Inokutyhafisa kakhulu into yokuba impendulo ekuphela kwayo onokuthi uyive isithi 'hayi'.
Ukulahlwa rhoqo kunokwenza umonakalo omninzi kakhulu kwimbono yomntu yokuzixabisa.
Ukuba ujongana nokwaliwa, unga ndiziva ngathi awungeni ndawo ukuba akukho mntu ukufunayo. Kwaye leyo yimvakalelo eyoyikisayo.
Oku kunokuba yimpendulo kwimisebenzi okanye kwizikolo okhe wafaka isicelo kuzo, amaqela ezentlalo owacela ukuba ajoyine, okanye abantu osondele kubo kwezothando.
Nokuba abantu bazama ukuphoxa ngobumnene, njengokukwazisa ukuba uphantse wawufumana umsebenzi, okanye bakuthanda kakhulu njengomhlobo, ukwaliwa kubuhlungu kanye.
Xa umntu evakalelwa ngokungathi usoloko enqatshelwe, kukho umrhumo omkhulu owenziweyo ngokuzithemba kwabo ngokubanzi. Yonke 'hayi' ivakala ngathi enye i-chip icatshulwa kubo, ngaphandle kwento eyongeziweyo ukunceda ukuyakha kwakhona.
Ukujongana nokwaliwa rhoqo kunzima, kodwa akunakwenzeka. Kukho ezinye iindlela onokuthi uzame ukukunceda ukuba ugqibe ngazo, kwaye ukukugcina unganikezeli.
1. Funda ukungazinamatheleli kwiziphumo.
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuphepha ukwaphuka kwentliziyo yokwaliwa kukuba ungaqhotyoshelwanga kwisiphumo esinokubakho.
Umzekelo, abantu abaninzi bayabanjwa kumathuba anokubakho kwizinto eziyi-X ezenzekayo.
indlela yokwenza umdla ngakumbi
Masithi umntu uza kudliwanondlebe nomsebenzi. Banokuqala ukucinga ngezinto ezenziwayo ngumsebenzi-indawo yokuzivocavoca (banokufumana imilo!), Umvuzo ophezulu (banokufumana indlu entsha!), Njl. UCanzibe zityhile UKUBA bafumana lo msebenzi.
Ngenxa yoko, baya kutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo ukuba abayifumani.
Benze izibophelelo zeemvakalelo kumaphupha emini, kunokuba bahlale bebekhona. Kananjalo, ukwenzakala kwabo ngokweemvakalelo kwenzeke ngenxa yokuba into ebebeyiphupha ayibonisanga.
Zama ukuhlala kumzuzu wangoku, kwaye uphendule kunokuba usabele. Ukuba unodliwanondlebe nomsebenzi, kuhle. Nenjongo yokugcina iimvakalelo zakho malunga nokungathathi hlangothi ngokupheleleyo.
Imibongo ngokuphila ngalo mzuzu
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungangena kudliwanondlebe kunye namandla amnandi, ubuhlobo kunye nokuzithemba, kodwa kwinqanaba eliphambili, yiphatha olu dliwanondlebe ngokungathi awuyidingi.
Ngale ndlela, ukuba ayiphumeli ngaphandle, awuyi kuphoxeka. Unokuzivumela ukuba wonwabe malunga nayo ukuba kwaye xa ufumana ikhontrakthi esayiniweyo, kodwa hayi ngaphambi koko.
Kuyafana nangemihla yothando, izicelo zesikolo, njl.Ukuba umntu akaphumi ngaphandle, omnye uqinisekile ukuba.
2. Yazi into yokuba ukwaliwa sisipho.
Abantu abaninzi baqalekisiwe ngokufumana kanye le nto bebenqwenela ukuyifumana. Nangona usenokuziva ngathi ukwaliwa rhoqo kuyakudibanisa, kunokuba yintsikelelo ngokuzifihla.
Unokubethwa nomntu oqhubeka ekujikela, kwaye wonakele ukuba 'abakufuni.' Kodwa uza kuthini ukuba awuhambelani ngeendlela ezininzi? Okanye kuthekani ukuba bangumntu onetyhefu ngaphantsi komhlaba kwaye bakuphatha kakubi? Obu budlelwane buya kuba yintlekele kwaye ungagqibela ngokuziva ukrakra.
'Yonke into yenzeka ngesizathu' ayithuthuzeli ncam xa uziva ngathi uyaphambana, kodwa ihlala iyinyani ekubuyeni.
3. Qonda umthetho we-avareji.
Kukho isithethe esidala esithi ukuba uphosa udaka olwaneleyo eludongeni, ekugqibeleni ezinye zazo ziya kunamathela.
Wena Ngaba uphumelele ekugqibeleni. Ngumcimbi wokunyamezela kwaye uzama ngandlela zonke ukuba ungaziva ngathi kukho into 'engalunganga' nawe. Kuba akukho.
Uyiqhekeza lephazili elimangalisayo, okwangoku uzama iiphazili ezahlukileyo ukuze ufumane apho kufanelekileyo. Izinto ziya kucofa endaweni yazo ekugqibeleni.
4. Gcina uluhlu lwabantu abalahliweyo ngaphambi kokuba baphumelele.
Ngaba ubuyazi lonto abantu abaninzi bajongana nokwaliwa rhoqo ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni 'bayenze'? Ngapha koko, uninzi lwazo lwenze ngokweemeko zabo.
Umzekelo, unokuba uqhelene nelokhwe eyilwe ngumyili wefashoni uVera Wang. Ewe, uyazi ukuba uWang wayenqatshelwe iqela le-Olimpiki yase-US e-Olimpiki kwiminyaka yama-1960? Wagqiba ukusebenza njengomhleli eVogue okwethutyana, kwaye waqala ukuyila iilokhwe zomtshato ngokuzonwabisa eneminyaka engama-40. Ngokukhawuleza waba ngumyili owaziwayo kwilizwe liphela.
UJK Rowling wayengumama ongatshatanga kwintlalontle xa wabhala incwadi yokuqala kaHarry Potter wayifaka kubapapashi. Yayaliwa amatyeli aliqela ngaphambi kokuba indlu yokupapasha ithathe ithuba kuye. Ngaba wonke umntu ehlabathini uyayazi loo ncwadi / uthotho lwefilimu ngoku? Ngokuhle ngokunjalo!
URodin wamkelwa yi-Ecole des Beaux Arts (isikolo sobugcisa obuhle) amaxa amathathu . Ke wazifundisa indlela yokwenza umfanekiso oqingqiweyo, kwaye waba ngomnye wabaculi abadumileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
(Kwaye ukulandela inqaku langaphambili malunga nokwaliwa njengesipho, umhlobo wakhe uJules wamazisa ukuba unethamsanqa kakhulu ukuba aphuncule ekufundisweni kweso sikolo. Uxelele uRodin, 'Ngeyikubulele.')
Khetha abantu abadumileyo abakukhuthazayo kuba baqhubeka nokubuyela ehashe kwaye banyamezele. Xa uziva uphantsi ngokwaliwa, khumbula amabali abo. Baya kukunceda ubuyele ehashe.
5. Vuka uzame kwakhona ngomso.
Ekuphela kwendlela onokuthi uqiniseke ukuba uyasilela kukungazami konke konke.
Oko akuthethi ukuba ufuna ukutyabeka uncumo olungeyonyani ebusweni bakho kwaye wenze ngokungathi akulimazi ukuqhubeka usaliwa. Oko kuthetha ukuba uyala ukuvumela ubukhohlakali beli hlabathi buphule umoya wakho omhle.
Ukujongana nokwaliwa rhoqo kunokwenza ukuba nabani na afune ukunikezela. Ukonzakala amaxesha ngamaxesha kunokwenza abantu ukuba babe nexhala lokuzama nokuzama. Bahlala beziva ngathi akukho sizathu, ukuba baya kuphinda baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde.
ndingazi njani uba i ex yam ifuna ndibuye
Uyakhumbula ukuba sithethe njani ngokunganamathelani nesiphumo? Zama ukugxila kumava ngokwawo, kunokuba ube nethemba lokuba iya kuvela ngendlela ethile. Akukho ncamathiselo = akukho kudana.
6. Ukuba umendo ohamba kuwo ukhokelela ekugatyweni rhoqo, emva koko yenza eyakho.
Masithi uqhubeka ukwaliwa ngumpapashi ngamnye owuthumela umbhalo wakho obhaliweyo. UYAZI ukuba ubhale incwadi emangalisayo, kodwa uqhubeka ufumana iimpendulo ezinje, 'asazi ukuba yeyiphi indawo yokupapasha le,' okanye, 'intle, kodwa asazi ukuba singayithengisa.'
Kuyakhathaza oku, kodwa kukho indawo yokusebenza.
Ungazipapasha ngokwakho, okanye uqale eyakho inkampani yokupapasha. KE YISHicilele.
Kwaye ngelixa ulapho, papasha ezinye iincwadi zababhali iinkampani ezinkulu ezingayi kuthatha thuba kuzo.
Le ndlela inokusebenza ngayo yonke indlela onokucinga ngayo.
7. Cela abahlobo bakho ukuba bakuxelele ngezinto abazithandayo ngawe.
Xa unika abantu ithuba lokuba boyike, baya kuhlala bekhula. Yiya kubahlobo bakho nakumalungu osapho kwaye ubabuze ukuba yintoni abayithandayo ngawe, zeziphi iimpawu abazixabisileyo kuwe, kunye nokuba zeziphi iimpawu onazo.
Gcina olo luhlu luhlala lukhona qho xa uziva uphantsi ngawe. Ukwazi ukuba abanye abantu bacinga kakhulu ngawe, bayakuthanda, bayakuxabisa, kwaye bayakuthanda ukuba unokwakha ukuzithemba okwonakeleyo kwakhona.
8. Fumana Uncedo!
Ingcali elungileyo inokukunceda usebenze kuwo nawuphi na umonakalo weemvakalelo onokuhlala ixesha elide ukwaliwa, kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela uhlobo loncedo onokulufumana.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukwaliwa rhoqo kunokusenza sazi ukuba kufuneka sitshintshe into malunga nendlela yethu. Le inokuba yinto enokuhlengahlengiswa ngokulula, kodwa sinokuba nendawo engaboniyo ngayo. Ngenxa yoko, sidinga uncedo oluncinci ukubona oko bekungacacanga kuthi ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
Umzekelo, ukuba uziva ngathi zonke izicelo zakho zomsebenzi ziyaliwa, yenza idinga nomcebisi ngamakhondo ukwenza uphononongo kwakhona. Banokuba neziphakamiso zolungiso olukhawulezayo oluya kuguqula ukukhangela kwakho umsebenzi ujikeleze!
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Ngokufanayo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ufumana uninzi lwemihla yokuqala kodwa akukho yesibini, cela umhlobo omthembileyo akusithele. Banokuhlala kufutshane kwaye bajonge unxibelelwano, kwaye bakwazise ukuba zeziphi iiflegi ezibomvu ezinokuza. Into elula njengokusebenzisa ibinzana elithile inokubatyhalela kude abanye kunokuba ubasondeze.
Rhoqo, ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci olunokukhokelela kwiyantlukwano enkulu xa kuziwa ekuqhubeleni phambili kwizinto ozenzayo.
Lonke olo tshintsho ecaleni, ukuba ubusoloko ujongene nokwaliwa rhoqo ixesha elininzi, unokuba nobuzaza obunzulu kunye nemicimbi oza kusebenza kuyo. Olu hlobo lokwaliwa lunokubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noloyiko, umzekelo. Inokubangela ukudakumba okukhubazekileyo, okanye nokukhusela ubuntu.
Ukuba uziva ngathi ukwaliwa okwenzileyo kuye kwakonakalisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ufuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo olusebenza ngayo, musa ukoyika ukuyikhangela. Ubuncinci xa kufikwa ekufuneni uncedo lwempilo yengqondo, ngekhe kubekho ukwaliwa. Yile nto inyangwa ngayo ngabanyangi! Cofa apha ukufumana enye ekufutshane nawe okanye ukusebenza kude.
Ngaba ukwaliwa kungangumqondiso wokuzenzakalisa?
Inye kuphela into yokugqibela ekufuneka uyiqwalasele, kwaye yinto enokwenzeka ukuba oku kungafunwa rhoqo kungangumqondiso ukuzilimaza .
Abanye abantu abajamelana nokwaliwa rhoqo banokulandela ikhondo lomsebenzi, ukuzonwabisa, kunye namaqabane angabafuniyo kwinqanaba elisisiseko. Ngenxa yoko, bazibhuqa ngokuzithemba ukuze baphephe ukufumana le nto (ngokukrokra) abayilandelayo.
Masithi umntu uthiyile umsebenzi wakhe.
Basenokuba baziqinisekisile ukuba yimeko yokusebenza yabo yangoku abayicaphukelayo, endaweni yomsebenzi wabo owukhethileyo. Ngenye indlela, banokucinezelwa ekusebenzeni kumhlaba othile okanye kwindawo yokusebenza yosapho lwabo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo abafuni kuyenza.
Ke ababeki mzamo unyanisekileyo ekuphuculeni i-resume yabo, kwaye ukuba bayayifumana udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi, abanamdla kwaphela. Emva koko, xa bengawufumani umsebenzi, banokusola nje ngokuthi 'ukwaliwa rhoqo.' Iba sisiprofeto esizalisekisayo.
Umntu odimazekileyo yimizamo yakhe unokuziva ekhululekile xa engawufumani loo msebenzi, okanye loo mhla. Abayi kufuneka bahlale bezenza into abayiyo.
apho ungamthatha khona umntu ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe
Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho malunga nento oyifunayo, kwaye ngoba. Emva koko phinda ubuke amaxesha awahlukeneyo okhatyiweyo: kunokuba luncedo ukubhala malunga nabo kwijenali yakho.
Yiya kula manqaku ukuze ubone ukuba ngaba kukho iidinomineyitha eziqhelekileyo ezihlala zisiza. Ukuba uqhubeka nokubetha udonga olunye, ngokuqinisekileyo unokufumana indlela entsha ejikeleze yona. Okanye ngaphezulu kwayo.
Okanye unokufumana indlela yokunkqonkqoza olo donga phantsi kwaye ushiye umzila ovuthayo emva kwakho.
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