“Ungaze ulahlekise ulwazi ngobulumko. Enye inceda wena ukuba uphile enye ikunceda ukuba uphile. ”
Utshilo ugqirha wezengqondo, uGqirha Sandra Carey, ecacisa ngokucocekileyo umahluko phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini zihlala zididekile.
Olu luvo luqondayo luya kubonisa ukuba ubulumko yinto ebalulekileyo ekufezekiseni ulwaneliseko lobomi. Kwaye okwangoku kwezi ntsuku, kubonakala ngathi eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo kukufumana ulwazi kunye nokuphuhlisa ubukrelekrele.
Wonke umntu uzimisele ekuqhubekeni nemfundo yakhe ukuya kwinqanaba le-n kwithemba lokufumana loo msebenzi uphuphayo, kunye nenqanaba lentlalontle kunye nomvuzo wemali owuzisayo.
Ubulumko bushiye ngasemva kugqatso lwaphezulu.
Kuya kuvela ukuba ophulukene nalo kweli phulo lokufuna ukugqwesa kwizifundo bubulumko obudala-mpela, obuthe ukwehla kwizinga leempawu ezinqwenelekayo kwihlabathi elijolise kulwazi kwaye liqhutywa ziithagethi.
Zingaphi iinkcazo zomsebenzi ozifundileyo ukhankanya ubulumko njengemfuneko kubafakizicelo?
Nangona kunjalo, ixesha laxa le mpawu ibalaseleyo yayixabiseke kakhulu. Abo babenobunkunkqele kwaye beqonda ngokunzulu uluhlu olubanzi lwamava obomi aye afunwa ukukhupha iingcebiso kunye nokuhambisa iiperile zobulumko abantu ababezinqwenela.
Ngoku, nangona kunjalo, konke malunga namabanga kunye nokufumana iseti elandelayo yemigangatho yokunyusa amanqanaba emivuzo- ungalibali ubukrelekrele kunye nokuzikhulisa okuhambelana nokulandela impumelelo.
Ubeka ufakelo olomeleleyo, uzuze umvuzo wakho - umsebenzi owenziweyo kwaye usetelwe ubomi, akunjalo?
Ewe, mhlawumbi akunjalo. Ukuba yingqondi kunye nokusebenza nzima ayisiyiyo yonke into.
Ewe, impumelelo yakho egqwesileyo kwizifundo zakho ibonisa ukuba uyakwazi ukucinga ngengqiqo, ukuqonda iikhonsepthi, kwaye uxhobele iimfumba zokuzimisela kunye negrit xa kufikwa ekuseleni ukusebenza.
Iimpawu ezintle nangona zisenokuba zezi, uphando lubonisa ukuba ubukrelekrele abuyiyo inkomba yokuphila kakuhle.
Kubonakala ngathi ukusukela kwethu ulwazi ngokungagungqiyo kuye kwaba semngciphekweni wokuhlakulela ubulumko. Oko kuye kwaphumela ekunciphiseni amava obomi apheleleyo.
Ke yintoni umahluko phakathi kobulumko kunye nobukrelekrele?
Akusoloko kulula ukuchaza iimpawu ezinqabileyo ezinje ngezi, kodwa ukuvuselela ngokukhawuleza kwinkcazo yesichazi magama nganye kunokukhanyisa ukukhanya:
Ubulumko: Isakhono sokusebenzisa amava akho kunye nolwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kunye nezigwebo.
Ubukrelekrele: Ukukwazi ukucinga, ukuqiqa nokuqonda endaweni yokwenza izinto ngokuzenzekelayo okanye ngethuku.
Ukusasaza ezi nkcazo ukuya kwezona zibalulekileyo, umahluko ophambili unokubonakala ngathi ubulumko busebenzisa umbono ozifumene kumava obomi, ngelixa ubukrelekrele buphantsi ekufumaneni iinyani kunye nolwazi.
Ukufaka isicelo kwindalo / kwingxoxo yengxoxo yenye indlela yokwahlula phakathi kwezi zimbini:
Ubukrelekrele buvunywa ngokubanzi njengento ozalelwe ukuba uzalwe nayo ukuya kwinqanaba elithile (nangona ikwafuna ukukhuliswa ukufezekisa amandla ayo).
Ubulumko, kwelinye icala, ayonto izalwa nayo, efuna ixesha kunye namava kunye nokujonga kunye nokucamngca ukuphuhlisa kwaye ekugqibeleni kudubule.
umxelela njani umntu omthandayo
Enye indlela yokuqonda umohluko kukuba ubukrelekrele kukwazi Njani ukwenza into ubulumko kukwazi ukuba kunye / okanye nini umntu makayenze.
Ubukrelekrele bunokuthetha ukwazi ukuba ungangena njani kwinethiwekhi yomsebenzi wekhompyuter yakho, kodwa ubulumko kukuqonda ukuba mhlawumbi ngumbono ombi lowo!
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba sisilumko?
Ayothusi into yokuba uluhlu lweekowuti malunga nobulumko lide kwaye liyakhanyisa. Nazi ezimbalwa nje, ke ufumana umxholo:
UPierre Abelard: 'Ukuqala kobulumko kufunyanwa ekuthandabuzeni ngokungathandabuzeki ukuba siza kumbuzo kwaye ngokufuna ukuba sifike enyanisweni.'
UAlbert Einstein: 'Ubulumko asiyomveliso yokufunda, kodwa ngumzamo wobomi bonke wokufumana.'
UMarilyn vos Savant: 'Ukuze umntu afumane ulwazi kufuneka afunde, kodwa ukuze afumane ubulumko, makazithobe.'
USocrates: Obona bulumko bokwenene kukwazi ukuba akukho nto uyaziyo. ”
UBenjamin Franklin: “Umnyango wetempile yobulumko kukwazi kwethu ukungazi.”
UConfucius: “Ukwazi into oyaziyo nokwazi into ongayaziyo. Obo bubulumko bokwenene. ”
Kukho umxholo oqhelekileyo ohamba ngala mazwi alumkileyo kwaye kunjalo ukuthobeka , umgangatho othile wasemzini kuluntu lwethu ngoku, apho ukuvuthelwa kwexilongo kuyintoni na. Kodwa ngaphezulu kamva.
Kanye apho phakathi kwala matye anqabileyo unokufumana ukhuthazo olufunekayo ukukhuthaza ukuba uphuhlise 'isilumko' sakho sangaphakathi ngenjongo yokuba ulumke kwaye umntu ocinga nzulu .
Emva kwexesha siza kujonga iindlela onokuthi wenze ngazo kanye, kodwa kuqala makhe siphande ukuba kutheni lomgangatho uthile uphucula ubomi.
Ubulumko bunokusenzela ntoni?
Kubukho bethu obunomdla nobunzima, akukaze kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba sixhotyiswe ngobulumko ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo ubulumko bokujamelana nokungaziwayo ubulumko bokujonga ubulumko bokujongana neemvakalelo ubulumko bokuqonda kunye nobulumko bokubona. ngaphaya kwexabiso lobuso.
Ngokwesi sifundo sichazwe apha ngasentla…
'… Ukuqiqa ngobulumko kunxulunyaniswa nolwaneliseko olukhulu lobomi, iimpembelelo ezingathandekiyo kangako, ubudlelwane obungcono kuluntu, ukunganyamezeleki okuncinci, amagama aqinisekileyo xa kuthelekiswa namagama asetyenziswa kwintetho, kunye nokuphila ixesha elide.'
Olunye uphononongo bafumanise ukuba abantu abalumkileyo bafumana ubulolo obuncinci.
Uphando luchonge inani lezinto zobulumko:
- Imfesane
- Ulwazi ngokubanzi ngobomi
- Ulawulo lweemvakalelo
- Uvelwano
- Ukuzincama
- Ingqiqo yobulungisa
- Ukuqonda
- Ukwamkelwa kwamaxabiso ahlukeneyo
- Ukuthatha isigqibo
Kukho ubungqina bokuba iingqondi ezikrelekrele zokujonga izinto ngokwembono ephangaleleyo, evulekileyo kuphumela kumbono othembele ngakumbi.
Ngelixa umntu onomdla osondeleyo, ukuzikhusela kunye nokubi uya kuthi, kwimeko efanayo, abone ubumnyama kuphela kunye nentshabalalo.
Enye into elungileyo ehambelana nobulumko kukunyamezelana okukhulu kunye nokuphendula okungathethekiyo ngokweemvakalelo.
Ukuzazisa okuza nobulumko kukhuthaza ukuzeyisa kwaye kugcina isiciko kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezinjengomsindo kunye nokudana.
Lilizwi elingaphakathi elicebisa ngokuchasene nokubetha izibane zomntu ngaphandle okanye ukukhwaza amanyala-ungaze ukhethe ngobulumko. Imizekelo egqithileyo, kodwa ufumana umxholo.
Into eza nobulumko kukukwazi ukujonga iimeko ukusuka kubhabho-kudonga, umbono ohlukanisiweyo yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekwenzeni izigqibo ezingcono.
ukuba wenzeni xa ur ekhaya wedwa kwaye uyadika
Ukuzimela ngokwakho ngale ndlela kubeka imeko kwimeko ebanzi, ukufikelela kwisiphumo esilinganiselweyo nesonelisayo.
Isiphumo ayisosigqibo esikrelekrele kuphela, sisigqibo sobulumko kwaye ezi zezona zikhokelela kulonwabo olukhulu.
Bonke obu bungqina buya kubonisa ukuba, ukongeza ekuxinaneni kulwazi oluninzi kangangoko ukuze sifezekise amandla ethu kwaye sibe zezona zilungileyo sinokuthi sibe kuzo kwicandelo lethu elikhethiweyo, kukwabalulekile ukuhlakulela ubulumko bokufezekisa impilo-ntle, ukwenza thina ngokwethu abantu abajikelezayo, abagqibeleleyo nabazalisekileyo.
Iindlela ezi-6 zokuba ngumntu onobulumko
Ubulumko asikokulondolozwa kwesizukulwana esidala ukothuka kweenwele ezingwevu kunye nobuso obunemigca efundeka njengemephu yendlela ayisiyomfuneko yokuba nobulumko.
Kukho amanyathelo asebenzayo onokuwathatha ukukhulisa 'isilumko' sakho sangaphakathi, esiya kuthi sandise kwaye sandise amava akho obomi, senze umzamo ofanelekileyo:
1. Yithathe lula.
Ukuzikhathaza ngokuzixakekisa rhoqo nokusebenza nzima ukubuyekeza ukungafikeleli kwakho (kusenokwenzeka ukuba akukho), kunokubachukumisa abaphathi.
Kodwa ke ayiyi kukwenza ube nobulumko.
Qiniseka ukuba ubekela bucala ixesha suku ngalunye lokuba uzole kwaye uzole, uzivumele ukuba uphumle kwaye uhambe kude noxinzelelo lobomi okwethutyana.
Sebenzisa ixesha lakho lasimahla ukufunda okanye nokubukela amaxwebhu kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kunokugcwalisa i-vacuum nge-c ** p yeTV okanye imidlalo yevidiyo.
Ngcono okwangoku, ukunyuka ehlathini kuya kukuvumela ixesha lokuphumla, ukuphefumla, ukubonakalisa nokwandisa ingqondo yakho.
Ngala maxesha okuzola, chitha ixesha ucinga ngomntu wangaphakathi . Akunakwenzeka ukuba uxabise iingcinga kunye nezizathu zabanye ukuba awunaso isibambiso kwinto eyenza ukuba ukhathaze.
Ukufunda ubugcisa bokucamngca yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuphucula ‘iliso elingaphakathi.’
Uyakufumanisa ukuba iimbono ezintsha zivulelekile kuwe xa ingqondo yakho ingaphazanyiswanga yingxokolo yento eyoyikisayo.
2. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe.
Kukho i-aphorism ehlonitshwayo ethi: “Ulwazi kukwazi ukuba mawuthini. Ubulumko buyazi ukuba mabutsho okanye hayi. ”
Endaweni yokunikezela kumnqweno wokuphendula kwangoko, zama ukuzinika indawo kunye nexesha lokucingisisa ngaphambi kokuba uthethe.
Yamkela kwaye umamele ngenyameko, kodwa ungasoloko uziva ufuna ukukhupha uluvo lwakho kwangoko, okanye kwaukubakho.
3. Yithi ndlela-ntle ‘kumnyama nakumhlophe.’
Zama ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. Zimbalwa izinto ebomini ezimnyama nomhlophe.
Endaweni yoko, zama ukuvavanya okwenzekayo ngokujonga phakathi kwemigca yeendawo ezingwevu. Ukuhlala ecingweni ithutyana kuya kukunika ithuba lokujonga izinto ngokwembono ebanzi.
Ukuthatha isishwankathelo esithathela ingqalelo ukungaqiniseki okunokubakho endaweni yeenyani ezimnyama nezimhlophe kuya kwenza ukuba ubonelele ngengcebiso engaphezulu, ukuba iyafuneka.
Naziphi na izigqibo ezinxulumene noko zinokuba ngcono.
4. Yakha ingqondo yokubuza.
Usenokuba sele ufikelele esiphelweni semfundo yakho esesikweni, kodwa ukufunda akupheleli apho.
Ukuba uyeka ukondla ingqondo yakho ngamava amatsha-ukwandisa kunye nokwenza nzulu ukuqonda kwakho-iya kuba yinto encinci.
Umbhali wefilosofi uAnais Nin ukubeka ngale ndlela:
I-snoop dogg kunye ne-sasha bank
'Ubomi yinkqubo yokuba, indibaniselwano yamazwe ekufuneka sihambile. Apho abantu abasilelayo kukuba banqwenela ukukhetha ilizwe kwaye bahlale kulo. Olu luhlobo lokufa. ”
Ukuze ube sisilumko, kufuneka uvule ingqondo yakho, wenze ukwazi kwakho kwendalo, kwaye ulungele ukuzama.
Yilambele imibono emitsha kunye namava amatsha. Ewe, uya kuzenza iimpazamo, kodwa ziyinxalenye yenkqubo.
Isitshixo kukufumana amava amaninzi ahlukeneyo njengoko unakho. Ngamnye uya kongeza kububanzi nobunzulu bokuqonda kwakho.
Umgaqo ophambili wamaBuddha yingcinga ye ‘Ingqondo yabaqalayo,’ lowo uzaliswe ngummangaliso wokufumanisa.
Cinga ngovuyo lomntwana xa ubona amandla olwandle okokuqala olo luhlobo lwendlela yokuphila ekufuneka uyihlakulele.
Ngamava onke asondelwe kule ndlela yokujonga umntwana kuya kuza ubulumko ngakumbi kunye nokuqonda.
5. Funda, funda, funda.
Funda kuhambo lwakho lokuhamba, funda ebhedini, ufunde kwindlu yangasese. Funda iincwadi, iimagazini kunye namaphephandaba. Funda iibhlog, funda amagqabantshintshi ngezentlalo, funda iihlaya, funda imisebenzi yezona ngqondi zibalaseleyo. Funda iinoveli okanye ulwaphulo-mthetho. Funda malunga nezinto ozithandayo okanye icandelo lakho lobugcisa.
Joyina ithala leencwadi okanye ufunde kwi-intanethi. Funda nje.
Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ucingisise ngayo nayiphi na into oyifundayo, yenza izimvo kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, thetha malunga noko ukufundileyo nabahlobo kunye nabantu osebenza nabo.
Nantoni na oyifundayo, iya kunceda ukwakha isihlenga solwazi (ulwazi olugqitha kwiinyani zeklasi).
Endleleni uyakufunda ukuba abanye bajongane njani neemeko ezibi onokuthi ujongane nazo.
Ininzi inyani kwintetho ethi: 'Siphulukana neencwadi esizifumana silapho nathi.'
6. Ukuthobeka okuncinci kuhamba indlela ende.
Njengoko kunokubonwa ngokucacileyo kwizicatshulwa zabantu abaphezulu abaziingqondi, ukuvuma ukuba kuncinci kangakanani esaziyo ukuba lilitye lembombo lobulumko bokwenene.
Kwaye inkcubeko yethu imalunga nokuzinyusa. Ukufumana umhlaba kuloo peachy msebenzi, intengiso epheleleyo yentengiso iyafuneka. Kwaye kuyalinga ukubaxa, ukonyusa isakhono esaneleyo esenziwe ngendlela engaphaya kwendawo yakho yokwenyani.
Oko akutsho ukuba kufuneka ulahle ukuzithemba kwakho nangayiphi na indlela. Ukupeyinta umfanekiso oyinyani wokwenyani, endaweni yepargon yesidima seshishini, ekugqibeleni kuya kukuzukisa.
Ukwamkela ukusikelwa umda linyathelo elibalulekileyo kwindlela eya kubulumko obukhulu. Emva koko, ukuthobeka kuya kukuvumela ukuba uhloniphe kwaye uxabise izakhono zabanye endaweni yokoyika.
Ndizakuzuza ntoni ngale nto?
Masibuyele kummahluko phakathi kobukrelekrele nobulumko.
Akukho mathandabuzo amancinci okuba ukusebenzisa uninzi lwe-IQ esisikelelwe ngayo ekuzalweni nasekuxinekeni kolwazi oluyinyani kwiingqondo zethu ezisindwa ngumthwalo kunokuzisa imbuyekezo yemali kunye nempumelelo yezinto eziphathekayo.
Kodwa ngokubhekisele kulwaneliseko lobomi luphela, ubulumko buphumeleleyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukufumana ubulumko kwenza ukuba umntu ajikeleze kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo azalisekise umntu.
Uyakuxhotyiswa ngcono ukusingatha amahla ndinyuka obomi kunye nokuvelana nemizabalazo efunyanwa lusapho lwakho, abahlobo kunye nabantu osebenza nabo.
Njengoko isazi sefilosofi kunye nembongi yamandulo uRumi yabhalayo:
“Izolo bendi krelekrele, ke bendifuna ukutshintsha umhlaba. Namhlanje ndilumkile, ngoko ndiyazitshintsha. ”
Kwaye ukuba uyawathobela amazwi akhe obulumko kwaye uzitshintshe, olu phuculo luphucula ubomi bakho
- Ukwenza izigqibo ngcono
- Uvelwano olukhulu
- Ubuchule obungcono bokumelana nobunzima
- Umbono oqinisekileyo
- Kunqabile ukuba ufumane isizungu
Ukusibuyisela apho saqala khona, ngamazwi kaGqirha uCarey, ubulumko sisona sitshixo sokuphila obona bomi buzalisekileyo.
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