Bangaphi abantu obaziyo abaphila ngokwenene ubomi ababesoloko bephupha ngabo?
Amathuba kukuba uyazi kuphela imbinana, kwaye uninzi lwabahlobo bakho benza imisebenzi ehlawula amatyala okanye abahlala kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo nezilunge ngakumbi, kunaleyo yokondla imiphefumlo yabo.
njani ukuthatha ubomi usuku olunye ngexesha
Uthini ngawe?
Ngaba wonwabile apho ukhoyo? Ngale nto uyenzayo?
Ukuba impendulo ikho ukusuka ku 'meh' ukuya 'esihogweni hayi,' yintoni ekuthintelayo ekulandeleni oko uhlala uphupha ukukwenza?
Apha ngezantsi kukho iinkolelo ezisibhozo ezibamba abantu ekuhlaleni ubomi ekudala befuna. Ngaba ikho esebenzayo kuzo?
1. Ndimdala kakhulu ukuba ndingayiqala ngokutsha
Xelela uDoreetha Daniels waseCalifornia, owafumana isidanga seSayensi yezeNtlalo eneminyaka engama-99 ubudala.UJulia Child akazange afunde ukupheka ade abe neminyaka engama-40 (wabhala incwadi yakhe yokuqala yokupheka eneminyaka engama-50), uAlan Rickman washiya umzobo Uyilo lokuqhubela phambili ekwenzeni: wafumana igig yakhe yokuqala yokwenyani xa wayeneminyaka engama-42 (njengoHans Gruber Inzima ) kunye nomsebenzi wakhe wanyuka ukusuka apho.
Hayi, awumdala kakhulu ukuba ungaqala into entsha nenomdla.
Kunokubakho imiceli mngeni ekulandeleleni iindlela ezithile ngenxa yoxanduva okanye imiba yomzimba, kodwa sinamandla amangalisayo okuziqhelanisa nayo nayiphi na into.
I-becky lynch vs ironda evuselelekayo
Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nobudala, ukuba indawo onokuthanda ukusebenza kuyo iya kuba nomdla kuphela kubasebenzi abancinci, thetha nabantu abaphezulu apho kwaye ubuze izimvo zabo ngokunyaniseka. Zininzi izibonelelo zokuqesha umntu oqale umsebenzi wesibini, ubuncinci kuwo kubandakanya ukwazisa ngokuzinikela komntu nokunyamezela kwakhe. Umntu okhethe ulwalathiso olutsha kwaye wasebenza nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo unomdla ngakumbi kunomntwana osandula ukuphuma kwinkqubo yesikolo ababenomdla kuyo.
2. Ndingasilela
“Ukuba Ndingawa?”
“Owu kodwa sithandwa sam, ungathini xa ubhabha?” -U-Erin Hansen
Sonke si Ukungaphumeleli komngcipheko xa sizama into entsha. Esihogweni, sizibeka emngciphekweni wokungaphumeleli xa sisenza izinto esizenzileyo izihlandlo eziliwaka ngaphambili, ukusuka ekuqhekekeni kweqanda kwipani yokufryisha ukwenza lula imoto kuhola wendlela. Iqanda linokuqhekeka epanini, okanye imoto inokubethwa sesinye isithuthi. Ngaba iyasinqanda loo nto?
Yonke into entsha iyingozi, kwaye kuhlala kukho amathuba okusilela. Oko kwathethi, kukwakho nethuba lokuphumelela, akunjalo?
Olona hlobo kuphela lokuqinisekisa ukuba uya kusilela kwinto ethile kukungazami konke konke… emva koko uya kuzicaphukela ngenxa yokwesaba kwakho.
3. Andifanelanga Obo Bomi
Yintoni esihogweni enokukwenza ukuba ucinge njalo? Ngaba ucinga ukuba ngandlel 'ithile awulufanelanga ulonwabo? Ngaba kuphela ngabantu abaneemeko ezithile zobomi 'abavunyelweyo' ukulandela amaphupha abo?
UNyhhhh. Hayi ngekhe.
Nokuba ucinga ukuba wenze into eyoyikekayo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, akakufanelanga ukuzaliseka kunye nolonwabo, yeka loo ndlela yokucinga ngoku. Ufanelekile olwakho uthando nemfesane, kwaye uqinisekile ukuba isihogo sifanelwe naluphi na ulonwabo onokulufumana ebomini.
Yenze yenzeke.
4. Andizukufumana mali ininzi ngokwenza oku
Kuyinyani, usenokungabi njalo, kodwa usenokuphumelela ngokwenene. Okanye, ukuba oku ayingombandela oza kukufumanela ubutyebi, unokuzibhaqa wonwabile kwaye uzolile kunokuba unje ngoku, kwaye ayilohlobo oluhle lobutyebi olo?
Jonga umonki wakho ongumBuddha okanye unongendi: banomxholo olahlekileyo, kwaye abanayo enye into ngaphandle kwengubo okanye ezimbini kunye nesitya sokucela.
iimpawu zekhemistri phakathi kwendoda nomfazi
Ukuba eyona nto ikukhathaza ngemali, zinike ixesha lokuzibuza ukuba ufuna malini na. Yenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, uqiniseke ukuba kungathatha malini ukwenza amaphupha akho, kwaye ubone ukuba ungawucwangcisa umgaqo obalulekileyo kunye neshedyuli yokubuyela umva ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.
Unokuthanda (amanqaku ayaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- “Ndenza Ntoni Ngobomi Bam?” - Lixesha lokufumanisa
- Phambi kokuZiphinda uQinisekise, Qiniseka ukuba ubuza lo mbuzo
- Izinto eziyi-8 uninzi lwabantu oluthatha ixesha lokuphila ukuze uzifunde
- Ixabiso leSunk Fallacy kunye nendlela yokuLoyisa
- Iimpawu eziLungileyo ezi-5 ezitsala ulonwabo kunye nobudlelwane obusempilweni
- Ungabuqonda njani ubunzima bokwenzelwa phantsi (kunye namanyathelo ama-5 okoyisa)
5. Ndingumntu Ophosakeleyo ______ Ukuphila Elo Phupha
Yintoni ekubambezelayo? Ngaba ucinga ukuba isini sakho, imvelaphi yenkcubeko, ubude, ubunzima, ubudala, amava, iwonga ekuhlaleni, okanye ukomelela komzimba ngandlela thile “akulunganga” ngephupha onqwenela ukulenza?
F * ck ukuba. Hayi, ngokungathí sina: F * CK THAT.
Kukho iintshatsheli ezinitha zamadoda kunye nabafazi abanyuka intaba kunye neemodeli ze-transgender kunye nabayili bezinto ezine kunye, kwaye, kwaye…
Ukuba uzimisele ukulandela iphupha, yenze. Ukuthatha ithuba kuyothusa, kodwa ukuhlala nokuzisola kuyothusa (kwaye sh * ttier) ukude.
6. Andinaxesha okanye imali yokutshintsha ubomi bam
Inzima le, kodwa ngokunyaniseka? Kukho iindlela ezijikeleze nantoni na. Ukuba unesiqingatha sabantwana abalishumi elinambini, kodwa uhlala ufuna ukwenza isidanga se-univesithi, jonga kwiYunivesithi evulekileyo okanye ezinye iinkqubo zesidanga esikude: unokwenza ikhosi enye ngexesha. Kuya kuthatha ixesha elide, kodwa uya kufika apho.
Ukuba, endaweni yoko, ufuna ukuqala elakho ishishini, jonga kwizibonelelo kunye nemali mboleko kunye ne-whatnots: unokulungela ngaphezulu kokuqonda kwakho.
uzimela njani
Ngokuphathelele ixesha… kulungile, senza ixesha lezinto ezibalulekileyo kuthi, akunjalo? Inokwenziwa.
7. Yinto engekho ngqiqweni
Ngokutsho koobani? Ngubani otshabalalise amaphupha akho akuxelele ukuba awunako ukuwafeza? Bayaphazama.
Ngenxa yokuba into yahluke kancinane kwisilo sesiqhelo, ayithethi ukuba ayinakwenzeka. Ukuba omnye umntu, naphi na, nangaliphi na ixesha, wenze into efanayo, ngokucacileyo iyinyani kwaye inokwenzeka, akunjalo?
Umntu obeka engozini nto, engenzi nto, engenanto, engenanto, kwaye engenzi nto. Unokukuphepha ukubandezeleka kunye nosizi, kodwa akanakufunda, ukuziva, ukutshintsha, ukukhula okanye ukuthanda.
Ebotshelelwe kukuzithemba kwakhe, ulikhoboka elilahle inkululeko yakhe.
Kuphela ngumntu ozibeka emngciphekweni okhululekileyo ngokwenyani. - Leo Buscaliaakukho thuba lokuba uyifumene
8. Ndizolahlekelwa yintlonipho nenkxaso yabantu
Ukuba uligqwetha eliphupha lokufundisa nge-scuba diving eThailand ubomi bakho bonke, kunokwenzeka ukuba woyikiswe ngabantu abaya kucinga ukuba ungalandela elo phupha. Emva kwakho konke, ubeka iminyaka yokufunda, usebenze ngasemva kwakho ukuphumelela uviwo lwe-bar, ufumene umsebenzi kwifemu elungileyo, kwaye ngoku wenza i-gajillion iimali ngonyaka.
Kutheni le nto ungayinika yonke loo nto uyokuzonwabisa ngeewetsuit amawaka eekhilomitha ukusuka ekhaya?
Ngokukodwa kuba ingakwenza wonwabe, kwaye ubomi bugwetyelwe kakhulu ukuba ungenzi izinto ezenza umphefumlo wakho ubenamandla.
Ukuba unexhala lokuba abantu ebomini bakho banokukugculela okanye bangavumi ukuxhasa le nzame, ngokunyanisekileyo, unoluhlobo oluphosakeleyo lwabantu abakungqongileyo. Gcina abantu ebomini bakho abaphucula ubomi bakho- abo baya kuthi khuthaza amaphupha akho kwaye ube ngabaxhasi bakho xa usilela.
Ukuba intliziyo yakho iphantsi kolwandle, landela yona: kungcono ukuthatha umngcipheko kwaye wenze iinkumbulo ezintle zeminyaka kunokuzibamba ngenxa ukuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni , kwaye uzisole ngesi sigqibo ubomi bakho bonke.
Abantu abaninzi bayazibamba ekubeni baphile ubomi ababufuna ngenene kuba boyika ukusilela, ukugculelwa, ukungabikho kokhuseleko ebomini kamva, njl. Nantsi ke le nto: asazi ukuba lingakanani ixesha esisele nalo . Oko ayizukusoyika okanye siyilungiselele ekufeni, kodwa endaweni yokuba sivume ukuba ekuphela kwexesha esinokuqiniseka ngalo sinalo elixesha lichanekileyo.
Ukwazi ukuba sinexesha elilinganiselweyo kule planethi kunokuba yinto enkulu yokukhuthaza ubomi obusizalisekisayo kwaye busizalise ngolonwabo, endaweni yokungena kubomi obungenakuphikiswa kuphela ukuze sivuzwe ngokufa esiphelweni sayo yonke loo nto.
Ukuba awunakulinga nto,
ke xa usuku luphelile,
akhonto kuphela oyakube uyizuzile- Neil Gaiman
