Ubomi bakho abuyiyo kanye le ubuya kuyibiza ngokuba inomdla. Izinto zincinci kwaye ziqikeleleka, kwaye indlela ophila ngayo ebomini bakho ayikufezekisi.
Uyakruquka yiyo yonke loo nto.
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ucinge ngokuzibuyisela ngokupheleleyo okanye ukuguqula ubomi bakho ngaphaya kwayo yonke into eyaziwayo.
Kodwa ufuna inaliti yomdla kunye nemincili ukugxotha isithukuthezi kude.
Ufuna uku lawula ubomi bakho kwaye uyiphile, kunokuba uhlale phantsi ungavumi ukuba kwenzeke kuwe.
Ufuna ukuba namava amatsha kwaye wenze iinkumbulo.
Kwaye kulungile. Sifumana into enye kuphela kule nto ibizwa ngokuba bubomi, ke kuyamangalisa ukuba ufuna ukuqala ukwenza okungcono kakhulu.
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokukhetha ubomi bakho.
1. Rhoqo phuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela.
Iindawo zentuthuzelo ziziva zikhuselekile, zifudumele, zonwabile kwaye, zilungile… zikhululekile. Ziindawo ezintle zokubakho. Kodwa banokuziva bethintelekile kwaye bayadika ngamanye amaxesha. Kwaye ukubambelela kwenye kunokuthetha ukuba awunaso isibindi sokuthatha umngcipheko.
Inyani yile, izinto ezinomdla zinokwenzeka kakhulu kuwe xa uphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela, nokuba ukhupha impumlo kuphela.
Yenza isivumelwano nesiqu sakho sokuba uya kwenza into ekususa kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ubuncinci kube kanye ngeveki, nangona ingabalulekanga loo nto.
Nokuba izinto ezincinci njengokuhlasela incoko nomntu ongamaziyo zinokwanela ukwenza ubomi bunomdla ngakumbi kwaye bohluke.
Qala ngokujonga indawo ejikeleze indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela. Njengoko indawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ikhula, uya kuziva unentembelo yokuzityhalela phambili nangakumbi.
2. Zibekele imingeni.
Ukuba ufuna ukudibanisa izinto kodwa ufuna inkuthazo encinci, ukuzibekela iinjongo ezincinci kunye nemiceli mngeni kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokufumana amandla.
Misela imiceli mngeni kwiveki nganye okanye kwinyanga nganye, okanye uzibekele iinjongo ezithile ezinkulu zonyaka.
Qiniseka nje ukuba uzophula ezo njongo ziphambili kwaye ucace malunga namanyathelo ekufuneka uwathathile ukuze zenzeke, ukuze ungoyiki.
Kwaye khumbula ukujonga imiceli mngeni engaphandle kwaloo ndawo yothuthuzelayo- ngokuqinisekileyo, kulungile ukuba ngcono kwinto osele uyenzile kwaye ubalasele kuyo, kodwa ayizukubenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi okanye bube mnandi.
3. Khangela iindawo zokuzonwabisa emnyango wakho.
Ubomi obunomdla nobonwabisayo akufuneki ukuba bubandakanye ukhenketho lwamazwe aphesheya okanye imidlalo eyingozi. Kukho iindawo eziza kubakho kuyo yonke indawo ojonga kuyo.
Cinga ngendawo ejikeleze ikhaya lakho kunye nento onokuyenza ongazange wayenza ngaphambili.
Ngaba ikhona indawo yokutyela entsha ongakhange uye kuyo ekhonza uhlobo oluthile lokutya okungaqhelekanga oke ube nakho?
Ngaba kuvulwe udonga olutsha? Ngaba likho ichibi onokuntywilisela kulo, nokuba uphakathi ebusika?
Ngobusuku obuzolileyo, ungahamba ujonge inkwenkwezi kwindawo ethile kufutshane nawe? Okanye uthathe uhambo ngokukhanya kwenyanga epheleleyo? Ungayifumana i-BBQ yasebusika? Umlilo elunxwemeni?
ukuthandana umfazi kunye nemiba yokulahla
Uyakumangaliswa kuko konke ukonwaba onako kunye nazo zonke izinto ezintsha onokuzama ukuzenza ngaphandle kokuya kude kakhulu. Andizukucinga ngokubheja kukho zonke iintlobo zezinto onokuthi uzifumane ngaphakathi kwe-5-mile radius.
4. Musa ukuhamba ngobomi kwi-autopilot.
Uninzi lwethu lunetyala lokulima nje ebomini ngaphandle kokubakho okwangoku, ukhathazeka ngezolo nangomso kwaye ungaze ujonge ngoku.
Ukuba awuthathi ngabom umzuzwana ukuyeka ujonge ngeenxa zonke kuwe, emva koko ungaphoswa zizo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezinomdla nezinomdla ezenzeka kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha.
Yenza inqaku lokubuyisa umdla wakho ngoku.
Ukuqaphela izinto ezincinci ezinjengeentaka zentaka okanye incasa yokutya kunokukwenza uqonde ukuba kukho izinto ezintle ezenzeka ngeenxa zonke kuwe, nokuba awuthandi ukuzibona.
Unokufumana eli nqaku liluncedo koku: Iimfihlo eziyi-8 zokuPhila ngokuQaphela
5. Yiba nobuchule.
Ukuba nevenkile yokuyila kunokutshintsha.
Zama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziveza ngokuyilayo, nokuba zikwimo yokubhala, ukunitha, ukupeyinta, ukudanisa… nantoni na.
Unokumangaliswa ziziphumo kunye nokuba uzonwabisa kangakanani kwinkqubo.
Nika loo nto yoyilayo ubusoloko unomdla wokuyizama, kwaye ungavumeli uloyiko lokungabi lunge kakhulu kwinto ethile ikubambe.
6. Yiba ‘nomdla’ ube nomdla.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi obunomdla, inyathelo lokuqala kukuba nomdla kwilizwe elikujikelezileyo.
Buza imibuzo. Funda iincwadi. Yiya kwiimyuziyam. Mamela iipodcast. Yiba neengxoxo. Landela abantu abanomdla abacinga ngokwahlukileyo kuwe kwimidiya yoluntu.
Ndwendwela iindawo zabakhenkethi ezingaphandle komkhondo obethiweyo- mhlawumbi ungaphantsi kwe-Instagram kodwa kufanelekile ngakumbi.
Jonga ngeenxa zonke kuwe kwaye ungathathi nje ngendlela izinto ezinje ngayo. Buza izinto, kunokuba uzithathe ngokwexabiso.
Awusoze wazi into onokuyifumana.
7. Funda into entsha.
Ubomi yindawo enye yokufunda ende, kodwa abanye abantu bayakulibala oko.
Ukuba uyadika, kuya kufuneka mhlawumbi ufunde into entsha.
Nokuba yinto esebenzayo njengomdlalo, into yoyilo enjengobumba, okanye konke kusekwe kufundo, njengokufunda ngembali yelizwe lakho okanye ukufunda ulwimi, kuyakubuyisa uthando lwakho lokufunda.
Kuninzi kakhulu ekufuneka sifunde kweli hlabathi, kwaye ukuba sinokwazi kuphela ukuba kuncinci kangakanani esikwaziyo kwaye sizibophelele ekwandiseni iingqondo zethu, ke ubomi bethu bunokuba sisihogo esinye esinomdla kakhulu.
8. Yithi ewe kwizinto.
Ukuthi ewe kwihlabathi kunokuzisa amava amnandi ngendlela yakho. Yithi ewe kwizimemo. Nceda abantu baphume. Yenza ngokukhawuleza .
Vula amava amatsha. Ukuthi ewe kwizinto ezintsha akuyi kuhlala kusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukufundisa okuninzi kwaye kunokuthetha ukuba wenze ukufumanisa okumangalisayo okanye udibane nabantu abanomdla.
9. Yithi hayi kwizinto.
Ndikuthiyile ukuziphikisa, kodwa kusoloko kukho amacala amabini engqekembe.
Ukuthi ewe akusoloko kulungile, ngakumbi ukuba kuthetha ukuba usasazeka kakhulu, okanye ukuba intliziyo yakho ayikho kuyo.
Kukwanamandla amaninzi ukuthi hayi kwizinto ongafuniyo ukuzenza kunye nokuseta imida.
Oko kunokukhulula ixesha olifunayo ukuze ube phaya kwaye ube namava amnandi, anomdla owanqwenelayo.
10. Vulela ubuhlobo obutsha.
Abantu esichitha ixesha lethu elininzi nabo banokwenza lukhulu ekubumbeni ubomi bethu.
Akukho sidingo sokuba unqumle abantu ebomini bakho ngenxa yokuba ayingoyena mntu unomdla kwiplanethi, kodwa kunokubakho indawo yolwalamano olutsha ebomini bakho.
Vulela ukudibana nabantu abatsha. Phuma uye malunga nokuncuma, uqalise incoko nabantu kwaye ube nje nobuhlobo. Awunokwazi ukuba ungadibana nabani.
11. Phonononga iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuhamba iindawo ezintsha kunye nokufumana iindlela ezintsha zokuphila ezahluke kakhulu kwezakho yindlela elungileyo yokufumana ulonwabo ebomini.
Kodwa akusoloko ufuna ukuya kude ukuphonononga iinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. Uninzi lweedolophu nezixeko kwezi ntsuku zinenkcubeko entle kwaye abahlali baya kuba nemicimbi yabo onokuzibandakanya kuyo.
Mhlawumbi babhiyozela amasiko ahlukeneyo unyaka wonke, okanye mhlawumbi kukho izinto zeenkolo zabo okanye iinkolelo zokomoya onokuthi ufunde ngakumbi ngazo.
Asitsho ukuba kufuneka uzenze ezi zinto ziyinxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho, kodwa ngokuzihlola nokuzikhanyisela, uqinisekile ukuba unamava anomdla.
12. Lungisa indlela ocinga ngayo.
Inyani yile, okubalulekileyo njengento enomdla nenomdla ngumcimbi wembono.
Kuya kufuneka ukhethe ngokuzikhethela ukuba ube nomdla kwaye wonwabe ngobomi. Ukuba uyakwenza oko, uyakumangaliswa kukuba zingaphi izinto ezinomdla nezinomdla apho ngesiquphe zikujikelezile.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyenza ngezizathu ezifanelekileyo.
Njengoko ubona, ukwenza ubomi bakho bunomdla ngakumbi akufuneki kube nzima okanye kubize.
Qiniseka nje ukuba uyenzela oku ngokwakho. Ukuba wonwabile ngobomi bakho, emva koko ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba uphile ngendlela eyahlukileyo ukonwabisa omnye umntu.
Intliziyo yakho ifuna ukubakho kuzo zonke izinto ozenzayo, kwaye ukuba wonwabile ngokuzola, ubukho obusezantsi, sukuvumela nabani na ukuba akwenze uzive ungalunganga ngaloo nto.
Hlala ukhuselekile.
Esi sisikhumbuzo sakho nje esinobuhlobo sokuba umdla kunye nokuthakazelisa ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki ukuba kuthetha ukuba kuyingozi okanye kuyingozi.
Ukufumana ngaphezulu kwendoda etshatileyo
Ngokuqinisekileyo, zama umdlalo ogqithileyo ukuba uyathanda, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uthatha onke amanyathelo okhuseleko afanelekileyo kunye nomntu okwaziyo akwenzayo.
Umdla kwaye unika umdla akufuneki ukuba uthethe ngokugqithileyo, kwaye ungabunonga ubomi bakho ukonwaba kwikhaya lakho.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungongeza njani ukonwaba ngakumbi ebomini bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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