Ke, ufumene umntu ogqibeleleyo kwaye nonwabile nicwangcisa ubomi benu kunye-de nide nifinyelele kwintloko enkulu ... umtshato.
Ukuba ufumanise ukuba ufuna ukutshata, kodwa isoka lakho alifuni, unokuziva udidekile kwaye uphikisana.
Ngaba usenalo ikamva kunye xa ufuna izinto ezahlukeneyo?
Ngaba uza kutshintsha ingqondo?
Ngaba wena tshintsha eyakho, okanye ngaba ngoku uza kugwetywa?
Okokuqala, yehlisa isantya! Silapha ukukuqhuba ngamanyathelo alandelayo kubudlelwane bakho kunye nendlela yokujongana nale meko.
Uthetha ukuthini?
Isenokungabi yidrama enkulu eyenziwe yingqondo yakho entloko.
Kuya kufuneka unencoko enzulu kwaye ufumanise ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye.
Ngaba yayingxelo yokulahla okanye into eyathethwayo kwimpikiswano? Ukuba kunjalo, kukho ithuba lokuba wayengathethi oko wakuthethayo!
Sonke sithethile izinto kubushushu bomzuzwana ezingabonakalisi indlela esivakalelwa ngayo.
Usenokwazisa, ngencoko ezolileyo, evuthiweyo, kwaye ubuze ukuba ebethetha into ayithethileyo.
Yiya apho-usenokuthi ebengathethi nyani, kwimeko apho unokuqhubeka khona.
Ukuba uthi ebenyanisile, incoko iya kufuna ukuqhubeka ...
Thetha phandle.
Fumana ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthetha ngayo yonke into elubala. Qinisekisa ukuba kusekhaya okanye kwenye indawo yabucala apho ungayi kuphazamiseka.
wwe iibhola ezinkulu zomlilo zibonisa ngokupheleleyo
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba awuzange uthethe ngale nto kunye nabanye ngaphambili, okanye isenokuba yinto oye wayihamba izihlandlo ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, vula uluvo lwakhe kwaye wenze imeko apho nina nobabini niziva ngathi ninokwabelana kwaye nithembeke.
Amadoda amaninzi angafuni ukutshata azive engakhululekanga ukuthetha ngayo. Bangazi ukuba yinto oyifunayo ngokwenene, ke ngoko bazive benetyala ngokungayifuni nabo.
Oko kunokwenza ukuba kube nzima kubo ukuba bathembeke, ke kuya kufuneka wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukugcina inqanaba lentloko kunye nengqiqo.
Ukuba uqala ukuba nomsindo kwaye ucaphuke, usenokungabi nakuthembeka kuwe ngenxa yokoyika ukukhathaza iimvakalelo zakho.
Ukuze ube nencoko enemveliso, ethembekileyo, kufuneka azive ekhululekile ukuba abelane nabanye ngeengcinga zakhe.
Yiya nzulu-buza imibuzo.
Musa ukoyika ukumbuza ngoba uchasene nomtshato okanye kutheni evakalelwa kukuba ayilunganga kuni nobabini.
Qaphela ukuba ungasebenzisi ithoni yokumangalela kuba oku kuya kumtyhalela kude. Kwakhona, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuze uhlale uzolile.
Unokucela ukuba kukwenze nolwalamano lwangaphambili, okanye mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba abazali bakhe bahlukana xa wayesemncinci.
Mhlawumbi yingxaki yemali okanye ukuphikisana nezithethe zonqulo.
Ngayiphi na indlela, ngokubuza malunga neengcinga zakhe kunye neemvakalelo zakhe, ungaqala ukufudukela kwindawo engcono kubudlelwane bakho.
Phonononga kwaye uchaze iimvakalelo zakho.
Ukuba unomdla wokutshata, chaza ukuba kutheni. Ungazami ukuziva unetyala-ukuthandana nesoka lakho, kodwa yenze icace ukuba kutheni kubalulekile kuwe.
Imibongo ngokusweleka kwelungu losapho
Okukhona unokunyaniseka malunga nolindelo lwakho okanye iinjongo zakho, kokukhona uya kufumana into enivumelana ngayo.
Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukutshata ngezizathu zomthetho, unokuthi ke azimisele ukuba nobambiswano noluntu, umzekelo.
Ukuba inento yokwenza nokuhlonipha imvelaphi yakho yenkolo, usenokuthi imvelaphi yakhe yahluke kakhulu-kwaye ungasebenzela ekufumaneni umsitho osebenzela nina nobabini.
Okukhona unokuchaza indlela oziva ngayo kwaye kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kokukhona unokufumana isisombululo.
Uya kuphelisa ukutyhila izinto ekusenokwenzeka ukuba zange uziqwalasele ngaphambili!
Ungayiqonda into yokuba ufuna ukutshata kuba ufuna ipati enkulu, kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - iringi kunye nesiqwenga sephepha-ke, yiba nepati enkulu!
Mhlawumbi uye waziva uxinzelelwe luluntu, abahlobo bakho abakungqongileyo beganana, okanye ulindelo lwabazali bakho kuwe.
Okukhona uphonononga iimvakalelo zakho emtshatweni, kokukhona uya kuqonda ukuba zeziphi izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe, kunye nendlela yokuziphindaphinda ezo ngendlela eza kulungela wena neqabane lakho.
Nika ixesha.
Abantu abayitshintshi imbono yabo ngobusuku obunye. Nika isoka lakho ixesha kunye nendawo yokucinga ngezinto xa sele unale ngxoxo inkulu.
Kanye njengokuba ungazukushiya ngesiquphe iphupha lakho lomtshato, akazimisele ukubhukisha indawo yomtshato!
Nobabini nidinga indawo yokucinga ukuba ingaba oku kuthetha ntoni kuni (okanye hayi, njengoko kunokuba njalo).
Ungawuphilisa njani umtshato emva kobuxoki
Vumelana ngokuxoxa kwakhona kwakhona kwikamva elikufutshane- mhlawumbi ninikezane inyanga okanye njalo. Oku kuthatha uxinzelelo kwaye kuthetha ukuba akukho namnye kuni oya kwenza isigqibo ngokukhawuleza okanye aphume ngokusekwe kwimood yakho ngelo xesha.
Dibana phakathi.
Vula ukuba utshintshe! Xa ubuyela kule ncoko, unokuziva ngokwahlukileyo ngokwahlukileyo.
Ungathetha malunga nokulalanisa, umzekelo, kwaye ufumane into esebenza kuni nobabini.
Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba ufuna ukutshata ngenxa yokuzibophelela- usenokucebisa ukuba akuthengele umsesane ukubonisa oku, okunokwanelisa iimfuno zakho.
Usenokuthintela umtshato ngenxa yokuba abazali bakhe beqhawule umtshato - nobabini ninokuvuma ukudibana nomcebisi ukuze amncede ajongane nezo mvakalelo zingasonjululwanga, kwaye niya kuvuma ukubamba naziphi na izingxoxo zomtshato.
Ukuba izinto aziziva ngathi ziya naphi na, kuya kufuneka ucinge nzulu malunga nendlela oziva ngayo.
Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo.
Thetha nabantu obathandayo-ngakumbi abo bakhoyo eyakho Abahlobo (okanye usapho) kwaye ungabaqondisi ngqo abahlobo bakho!
Bayakwazi kakuhle kwaye uya kuba nakho ukuzithemba izimvo zabo. Banokubonelela ngombono owahlukileyo, okanye babuze imibuzo ebangela ukuba uphinde uphonononge okanye womeleze iimbono zakho ezikhoyo.
Khuthaza umfana wakho ukuba athethe nabahlobo bakhe kunye / okanye nosapho naye. Ufanele ukuthetha ngoku kwaye eze kwisigqibo sakhe, kwaye uyambonisa ukuba umhlonipha kangakanani ngokumnika isithuba sokwenza ingqondo yakhe malunga noku.
Unokuzama nonyango lwesibini- hayi, oku akuthethi ukuba ukw ubudlelwane obungaphumelelanga, oko kuthetha ukuba ninokwenza nobabini ngombono omtsha.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uphinda-phinda umba omnye, ukufumana umntu othile injongo inokuba luncedo olukhulu.
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uya kuba nakho ukukhokela uguquko kwaye alulamle, oko kuthetha ukuba nobabini niya kuziva nimamelwe, kwaye nobabini niya kuziva nikhululekile ukuthembeka.
Baza kuba namakhulu amaqabane kwizimo ezifanayo abuyela kubo ukuze afumane uncedo, ke baya kuba neengcebiso ezininzi, ukukhuthazwa kwencoko, kunye nenkxaso yokukunceda nobabini ukufikelela kwisisombululo, nokuba siyintoni na.
Isikali solonwabo.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuhlala neqabane lakho kwaye wamkele ukuba awuzukutshata, cinga ngenqanaba lokonwaba kwakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyakubakho iintsuku apho icala 'elibi' lezinto likhulu kakhulu kuneli 'elilungileyo,' kwaye kuyakubakho iintsuku apho ukhoyo phakathi 'kolonwabo' kunye 'nolusizi.'
Kuya kufuneka ukuba ucinge malunga nokuba esi sikali siza kujongeka kanjani jikelele - ukuba, xa iyonke, ucinga ukuba uyokonwaba neqabane lakho nakulwalamano lwakho, kuhle!
Ukuba ucinga ukuba uza kuchitha ixesha elininzi Ukubacaphukisa 'ngokunqanda' ukuba uphile ubomi bakho bephupha, uyazi into ekufuneka uyenzile.
Ukuba yinto ongenakudlula kuyo ngenene, awusoze wonwabe kulwalamano. Kubuhlungu, kodwa kufuneka uzibeke kunye neemfuno zakho kuqala ngeli nqanaba.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukulinda?
Ukuba ukushiya isoka lakho ngenxa yokuba akafuni kutshata uziva ngathi ugqithisile, kulungile ukuba ulinde ixesha elithile.
Isigqibo sabo sinokubangelwa zizinto ezininzi- mhlawumbi izinto emsebenzini azizinzanga kwaye baziva bengakhululekanga ukuzibophelela emtshatweni xa bexhalabele ukuphulukana nengeniso yabo.
Mhlawumbi umhlobo wabo uyaqhawula umtshato, okanye banobunzima kwimpilo yabo yengqondo.
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni umntu esenokungafuni ukutshata, kwaye uninzi lwezi zinto ziyimeko yokuchasana nelitye.
Kukuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uyafuna ukulinda ngaphandle. Ungafumanisa ukuba okukhona nihlala ixesha elide kunye, okusondeleyo nokusondela- ukuya kwinqanaba apho banokuthi emva koko batshintshe ingqondo yabo njengoko iqala ukuziva ngakumbi nangakumbi ukuba niyakuba kunye ngonaphakade.
Ngokulinganayo, ungaqala ukuziva ukuba oko ninako kunye kwanele - ukuba ukubhiyozela esinye isikhumbuzo sokudibana, okanye ukuthenga indlu kunye, kwanele ukuzibophelela kwaye kukwenza uzive ukhuselekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba akusafuneki ukuba utshate.
Ngaba sisaphuli-mthetho?
Kuya kufuneka uthethe phandle kuwe- ngaba sisaphuli-mthetho esi sakho kuwe? Kwaye ngaba sisaphuli-mthetho kubo?
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Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ulungelelwaniso kwaye nobabini niqinile ukuba anizukutshintsha iingqondo, kuya kufuneka nithathe ixesha lokufumanisa ukuba kuthetha ntoni oku kulwalamano lwenu.
Ngaba uzimisele ukuyeka amaphupha akho omtshato kuba uyazi ukuba niyathandana nobabini?
Okanye uzimisele ukubeka emngciphekweni wokuphulukana neqabane eligqibeleleyo kuba unomdla wokutshata umntu?
Ukuba ujolise kakhulu ekutshateni nje kunokuba uza kutshata yena , Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngobudlelwane bakho ngokubanzi.
Ukuba uzimisele ukuphulukana nesithandwa sakho ukuze utshate nomntu (nabani na!) Enye into, usenokungabi kubudlelwane obukhulu kwaye kufuneka uqwalasele izizathu zakho zokufuna ukuzibophelela kodwa hayi loo mntu.
Ngokulinganayo, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukuba kunye nesoka lakho kangangokuba uyavuya ukuyeka loo mtshato wamaphupha, uyazi ukuba ukunye nomntu ofanelekileyo.
Oko kukodwa kukuzibophelela okukhulu kwaye kulisiko ngokwendlela yalo-ukhetha ubomi bothando nomntu omkhathaleleyo, kwaye oko kwanele.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni malunga neyakho kunye neembono ezahlukileyo zesoka lakho malunga nokutshata? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
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