Ukumela into okholelwa kuyo kunokuba sisizungu, isoyikiso ukuba uyenza wedwa.
Inokuba yinto eyedwa ukuphakama phakathi kwesihlwele kwaye uthethe inyani kumandla malunga nesiphoso ocinga ukuba kufuneka silungisiwe.
Ukumba nzulu ukuze ube nesibindi sokwenza oko kuma uphawu oluncomekayo ekufuneka sonke sizabalazele ukuba nazo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yindlela eya kuqinisekisa ukuba umyalezo uya kuva, nokuba umhlaba wonke awukulungelanga ukumamela.
Ewe kunjalo, oko kunokusizisela ubunzima. Akusoloko kulula ukuphakama wenze into elungileyo, nokuba sicacile.
Kunokubakho iimpembelelo zentlalo okanye ezingapheliyo ezidala ubunzima ebomini bakho.
Uninzi lwempempe luze ngaphambili nolwazi olubalulekileyo malunga nokuba amandla abo bebeza kulisebenzisa gwenxa njani igunya labo kwaye bahlupheke ngenxa yengqibelelo yabo.
Kuya kufuneka ungene kwimeko uvule amehlo omabini ukuba ufuna ukuyimela into okholelwa kuyo.
Kuya kufuneka ulungele ukungqubana kwaye ubomi bakho bube nefuthe elibi.
Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba ayinguye wonke umntu oza kuqhwabela izandla umzamo wakho. Ngapha koko, unokuzifumana uwedwa kakhulu, nkqu naphakathi kwabantu obucinga ukuba ngabahlobo bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho.
Uyimela njani into okholelwa kuyo? Makhe siqwalasele ezinye zokuqwalaselwa ngokubanzi ezinokukunceda.
1. Yenza uphando lwakho.
Phanda umbandela ngokucokisekileyo.
Ufuna ukuqonda omabini amacala empikiswano kuba iyakukuxhobisa ukuba ubandakanyeke ngokufanelekileyo abantu abangavumelani nawe.
ebekunandipha ukulala nam
Unokwenza ukuba iingxoxo zakho zisebenze ngakumbi ukuba uyasiqonda isizathu sokuba elinye icala likholelwe kwinto abayenzayo.
uziva njani uxinzelelo lwezesondo
Kuyanceda nokwazi ukuba bayazuza kokungalunganga. Ukubawa namandla zizinto ezikhuthazayo ezinokuthi zityhale umntu ukuba azilungelelanise ngendlela eya kuba yinzuzo kuye. Nangona kunjalo, basenokungakhathali ngayo.
I-intanethi ingaba yindawo efanelekileyo yokwenza olo phando. Unokwazi ukufumana amaqela abantu abacinga ngokufanayo abanokukunceda.
Kungakuhle ukuba ujoyine amanye amaqela axhasa into echasayo ukuze abone ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni kwihlabathi labo kwaye ngoba.
2. Khangela ithuba elifanelekileyo.
Ijongeka njani 'ithuba elilungileyo'?
Ngokuyintloko, ufuna ukunciphisa umonakalo kubomi bakho kwaye wandise amandla akho okufumana umyalezo.
Ngokwenene akulunganga ukuba ubutshise ubomi bakho ukuthatha ukuma kumcimbi ekungekho mntu uza kukuxhasa.
Mhlawumbi usebenza kwishishini elinabantu abaninzi abarhabaxa. Ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye uyaphikisana nayo, unokuzifumanisa uphuma emsebenzini ungenanto yokubonisa isenzo sakho.
Oko akuthethi ukuba akufuneki uyimele into okholelwa ukuba ilungile yiba yingqondi malunga nayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuhlala uthule ulinde ixesha elifanelekileyo, ixesha apho ungathetha kwaye wenze impembelelo ebonakalayo kwincoko.
Kwaye ukuba uza kusebenzisa i-intanethi ukulungiselela loo njongo, kukho ezinye izinto ezongezelelweyo onokuthi ufune ukuzenza.
Thatha ukuba nantoni na oyibhalayo kwimidiya yoluntu okanye kwi-intanethi iya kufundwa ngumphathi wakho. Ngaba ulungile ngeziphumo?
Bhala nantoni na nayo yonke into kwi-intanethi, imiyalezo ebhaliweyo, abathunywa kunye ne-imeyile ngokungathi iya kufundwa ngokuvakalayo enkundleni. Inokuba kunjalo ukuba isenzo sakho sikhokelela kumanyathelo asemthethweni.
3. Gcina iingxoxo zakho zimfutshane kwaye zingqale.
Ezona mpikiswano zibalaseleyo zimfutshane kwaye zithe ngqo. Kulula ukuba abantu baziqonde, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuba iqela elichasayo lihlasele.
Ukuxoxa ngokungathandabuzekiyo kunokukuhlasela njengomntu okanye uzame ukujija amagama akho abe yinto engeyiyo.
Ukuba unokuyiphepha, musa ukuhlasela umntu. Endaweni yokuba uhlasele inkolelo ongavumelani nayo.
Ukuhlasela umntu kuya kwenza ukuba aphendule. Ngokukhawuleza kunokubangela abanye abantu ukuba bahlangane naloo mntu ngaphandle komanyano olukhuselayo.
Ungazivumeli ukuba ususwe kumxholo ophambili okanye kwimfazwe yedangatye engenantsingiselo engena ndawo.
Uya kuyijongela phantsi eyakho inqaku ngokuzibandakanya ekulingiseni udaka kunye nomchasi wakho.
Kuyalingwa ukutshona kwinqanaba labo kwaye ulwe, kodwa khumbula ukuba inqanaba labo kulapho baziva bekhululeke khona.
Banokuqhela okanye bonwabele uhlobo lokungqubana okuza kubakho kukungavisisani.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba uphumelele ukuba uyalwa ngokwemiqathango yabo.
4. Bashiye nendawo yokubuyela umva.
Ukucinga ukuba impikiswano yakho ikwicala lasekunene, omnye umntu angaqonda ukuba ayilunganga kwaye utshintshe izimvo zakhe.
ukwazi njani xa ubudlelwane bakho ngokwenene phezu
Nika iqela elichasayo indawo yokubuyela umva kwaye utshintshe uluvo lwabo.
Ukwafuna ukushiya igumbi ukuba bayabuya umva kwimeko yabo okanye abakhathali ukuyikhusela.
Banokungakulungeli ukuxhathisa, okuya kubashiya be-balance. Yinto entle leyo kuwe kuba ayikhangeleki intle kuye nabani na ongomnye onokuba ubukele. Oko kunokukunceda ukuqinisa ukuma kwakho njengokuchanekileyo.
Musa ukulandela okanye ukuzingela umntu. Musa ukuwavuyela ukuba uxele ukuba baphosakele kangakanani ngaphandle kokuba bahlale beza kuwe malunga nento.
Yazi xa ungquzulwano luphelile kwaye uluyeke ngokwendalo uphele xa ufuna njalo.
Le ndlela ikushiya nomhlaba ophakamileyo, onokunceda ukuphumelela abanye abantu abasocingweni okanye abangakhange basifumane isibindi sokuzithethela.
5. Khetha amadabi akho ngononophelo.
Sithanda ukuphinda: khetha amadabi akho ngononophelo.
Ewe, zininzi izinto ezingenabulungisa nezingalunganga emhlabeni. Musa okomzuzwana ucinga ukuba ukuba uyimele into elungileyo ukuba umhlaba uzakulunga kwaye ulunge kwaye ube kwicala lakho.
Unokuphela ulahlekelwa kakhulu ngokuzama ukwenza into elungileyo.
Sebenzisa esakho esona sigwebo kwaye ujonge ukuba le yidabi ofuna ukulithatha.
zeziphi iimpawu ezenza umhlobo olungileyo
Kananjalo, jonga ubungakanani bokulahleka okanye ukungalingani kumlo.
Unokuma, utyhale nzima, kwaye udibane nenani elilinganayo lokuchasana, elinokuphazamisa nobomi bakho bobuqu okanye bobungcali.
Kuninzi ukuphulukana kwaye akusoloko kukuzuza.
Ngazo zonke iindlela, yimela into elungileyo ukuba uziva unyanzelekile, kodwa kulungile ukuba awunjalo.
Kulungile nokulinda ithuba elingcono lokuba nefuthe elibaluleke ngakumbi.
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