Sonke siye sanikwa iingcebiso esingakhange sizikhathaze ngokuzithatha, kodwa sinqwenela ukuba besinako.
Abanye banokuba basixelele ukuba masenze (okanye singenzi) into ethile, kwaye sizikhethele ukungabaphulaphuli.
Nazi iingcebiso ezingama-50 ekufanele ukuba uzimamele. Akunakuba konke kufanelekile ngalo mzuzu, kodwa malunga nazo zonke ziya kudlala ngaxa lithile ebomini bakho.
1. Khathalela impilo yakho. Yonke into oyityayo, yonke into oyenzayo iya kuba nefuthe kwimpilo yakho. Oku kuya okwangoku kunye nendlela oza kuziva ngayo amashumi eminyaka ukusukela ngoku. Hlala usebenza, yitya kakuhle, kwaye ikamva lakho liya kubulela kuwe malunga notyalo mali.
2. Thembela kwisigqibo sakho. Kukangaphi ubeke ecaleni eyakho intuition kwimeko yomnye umntu ozamile ukukuqinisekisa ngenye indlela? Kukangaphi uzikhahlela ngokwenza njalo? Thembela kwisigwebo sakho, kwaye ubambelele kuso.
3. Funda ukonwaba xa ungonwabanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kudibana neemeko ezikwenza uzive ungonwabanga. Funda ukwamkela ukuba uziva 'ungekho', ngaphandle kwesidingo sokutshintsha iimeko zakho. Ngokufanayo, funda ukuthi 'oku kundenza ndingakhululeki' ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba abanye bayeke isimilo esikwenza uzive ungayithandi.
4. Ukuphuhlisa iindlela ezomeleleyo zokujamelana Oku kuhamba kunye nengcebiso yangaphambili. Uyakufumana izinto ezininzi ebomini ezinokukucaphukisa okanye ukothuse. Ngokuphuhlisa iindlela ezilungileyo zokujamelana , Uya kuba nakho ukuzilungisa ngaphandle kokuqhekeka. Kuxhomekeke wena ukufunda ukulawula iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho malunga nobunzima obuninzi ebomini.
5. Lungelelanisa iimeko eziguqukayo. Kuhle kakhulu ukwenza izicwangciso, kodwa asinakucinga ukuba izinto ziya kudlala njengoko besilindele. Ukuhamba kunye neemeko eziguqukayo, yenza izicwangciso zokulungiselela iimeko ezingalindelekanga, okanye ucwangcise izinto kwakhona njengoko kufuneka.
6. Zazi . Okukhona ukhangela umphefumlo, kokukhona uya kuzazi ngokwenyani. Kwaye xa usenzile, loo mvakalelo yesiqu sakho iya kukunceda ukukubona kwiimeko ezininzi ezinzima.
7. Yeka ukuzixhalabisa malunga nokucinga abanye abantu. Nxiba into oyithandayo, thanda lowo ubathandayo, yenza oko kukonwabisa. Abo bakukhathaleleyo baya kukuthanda kwaye bakwamkele, kwaye abo bangakukhathalelanga, kulungile… izimvo zabo azibalulekanga.
8. Jonga konke ukusilela njengamava okufunda. Ukusilela ngokupheleleyo, ikakhulu ukuba ukusilela kuyaphoxa. Oko kwathiwa, sinokufunda okuninzi kwinto esiyibona ngathi sisilele. Thatha isicatshulwa sikaThomas Edison: “Andisilelanga. Ndifumene iindlela ezili-10 000 ezingasebenziyo. '
9. Yenza izigqibo ngentloko ecacileyo kunye nesisu esipheleleyo. Uninzi lwezigqibo ezingalunganga zenziwe xa abantu bekonganyelwe yimvakalelo. Okanye ukuxhoma. Ukuba unesigqibo esibalulekileyo ekufuneka usenzile, qiniseka ukuba uphumla ngokwaneleyo, kwaye utye into. Emva koko, kuphela emva koko, sebenza kwinkqubo yokwenza izigqibo.
10. Musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho uphikisana neziyatha. 'Baza kukurhuqela ezantsi kwinqanaba labo emva koko bakubethe ngamava.' Cinga ngalo lonke ixesha olichithele ekungeneni kwiingxabano kumagqabantshintshi eendaba ezentlalo. Eli lixesha lokuba ungasayi kubuya, kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba utshintshe ingqondo yomntu ngayo nantoni na. Musa nje ukuzikhathaza.
11. Qaphela ukuba awukwazi ukukholisa wonke umntu. Ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho elininzi uzama ukonwabisa wonke umntu, uyakuba lusizi. Naliphi na inyathelo olithathayo liya konwaba abanye abantu, likhubekise abanye, kwaye licaphukise abambalwa ngokunjalo. Kulungile.
12. Wuqonde umsindo wakho, kwaye uwusebenzise ngokufanelekileyo. Masithi unqatshelwe umsebenzi ogqibeleleyo, kwaye unomsindo ngawo. Endaweni yokuba ukhwaze ngokungabikho kokusesikweni, jika loo mandla aye kwinto eluncedo ngakumbi. Njengokuqala ishishini lakho, kwaye wenze umsebenzi ongcono kunenkampani ephosiweyo kukungena.
13. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba akukho mntu wongamileyo kunomnye umntu. Omnye unokuba nabaphathi okanye abaphathi abakwizikhundla eziphezulu, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba bakwisikhundla segunya. Eso sikhundla nje - azingcono kunaye nawuphi na umntu, kungekho namnye ongaphezulu kwazo. Kananjalo, awusoze uzive uphantsi kuye nabani na - bonke bayalingana, ngaphandle kobungqina obungenabungqina obunokubonisa ukuba uchasene noko.
14. Phila kumzuzu wangoku. Kwenzeka ntoni kumqhubi xa bejonge kwisitulo esingasemva, okanye kwibhokisi yeglavu, okanye ngefestile esecaleni, endaweni yokugcina amehlo abo endleleni? Kulungile, ke, ngaba ucinga ukuba kuluncedo ukugcina ukujonga kwakho kugxile kwimiba edlulileyo okanye ukucinga kwangaphambili kunokuba kungalo mzuzu, ngoku? Ixesha elidlulileyo liyinkumbulo, kwaye ikamva yingcinga. Yonke into esinayo ilungile ngoku, ke hlala apha.
15. Buza, sukucinga. Iimbambano ezininzi kunye nokulwa kuye kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba abantu bacinge izinto kunokuba babuze. Uninzi lwabantu lulandela indlela yokucinga '> ukuthatha -> ukutyhola -> ukuhlasela'. Endaweni yokuzihlupha ngokufumana ubunyani bemeko ngokubuza ngayo, beza nengcaciso ezingqondweni zabo, ngokusekwe kumava abo okanye kukhetho lwabo. Emva koko bavelisa iingqikelelo zabo kwaye bayikhuphe isihogo. Kusoloko kukho iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo onokuzifumanisa, ke soloko ubuza.
16. Yiba neempazamo ezizezakho, ufunde kuzo. Akukho mntu uhloniphayo umntu ozama ukubeka ityala kwabanye abantu. Ngokuchaseneyo, abantu bacinga kakhulu kakhulu ngabo bavumayo kwiimpazamo zabo, emva koko bathathe inyathelo lokutshintsha okwenyani.
17. Sebenzisa amava anzima njengamathuba okufunda. Ubomi bunokuba nzima ngokungaqhelekanga ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye sonke siya kujongana nentliziyo ebuhlungu, ukulahleka, kunye nezinye iintlobo zentlungu ngaxa lithile. Zama ukufunda kuwo onke amava ukuze ukhule kuwo. Oku kuyokunceda ukuba uphephe umgibe wokuzikhusela kumaxhoba.
18. Bonakalisa umbulelo rhoqo. Ulwalamano oluninzi luyaqhekeka ngenxa yokuba abantu baziva bethathwe kancinci. Abantu abaninzi bahlakulela imvakalelo yokufaneleka malunga nokuziphatha kwabanye, ngakumbi izenzo zamaqabane abo. Ungaze uvumele abanye bazive ngathi ubathathile. Endaweni yoko, bonisa umbulelo wakho xa kunokwenzeka. Nditsho nakwizinto ezincinci.
19. Qhubeka ufunda . Ukufunda nokufunda akufuneki kuphele wakugqiba isikolo. Ngokuhlala ufunda izinto ezintsha, udala iindlela ezintsha zengqondo. Ngapha koko, uphando lubonisa ukuba ukufunda izakhono ezitsha, iilwimi, kunye nokuhamba njengomntu omdala Unokunceda ekupheliseni isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo . Ukujonga ukuba kuninzi kangakanani ukufunda apha, ngekhe ube nasizathu sakuba nesithukuthezi.
Amashumi amabini. Yeka ukucaphuka msinya . Abantu abaninzi banempendulo ekhawulezileyo yokuguqa ukuze bacatshukiswe koko bakutolika njengezenzo okanye amazwi omnye umntu. Rhoqo, kungenxa yokuba bengakhange baqonde kakuhle okanye baphazamise isimilo somnye umntu kwaye bayithatha njengenkcaso yobuqu. Abanye basebenzisa ulwaphulo-mthetho njengendlela yokuvala umlomo abo bangavumelani nabo. Unokungavumelani nembono yomnye umntu ngaphandle kokuyithatha njengokuhlaselwa buqu. Ngokufanayo, into onokuyithatha njengokuziphatha okukucaphukisayo ayinakuba nanto yakwenza nawe kwaphela.
21. Gcina ilizwi lakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlonitshwa nokuthenjwa, gcina izithembiso zakho, nokuba (ngakumbi) xa kunzima ukwenza njalo. Ingqibelelo yakho ibalwa ngaphezu kokuba unokucinga, kwaye ukuba nedumela lokuthembeka kuya kuba yinzuzo enkulu kubomi bakho bonke.
22. Ubomi bakho, ukhetho lwakho. Akekho omnye umntu onento ayithethayo ngento okhetha ukuyenza (okanye ungayenzi) ngokubhekisele kukhetho lwakho ebomini. Unelungelo lokukhetha ikhondo lomsebenzi wakho, iqabane lakho, iindlela zokhathalelo lwempilo, kunye nendlela ophila ngayo. Akukho mntu unetyala lokukhetha kwakho. Basenokungavumelani nezigqibo zakho, kodwa ngumba wabo lowo, hayi owakho.
Sebenzisa ixesha elininzi uphulaphule kwaye ujonge kunokuthetha. Unokufunda lukhulu ngokuba uqaphele kwaye ujonge okwenzekayo malunga nawe. Ukuthetha ngenxa yayo kuthatha ixesha kunye nomoya, kuyila (kunokwenzeka) ingxolo engeyomfuneko. Jonga kwaye uhlalutye, kwaye ukhethe amagama akho ngononophelo.
24. Thetha ngokucacileyo, ngokuzithemba. Oku kuhamba kunye nengcebiso encinci apha ngasentla. Abantu abaninzi baye bathatha amazwi abo bawafunda kumajelo eendaba, ukubenzakalisa. Uya kuhlonitshwa ngakumbi kwaye uthathwe nzulu ngakumbi ukuba uyathetha. Oku kunokukunceda kwiimeko ezisusela kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi ukuya kumatyala enkundla.
25. Jongana noloyiko lwakho. Akukho mntu uthanda ukufumana ubunzima okanye iintlungu. Oko kwathethi, ukuzifihla kwizinto ezisenza sisoyike okanye sikhathazeke akwenzi ezo zinto zinyamalale. Ngapha koko, ukunikezela uloyiko kunye nexhala kusenza ukuba soyike ngakumbi ekuhambeni kwexesha. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba iimbono zethu zendlela izinto ezoyikisa ngayo zihlala zimbi kakhulu kunoko zinjalo.
26. Sukwenza into oyithiyileyo. Uninzi lwethu luye lwava uxinzelelo kunye nenzondo evela ekwenzeni into esingayithandi kwaphela. Ukuba uwuthiyile umsebenzi wakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba kubangela iimvakalelo ezithile ezimbi kuwe. Oku kunokukhokelela kwimpilo enkenenkene, kunye nokuqhekeka kobudlelwane. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ungachitha ixesha usenza izinto ezikukhathaza.
27. Gcina imali kumatrasi omangalisayo. Le inokubonakala ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ukulala kamnandi ebusuku kunye nenkxaso efanelekileyo yomzimba kuya kuba nefuthe elingaqhelekanga kwimpilo yakho iphela. Khumbula ukuba uchitha malunga nesithathu sobomi bakho ulele, ke yenza amava amnandi.
28. Vuleleka kwezinye iimbono. Abantu abaninzi bayazigxotha ngoko nangoko izimvo kunye namava abanye ngenxa yokuba bengenako ukunxibelelana nabo. Funda ukumamela kwaye uve kakuhle ukuba bathini abanye. Amathuba okuba banokunika ulwazi ongakhange ucinge ngalo.
29. 'Izinto' azibalulekanga . Ewe, sonke siyathanda ukuba nezinto, kodwa ekugqibeleni, azibalulekanga. Ukuba indlu yakho iyatsha, ngaba ungangxama usindise iqabane lakho, abantwana, kunye namaqabane ezilwanyana? Okanye upakishe iibhegi zigcwele 'izinto'?
30. Ungasoloko unceda omnye. Nokuba ujongene nantoni, yazi ukuba kuya kuhlala kukho omnye onokuzuza kuncedo lwakho. Nokuba uhambisa nje amanzi kancinci kwisityalo esomileyo kuya kwenza umahluko omkhulu kobo bomi buncinci.
31. Musa ukubaphoxa abanye ngokukhetha kwabo. Khumbula # 22? Oko kusebenza kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye akukho namnye kuthi onelungelo lokuhlaza abanye ngokwenza izigqibo zobomi ezahlukeneyo. Sisenokungavumelani nokhetho kunye nokuziphatha kwabo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kulungile ukubagculela okanye ukubangxolisa.
32. Zenzele indawo ephambili. Oku akuthethi ukungabahoyi abanye okanye ukubaphatha kakubi. Kuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuzigcinela ixesha kunye nendawo. Yala isimemo ngobabalo ukuba ufuna ixesha wedwa. Funda ukuthi hayi, kunokuba uvume emva koko ucaphuke.
33. Cela uxolo ngokunyanisekileyo. Xa usazi ukuba wenze into ephosakeleyo, cela uxolo ngokunyanisekileyo. Akukho sizathu okanye 'ndiyaxolisa ukuba uziva njalo' uhlobo lweengxelo. Akukho namnye kuthi ogqibeleleyo, kwaye sonke siyaphazamiseka ngamanye amaxesha. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukwazisa omnye umntu ukuba uyazi ukuba umoshile, kwaye uyazisola.
34. Kungcono ukuba nento kwaye ungayidingi, kunokuba ubuye umva. Oku kuyinyani kwi-pantry egcwele izinto ezinamathanga kunye nezinto zonyango njengoko kunjalo kwiplasta yangasese okanye isicima-mlilo. Cwangcisa izinto ezinokungahambi kakuhle, kwimeko apho.

35. Musa ukuba d * ck. Ingcebiso entle esisiseko, kodwa efanelekileyo. Izenzo zethu zihlala zineziphumo eziqinileyo, kwaye ukuba krwada okanye ukungabahloneli abanye ekugqibeleni ziya kujika zibuyele kuwe. Phatha abanye ngendlela ongathanda ukuphathwa ngayo.
36. Kungcono ukuthatha inyathelo kunokuhlala ngokuzisola. Abantu abaninzi abadala bavakalisa ukuzisola ngokungakhange bathethe okanye benze izinto ezithile xa benethuba. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi malunga nokuhamba, kwaye ndivakalise indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngabo babathandayo.
37. Nika ingqalelo ekuziphatheni kwabantu kunamazwi abo. Kholelwa utshintsho olwenziweyo kunye nokuziphatha, hayi amagama kuphela. Ngaba lo mntu uyazigcina izithembiso zakhe? Ukuba bayaxolisa kwaye bathembisa ukwenza ngcono, ngaba bayaqhubeka nokwenza?
38. Indlela abantu abakuphatha ngayo ibonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngeziqu zabo. Ukugxekwa okuvela kwabanye kubonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngeziqu zabo. Umane uphakamisa isipili kwizinto zabo ezingafezekanga
39. Ukuziqhelanisa ngokuchanekileyo kwenza ugqibelele. Qinisekisa ukuba izinto oziqhelanisa nazo zichanekile. Emva koko uziqhelise ngenkuthalo de ube ufikelela kwinqanaba lobuchule obukwenza uzive uphumelele.
40. Ukuba ukhathazekile ngesiqhelo sakho, tshintsha. Inkqubo inokuba luncedo, kodwa inokuthi iwunciphise umoya womntu. Tshintsha ikhalenda yakho yeveki, wenze izinto ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo, ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo. Jonga ezona zisebenza kakuhle.
41. Izenzo zakho namhlanje ziya kulawula ubomi bakho bonke. Ngaba uza kohlwaywa, okanye uza kuzilazila? Ngaba ukhetha ububele kunye nokuziphucula, okanye ubutshaba kwabanye? Ukhetho ngalunye luvula indlela eyahlukileyo oza kuhamba ngayo.
42. Yenza uphando lwakho ngaphambi kokuba ubuyisele ivili kwakhona. Unokuba nemibono emikhulu, kodwa abanye banokuba nezona zibhetele. Phanda yonke into ngocoselelo, emva koko unqume ukuba ungaphucula njani, okanye ukuba ungaphucula njani kule nto uyifumeneyo.
43 Qiniseka ekungaqinisekini kwakho. Yazi ukuba into oyaziyo njengeyinyani ngoku inokutshintsha xa ufunda into eyahlukileyo.
44. Musa ukuvumela abantu abanyanzelekileyo ukuba bakoyikise. Uninzi luzama ukungcungcuthekisa abanye ngokubangxola nangakumbi. Ngokufanayo, i-chihuahuas zikhonkotha iintloko zazo, ngelixa iingcuka zithule. Bamba umhlaba wakho xa umntu eqhwaba, ngakumbi ukuba isikhundla sakho somelele.
45. Khumbula ukuba uyiloo nto uyityayo. Oku kuya kukutya kunye neziselo kunye nemithombo yeendaba kunye nokuzonwabisa. Phatha umzimba nengqondo yakho njengomntwana wakho oxabisekileyo, ongcwele, kwaye ubondle ngokufanelekileyo.
46. Soloko ujonge indawo ekungqongileyo. Yazi into eqhubekayo kuwe. Ukuba imeko ikwenza ungonwabi, ke nikela ingqalelo kwinto ebangela impendulo. Yenzeka ngesizathu. Ukwazi kuya kukuvumela ukuba uphendule okanye usabele nakweyiphi na into evelayo.
47. Khetha izithandane zakho ngononophelo. Sitshintshisana ngeemvakalelo ezininzi kunye namaqabane ethu asondeleyo. Yiba nomkhethe ngokhetho lwakho olusondeleyo kwaye uya kuba nokuzisola okumbalwa.
48. Thatha ixesha phambi kokuthemba. Kulungile ukuba nobuhlobo kwaye ubakhathalele abantu, kodwa khetha umntu omthembileyo. Abantu bazityhila ngokwenyani ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwaye unokuzisola ngokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo nabantu abangalunganga.
njani ukuba ngumntu ochubekileyo
49. Yiba nobubele, nanini na kunokwenzeka. Wonke umntu ophilayo uya kuva iintlungu kunye nobunzima, ke zama ukungabi ngumthombo wazo. Akukho senzo sobubele sichithiweyo, kwaye ubabalo kunye nokuthantamisa obonisa omnye umntu ophilayo kunokubutshintsha ubomi babo bonke.
50. Phila usuku ngalunye ngokungathi ngowokugqibela. Abaninzi badlala ngeentsuku zabo kuba becinga ukuba banexesha lokungasindisi. Nawuphi na kuthi unokuba neminyaka engama-20 eshiyekileyo, okanye singahamba ngemizuzu engama-20. Khetha ngobulumko xa kuziwa kwindlela olichitha ngayo ixesha lakho, kwaye nabani.
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