Sisoloko sisiva amagama athi 'ixesha elisemgangathweni,' kodwa lithetha ntoni eli binzana?
Ingaphezulu nje kokubhaliweyo, kwaye ichaza ixesha elichithwe kunye ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
Abanye abantu banokuziva ukuba ukuxhoma kunye kwanele, kodwa ukuba nobabini kwiifowuni zakho endaweni yokujongana ngokupheleleyo, ke elo ayiloxesha lomgangatho- kukuhlala kwindawo enye.
Kwaye oko akuyi kuyinqumla.
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho niqaphele ukuba ixesha elisemgangathweni liza phezulu kwelinye (okanye zombini) lakho Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando uluhlu, ke kulungile!
Kukho iitoni zezinto eninokuzenza kunye kunye ukomeleza kunye nokubhiyozela ubudlelwane bakho.
Ithetha Ntoni Ukuba uLwimi loMgangatho liXesha loMgangatho?
Ngokusisiseko, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomntu omthandayo.
Mhlawumbi uyakonwabela ukwenza iiprojekthi kunye, okanye uthanda ukuchitha ixesha langokuhlwa ubukele iinkqubo ezonyanyekayo zeTV ukuzama ukuqikelela ukuba loluphi uloliwe oluza kuqhuma kuqala.
Nokuba yeyiphi na into eniyenzayo nobabini niyenza kunye, niyayidinga ukuba inikezelwe kwaye inyaniseke. Oku kuthetha iincoko zokwenyani, kunye namava abandakanyekayo.
Ukuba ungaphandle, unokuyonwabela intaba okanye ukuhamba ngephenyane kunye, okanye nokufunela amakhowa amnandi.
Iihambo zokumisa iinkampu ngeempelaveki zinokuba phezulu kuluhlu lwezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, njengoko ufumana ixesha elingenakuphazanyiswa kunye apho ungosa khona i-marshmallows kwaye wenze amagama amatsha kunye namabali malunga neenkwenkwezi ezingentla.
Xa ungafumani kufanelekile, uzibandakanya wedwa ixesha kunye nesithandwa sakho, unokuziva ungakhathalelwanga kwaye ungathandwa.
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Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba abafaki ixesha kunye nomzamo wokukubonisa ukuba ungoyena uphambili kubo, uya kuziva ukuba awungoyena uphambili konke konke.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ixesha olichithe neqabane lakho liphumela ekubeni baphazamiseke okanye babandakanyeke kwenye into, thetha nabo malunga nayo.
Iqabane lakho lisenokungathethi ulwimi olufanayo lothando njengokuba usenza, kwaye ngekhe kwenzeke kubo ukuba ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuzibandakanya kukwenzakalisa.
Hayi, ukuba abenzanga Imibuzo yeelwimi zothando okwangoku, yinto onokuyenza ngayo.
Layisha imibuzo uze ubabuze imibuzo, uze uthelekise amanqaku!
Uya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nenkqubo, kwaye ube nombono ongcono wokubonisa uthando lwakho omnye komnye ngokufanelekileyo.
Uluchaza njani ukhathalelo ukuba ngaba olu luLwimi lweQabane lakho loLwimi
Ngamagama alula, nyaniseka kwaye wenze ngabom ngexesha olichitha nabo.
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Ungaqala ngokubeka bucala ibhloko yexesha kubo, njengobusuku bomhla, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ubambe ukuzibophelela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ubomi buyenzeka kwaye kungafuneka urhoxe ngoku, kodwa ukwenza umkhwa wokungafumaneki kubo xa uthe uza kuchitha ixesha kunye kuya kubenza bazive ngathi abayonto iphambili ebomini bakho.
Thetha nomlingane wakho nifumanise ukuba leliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokudibana kunye, kwaye nicoce ishedyuli yenu iiyure ezimbalwa.
Sukujonga ifowuni yakho ungavumeli naziphi na ezinye iziphazamiso ukuba zingene. Eli xesha lelakho nobabini, kwaye kunjalo.
Amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba ucwangcisa izinto ezintle ukuba nobabini nizenze kunye, nokuba zizodwa, okanye ngoncedo lwabo.
Into ephambili apha kukuqinisekisa ukuba ulibekela bucala eli xesha nobabini, kwaye ninamathele kwizicwangciso zenu.
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngaphambili, eyona ndlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba uya kwenzakalisa lowo umthandayo kukubenza bazive ngathi bathathelwa ingqalelo.
Ukuba wenza umkhwa wokwaphula izicwangciso kunye nabo kuba kuye kwafika into ebaluleke ngakumbi, okanye ulibale, okanye walala, baya kugqibela beziva ngathi yifenitshala nje. Njengokuba azikho ngaphandle kokuba zilungele wena ... kwaye yimvakalelo embi leyo.
Imizekelo yeXesha loMgangatho
Malunga nayo nayiphi na into enokuthi iwele phantsi kwebhanile “yexesha elisemgangathweni”: yintoni eyenza ukuba ikhetheke kukuba nobabini niyazenza ezi zinto kunye.
Khumbula ukuba yinjongo emva kwesenzo, hayi isenzo ngokwaso.
Kuba ukuchitha ixesha kunye kungathatha iifom ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, hlala phantsi nicinge ngezinto ezonwabisayo, ezinomdla nezinika umdla eninokuzenza kunye.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, sonke sinomdla ngamnye, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo kukho crossover, akunjalo?
Nazi iimbono ezimbalwa ezinokukwenza ukuba ibhola iqengqele:
Fundani ulwimi olutsha kunye. Oku kunokuba kokonwaba nje, okanye ukulungiselela uhambo oluceba ukuthatha kungekudala.
Ayisiyi kuba yindlela elungileyo kuphela yokuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye, uya kufunda ulwimi ngokukhawuleza ngokuziqhelanisa kunye.
Qalisa iprojekthi yoyilo. Ngaba ikhona into okhe wafuna ukuyakha, kodwa ukhe ube mathidala ukuqala, okanye ufuna iseti eyongezelelweyo yezandla ukuyenza? Ewe, akukho xesha linje ngoku!
Tyala igadi, wakhe indawo yokugcina iincwadi, sebenza kwiphazili yama-10,000. Nokuba yeyiphi na into oyithandayo, dibanisa ixesha lokuba usebenze kuyo ubuncinci kabini ngeveki, kwaye ungene ngaphakathi!
Pheka kunye. Nokuba omnye wenu angatshisa amanzi kwaye akakwazi ukuxelela u-garam masala kubaqhekezi be-graham, kulungile ukupheka nokudlala kunye ekhitshini.
Ukuba akukho namnye kuni onokupheka, le yindlela entle yokufunda! Ungaqala ngokufumana iibhokisi zokulungiselela ukutya eziziswe kwindawo yakho: zifuna ubushushu kunye nendibano, ke uya kufunda izakhono ezitsha kwaye ufumane ukutya okumnandi. Yimpumelelo leyo!
Thatha uhambo lwendlela encinci. Ungeke ube neendlela (okanye ixesha lokuphuma emsebenzini) ukuhamba amawaka eekhilomitha kunye, kodwa ungathatha uhambo lwempelaveki kwenye indawo eyoyikekayo.
Khetha indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ekuye iiyure ezimbalwa okanye uhambo lwemini, pakisha amashwamshwam kunye neengoma ezimnandi, kwaye uhambe.
wazi njani ukuba uyakuthanda
Amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba ukhetha kwindawo ethile engenangqondo, njengomfanekiso wetheniphu enkulu ehlabathini, okanye imyuziyam yelifa eligcwele iimilo eziqinileyo.
Qiniseka ukuba uthabathe iqhekeza leememorabilia ngelixa ulapho, kuba kuya kufuneka ukhunjuzwe ngokomzimba ngolu krwitshwa luyolo.
Izimvo ezininzi zinokufumaneka kwinqaku lethu: Izinto ezili-100 zokuzonwabisa ezenziwa ngabantu abatshatileyo ukuba bazenze kunye: Uluhlu lokugqibela!
Zama ukuthetha ngeemfuno zakho
Unxibelelwano yenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano.
Ukuba uziva ngathi ixesha olichitha neqabane lakho alizalisekisi kuwe, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba abekho ngokupheleleyo, okanye anizenzi izinto kunye enizonwabelayo nobabini, ke ngumbono olungileyo ukuthetha ngazo lonto.
Unokubazisa ukuba uziva njani, kwaye ubuze igalelo labo malunga nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo malunga nemeko leyo.
Inokuba yinto elula njengoko umdla wabo uphumile kwelinye icala kwaye banokukhetha ukwenza enye into kunye, kodwa abafuni ukukuyeka.
Abantu (kunye nabantu abatshatileyo) banokuhlala behleli ngeendlela zabo, kwaye ukuba umdla omnye kwiqabane uyatshintsha, kunokwenzeka ukuba unqamle.
Umzekelo, ukuba isibini siye sahlala ekhaya kakhulu kwaye sihleli, kwaye elinye iqabane ligqiba kwelokuba libaleke kodwa elinye alinamdla, elinokunciphisa ixesha lomgangatho kunye.
Kwimeko enje, nobabini ninokufumana umhlaba ophakathi owonwabileyo kunye nemisebenzi enokonwabela nobabini.
Ukuba ngabo abenza ukubaleka kwaye awungeni kuyo, mhlawumbi ungahamba okanye ukhwele ibhayisekile endaweni yoko. Ngale ndlela, kusekho ukusebenza komzimba, kodwa kungabi nzulu.
Kwaye emva koko, ukuba uziva ukhululekile ekhaya, unokufumana into entsha onokuyenza ngaphakathi endlini kunye. Njengenye yeeprojekthi ezidibeneyo okanye izinto ezikhankanyiweyo ngasentla.
Hayi, ungazama into edibanisa zombini, njengomdlalo weWii: ngaloo ndlela niyasebenza, kodwa kwintuthuzelo yekhaya lakho.
Kuyaphumelela! Ixesha lomgangatho ligcinwa, ngelixa liqinisekisa ukuba omabini amaqabane aziva ezalisekisiwe.
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Iindlela zoMgangatho weXesha labathandi bokuQinisa iiNxibelelwano
Beka phantsi ifowuni yakho. Ngokukrakra, qala ngaloo nto.
Uninzi lwethu lubotshelelwe kwizixhobo zethu, ezibeka isikhubekiso esikhulu kubudlelwane bethu nabanye.
Ngaphandle kokuba ujonge ifowuni yakho yonke imizuzu embalwa kuba ilungu losapho lisesibhedlele kwaye ulinde uhlaziyo, akukho nto ayinakulinda iiyure ezimbalwa.
Nokuba nenza ubusuku obukhethekileyo bosuku lomdlalo bhanyabhanya neqabane lakho, okanye niphume ngebrunch kunye, sukujonga kwifowuni yakho.
Ngapha koko, ukuba kunokwenzeka, yicime, okanye ungabinayo naphi na kufutshane nawe.
Nijonge ukuchitha ixesha kunye ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, kwaye uhlala ujonga imiyalezo, ii-imeyile, kunye nohlaziyo lwe-Twitter ayisiyondlela yokwenza oko.
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Kuba ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye linokubandakanya izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, ubutyebi obuninzi obunokubakho xa kuziwa kwizimvo zesipho.
Qalani ngokuhlala phantsi kunye kwaye nenze uluhlu lwazo zonke izinto enithanda ukuzenza kunye, kwaye nizilinganise kwisikali ukusuka 'kumnandi kakhulu' kuye 'meh'.
Oko kuya kukunika indawo enkulu yokutsiba kwizipho, iiprojekthi, njl.
Ubulungu beMyuziyam Ukuba nobabini niyayithanda imbali nenkcubeko, cingani ngokufumana ubulungu kwimyuziyam eniyonwabeleyo nobabini.
Uya kufumana izimemo kwiminyhadala ekhethekileyo kunye nemiboniso ekhethekileyo, kwaye kuhlala kukho iiyure kuphela zamalungu ukuze ukonwabele indawo ngaphandle kokuxinaniswa yimikhosi yabanye abatyeleli.
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Ngaba phoebe wayekhulelwe ngokwenene kubahlobo
Oku kufanelekile kubusuku bomhla, njengoko ungathethi ngebhokisi ndawonye kunye no-ooh no-ahh ngaphezulu kwe-bevvies kunye nokutya ngaphakathi.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uyonwabele ngokwenene, unokugqibela ngokuthatha ikhosi ye-sommelier kunye. Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, uya kuqala isidiliya sakho.
Imidlalo yebhodi: Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuyitshizi, kodwa umhlaba wethu uye waba bubuchwephesha kunye nedijithali kangangokuba ukonwaba nge-analog kunye neminye imidlalo yebhodi kunokuba yinto emnandi.
Ukuqokelela ezimbalwa ezahlukileyo, kwaye utshintshe phakathi kwazo ukugcina izinto zinomdla. Ezinye zeediliya ziyonwabisa ngakumbi, kwaye kukho amakhulu (ukuba awangamawaka) onokukhetha kuwo.
Ixesha lomgangatho kunye lidla ngokukhethekileyo, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba sizinikele ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
Sikhetha abalingani bethu ngenxa yokuba bangoobani, kwaye sibathanda kangakanani, kwaye ngekhe sazi ukuba lingakanani ixesha esinalo kunye.
Esi sesinye sezizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabo sibathandayo libaluleke kangaka.
Ngexesha elizayo xa ufumanisa ukuba uyaphazamiseka xa kufanele ukuba uchitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho, zibuze ukuba ngaba oko kuphazamiseka kufanelekile ukwahlula okanye ukucaphukisa lowo umthandayo.
Ngokufanayo, ukuba iqabane lakho ngulo uphazamisekileyo endaweni yokuba abekho nawe, babuze loo mbuzo, kodwa ngobumnene.
Hayi ngomsindo okanye ngenkohlakalo. Kodwa nje ukubuyisela ukuqonda kwabo apha, kwaye ngoku, nawe.
Ngoyena mntu ubalulekileyo emhlabeni wakho, njengokuba ukuye.
Ke sonke masinike abo sibathandayo inkathalo nengqwalaselo ebafaneleyo. Baqinisekile ukubuyisela kwakhona, kwaye sonke siyalixabisa ixesha esinalo kunye.
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