Ukuzithemba kuyinto engaqhelekanga. Uninzi kakhulu, luba yi-hubris. Incinci kakhulu, iyabuna phantsi kwamafu okungazithembi okungapheliyo.
Ke, inyani yokuqala abantu abazithembileyo abangaze balibale yile: Ibhalansi kuzo zonke izinto.
1. UMthetho wokuLungelelanisa
Ukuzithemba kuthetha ukuzazi ukuba ungubani, yintoni onokukwazi ukuyifeza, kunye nokubeka ezi zinto zimbini ngaphezulu kwesikram esingunxantathu somnqweno othile. Logama nje ezi ziphelo zimbini zihlala zilungelelaniswe yimfezeko kunye nembeko iinjongo , injongo oyifunayo ifezekiswa ngokubanzi.
2. Hlala Uzilungiselele
Ukuba uhlala uzibuza ukuba kutheni izinto zingaze zihambe ngendlela othanda ngayo, amathuba okuba umsebenzi wakho wokulungiselela unokusebenzisa uhlengahlengiso oluthile.
Abantu abazithembileyo bayazi ukuba ukulungiswa ngama-90 ekhulwini omsebenzi. Iipesenti ezili-10 zokugqibela ziya emsebenzini.
Umzekeliso olula uza kuba ngumbhaki omkhulu. Umbhaki oyintloko uza kuqiniseka ukuba i-pastry yakhe iya kuvela ngokugqibeleleyo. Uhluziwe, wavumela amaqanda kunye nebhotolo ukuba zize kubushushu begumbi, wayifudumeza ngaphambili i-oveni, kwaye uneplastiki esongelwe ngesandla yokugoba intlama xa yenziwe, ivumela ukuba iphumle.
Ngexesha lokwengeza zonke izithako kunye nokunambitheka kunye ukuze kupheke ipani kwi-oveni, i-pastry yenziwe yonke.
Xa iphuma ehovini: imiqulu yesinamon efanelekileyo. Into eseleyo yokwenza i-glaze.
ndifuna ubomi obungcono kum
Yazi into oyenzayo, wazi ukuba ungayenza njani, vumela ixesha layo, kwaye ungaze woyike ukuphanda.
3. Kulungile ukuba ungalunganga
Nokuba ungazithemba kangakanani, nokuba uzilungiselele kangakanani, iimpazamo ziyenzeka. Umpheki wethu wezonka unokuba ethimle xa esongeza isithako esiphambili, ebangela ukuba uninzi lwecandelo longezwe kunokuba libiziwe, mhlawumbi kwinqanaba lokuba iresiphi yonakaliswe.
Oku akuyishukumisi ukuzithemba kwakhe, kuba akangomntu ubhaka ngaphantsi… ungumntu. Abantu bayazenza iimpazamo. Abantu bacinga ukuba banyanisile xa bengalunganga. Abantu bayazilibala izinto.
Umbhaki wethu ozithembileyo uyazi ukuba unokuhlala ebhaka enye ibhetshi ukuba uzama enye, ezimbini, okanye ezintathu ukusilela.
4. Kholelwa Kuwe
Uyazi ukuba uye esikolweni sokupheka. Wazi ngakumbi ngekhemistri yokutya kunokuba uninzi lusazi malunga nalapho zivela khona iintsana.
Ukuzithemba ikakhulu lulwazi. Ukuzithemba okuphezulu kubandakanya umlinganiso olungileyo wokuzazi.
Ukuba injongo kukwenza eyona miqolo yesinamon ilungileyo, yazi ukuba ungawenza owona mculo usinamon ubalaseleyo. Akukho nto ingaphandle kwamandla akho ukuba ubandakanya ixesha, umsebenzi, kunye nokuzimisela ukusilela .
Umbhaki wezonka wethu uyayazi indlela yakhe ekhitshini lakhe kakuhle ukuze abhake imiqulu ngamehlo evaliwe. Ukuthandabuza oku ayingombuzo.
5. Ukhuphiswano Ngaphandle Komntu
Enye yeendlela ezikhawulezayo zokonakalisa imvakalelo yokuzithemba kukuzithelekisa nomnye umntu. Kubantu-ukuba ngama-wonks ngamanye amaxesha-ukutyekela kwesiqhelo kuku thelekisa umntu esicinga ukuba ungaphezu kwethu . Oku kukungcwaba.
UDesiree (umbhaki wethu) uyakonwabela ukubhaka. Kuyamnika uxolo lokuxova intlama kulungelelwaniso olugqibeleleyo. Xa esekhitshini lakhe, ukwindawo.
Akukho nanye inombono kaBobby Flay, uJulia Child, okanye uMartha Stewart owakhe wawela engqondweni yakhe.
UDesiree wonwabile ngaphakathi, kwaye, kwaye yedwa.
6. Yiba nombulelo empumelelweni, Thobekile ekulahlekelweni
Masithi uDesiree ngenene ungenela ukhuphiswano lokubhaka (uhlobo olwahlukileyo lokhuphiswano), aqinisekile ukuba angaphumelela.
Nangona kunjalo, akaphumeleli. Ngokwahlukileyo kwimidlalo yokhuphiswano lokupheka kukamabonwakude, akaphumi ziinyembezi zokonakala.
Ukuba kukho nantoni na, unethemba lokufumana incasa yokungena okuphumeleleyo, mhlawumbi abhikice isithako angakhange asisebenzise ngaphambili. Akayi kubuza iresiphi yomninimzi, kodwa yena ndiza kuthanda Vuyisana nomntu ophumeleleyo ngokunyaniseka okufanelekileyo.
Ukuba nombulelo kwi impumelelo kwaye uthobekile Ukoyiswa kuthetha ukuba uDesiree uya kufunda, akhule, kwaye aphumelele kwenye indawo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
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- Iimpawu ezi-9 zoMfazi oLungileyo weAlfa
7. Yiba Nembeko
Ukuba kukho umntu omdala omnye kwiplanethi yonke ongayazi ingoma ka-Aretha Franklin ethi 'Hlonipha,' bukhona ubungqina bokuba izenzululwazi ezinqunyanyisiweyo zoopopayi ziyimfuneko. 'R-S-P-E-C-T: Fumanisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni na kum.'
Abantu abazithembileyo (uDesiree the Baker ubandakanyiwe) bayazi ukuba ukuhlonipha izakhono kunye nokuzimela kwabanye kubonisa ukukhanya kwabanye emva amaxesha amaninzi.
Ukuzithemba thabatha i-ego kuthetha ukuba awuyi kuzicingela ungcono kunaye wonke umntu. Ukuzithemba nge I-ego icaphukisa ibhalansi yomntu kwaye izise ukugcwala kweminqweno.
8. Ukumamela ngamandla
Ukuba umntu ungena kwigumbi kwaye kwangoko eziva enyanzelekile ukuba akuxelele ngomnombo wabo kunye nezinto azenzileyo, loo mntu ubuyekeza kabuhlungu. Abantu abazithembileyo abaziva isidingo sokuqhayisa.
Endaweni yoko, bayayazi loo nto ukumamela ivula lonke ihlabathi kubo. Banokuva ngakumbi malunga nokufezekisileyo, iingcinga zakho kwizinto, kunye nezisombululo zakho zoyilo.
9. Musa ukulandela isihlwele
Umntu ozithembileyo akanamdla 'wokuba' ngomnye umntu. Ngaphezulu nje kokuba banelisekile kulusu lwabo, banomdla kubani, hayi ngenxa yezizathu zokuziphatha kakubi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bonwabile ngokwenyani befumana ubomi.
Fad = Ubudenge Buphazamise. UDesiree ngekhe ongeze i-kale kwiisinamon rolls zakhe, nokuba zithandeka kangakanani na.
Umntu othembeke ngolu hlobo unokukhetha okanye azame ukugqibezela, esazi ukuba ngelixesha isihlwele sidikiwe kukuhamba izangqa, iya kufuna ubunyulu bonyango olwenziweyo.
10. Akukho ziQinisekiso
Ngamanye amaxesha ungenza yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, uzilungiselele kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngokwabantu, kwaye usalahlekelwa. Umnqweno awunakuphumelela ukhuphiswano. Usenokungayifumani loo nto ikukhuthazayo ngokuzithemba ukuba ulwele ukuba ufumane.
Ukuzithemba akukaze kuqinisekise isiphumo kubeka ukungavisisani kwakho, kodwa nakwi-99-to-1 endaweni yethu, ngaxa lithile 'inye' ijika ngenxa yabo bonke ubomi bethu.
Uluhlu lwemida esempilweni kubudlelwane
Endaweni yokuvumela oku kushukumise ukuzithemba kwabo, umntu ozithemba kakhulu wenza ukungaqiniseki kube sisiseko sokuzithemba kwabo: baphila ukuze 'balwe' ngenye imini.
11. Iinjongo zilunge ngakumbi kunamaphupha
Ukuba uDesiree ebengenanto ngaphandle kokufuna kunye neminqweno (efuna ukuya kwisikolo sokupheka, unqwenela ukubonwa njengompheki wezonka) angonwabi kakhulu. Wayengazithembi.
Ukuzithemba kuvela ekusebenzeni kwinto ethile kwaye uyifikelele, emva koko usebenze kwenye into kwaye ufikelele kuyo, de kube iindlela zomntu zangaphakathi zazi indlela yesiqhelo yokuhambisa iminqweno yakho ukusuka kwindawo engu-A ukuya kwindawo yokugqibela B.
Ukufikelela usukelo, umntu kufuneka ahambe. Akunjalo ngamaphupha. Amaphupha anokuba namava elele ngomqolo omnye ngaphandle kokulahleka kube kanye kokonwaba.
Abantu abazithembileyo babhaka intshukumo kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla, nokuba yeyokwasemzimbeni yempilo, yomelele kunye / okanye yamampunge, ingqondo yokukhula kwengqondo, okanye ukukhumbula iphakheji iyonke.
Bayayazi into abanokuyenza, into abazimisele ukuyenza, kunye nento abanokuyifuna ukuyitshintsha, leyo yimigaqo emithathu ekungekho namnye kuthi onokuze ayilibale.
