Ukuqonda ukuba kutheni imali ingenakuluthenga ulonwabo, kufuneka kuqala sihlolisise ukuba yintoni na eyenza abantu bonwabe.
Ngokubanzi, ukonwaba kuhlala kuchazwa ngabamakishi abathathu: 'indawo yethu ebekiweyo' (isiseko seemvakalelo, ukuba uyathanda), iimeko zethu zobomi, kunye nomsebenzi wethu wokuzimisela.
Umntu osokolayo noxinzelelo, umzekelo, uya kuhlala enendawo esezantsi. Banokuziva kuphela bonwabile ngokwenyani ngexesha lobomi obulungileyo kunye / okanye ngokwenza izinto ngenjongo.
Abanye abantu, kwelinye icala, banendawo ephezulu kakhulu yokubeka kwaye banokugcina imeko yabo yokuchwayita nokuba bajongane neemeko ezinzima zobomi.
Iimeko zinento yokwenza nenqanaba lokonwaba kwethu. Ukuba uhlala nabantu obathandayo, kwaye uphilile ngokubanzi, ezo meko zibangela ulonwabo.
Kuyafana nokwenza ngenjongo: ukuba ukrokrela umsebenzi owuthiyileyo yonke imihla, ayizukuyenza into elungileyo kwi-psyche yakho.
Ke yeyiphi indima edlalwa yimali kulonwabo lwethu?
Ewe, ayinakuthenga kwaye nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni.
1. Imali ayikwazi ukuthenga ukwaneliseka komsebenzi.
Unokwenza ngaphezulu kwe- $ 200K / ngonyaka, ekunika amathuba okuhamba, uthenge iimpahla ozithandayo, kwaye uhlale kwikhaya elinomtsalane…
indlela yokonwabela isikolo ngaphandle kwabahlobo
… Kodwa ukuba ufumana uloyiko ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka uye eofisini, umsebenzi wakho awukonwabisi, andibi kunjalo?
Abantu abaninzi bahlala emisebenzini abayicekisayo kuba bayasithanda isidalwa sentuthuzelo esidityaniswa nemali abayenzayo.
Kodwa ngaba ungonwabela ngenqanawa iCaribbean xa unesibhengezo esimnyama sentlanganiso yebhodi esiza ngokukhawuleza nje emva kokuba ubuyile?
2. 'Izinto onazo ziphela zezakho.'
Uyakhumbula lo mgca kwiKlabhu yokulwa? UTyler Durden wayenento ethile.
Olo lonwabo lincinci ulufumanayo xa uthenga into oyithandayo inokukuonwabisa, kodwa olo lonwabo lolwexeshana.
Uyakufuna kungekudala (okanye imfuno ) enye ephezulu mini, ke uthenga enye into… kwaye loo mpazamo iya kudlula. Lather, hlamba, phinda intengiso infinitum.
Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uchithe isixa semali ngokuhlekisa: iimpahla ongasokuze uzinxibe kwakhona, iitrinki ezithatha indawo yokubala ebalulekileyo, njl.
Yiya kwi KonMari indlela kunye lahla nantoni na engavusi uvuyo.
Emva koko thenga kuphela izinto ozifuna ngokupheleleyo, okanye uya kukunika itoni yolonwabo lwexesha elide.
3. Imali ayinakuthenga ububele.
Cinga ngeli phepha: Ukufuna ulonwabo: Uyilo loTshintsho oluzinzileyo , Ngugqirha wezengqondo uSonja Lyubomirsky.
Kuyo, uya kwiinkcukacha malunga novavanyo olwenziwe nguye kunye nabanye abaphandi ngo-2004.
Bacele abafundi ukuba benze izinto ezintlanu zobubele kwabanye ngeveki, kwisithuba seeveki ezi-6.
Eminye yemizekelo ibandakanya ukunceda abahlobo ngamaphepha, ukutyelela abantu abadala, ukunikela ngegazi, okanye ukubhala iileta zokubulela.
indlela yokuthuthuzela umhlobo emva kokwahlukana
Bafumanise ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba bafumana ulonwabo olukhulu xa besenza izinto zobubele kwabanye.
Cinga ngendlela oziva wonwabe ngayo xa ubona ummelwane encumile ngenxa yokuba ubaphathele iicookies, okanye ukuba kuyonelisa kangakanani ukuthatha inja yokuhlala ukhe uhambe elangeni.
Ukwenza izinto zobubele ekusebenzeni kwabanye yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokukhuthaza ulonwabo.
Olo lonwabo luyabiwa macala onke, luyanda njengoko luhamba, kwaye alubizi mali.
4. Imali ayinakuthenga ulonwabo, ubudlelwane obunempilo.
Olunye lwamava amahle, awonwabisayo esinokuba nawo ngabantu esibakhathaleleyo.
Ukubonisana nabahlobo abalungileyo, ukuhleka kunye namaqabane athandanayo, ixesha elinyanisekileyo kunye namalungu osapho.
Ukubamba nabahlobo abathandekayo phezu kwekofu kwindawo yabo, okanye ukuba nosapho olukhulu lwasekhaya iBBQ akubizi mali ininzi, kodwa imbuyekezo iyamangalisa.
Olona lwalamano lubalaseleyo lubiza ixesha kunye nomzamo, kodwa imali ayisiyonto.
5. Kunini apho kunokwanela 'kwanele'?
'Oku akunakuze kuphele' kuba ndifuna okungakumbi… ngaphezulu, ndinike ngaphezulu, ndinike ngaphezulu… '
Ezo ngoma zeFever Ray zichanekile ngendlela eyothusayo.
Njengeedragons ezihlala kwiindawo zazo zegolide, abantu abaqokelela imali eninzi kubonakala ngathi bahlala bezabalazela ubutyebi obungakumbi.
Kubo, ubutyebi buhlala bulingana namandla kunye nenqanaba, ke ukuba nemali eninzi kuthetha ukuba baziva benamandla ngakumbi, behlonitshwa ngakumbi, njl.
Akunjalo, nangona kunjalo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo banakho ukuhlawula abantu ukuba babenzele izinto, kodwa abo bantu ababathandi, okanye babakhathalele. Bafuna nje ukuhlawulwa.
Kwaye akukho mali, okanye amandla, ahlala ngonaphakade.
Uthando luyakwenza.
6. Ukufikelela kwiinjongo kuyehla kunkuthazo nokuzingisa- kunqabile ukuba ibe yimali.
Cinga ngexesha lokugqibela uzibekele usukelo lwakho, kwaye wonwabe kwaye waneliseka xa ulufumene.
Ngaba uzifundisile ukubaleka i-5km yesisa? Okanye mhlawumbi uzifundise ukudlala isixhobo somculo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kufuneka utyale imali encinci kwizixhobo ozifunayo ukuze wenze ezo njongo zenzeke (njengokuqhuba izihlangu okanye ikatala enexabiso eliphantsi), kodwa Ulonwabo olufumene lufikile ekufezekiseni injongo, hayi into oyithengileyo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Unokonwaba kwakhona: Iingcebiso ezili-15 zokuphinda ufumane ulonwabo lwakho
- Ungonwaba njani wedwa: Iingcebiso ezili-10 zokuPhila nokuziHlalela
- Iimpawu ezi-30 eziqhelekileyo zaBantu abaNwabileyo (onokuzikopa)
- Iintsomi eziyi-9 Siyazixelela ukuba zisigcina singonwabanga
- Ungazimela njani ngokweemvakalelo kwaye uyeke ukuthembela kwabanye ngolonwabo
7. Ukwenza izinto ozithandayo akufuneki kubize kakhulu.
Le ihamba kunye nenqaku elidlulileyo. Zibuze ukuba yintoni eyona nto ikwenza wonwabe.
Ukuba iyanceda, bamba ijenali yakho kwaye ubhale uluhlu lwezinto ezikhuthaza uvuyo kuwe xa uzenza.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba zikhona iinketho zexabiso eliphantsi malunga nayo nayiphi na into oyithandayo okanye umsebenzi oko kukuzisela ulonwabo olukhulu.
Uyakuthanda ukufunda? Ndwendwela ithala leencwadi lakho lendawo simahla!
Njani malunga nangokukrola iinkuni? Thatha uhambo ehlathini kwaye uqokelele amasebe amnandi awileyo oza kusebenza nawo.
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Xa ndandifunda ukunitha, ndabuza malunga nesangqa sam sentlalo kwaye ndafumanisa ukuba umakazi womhlobo wam wayenomsonto omkhulu WOKUGQIBELA awayefuna ukwahlukana nawo.
Khange ndibize nto, kodwa ndakwazi ukuziqhelisa, ndenza itoni yeempahla zothando.
Kuhlala kukho isisombululo esinexabiso eliphantsi sokufumana uvuyo.
8. Imali ayikwazi ukuthenga ingqondo.
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuhlakulela ulonwabo kukukhumbula: ukubakho ngalo mzuzu, lo moya, njengomntu onokwenzeka.
Ukuba ubambelele kwiimvakalelo ezimbi malunga namava adlulileyo, khumbula ukuba oko kudlulileyo kuhambile, kwaye kukho kuphela kwimemori yakho. Yekela ihambe.
Ngaba ulonwabo lwakho lubangelwa kukuxhalaba ngekamva? Oko akukenzeki.
Hlala apho ukhoyo ngoku, kwaye uphendule kwizinto njengoko zisenzeka endaweni yokuzama ukulawula okanye ukuqikelela iziphumo.
9. Indalo isimahla.
Ngaba ukhe wabethwa ngokwenene bubuhle bokuqaqamba kokuphuma kwelanga?
Okanye ukukhanya kudlala njani kulwandlekazi?
Kuthekani ngomnyama ophindwe kabini emva kweeveki zemvula?
Cinga ngamanye awona maxesha amyoli xa wawuphandle. Amathuba kukuba ezo nkumbulo zezinye zezona zinto zakha zantle.
Ngaba isenzo sokuthenga into ebonakalayo sikhe sabangela olo hlobo loyike oluhlala luhleli novuyo?
Khange ndicinge njalo.
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10. Ukuthelekisa nokugcina abanye kuxabisa uxolo lwethu.
Kuzo zonke izinto eziyingozi esinokuzenza kuthi, ukuzithelekisa nabanye abantu (kunye nokuzama ukuqhubeka nabo, okanye ukubadlula) kubeka olona lonwabo kuthi.
Unayo i-Masters degree? Ewe, umhlobo wakho ufumene i-PhD yakhe ngequbuliso ukuzaliseka kwakho kuya esihogweni.
Uthenge imoto enkulu? Kubi kakhulu umntakwenu uthenge nje imoto yemidlalo yeediliya eyenza eyakho ibonakale ngathi yinto engekho mthethweni.
Ufumana umbono.
Yeka ukuthelekisa ikhaya lakho, izinto zakho, inkangeleko yakho, impumelelo yakho, kunye nayo yonke into malunga nabanye abantu.
Bakuluhambo lwabo, wena kokwakho. Ingakanani imali onayo ayinamsebenzi.
Ukuphela kwe-.
Inqaku elidibeneyo: Ungayeka Njani Ukuzithelekisa Nabanye
11. Ukuzilimaza kuxabisa kuphela uvuyo lwethu.
Ngaba ukhe ufumanise ukuba uyeka ukonwaba?
Olu luphawu oluqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu abakhulele kwiimeko ezihlukumezayo zosapho.
Kulula kakhulu, ngalo lonke ixesha beqala ukuziva bonwabile ngento ethile, bacinga ngento embi endaweni yoko, okanye bonakalisa imeko ukuze ulonwabo luphele ngesiquphe.
Oku kukhusela abanye abantu ekuthatheni ulonwabo lwabo kubo, njengoko bebenokwenza amaxesha amaninzi kulutsha.
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Imali ayinakutshintsha lo mkhwa. Kuphela ngokusebenzisa Umsebenzi ozingisayo , mhlawumbi ngoncedo lwegqirha, unokuyeka ukuzenzakalisa.
12. Ukungaguquguquki kubaluleke ngaphezu kotyalo mali.
Lo ubuyela kwimisebenzi nakwizinto ezikwenza wonwabe.
Ukuba ukwenza umthambo kukwenza wonwabe, kodwa uyadikwa yindlela yakho yangoku kangangokuba uzibekel 'amangomso okanye uyeke ukuzilolonga, amanqanaba akho olonwabo aya kuhla
Tshintshela izinto phezulu kunokuba unikezele! Ukuba ukruqukile kukubaleka okanye i-yoga, thatha uqeqesho lobunzima, ubugcisa bemfazwe, okanye iiklasi zebhaleyi.
Udlale isiginci sakho ekufeni? Kuthekani ngokuzama ivayolin?
Ngaba ulufundile ulwimi obelufunda? Cela umngeni komnye ohluke ngokupheleleyo!
Gcina imisebenzi oyithandayo-yitshintshe ngokwaneleyo ukuze igcine inomdla kuwe.
13. Ukuchitha imali kungakhokelela ematyaleni, nto leyo ebangela ukungonwabi okupheleleyo.
Xa ulahla itoni yemali 'kwizinto,' ukutya okumnandi, njl., Unokufumana ukuchitha ngaphezulu kunokwenza kwakho.
Phantse wonke umntu uphethe umlinganiselo othile wetyala, kodwa ukwazi ukuba unetyala lamawaka aliqela kwikhadi lakho letyala kunokubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu.
Olo hlobo loxinzelelo aluzukunyusa ulonwabo lwakho, akunjalo?
Zama ukuhlala ngokwamandla akho, kwaye utyale imali kumava amangalisayo ngamanye amaxesha, endaweni yokuchitha rhoqo kwizinto ezingenamsebenzi, ezingenamsebenzi.
14. Kuninzi okuza kwisimo sengqondo, kunye nombulelo.
Abantu abaninzi bayacaphuka yingcinga yokuba umntu unokukhetha ukonwaba, ngakumbi ukuba uyasokola nokugula ngengqondo, intlupheko, njl.
Oko ndikhe ndadibana neemeko ezinzima ngokwam, ndiyakwazi ukudibana nokukhathazeka okunokuvela kwabanye ukucebisa ukuba 'ungakhetha' ukonwaba xa ulusizi.
Zininzi izinto esingazibulela kwaye sizonwabise mihla le.
Zama ukonwabela le ndebe yeti okanye ikofu endaweni yokubambezela. Qalisa ijenali yombulelo, kwaye uzisonge ebhedini rhoqo ngokuhlwa ubhale izinto ezintlanu oye wazixabisa ngaloo mini.
Ukongeza, khumbula ukuba uninzi lweembandezelo esijamelana nazo luza kukhetho.
Ngaba uyayazi intetho? 'Nantoni na ongayitshintshi, ukhetha' ? Yipilisi enzima ukuyiginya, kodwa iyinyani kakhulu.
Ukuba awonwabanga kuba uphelelwe yimilo, kodwa awusebenzi kwaye utya ngcono, ke lukhetho lwakho olo.
Uwuthiyile umsebenzi wakho? Fumana entsha.
Ulusizi kulwalamano lwakho? Ukwahlukana kuyothusa, kodwa uya kuthi wonwabe ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Nantoni na ekwenza ungonwabi inaso isisombululo. Kunganzima, kwaye usenokungafuni ukujongana nayo, kodwa ekugqibeleni ulonwabo lwakho luxhomekeke kuwe… hayi ukuba zingaphi ii-zer ezikwibhanki yakho.
