Indlela yokuGqitha kwiNtombi yakho yaDlulileyo: Iingcebiso ezi-8 ezisebenzayo!

Yeyiphi Imovie Ukubona?
 

Ke, intombi yakho inexesha elidlulileyo. Kwaye ukrazukile malunga nayo.



Uziva phakathi kokonwaba ukuba uphumile waya kuphila ubomi bakhe, efunda nokuba ngumntu omangalisayo namhlanje….

… Kunye nemvakalelo ekhathazayo yomona ngalo lonke ixesha ucinga ngalo.



Mhlawumbi kuyakukhathaza nje xa kuvela igama lowayesakuba sisithandwa sakhe.

Mhlawumbi uba nomona xa ethetha ngexesha apho wayehamba edibana nabantu abaninzi, okanye ephuma kakhulu namaqabane akhe.

Okanye mhlawumbi usandula ukufumanisa into entsha malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo ongazange wazi ngaphambili, kwaye ngoku awungekhe uyeke ukucinga ngayo, nokuba uzama kangakanani.

Kodwa unqwenela ukuyibeka emva kwakho kwaye uqhubeke.

Awufuni ukuba ichaphazele ubudlelwane bakho neli bhinqa lihle.

kutheni abanye abantu bekhwaza kangaka

Uyazi ukuba unethamsanqa kangakanani ukuba naye, kwaye ufuna ukufumana ezi ngcinga phantsi kolawulo.

Ufikile kwindawo efanelekileyo.

Nalu uluhlu lweengcebiso ezi-8 ezisebenzayo eziya kukunceda ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ubeke ezi ngcinga ngasemva kwakho kwaye ujonge kwikamva kunye naye, endaweni yokuhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo ongasokuze ukwazi ukutshintsha.

1. Chonga eyona nto ikukhathazayo.

Ukuba ixesha elidlulileyo lentombi yakho liyakukhathaza, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo elifika kuwe kakhulu.

Oko kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba kutheni uhlala kuyo.

Ngaba yinto ethile? Umntu othile, okanye isiganeko?

Okanye ngaba ngokubanzi? Ngaba ukufumanisa kunzima ukwamkela ukuba wayenothando okanye impilo yesondo kwaphela ngaphambi kokuba ubonakale kwindawo?

Ngaba unomona ngexesha lakhe elidlulileyo lezesondo, okanye ngaba kukudibana ngokweemvakalelo okukukhathazayo?

Thatha ixesha lokucinga malunga ngokuchanekileyo Intoni yiyo ifika kuwe. Nje ukuba usete lonto, uya kuba nakho ukufumanisa ngoba , ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza ngayo kunokuba uyivumele ingene phakathi kwenu.

2. Zikhumbuze ukuba ngoyena mntu umaziyo kwaye umthanda ngoku ngenxa yelixesha lidlulileyo.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba sonke senziwe ngamava esiye safumana. Sibunjwe zizinto ezenzeka kuthi nakubantu esidibana nabo kubomi bethu bonke.

Uyayithanda le ntombazana ngendlela ayiyo, akunjalo?

Kwaye uyile ndlela ayiyo kuba unexesha elidlulileyo. Ngenxa yokuba ebephaya, ephila ubomi bakhe, edibana nabantu, kwaye efunda ukuba ilizwe, nabantu abakulo basebenza njani.

Ungumphumo othe ngqo wexesha elidlulileyo analo.

Ukuba uzibona unqwenela ukuzicima ezinye zezinto ezenzekileyo ebomini bakhe phambi kokuba nobabini nidibane, zikhumbuze ukuba uzakutshintsha umfazi omangalisayo ophambi kwakho.

Kwaye awungekhe uyifune loo nto, andithi?

3. Gxila kwikamva kunye.

Sele uyazi ukuba unolawulo olupheleleyo lwe-zero ngaphezulu kwexesha elidlulileyo, ngenxa yoko akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka ngalo.

Kodwa njengokuba uyazi ukuba kuyinyani kwingqondo yakho enengqondo, kusenokuba nzima ukuyeka iingcinga ezimbi malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo.

Nanini na xa uzifumana uhlala kwixesha elidlulileyo, iqhinga elihle kukuguqula ngokubonakalayo iingcinga zakho kwikamva onalo phambi kwakho nentombi yakho.

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Guqula indawo yokucinga gwenxa malunga naloo mfo-ebethandana naye ngokuzivumela uphuphe ngeholide yakho elandelayo kunye, okanye nokuba yintoni eniya kuyenza kule mpelaveki izayo.

Faka iingcinga ezimbi malunga nexesha elidlulileyo kunye nezinto ezintle ngekamva.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

4. Khumbula ukuba unexesha elidlulileyo nawe- lumkela imigangatho emibini!

Andinakukhathazeka ngokubheja ukuba ayinguye yedwa onexesha elidlulileyo.

Ewe, oku akunakuba njalo, kodwa usenokuba usifumene isabelo sakho esifanelekileyo seentombi zangaphambili kunye namabali ahlazileyo ongathanda ukuba angazi ngawo.

Uninzi lwethu lusabonakala ngathi lubambelele kwimbono yakudala engenakunceda yokuba kulungile ukuba amadoda abe neepasiti ezimibalabala kwaye ahlwayele ii-oats zasendle ngaphambi kokuhlala nomntu, kodwa akulunganga ukuba abantu basetyhini benze njalo.

Kukuziphatha ngokwesini ngaphakathi, kwaye bobabini abasetyhini kunye nabesilisa banokuba netyala lazo.

I-jeff eqinileyo yokujika kwexesha

Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho malunga nokuba unemigangatho emibini, ugweba intombi yakho kwixesha elidlulileyo elingaxakekanga njengelakho.

Khumbula ukuba unexesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ubuze ukuba ungaziva njani ukuba angakugweba ngayo, okanye akakwazanga ukuyidlula, okanye awunakukuthwala ukuva igama lentombi yakho yakudala.

Phatha elidlulileyo ngentlonipho efanayo ongathanda ukuba ayiphathe ngayo eyakho.

5. Yazi ukuba le yingxaki yakho, hayi eyakhe.

Kubaluleke ngokwenene ukuqaphela ukuba oku akuyona into enokuyenza kuye. Ayisiyonto afuna ukuxolisa kuyo.

Le yinto ekufuneka uyisebenzele ekwamkeleni nasekuhambeni okudlulileyo.

Akufanelekanga, ewe, ukuba akhuhle ixesha lakhe elidlulileyo ebusweni bakho, kodwa ayingomsebenzi wakhe ukukwenza uzive ungcono ngobomi awayebuphila ngaphambi kokuba uze, nokuba.

Logama nje ehlonipha iimvakalelo zakho, kufuneka wamkele ukuba le yinto enokulungiswa nguwe kuphela.

6. Sebenzela ekuzithembeni kwakho.

Ukuba unengxaki nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo, inokuba ininzi into oyenzayo ngokungazithembi kwicala lakho.

Ingayiyo awuziva ngathi umfanele okanye uthando lwakhe.

Ingayiyo unexhala lokuba awulinganisi abafana bexesha lakhe elidlulileyo.

Ingayiyo Ixesha lakhe elidlulileyo likwenza uzive ungonelanga.

Isisombululo ekukuphela kwaso kukwenza umzamo osebenzayo wokuzithemba kwakho, ukuzixabisa, kunye nokuzithemba kwakho.

Yinto ehlekisayo, kodwa ukuba awuzithandi, ngoko awunakulindela ukuba ayenze, kwaye uya kusokola ngokwenene ukudlula kwixesha lakhe elidlulileyo ukuba woyikiswa yiyo.

Fumana iindlela zokusebenza ukuzithemba kwakho. Khathalela ingqondo nomzimba wakho. Zijikele kwikhondo lakho lomsebenzi. Phuma uye kukuzinyamekela.

Okukhona uzithemba ngakumbi kuwe, kokukhona uya kuziva ukhuselekile kulwalamano lwakho, kwaye kungabalulekanga kangako kwixesha lakhe elidlulileyo ngesiquphe kuwe.

7. Thetha nomntu omthembileyo.

Ingxaki ekwabelwana ngayo yingxaki ngesiqingatha.

Amanye amadoda ayasokola ukubonisa iimvakalelo zawo kwaye athembele kumhlobo okanye ilungu losapho kuncedo, kodwa ukuthetha iimvakalelo zomona ngomntu omthembileyo kunokukunceda ufumane ukuba yintoni kanye le ikukhathazayo nokuba kutheni.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuthetha iimvakalelo zakho yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuziqonda.

Ukuba awuziva ukuba ukhona umntu onokuthetha naye malunga nento enje, kwaye ezi mvakalelo ziqala ukuba nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane bakho, emva koko kunokuba kufanelekile ukubuyela kwingcali.

Umcebisi unokukunceda uchonge imiba ebangela umona wakho, kwaye akunike izixhobo zokusebenza ngayo ukuze ulwalamano lwakho lungabi buhlungu ngenxa yoko.

Kulula ukuqala ngale nto. Ungacofa apha ukuze ufumane enye ekufutshane nawe (okanye umntu oza kusebenza ukude) onokukunceda ukulungisa imiba onayo kwixesha elidlulileyo lentombi yakho.

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8. Thetha naye.

Le yinto ekufuneka uyithethile nentombi yakho. Kufuneka ulumke ngendlela ohamba ngayo.

Into ongafanele uyenze kukwenza kubonakale ngathi iimvakalelo zakho malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo ziyimpazamo yakhe, okanye ukuba kufuneka axolise ngayo.

Kodwa kunokuba luncedo ukumazisa ukuba ukuthetha ngexesha lakhe elidlulileyo kunokuba nzima kuwe.

Mxelele ukuba usebenza kuyo , kwaye oko uyazi ukuba sisiphumo sokungazithembi kwakho , kodwa oko Kuya kufuneka ahambe lula kuwe ukuba awuphenduli kakuhle xa uthetha ngothando lwakhe kunye nobomi bezesondo ngaphambi kokuba uze.

Mhlawumbi, ukuba kukho enye into ebangela ezi mvakalelo zinomona, njengegama elinye okanye indawo, unokumcela ukuba asiphephe nje isihloko xa kunokwenzeka.