Umntu ogqithisileyo ngumntu owenza imigangatho ephezulu okanye ofumana impumelelo engaphezulu kunokuba kulindelwe kubo.
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Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, zininzi kakhulu izinto ekufuneka zenziwe! Amabanga amahle esikolweni athetha amathuba angcono kamva.
Ukunkqonkqoza le projekthi yomsebenzi emva kokuhlala ubusuku bonke kuthetha ukuba ungayibeka phambi komphathi kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane amawonga.
Izinto zifuna ukwenziwa, iintsapho zifuna ukukhathalelwa, umntu kufuneka azenze zonke ezi zinto agqibe azigqibe ngoku ukuya kwezinye izinto ezifuna ukugqitywa!
Awu, kukho izinto ezisezantsi zokuba nobuntu obugqithisileyo. Akukho mncinci kumgangatho ophakamileyo osebenza kuwo kwaye impumelelo oyiphumezayo ihlala iza ngayo ‘Ukugqitha’ umgudu.
Ngaphezulu, uninzi lweempawu ezibonisa ukuba ungaphezulu kwexesha libonwa njengelingalunganga.
Ke, yintoni le miqondiso? Yeyiphi imikhwa umntu ogqithisileyo abe nayo?
1. Unengxaki zokuxhalaba.
Imfuno yokufikelela ngaphezulu ihlala ihlala ibangelwa luxinzelelo kunye nesidingo sokugcina ulawulo kuyo yonke into enokufikelela kuyo.
Ulawulo olugqithisileyo olunokuthi lusebenze ngaphezulu kwezi zinto, kokukhona ixhala labo libaphazamisa.
2. Uzithembile kwaye ubophelele ixabiso lakho kwimpumelelo yakho.
Umntu ogqithisileyo angadibanisa impumelelo yabo kunye nokuziva bexabisekile. Banokuziva ngathi abalunganga ngokwaneleyo ukuba abafumani nantoni na abayifumanayo, nokuba ayifanelekanga.
Oko kunokuba kukusebenza ngokwabo kwithambo emsebenzini. Isenokuba kukugqithisa kubudlelwane kuba beziva bengalufanelanga uthando abalufumanayo ngaphandle kokuba banokuthi 'babuyisele' iqabane labo.
Unobunzima bokwamkela ukusilela.
Ukungaphumeleli akuyona inketho kumntu ogqithiseleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, izinto ezininzi azisebenzi kakuhle kwitrayi yokuqala. Kuya kufuneka usilele amaxesha amaninzi ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni ufumane inkqubo yakho yokufowunelwa ukufezekisa iziphumo ozifunayo.
imiqondiso yokuba umntu wakho wakudala ufuna ubuye
Kunzima kakhulu ukwenza xa uziva ngathi ukusilela kubonakalisa kakubi isimilo sakho.
Wonke umntu uyasilela kwizinto kungekudala okanye kamva. Yinto oyenzayo ngokusilela okumisela ukuba uza kuphumelela kangakanani emva koko.
4. Wabela abanye ixabiso ngokwempumelelo okanye ukusilela kwabo.
Usenokungafuni ukuyenza, kodwa unokuzifumanisa ujonga abanye abantu nge-lens yeempumelelo kunye nokusilela kwabo.
Ukuba basilele, mhlawumbi abazamanga ngokwaneleyo, basebenze ngokwaneleyo, benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba baphumelele. Mhlawumbi babenqena!
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ubuya kuwenza ngcono umsebenzi wakho ukuba ibinguwe owenza lo msebenzi. Unokuba nobunzima bokwamkela ukuba ngamanye amaxesha izinto azihambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe.
5. Ujolise kakhulu kwimpumelelo kwaye ujolise ngakumbi ekuthinteleni iziphumo ezibi.
Impumelelo inika umdla. Kumnandi, kwaye kuyavakala. Kodwa ukugqithisa akuyi kujonga impumelelo njengento yokubhiyozela.
Endaweni yoko, ukugqithisa kugxile ekuthinteleni iziphumo ezibi kwimizamo yabo.
Banokukhangela iindlela zokuphepha uxanduva lokusilela, ukwala ukwamkela uxanduva ngoxanduva lwabo, okanye babe noluhlu lwezizathu zokuba kutheni besilele.
Umntu ogqithisileyo uya kuzama ukuhlala engathathi cala ukuba basemngciphekweni wokusilela.
6. Uthanda ukugqibelela.
Ukugqibelela kudla ngokuba sisakhono sokukopisha ukungazithembi okanye uxinzelelo.
Isidingo sokugqibelela kwimizamo yomntu okanye umsebenzi wakhe sinika indawo yokubaleka efanelekileyo ekwamkeleni uxanduva okanye isigwebo.
Akukho mntu unokuze akuxelele ukuba umsebenzi wakho awulunganga ukuba uhlala usebenza kuwo, ke awuzange wenziwe. Umntu ogqithisileyo angathanda ukugqibelela, esebenza nzima ngokungapheliyo emsebenzini wakhe ukuze ungaze ujongane nokugxeka okanye ukusilela. Yonke into kufuneka igqibelele, kwaye iimeko kufuneka zilunge.
7. Uhlala ngokubanzi kwikamva.
Umntu ogqithisileyo ujonge phambili kwiingxaki ezinokubakho kunye neeprojekthi ezizayo.
Banexesha elinzima lokuba kumzuzu wangoku kwaye bonwabele oko banako.
Impumelelo ayibonisi lonwabo lukhulu kodwa endaweni yoko ibonelela ngesiqabu sokuba izinto azihambanga kakubi. Kwaye ngoku, lixesha lokuqala ukucwangcisela iprojekthi elandelayo okanye ukunyusa.
Umntu ogqithisileyo uhlala ejonge amathuba okuqhubela phambili, kwaneendleko zezinye iinkalo zobomi babo okanye ezempilo.
8. Izenzo zakho kunye nokhetho lusekwe kuloyiko lokungoneliseki okanye ukungonelisi ngokwaneleyo.
Uninzi lwezenzo zakho kunye nokukhetha malunga nokufezekiswa kuvela kwindawo yokoyika.
Unokusebenza nzima, ixesha elide emsebenzini ukubonelela abantwana bakho, hayi kuba ufuna bonwabe, kodwa kuba usoyika ukuba ngumzali ombi.
Umphathi uyazi ukuba banokuhlala bekufowunela ukuba wenze imisebenzi engathandekiyo emsebenzini, kwaye uya kuvuma kuba woyika ukuba ngumqeshwa onenyani.
Uhlala usithi ewe kubahlobo bakho okanye ube nemida yeemvakalelo ezihlwempuzekileyo kuba awufuni ukuba ngumhlobo ombi.
Umntu ogqithisileyo angasebenza ngaphandle kwewotshi okanye azame ngokufihlakeleyo ukwenza imisebenzi ukunika umbono wokuba banokuphatha yonke into.
9. Unokuba nobunzima bokuba phakathi kwabantu kuyo nayiphi na into.
Umntu ogqithisileyo uziva efuna ukugwetywa kwaye abekwe kwinqanaba. Basenokungazenzi izinto ngovuyo lokuzenza okanye ukuba abalunganga kuzo.
I-overachievers nazo zihlala zitsaleleka kwimisebenzi abanokugwetywa kuyo ukufezekisa loo mfuno.
Ubugcisa ngumzekelo obalaseleyo. Nawuphi na umsebenzi wobugcisa unokuzisa uvuyo, ukondle ubuchule bokuyila, kwaye ukushiye nento oyenzileyo ezandleni zakho.
Kodwa umntu ogqithisileyo akanamdla kwezo zinto. Bafuna ukwenza into entle. Into ebhetele kunaleyo yenziwa ngabanye abantu. Abakwazi ukuba ngokomndilili okanye nge-mediocre kubugcisa babo. Ngaphandle koko, kukutyholwa kokuzixabisa kwabo.
10. Unokugcina iliso elibukeleyo ukuba ngubani owenza oko kubudlelwane bakho.
Ubudlelwane budinga umsebenzi ukuze uphumelele. Umsebenzi usebenza kulawulo lweemvakalelo, ujongana nobunzima bobomi, ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya, nokunye okuninzi.
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Umntu ogqithisileyo unokuzifumana egcina amanqaku kunye neqabane lakhe malunga nokuba ngubani owenza ntoni.
Banokuziva ngathi bakhuphisana ngokuthe ngqo neqabane labo ukuqinisekisa ukuba liqabane 'elilungileyo'.
Umntu ogqithisileyo angabinobunzima bokuhlala azole, aphumle xa egula, okanye avumele iqabane labo liphathe uxanduva. Kufuneka baqhubeke, kufuneka bafezekise, kwaye babonakalise kumaqabane abo ukuba kufanelekile ukubathanda ngokwenza izinto.
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Ungayeka njani ukugqithisa ngaphezulu.
Inguqu esempilweni yokuba ngogqithisileyo kukusebenza ngempumelelo.
Unokuba ngumntu owenza izinto zenziwe, izinto ezininzi zenziwe, ngaphandle kokujongela phantsi ubudlelwane bakho okanye ukonakalisa impilo yakho.
Isitshixo sokwenza utshintsho kukuqonda ukuba kutheni ucinga ukuba kufuneka ufezekise indawo yokuqala.
Oko kunganxulunyaniswa nento efana nolwalamano lwangaphambili oluhlukumezayo, ukukhuliswa ngokuhlukumezayo, okanye eminye imiba engasonjululwanga enxulumene nokuzazi kwakho kunye nokuba sempilweni. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uphonononge i-engile leyo kunye nengcali yezempilo yengqondo eqinisekisiweyo ukuze ulityhile ngcono ibali lakho.
Uncedo lobuchwephesha ecaleni, Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda ukutsala isenzo sakho kwindawo esempilweni.
1. Funda ukuthi hayi.
Abaphumeleli ngokugqithisileyo bahlala benengxaki yokuthi 'ewe' kuyo nayiphi na iprojekthi eza ngendlela yabo. Utyekelo lwabo lwendalo kukuba banako ngokupheleleyo kwaye baya kuyiphatha.
Leyo yingxaki kuba ayizizo zonke iiprojekthi ezifanelekileyo kuwe nakubomi bakho. Uneeyure ezininzi emini, kwaye awufuni ukuzimosha ngokwenza iiprojekthi kunye noxanduva lwabanye xa unganyanzelekanga.
Amathuba mahle kakhulu ukuba abanye abantu basebenzise ukuvuma kwakho ukuthi 'ewe' xa bafuna into eyenziweyo. Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba abanye abantu abakungqongileyo banesimo sengqondo okanye baba nomsindo xa uqala ukuthi hayi.
2. Gxila kumsebenzi onentsingiselo.
Umntu ogqithisileyo ujonge ukuziqinisekisa ukuba balungile okanye kufanelekile. Benza oko ngokufezekisa izinto.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umntu ogqithisileyo uya kuthatha umsebenzi omncinci okanye ongenantsingiselo ukubonelela ngokwenyusa kwabo. Banokukhangela umsebenzi ongabalulekanga ukuze bafumane nje into ethile bayenze kwaye bayifeze, nokuba luxanduva lwabo okanye akunjalo.
Yenza ukhetho olunentsingiselo kwinto oyenzayo nokuba kutheni uyenza-umbuzo wokuba kutheni uthatha isigqibo sokukhetha umsebenzi owongezelelweyo.
3. Yamkela ukuba imfezeko bubuxoki.
Isidingo sokugqibelela kuhlala kuvela kwiindawo ezimnyama, ezibuhlungu. Kodwa awufezekanga. Akukho namnye. Akunakwenzeka ukuba.
Awusoze wenze wonke umsebenzi wakho, ubugcisa, okanye uthando ngokugqibeleleyo. Awusoze ufeze ngokugqibeleleyo yonke into ofuna ukuyifeza. Bubuxoki obukugcina ukufezekisa okunentsingiselo.
Kwaye lumka ngabantu abalindele ukugqibelela kuba amathuba amahle bayayisebenzisa njengendlela yokulawula, ukufihla ezabo iingxaki, okanye ukunqanda uxanduva.
4. Zise kumzuzu.
Thatha imizuzu embalwa apha naphaya yokucamngca. Zama ukucamngca okukhokelwayo ukuzama ukuzisa ingqondo yakho ngakumbi ngoku. Thatha ixesha lokonwabela uloyiso lwakho kwaye uzilile ngenxa yelahleko yakho ngalo mzuzu. Yonwaba xa unakho kwaye ungafikeleli kwimisebenzi elandelayo okanye uxanduva.
Umsebenzi uya kuhlala ukhona. Kuhle kakhulu ngonaphakade. Nguwe kuphela onokwenza ixesha kwishedyuli yakho exakekileyo yokuphumla kwaye ufumane uxolo nolonwabo kumzuzu wangoku. Ikho ikulindile.
5. Yiba yinyani kuwe.
Ukunyaniseka awugqibekanga kwaye akusayi kuhlala ukufezekisa. Ukunyaniseka uyakufumana izinto ezingalunganga amaxesha ngamaxesha kwaye kunokuba yinto encinci.
Kodwa ngokunyaniseka nangokunyaniseka malunga nemizabalazo yakho endaweni yokuyigubungela okanye ukunqanda ukusilela, udala ithuba elityebileyo lokunxibelelana nabanye abantu.
Ubudlelwane obukhulayo ngenxa yokunyaniseka kunye nokunyaniseka buya kuba nzulu kakhulu kwaye buyinyani ngakumbi kunaleyo uyenzileyo ngokudlala kulindelo lwabanye.
Ulungile ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ufanelekile- nokuba unempumelelo enkulu okanye usilele.
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