikelezwe kukungunda kwaye uhlala uphazanyiswa nomsebenzi osesandleni.
Luvakalelo olumangalisayo lokususa kuzo zonke izinto ongazidingiyo ebomini bakho, kwaye kunokwenza kube lula kakhulu ukugxila kwaye wenze okungakumbi.
4. Yenza izinto ezilungileyo kuluntu lwakho.
Ukwenza okuhle kwabanye nangayiphi na indlela, imilo, okanye ifom kunokuba nomvuzo omangalisayo.
Yenza into entle yomntu okujikelezile, kwaye uyakuqonda amandla onawo okwenza utshintsho oluqinisekileyo kwihlabathi elinokuziva linzima kakhulu.
Ukwazi ukuba wenze into elungileyo komnye umntu yonke imihla yimvakalelo entle.
5. Yenza isuntswana lakho lomhlaba.
Ukuba uziva ungenamandla okwenza umahluko kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ezenzekayo emhlabeni, emva koko wenze into elungileyo, nokuba incinci kangakanani, inokukukhumbuza ukuba sonke sinako ukwenza ifuthe.
Tyala umthi, nikela ngesizathu esihle, ukhethe inkunkuma, okanye wenze ukhetho oluninzi lwe-eco-friendly xa uthenga.
6. Kodwa khumbula awungekhe ulisindise ilizwe lilinye.
Kwelinye icala, khumbula ukuba lonke uxanduva lokusindisa umhlaba aluhlali emagxeni akho.
Ukuba sonke senza konke okusemandleni ethu singenza umohluko omkhulu, kodwa nguwe wedwa akufuneki uzive uxanduva lokuguqula izinto.
Yazi ukuba wenza konke onako, kwaye uthathe amathuba okwenza okuhle kwinqanaba lakho lempembelelo, kodwa ungathathi kakhulu, okanye ezo mvakalelo zokungabi namandla ziya kuphinda zingene.
7. Landela.
Uyazi ukuba yintoni enokubangela ukuba uzive ngathi uhleli esihlalweni somqhubi? Ukwenza isithembiso kwaye unamathele kuso.
Ukuba ufuna ukuziva unamandla ngakumbi, ke ulumke ngakumbi malunga nezithembiso ozenzayo kwaye wenze inqaku lokulandela kubo.
8. Musa ukoyika ukusilela.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela kwaye uphile ubomi ngokuzeleyo, kuya kufuneka uthathe umngcipheko nawo. Kwaye ukuthatha umngcipheko kuthetha ukuba kuhlala kukho umngcipheko wokusilela.
Ukusilela kuhlala kusifundisa izifundo ezixabisekileyo kwaye, njengoko isitsho intetho, akukho nto ithethwayo ithetha ukuba akukho nto siyifumeneyo.
9. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo.
Inxalenye enkulu yokuziva uxhotyisiwe kukwazi ukubona ubuthathaka bakho ngaphandle kokuba neentloni ngazo. Akukho mntu unokwazi konke, ngoko awuyi kuhlala unezakhono ozifunayo.
Ukwazi ixesha lokucela uncedo kuxhobisa kakhulu. Kuthetha ukuba unokufunda kwabanye uya kuba nesakhono ngakumbi okanye amava kwaye ube nolwazi ngakumbi ngenxa yoko.
10. Yiba sesichengeni.
Ukuba uhlala ulindile, uyazikhusela kokubi, kodwa uyaphoswa zizinto zonke ezilungileyo ezinokwenzeka ukuba unentembelo yokuzibeka phaya.
Ukuba sesichengeni ngumngcipheko, kodwa kunokukhokelela kumava amnandi kunye nezifundo.
11. Thetha nawe.
Ukuxhotyiswa ikakhulu kukwazi ukuveza izimvo kunye neemvakalelo zakho, ngokuthetha, ngokungathandabuzekiyo nangentlonipho.
Eyona ndlela ingcono yokwenza oko kukuba uzibonakalise uyile.
Oko kunokuba bubugcisa, ukubhala, ukudanisa, okanye ngubani owaziyo enye into. Yenze ibe yinto oyithandayo, ofuna ukuyenza kwaye onokuthi uyenze rhoqo, ke uhlala unayo loo mveliso.
12. Ungaze uzive unoxanduva lolonwabo lomnye umntu.
Ukuba uziva ngathi ukonwaba komnye umntu luxanduva lwakho ngokupheleleyo, uya kugqitywa uzive ungenamandla xa ungenakubakhuthaza okanye usoloko uzenza ngcono izinto.
Awunaxanduva lolonwabo lomntu kodwa lolwakho. Unokuba negalelo kulonwabo lomntu, kodwa bangumntu wabo kwaye akufuneki baxhomekeke kuwe.
13. Phila okwangoku.
Awunakho ukutshintsha okudlulileyo okanye uqikelele ikamva, ke ukuba wenza nantoni na kodwa ugxile kumzuzu wangoku uya kuthi uphele nje uzive ukhathazekile.
Into onokuyenza, nangona kunjalo, kukuchaphazela okwangoku, kwaye uhlala usenza izigqibo ezincinci, ezintle ezizakwenza umahluko kuwe nakwabo bakungqongileyo.
Funda kwithuba elidlulileyo kwaye uphuphe ngekamva, kodwa ungahlali kulo. Gxila kwindlela onokwenza ngayo eyona nto ilungileyo apha, ngoku.
14. Yitya kakuhle kwaye uhambise umzimba wakho.
Unamandla okwenza izigqibo yonke imihla ezakukhulisa impilo yakho. Thatha ulawulo lokutya kwakho kunye nolawulo lwakho lomthambo.
Qiniseka ukuba awuzukuncipha kwincasa ekutyeni kwakho, ukuze ungaziva ngathi uyaphoswa. Kwaye ukhethe uhlobo lomthambo oluthandayo kwaye uya kulwenza ngovuyo, ngenxa yoko akunakufane kwenzeke ukuba uzithethelele okanye unikezele.
Ukoyisa iminqweno yakho okanye ukungakhathali kunye nokwenza ukhetho olusempilweni yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuphembelela ubomi bakho kwaye uzive ungcono ngeenxa zonke.
Kodwa musa ukuzibetha ukuba uneentsuku ezisempilweni, nokuba kunjalo. Ukuzihlaziya okuncinci ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokunika amandla.
15. Zibekele usukelo onokulufikelela.
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezifanelekileyo, ezifikelelekayo ukufezekisa yonke imihla, iveki, inyanga, nonyaka.
Ngokwenyani ukukwazi ukuphawula izinto kolu luhlu kunye nokwenza izinto kuya kukukhumbuza ngendlela onokwazi ngayo.
16. Zithobe ngokwakho.
Okokugqibela kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kungaphelelanga apho, bonisa ukuba ulixabisile ixesha, amandla, okanye imali ebandakanyekayo ekuzithetheleleni.
Zinike i-massage okanye uye kwi-massage, yiba nosuku lwe-spa okanye uthathe ibhafu ende, ephumayo. Ziphathe ngokwakho kwisiqhumiso esithile kunye nesigqubuthelo sobuso ...
Nokuba yeyiphi na, thatha ixesha lokuzitotosa kwaye ungene emzimbeni wakho.
Sonke sifundisiwe ukuba sijonge ukungafezeki kwimizimba yethu kwaye sicele uxolo ngayo, kodwa ukuthoba umzimba wakho kukunceda ufunde ukuthanda ulusu okulo.
Kwaye akukho nto inika amandla ngaphezu koko.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungazixhobisa njani? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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