Akunakuphikwa, xa ungena kwibar kwaye uskena igumbi lomntu oza kuba liqabane lakho, ekuqaleni, ujongeka ekutsalele ngaphakathi.
Kodwa ixesha elide, leliphakathi kweendlebe zakho, hayi phakathi kwemilenze yakho, eliya kuthi litywine isivumelwano.
Ngaba kuyamangalisa ke ngoko, ukuba sonke, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile, sitsalwe kubukrelekrele?
Iincwadi Ngapha Kokujonga
Okokuqala, masiqale ngabesini esifana nesini.
Elo ligama elisetyenziselwa abantu abavuswe yingqondo.
Igama livela kwisiLatin (masijongane nayo, yonke into iyayenza), sapiens, intsingiselo 'isilumko'.
Zijikwe yindlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo, ngenkangeleko entle ukuba kwindawo yesibini kunxibelelwano olukhulu lwengqondo.
Ukubonisa kwangaphambili, abantu abathandana nabantu besini esinye bakhetha ukungafani ngokwengqondo kunye nabathandi babo.
Ubukrelekrele obukhawulezayo, ukuqonda okubukhali, kunye ne-banter ekrelekrele kunokwenzeka ukuba zibenze bavulelwe kwaye balale ebhedini kunee-biceps ezintle, kunye nemigca yokuthwebula enkonkxiweyo.
Igama elithi 'Sapiosexual' lide lafumana ukuvuselelwa kutsha nje, nabantu abalisebenzisayo ukuchaza imeko yabo yezesondo kwiindawo ezithandanayo.
Kukwakho neeapps ezithandanayo ezijongana notyekelo ngokwasengqondweni, zidlala ngokungathandwa kwazo kwinkcubeko evuthelweyo yomphunga exhaphake kakhulu ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi.
Aba bantu bafuna ukuba wazi ukuba ukongeza kuhambo olude elunxwemeni, kunye nothando lokutya kwase-Italiya, 'Hayi, ndilapha ngenxa yeengqondo, hayi ubuhle.'
Nangona kunjalo, ukuthandana kwabantu besini esinye kukwabangele ukubuyela umva ngokuba lilukuluku, kunye nokuzama ukwenza ukhetho lomntu ngamnye kwisini esichazayo.
Kodwa esi sisiphelo esikude kwibala. Kuthekani ngomndilili kaJoe angazami ukwenza ingxelo malunga nobume obubi bokuthandana kwi-Intanethi?
Kumntu oqhelekileyo, umtsalane kubukrelekrele usabambelele kwizizathu zokuzivelela kwezinto. Ilungile lo nto…
Kungenxa yokuba usosayensi watsho njalo…
Inzululwazi ixhase umtsalane wethu kubantu abakrelekrele.
Njengoko kuvela, kukuzivelela kwezinto.
Ngokophando lweYunivesithi yaseNew Mexico , Amadoda ane-IQs aphezulu ahlala e-virile kwaye enesidoda esisempilweni kunabalingane babo abangacacanga.
Ke ayisiyonto nje eyenzeka ngengozi leyo: ubukrelekrele + uphawu lobudoda olulungileyo luphawu lwendalo olusempilweni kubantu abaza kuba ngamaqabane.
Ngokuphathelele kwindaleko, oku kuthetha ukuba abasetyhini abakhetha amadoda anamanqanaba aphezulu obukrelekrele ngandlela thile bayaziqinisekisa ngamathuba amahle okuzala kwakhona.
Ke unayo, inzululwazi ithi kukho isizathu sokuba abantu abakrelekrele babonakale benomtsalane.
Ukuphila kwezi zityalo kuxhomekeke kwingqondo yazo enkulu kwaye uh… 'iintliziyo ezinkulu.'
Olunye uphononongo olwenziwe ngumthengisi wezinto zokudlala ngesondo e-UK lufumanise ukuba abafundi abaphuma kwiiyunivesithi eziphezulu babenesidlangalala esingaphezulu kwesondo .
Abafundi abangamaHorny? Akumangalisi apho, kodwa i-clincher yayingeyiyo nje ukuba ukuya ekholejini yonyusa i-libido yabo, yayijolise ngqo kubafundi abavela kwiiyunivesithi ezidumileyo (mhlawumbi nge-IQ eziphezulu). Babenemoto ephezulu yokuqhuba ngokwesondo kunabo.
Oku akutsho ukuba aba bafundi babenayo yonke le nto imnandi yesini ngokuthelekiswa nathi sonke.
emva kobuso bememe butyhile
Ngokwenyani, kuvela ukuba kuyahluke ngokupheleleyo: Abantu abane-IQ eziphezulu bathambekele ekubeni nesini esincinci kunesininzi sabemi kwaye bona qalisa kamva ebomini , kananjalo.
Mhlawumbi bajolise kwezinye izinto, njengokwakha irokethi elandelayo emajukujukwini, okanye ukufumanisa unyango kunyango oluthile.
Banokukhetha nje ukuchitha ixesha labo kwenye indawo endaweni phakathi kwamashiti.
Amaqabane abo esikolo akrelekrele kangako anamaqabane amaninzi kuba ukufundela okokugqibela akuyiyo eyona nto iphambili (ok, yinto enkulu leyo, kodwa ufumana umbono).
Ngelixa oku kunokuvakala kungonwabisi, ekuhambeni kwexesha kuyabasebenzela, kuba ubukrelekrele obuphezulu buye baboniswa ukuvelisa ulwaneliseko lwexesha elide kubudlelwane.
Ubukrelekrele benza i-nerdy isete i-choosier xa isiza kumaqabane, ibakhethela iimpawu ngaphandle kokubonakala nje-kweempawu ezinokuphila ixesha elide.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu ze-9 Uyangqondo iyahambelana neQabane lakho
- Unokuba Nalo Njani Ubudlelwane Obusempilweni Ngamagama Asi-8
- Iimpawu ezi-7 zokuba wena neqabane lakho alihambelani
- Indlela yokujongana nokuba mbi
- Ungamxelela njani umntu obathandayo ngaphandle kokuba kube nzima
- Iimpawu ze-9 Umfana uyakuthanda kodwa woyikekile ukuyivuma
Kusasa Emva…
Esinye isizathu sokutsala kwethu kubukrelekrele silele kwimfesane vs inyani.
Sonke si ndifuna intelekelelo, kodwa nje ukuba ubugqwirha buphelile, sizinika itsheki yokwenyani.
Xa ukukhanya okubandayo kwemini kubetha, kwaye siyaqonda ukuba siye sayokulala nge-10, kodwa savuswa nge-2, siyazi ukuba kufuneka kubekho okungakumbi ukugcina umlilo uhamba.
Ngokuqinisekileyo abantu ababetheki kwingqondo yakho kwibar.
Sonke nzulu ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile-unentambo yokujonga kuqala, kwaye ubuze imibuzo kamva, kodwa emva kotywala okanye inkanuko siyaphela, sonke silangazelela okungakumbi: izinto eziqhelekileyo, uburharha kunye nencoko.
Kukulo xesha lokugqibela, incoko , apho ingqondo itsalela phambili elugqatsweni.
Bambalwa abantu abahlala neelekese zengalo ixesha elide, kuba ekupheleni kosuku, isimumu asi 'mhle.'
Isidenge sisirhintyelo kwaye sisebenza malunga nemizuzu emihlanu.
Kuyinto entle kwiscreen kumdlalo bhanyabhanya wendlu, kodwa nkqu nakwi-gag-inducing rom-coms, i-smart nerdy guy (okanye gal) ihlala iphumelela ekugqibeleni.
IHollywood iyayazi eyona nto siyiyo - ukubona umntu okrelekrele ethatha umvuzo.
Ukujonga kufana neentyatyambo, ekugqibeleni kuyaphela
Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, into esiyaziyo sonke, kodwa ngokufihlakeleyo yoyika: kujongeka ngathi kuyaphela.
Manene, ungajongeka njengoRyan Gosling ngoku, kodwa iminyaka engamashumi amathathu, ngaphandle kokuba uqeqeshwe ngumqeqeshi wodumo, amathuba kukuba ezi zipakiti ziyi-6 ziya kujongeka ngakumbi njengepakethi yecrisps.
Iibits zakho ezithandekayo ziya kuthi gqi, kwaye iitshixo zakho ezintle zinokungabikho zonke.
Nangona kunjalo, ubukrelekrele bakho bunokuba bukhali njengakuqala kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu engaqhelekanga.
Ngapha koko, kunokuba njalo isitshetshe ubukhali njengamava obomi kunye nokwanda kolwazi ngokuqinisekileyo kuyakukubumba.
Olu lwazi longezelelekileyo luya kuza xa uneminyaka, kwaye luya kuhlala lunomdla ngonaphakade.
Madoda, ingqondo yakho iya kuba yeyona nto intle xa yonke enye into isiya emazantsi.
kutheni umfana wam endijongela phantsi
Manenekazi, abantwana, amandla omxhuzulane, nemibimbi, ekugqibeleni bayakuguqula umzimba wakho we-swimsuit engama-20, kodwa ubukrelekrele, uburharha, kunye nobulumko, obufumene ngaloo minyaka buya kuhlala bukho.
Yiloo nto eya kubamba iintliziyo xa ulutsha luphela, kwaye iinwele ezingwevu kunye ne-botox ziba de rigueur.
Akukho namnye kuthi osindayo ekonakalisweni lixesha.
Sonke siyakuphela ngathi sisitramu esincinci kumashumi eminyaka ezayo.
Ke endaweni yeeyure ezibuhlungu kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, inokuhlawula ukuchitha iiyure ezimnandi ngempumlo yakho encwadini.
USmart uyanomdla, uRyan Gosling uza kugwetywa.
