Ye Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando Ukuthinta umzimba yeyona nto iphambili, yiyo loo nto yenye yezona zinamandla.
Phambi kokuba sikhulise ulwimi, phambi kokuba siqonde ixesha elisemgangathweni, izenzo zenkonzo, okanye ukunika izipho, siba nakho ukuchukumiseka.
Sibanjiwe kwaye siqwejiwe ngabazali kunye nabanonopheli, kwaye xa siziva sisoyika okanye sisodwa njengeentsana, isandla emqolo okanye ukuphululwa ngobumnene kuko konke esasikudinga ukusenza sizive ukuba sikhuselekile, kwaye siyathandwa.
Kubantu abaninzi, leyo ayisoze yaphela, kwaye isidingo sokuchukumiseka ngokwasemzimbeni ukufumana- kwaye ubonise- uthando nothando yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwihlabathi labo.
Nangona ulwabelana ngesondo luwela phantsi kodidi lokuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni, ihlala ingeyiyo eyona nto iphambili.
Ngapha koko, kuninzi lwabantu abaphumelela kolu lwimi luthando, kukungadibani ngesondo nangokomzimba abanqwenela kakhulu.
Ithetha Ukuthini Ukuba uLwaziso lwam luLwimi?
Ukuba olu lulwimi lwakho oluphambili luthando, ukuwolwa, ukufunxwa, kunye nokucothiswa kuko okukwenza uzive uthandwa liqabane lakho.
Kwelinye icala, uyakuthanda ukunika uthando kubantu obathandayo, kwaye unokwaziwa ngokupha abona bantu balungileyo ehlabathini.
Ungacinezela igxalaba lakho lomntwana odlala ikhonsoli xa udlula ukwenza unxibelelwano olufutshane kodwa olunyanisekileyo nabo, kwaye ubange kakhulu xa bebuya esikolweni.
Ngokufanayo, unokuchitha iiyure uhlamba kwaye uncamisa izilwanyana zakho kuba nobabini niyaphumelela kolo hlobo lokusondela.
Xa kufikwa kubuhlobo obusondeleyo, uya kuziva uncomeka ngokupheleleyo xa iqabane lakho lithandana ngokomzimba nawe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukwanga kumnandi, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kukunikeze iifuzzies ezishushu ngaphakathi xa zifikelela kwisandla sakho xa niphume esidlangalaleni kunye, okanye zirhuqa kufutshane kwaye ziqale ngecephe into yokuqala ekuseni.
Okwakho, 'ikhaya' lisezandleni zeqabane lakho, kwaye kulapho uziva wonwabile, kwaye uthandwa kakhulu.
Ngenxa yoko, inokuba yinto ephazamisayo ngokumangalisayo, kwaye inesithukuthezi kuwe, ukuba ulwimi lwakho oluphambili kukuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni, kwaye olona lwimi luphambili lweqabane lakho ngamazwi okuvuma, okanye izenzo zenkonzo.
Kungenxa yokuba xa ucaphukile okanye uziva ngathi ufuna ukunxibelelana neqabane lakho, yonke into oyifunayo kukungqubana… kodwa iinzame zabo zokukwenza uzive ungcono zinokuba ngamanqaku amnandi othando, okanye bagcwalise imoto yakho ngerhasi.
Uyachuma xa uchukunyiswa, kwaye ukungabikho kwayo kunokukushiya uziva ungakhathalelwanga, ulusizi, kwaye wonzakele.
Ngaba kuphosakele ukufuna ukuba wedwa
Uluchaza njani ukhathalelo ukuba ngaba olu luLwimi lweQabane lakho loLwimi
Ukuba olu lolona lwimi luphambili lweqabane lakho, uya kulazi ngqo.
Banokukuchukumisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha leencoko, kwaye mhlawumbi bacele ukuwola kunye nokuganga rhoqo, okanye ungene nje kwaye ungene ngaphakathi xa kunokwenzeka.
Banokukuhlikihla umqolo okanye amagxa ukuba uveza ukuba ubenosuku olunoxinzelelo, cinezela izandla zakho ngexesha lokuncokola, okanye uzibethe iinwele zakho xa urhubuluze ebhedini ebusuku.
Iqabane lakho ngumntu onothando ngendlela emangalisayo, nothando, kwaye ukuba bakujonga ngokungaka, ke bayakuthanda enyangeni nasemva.
Oko kwathethi, eli nqanaba lothando lomzimba lunokuba njalo kakhulu Kunzima kuwe ukuba ukubamba lolona lwimi lwakho luthandwayo luthandekayo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba iqabane lakho liyaphumelela kukumanga nangokuncamisana kwaye awukuthandi ukuchukunyiswa ngalo lonke ixesha, inokuba ngumcimbi omkhulu phakathi kwakho.
Ngapha koko, unokufumanisa ukuba uziva 'uchukumisiwe,' kwaye ubuyele endaweni apho unokufumana kude nengxaki yeqabane lakho.
Abantu abaninzi abangakuthandiyo ukubamba umzimba ngenzondelelo banokubhabha kwaye bashiye abo bacinga ukuba baswele kakhulu ngokwasemzimbeni, okanye bahlasele indawo yabo ebonakalayo.
Oku kuyaqondakala ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kulowo uzama ukufikelela.
Kubo, ukuba neembonakaliso zomzimba wabo wokukhalimela abo babathandayo kaninzi kunokubenza bazive belahliwe kakubi.
Ngapha koko, kumntu onwabele uthando lomzimba, ukulubamba kungaziva ngathi kukuxhatshazwa.
Oku kunokuvakala kugqithisile kuwe, kodwa cinga ngendlela abantwana abaziinkedama abangafumani ngokwaneleyo ukuthandwa ngokwasemzimbeni abasilelayo ukukhula ngayo.
Abaphucukanga ngokwasemzimbeni, bathambekele ekubandezelekeni ngenxa yoxinzelelo olukhulu kunye noxinzelelo, kwaye abanye bade bafe ngenxa yokuswela ukubamba kunye nokuthantamisa.
Ukuba ulungile ngothando oluninzi lomzimba, kuhle! Emva koko unokuphindisela kwimpawu zomlingane wakho ngenzondelelo nangokunyaniseka.
Ngapha koko, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubalinde ukuba baqalise ukubamba ngokwasemzimbeni: ungaqhubeka nje ubange.
Imizekelo yoChukumiso loMzimba
Sithintele kwezinye zezi (i-pun ejoliswe kuyo) kwinqaku lonke, kodwa masibaqokelele bonke endaweni enye kunye nemizekelo embalwa eyongezelelweyo.
Wwe kathathu h iingoma zomxholo
- Ukuwolana
- Ukucheba ngebhedi
- Ukubeka ingalo yakho macala onke eluntwini
Ukuchukumisa isandla / ingalo yabo ngelixa bethetha
- Ukubamba ngesandla
Ukuchukumisa umva wabo xa kudlula
-Ukucofa igxalaba labo ukuze likhuthaze
-Kuhlangana kunye esofeni ngelixa ubukele iTV
-Ukuchukumisa ibunzi lakho nakokwabo ngexesha lokwanga
- Ukujija imilenze phezu kwenye ngelixa ufunda kunye
-Umva wokuthambisa / wokuthambisa
- Ukubeka iintloko emagxeni omnye komnye
- Izinwele zokuxubha
-Uqhakamshelwano / iqabane leyoga (ekwabizwa ngokuba yiacroyoga)
Zama ukunxibelelana nabanye ngeemfuno zakho
Ukuthetha ngokusondelelana ngokomzimba (okanye ukusilela kwako) kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuhamba.
Kungenxa yokuba ukucela uthando lomzimba kubonakala ngathi kunempendulo embi kuluntu lwethu, kodwa akufuneki!
Kulapho unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo lungena lula.
Umzekelo, ukuba iqabane lakho libonakala ngathi liphantsi, babuze ukuba bangathanda na ukwangana.
Into elula nje ngolu hlobo: “ubonakala ngathi uphantsi, thanda… ingaba ukuwola kungakuvuyisa kancinane?” Unokwenza imisebenzi emangalisayo.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba nguwe ofuna okanye ofuna ukubanjwa okomzuzwana, cela iqabane lakho ukuba linokubamba umzuzwana.
Banokusongelwa ngokupheleleyo kwindawo yabo yentloko kwaye khange bayinxibelelanise ngokwenyani into yokuba ufuna olo hlobo lwentuthuzelo, ke ukubazisa ngokubonisa iimfuno zakho kubalulekile!
Ukuba unokuzibhaqa uchukunyiswa liqabane lakho, njengoko kuchaziwe ngaphambili, zama ukunxibelelana nabo ngobunono endaweni yokufulathela okanye ubatyhalele kude, nto leyo enokubangela ukuba bangazithembi kunye nokuba sempilweni ngokweemvakalelo.
Endaweni yoko, mabazise ngobumnene ukuba uziva ukhathazekile kwaye ufuna indawo yomntu, kodwa ungathanda ukubamba nabo esofeni kamva.
ungatshintsha njani kubudlelwane
Baqinisekise ukuba uyabathanda kwaye uyabaxabisa kangakanani, kwaye awubagatyi: ufuna ixesha lokuba wedwa. Oku kuhamba ixesha elide ukunqanda iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu.
Into yokugqibela oyifunayo kukushiya inkqubela yabo rhoqo kangangokuba baziva bengafuni ukuzama kwakhona.
Kwaye ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba uyaswela ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye awubaniki indawo abayifunayo, unokufumana lo mnyango uvaliwe ngokusisigxina.
Unxibelelwano kunye nokulingana kubalulekile, apha.
Kwilizwe elifanelekileyo, abantu abalulwimi lwabo luthando lokuthinta ngokwasemzimbeni baya kudibana nomnye umntu othetha olo lwimi kuqala kwaye okuphambili, kuba akusayi kubakho kunqongophala kokungqubana kunye nokuxinana kubudlelwane babo.
Ukuba olu luhlobo lokudibanisa ohlangabezana nalo, ke loo nto iyamangalisa! Akuyi kubakho ukunqongophala kwe-snuggles kunye nokudibana, kwaye nobabini niya kuziva niqinisekiswa kukuthandana omnye nomnye.
Njengenqaku elongezelelekileyo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba utsala kude nothando lomlingane wakho ngenxa yezinto ezibuhlungu okhe wahlangabezana nazo kwixa elidlulileyo, nceda uzame ukuthetha nabo malunga nazo… ngakumbi ukuba sisihloko ongakhange ubhence nabo .
Ukuba bayayiqonda into yokuba ukuthululwa kwabo ngothando kuyakubangela ngenxa yeentlungu zangaphambili kunye nokwenzakala, baya kuba mancinci amathuba okuba bakuthathe njengokwaliwa buqu.
Baya kuba nokuqonda okukhulu apho uvela khona, kwaye unako ukulungelelanisa kwaye uqhubele phambili xa uziva ukhululekile ukwenza njalo-ngaphandle kokuziva unyanzelekile okanye unyanzelekile, onokukwenza uvale kwaye ubuyele.
Khumbula ukuba xa bevula iingalo zabo kuwe, isimemo, hayi ibango.
Iindlela zoThintelo loMzimba woKwenza nzulu kunxibelelwano
Abantu abaluxabisileyo uthando lomzimba baya kuhlala bonwabela nolunye ulonwabo lomzimba ngokunjalo.
Asithethi nje ngesondo apha, nokuba. Iibhafu ezinde, ukutya okumnandi… yonke into ejikeleze ulonwabo lweemvakalelo iya kuba yinto ephambili.
Ngenxa yoko, zininzi iindlela onokwenza nzulu ukunxibelelana kwakho kunye nabanye.
Nangona inokuba sisondele kakhulu, i-massage ayidingi ukuba yesondo ngokwendalo.
Cingisisa ukubekela bucala 'usuku lwe-spa' kunye, apho nilala khona ngengubo, nitshintshana ngemithambo yomzimba, kwaye nizonwabele ngewayini okanye nge-cider.
Ngenye indlela, ungadlala umdlalo apho ninokutyana khona xa nivale amehlo, okanye nitye kunye ebumnyameni.
Iziphumo zinokuba zihlekisayo, kwaye kungcono ukhethe ukutya kweminwe okungazukuchitheka kuyo yonke indawo, kodwa uqinisekile ukuba unetoni yolonwabo kuyo yonke le nkqubo.
Izimvo zesipho, kunye neengcinga malunga noQhagamshelo lomzimba ngokunyanisekileyo
Ukuchukumisa kunokuba yiplatonic okanye yenyama, ke ukuba ujonge izimvo zesipho ukubhiyozela uthando lomzimba, unokhetho oluninzi onokukhetha kulo.
Ukuba nobabini nizimisele ukuba niyakonwabela ukunika kunye nokufumana umyalezo komnye nomnye, qokelela ingqokelela yeoyile yokuthanjiswa kunye neebhutter ngeevumba ezahlukeneyo.
Zama i-lavender ukukunceda uphumle ngaphambi kokuba ulale, okanye i-sandalwood ukuba ujonge enye into ngakumbi.
Ngenye indlela, ukuba ubuntu bakho buceke ngakumbi kwaye budlala, ungenza uphando olukhawulezileyo kwi-Etsy ye “mittens ezimbalwa”, ezikuvumela ukuba unxibelelane nolusu nolusu ngaphandle ngaphandle kokufumana iqabaka.
Okanye uthenge umdlalo weTwister kwaye ube nexesha elimnandi lokudlala kunye.
Nazi ezininzi iindlela zokuba sisondelelene ngakumbi emzimbeni, ngaphandle kokuya kwisini sokwenyani.
Ngapha koko, ukuchukumisa kungobuqu kangangokuba kufuneka sithathe imida kunye nemvume ukuba siyithathele ingqalelo.
Into umntu anokuyithatha njengendalo kunye nothando inokuba yinto eyoyikisayo okanye engathandekiyo komnye. Kwaye oku kungatshintsha ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolandelayo!
Kulungile ukuba uchaze ukuba awufuni ukuthintwa ngokwasemzimbeni nangasiphi na isizathu, kanye njengokuba kufanelekile ukuba iqabane lakho likuchazele loo nto.
Ngokubanzi kwilizwe laseNtshona, ukubamba ngokwasemzimbeni kuxhatshazelwe kakhulu.
Abantu bafundiswa kwangethuba ukuba uthando lomzimba luyinto engekhoyo: abanye abantwana abasaqalayo baya thintelwa nokuba babambane izandla kuba ootitshala nabazali bakuthatha oko njengokuziphatha okungalunganga.
iingcaphuno zempambano ziyandiphambanisa
Okwangoku, kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi, kuqhelekile ukuba abahlobo abadala bayo nayiphi na indoda kunye nabafazi bahambe ngengalo okanye ukubambana ngesandla, kunye nokugonana ngokusondelelana ngexesha leencoko ezingaqhelekanga.
Njengoko unokuthelekelela, olu lwimi luthando lunzima ngakumbi ukuluhamba kunabanye.
Kunzima ukufumana ukuba ummandla ophakathi wobugqi phakathi kwanele kunye nokuninzi, kufanelekile nokungafanelekanga, wamkelekile kwaye ungamkelekanga.
Ngapha koko, abantu abaninzi bayaluphepha uthando lomzimba ngokukodwa kuba sifundisiwe ukuba ayifanelekanga kwaye ayifuneki.
Kubantu abalulwimi lwabo luthando oluphambili kukuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni, ukuma kwabo abakufumana kubahlobo, kumalungu osapho, nakumaqabane kunokuba nzima.
Cinga olona lwimi lwakho luthando, kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuziva ngayo ukuba amaxesha anqabileyo owafumana uthando kulwimi lwakho, iinzame zazizezona zilungileyo.
Endaweni yeleta ende evela kwintanda yakho, ufumane inqaku elincangathi. Endaweni yexesha elisemgangathweni olichithe kunye, kuya kufuneka uxhonywe kunye nabo imizuzu emibini, kodwa bebekwifowuni yabo ngalo lonke ixesha. Umhla wokuzalwa? Ewe, nali ikhadi lesipho.
Oko kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu, akunjalo?
Ukuba wena kunye / okanye iqabane lakho liyaphumelela ekuthinteni ngokwasemzimbeni, nceda uqiniseke ukuba unikezela ngalo lonke ixesha unakho, kwaye uzame ukufumana / ukuphindaphinda ngobabalo nangomdla.
Nxibelelana omnye nomnye ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zokuchukumisa ezisebenza kakuhle kuwe, ezingezizo, kunye nendlela onqwenela ngayo ukunika / ukufumana uthando lomzimba.
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