Ngamanye amaxesha, ngezinye iintsuku, kubonakala ngathi akukho nto ihamba kakuhle.
Isenokuba sisicwangciso esime kakuhle esiza sodwa ngenxa yokungenamsebenzi. Mhlawumbi ayisiyonto isebenza ngendlela obucinga ngayo.
Kukho amaxesha apho kubonakala ngathi iphela indalo inokuba iyelenza ukukunika ixesha elinzima.
Yhoo! Uwise ikomityi yekofu!
ungaxelela njani ukuba intombazana inomdla
Kutheni ndilibele ukutyhala iqhosha lokuqalisa isomisi sam !?
Ndingene njani nje !? Mhlawumbi ukuba andijongi phantsi, izakuhamba ...
Ewe ndibaleka imizuzu elishumi! Ndiqinisekile umphathi uya konwaba ngaloo nto.
Le ntlanganiso iyadika. Ndinomsebenzi omninzi ekufuneka ndiwenzile!
Qhubeka, kwaye uqhubeke, kwaye iyaqhubeka ude ufike kwindawo apho ufuna ukukhwaza ngokukhathazeka.
Ilungile! Sonke sinazo ezo ntsuku. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba sibuyele emgceni kwaye sizame ukungakuvumeli ukuba konakalise olokuba lusuku oluhle!
Uyenza njani lonto?
1. Nqumama.
Sonke sihlala sinolu luvo ezingqondweni zethu malunga nendlela esicinga ukuba imeko kufuneka ihambe ngayo. Kwaye xa ingahambi ngalendlela besicwangcise ngayo, ibiza iimvakalelo ezinje ngomsindo kunye nokudana.
Okomzuzu into ingahambi kakuhle, kuya kufuneka sime kancinci, sithathe ukuphefumla okunzulu, kwaye sithathe isigqibo sokungatsibeli kwiimvakalelo ezimbi.
Impendulo yeemvakalelo inokuza nje ngomcimbi wesiqhelo, nokuba awunomsindo okanye unomsindo. Unokufumana imeko ephazamisayo, oqondayo ngengqondo ayisiyonto inkulu kwaye utsiba ngqo emsindweni kuba yile nto ubuqhele ukuyenza. Kuvakala ngathi inyathelo elilandelayo lendalo ekufumaneni ukukhathazeka, kodwa akufuneki kube njalo.
Mhlawumbi akukho lula kangako kuwe. Mhlawumbi unomsindo oguqukayo kunye neemvakalelo ezinzulu kunabantu abaninzi. Ukunqumama kunokuba luncedo nakuwe. Kungathatha ixesha elininzi kunye nomsebenzi ukufumana amandla kunye neziko xa ujongene nemeko edandathekisayo. Ilula, kodwa akukho lula.
2. Qwalasela ukubaluleka konxunguphalo.
Kulula kakhulu ukuba usebenze ngakumbi malunga nento kunokuba iyimfuneko. Emva kokunqumama, cinga ngokwenzekileyo. Ngaba oku kufuna naluphi na uhlobo lokuphendula ngokweemvakalelo?
Ukuphosa ikomityi yekofu kuyaphazamisa. Inokuba uzitshisile kancinci. Kukho ii-shards zekomityi yekofu kuwo wonke umgangatho, elinde wena ukuba unyathele isitepsi nasemva kokuba utshayele phantsi kathathu.
Kwaye kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokucoca ubumdaka. Ngubani ixesha laloo nto? Usafuna ukukhupha abantwana baye esikolweni, bagqibe ngokunxiba, kwaye balungele ukuphangela!
Cinga ngokubaluleka kwale meko. Ngaba le nto iya kuba yimizuzu emihlanu? Iiyure ezintlanu? Iinyanga ezintlanu? Iminyaka emihlanu?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuthatha imizuzu elishumi okanye elishumi elinesihlanu ukucoca ukungcola okunje. Kwaye yintoni? Emva koko uqhubeka nosuku lwakho, kunye nobomi bakho, kwaye ngokupheleleyo kwisibuko sakho sokujonga ngasemva. Akukho nto ixhalabisayo.
3. Lahla unxunguphalo.
Ngoku, lixesha lokuba ulahle unxunguphalo, njengamaqhekeza amaninzi eekomityi zekofu.
Ukuthomalalisa iimeko eziphazamisayo kwasekuqaleni kuya kubagcina ekufumaneni nasekukusindiseni.
Inye into ehamba gwenxa: kulungile, iyenzeka. Into yesibini ayilunganga: ugh, kufuneka ndibenosuku olubi. Kwaye xa into yeshumi ijikeleza ukuba ihambe gwenxa, kulula kakhulu ukuba unxunguphele kwaye ucaphuke kungabikho nto ihamba njengoko bekucwangcisiwe.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka uphazamise umsindo kunye nokukhathazeka kwangethuba, ukuze bangabi nethuba lokunyuka. Nje ukuba inyuke, kunzima kakhulu ukujongana nayo.
Le ndlela inokubonakala njengenkqubo eyenziwe lula. Kwakhona, kulula, kodwa akukho lula.
Kodwa yinto elula ngokuya uyenza. Okukhona usenokususa kwisikhubekiso esincinci kunye nokuphazamiseka okubangelwa bubomi kuwe, kokukhona kulula ukugcina uxolo kunye nolonwabo.
Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba ukukhathazeka kwakho kukhulu kakhulu kunoko? Kuthekani ukuba ayisiyi kangako ukulahla ikomityi yekofu kwaye ibaleke emva kwexesha, nangaphezulu kwimigca yezicwangciso ezibalulekileyo ezingasebenziyo?
ungamnceda njani umhlobo wakho ukuba ahlukane nokwahlukana
Ubudlelwane abuphumeleli, isikolo asihambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe, kwaye ubomi nje abuhambi ngendlela ofuna ukuba buhambe ngayo.
Ewe, le nkqubo incinci inokunceda, kodwa ezinye izinto ezongezelelweyo zinokwenza ukuba uhambo ngokubanzi lube lula.
4. Zilungiselele kwangaphambili ukuxhalaba.
Ingxaki ngempumelelo kukuba kunqabile ukuba ube ngumgca othe ngqo. Xa sibona impumelelo, sihlala sibona umntu oncumileyo, owonwabileyo ekupheleni kohambo olude lwamahla ndinyuka, izilingo kunye neembandezelo, ukusilela nokuzama kwakhona. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abenza isicwangciso kwaye baqhube ngqo baye empumelelweni kungekho miqobo okanye imiqobo endleleni.
Ceba ngayo!
Yazi ukuba xa umisela indlela entsha oza kujongana nayo. Yazi ukuba xa yonke into ibonakala ngathi ayihambi kakuhle, ungangcono ivuliwe indlela elungileyo.
Ngokwengqondo zilungiselele ngokwakho kwezi meko ngokuqonda ukuba ukusilela kuyinxalenye yenkqubo. Yindlela ojonga ngayo kwaye usebenzise ukungaphumeleli okumisela ukuba uyaphumelela okanye awuphumelelanga.
Ukusilela sisixhobo esinamandla sokufunda. Ikubonisa into engasebenziyo kwaye ikufundisa izinto ongazaziyo. Ungaluthatha olo lwazi kwaye ujonge enye indlela eya phambili.
5. Khangela ipivot.
Ngamanye amaxesha, izinto ezingahambi kakuhle zibonisa ukuba isicwangciso asisebenzi. Kungenzeka ukuba unolwazi olubi ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Kunzima ukwazi into ongayaziyo de ubulumko bukuqhwabe ebusweni.
Kulapho ipivot ingena khona. Ungafumanisa ukuba ukukhathazeka kunye namava akho azama ukukuxelela into elungileyo. Inokuqaqambisa elinye ithuba ongakhange ukwazi ukulibona ngaphambili.
Khangela indawo yokuhamba.
Ungenza ntoni ukuze wenze olu phazamiso lube nemveliso? Ngaba ungasiphucula isicwangciso sakho? Ngaba ikho enye indlela ekusenokwenzeka ukuba ivulekele ukukunika ithuba? Ngaba kufuneka utshintshe indlela ukuze usondele kwinjongo yakho? Olu dandatheko lunokusebenza njani njengelitye lokunyathela lisiya kwinto engcono?
6. Thatha ikhefu.
Ubomi buyakhathaza. Izinto azisebenzi. Isicwangciso emva kokuba isicwangciso siwela phantsi. Zonke izinto ezicaphukisayo zincinci ekugqibeleni zakha umsindo ophembelela umsindo kunye nokuhlambalaza kubuhlungu ukubila.
Lixesha lekhefu elincinci kunye nokuzikhathalela.
Ikhefu 'elincinci' liza kuxhomekeka kubungakanani bemicimbi ojongana nayo. Mhlawumbi ufuna nje imizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu ukuze ungacingi malunga nokucaphukisa kolu suku lokufumba. Okanye, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uthabathe impela-veki ukuze uphumle, uhlale nawe, kunye nokudodobala kuxinzelelo lokuphazamiseka kobomi.
Naphi na apho ungayifumana khona, thatha ikhefu elincinci.
ukuba nothando ngakumbi kwisithandwa sam
Kunzima ukubona ubunyani bento okanye uthathe izigqibo ezifanelekileyo xa unomsindo. Ungafumanisa ukuba umba ophazamisayo obujongana nawo awuyonto kwaphela xa sele unethuba lokuzola kwaye ubuyele kuwo. Ungajonga imeko ngamehlo amatsha kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane isisombululo esicacileyo ongasibonanga xa unomsindo.
Kulungile. Yinto eqhelekileyo ngokugqibeleleyo.
7. Fumana uncedo ukuba izinto ziba nzima kakhulu.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhathazeka okuncinci kunye nokuphazamiseka kuyakha, okanye uthotho lweziganeko ezimbi ezenza ukuba uzive ngathi akukho nto ihambe kakuhle.
Ukuba uyasokola ngokwasemphefumlweni nangokwenyani, akukho hlazo ekufumaneni uncedo nenkxaso. Ngapha koko, lukhetho olukhaliphileyo nolusengqiqweni lokufumana umntu oza kuncika kuye xa amaxesha enzima.
Oko kunokuthetha ukucela abahlobo okanye amalungu osapho uncedo, kodwa yazi nje ukuba abanakuhlala bekwazi ukunika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo okanye ezingakhethi cala. Banokuthetha kakuhle, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba banqunyulwe ukujongana nazo zonke izinto ojamelana nazo.
Ukhetho olunobulumko kunokuba kukufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha ngohlobo lomcebisi oqeqeshelwe ukumamela ngononophelo kuwe ngaphambi kokunikezela ngendlela ethathelwe ingqalelo ebunzimeni bakho. Bazokwazi ukukucebisa ngendlela ebonakalayo kunye nemeko yakho yeemvakalelo xa kungekho nto ibonakala ihamba kakuhle.
Ungacofa apha ukuze ufumane umcebisi kufutshane nawe, okanye umntu oza kuba nakho ukusebenza kunye nokude kwakho ngeeseshoni ezikwi-Intanethi.
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