Ubukhe wathandana, kwaye awunakuphinda uyithathe.
Ugqibe kwelokuba lixesha lokuba umcimbi ufeze.
Kodwa uzingenise nzulu kangangokuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uphuma njani kwakhona.
Imicimbi inokuba yimincili, kwaye nangona ukukopela kungeyiyo indlela, kusenokubakho zonke iintlobo zeemeko ezinokubangela ukuba uqale ubone omnye umntu.
Kodwa imicimbi iyakudinisa, ifuna ixesha, ifuna, uxinzelelo, ikwenza uzive unetyala, kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, iya kubangela intlungu kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo.
Injalo imeko nokuba awuwelanga umntu obukhe wambona ngaphandle kobudlelwane bakho ngokwasemtshatweni, okanye bekuhlala ngakumbi malunga nesini kunye neqhinga.
Abantu bahlala bezibandakanya kwimicimbi ngaphandle kokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo sokwenza njalo okanye bengakuqondi ncam okwenzekayo.
Abacwangcisi ukukopa bafumanisa ukuba bayayenza.
Kwaye xa kufikwa esiphelweni, abazi nokuba mabaqale ngaphi.
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba umcimbi wakho kufuneka uyeke, kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba uzikhupha njani kuwo, ke la manyathelo kufuneka ancede.
Ewe kunjalo, akukho sisombululo sisinye, njengoko lonke ulwalamano luhlukile. Kodwa eli nqaku kufuneka okungenani linike isikhokelo malunga nendlela onokuthi uqhubeke ngayo nokuphelisa umcimbi wakho.
Thatha la manyathelo njengesikhokelo esivulekileyo sokukunceda uthi ndlela-ntle kulo mntu.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe kubelula, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha uyazi ukuba yeyona ilungele wonke umntu.
Inyathelo lokuqala: lungelelanisa imeko yakho yengqondo.
Ukuba uphele kulo mcimbi ngaphandle kwesigqibo sakho esingcono, unokuziva ungenamandla okulawula imeko.
Ukuba unyanisekile, ubunethemba nje ngokuchasene nethemba lokuba liza kuzihlengahlengisa okanye limke.
Oku kuqheleke kakhulu kubantu abanemicimbi. Babeka nje iintloko zabo entlabathini kwaye banethemba kwaye bathandazela okona kulungileyo.
Bazifumana sele becamngca ngento engaphaya kolawulo lwabo eyenzekayo ukumisela ukuba ikamva liza kuba njani-nokuba yinto ephawuleka njengengozi okanye iqabane labo elibabambayo.
Ke, inyathelo lokuqala kukuba lawula iingcinga zakho kunye nekamva lakho.
Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo esiqinileyo sokubuyisa ulawulo lobomi bakho kwaye uthi ndlela-ntle kwisithandwa sakho.
Kunokuba lula kakhulu ukwenza isigqibo esifana nesi ngobunye ubusuku, kwaye uvuke kusasa ngengomso emva kokuba uphinde wacinga kwakhona.
Ke, ukuba ufuna ngenene oku ukuba kwenzeke, fumana indlela yokubonisa isigqibo sakho sokugqibela.
Ukuba unaye nabani na omthembileyo ebomini bakho owaziyo malunga nokuthandana, baxelele ukuba uza kuphelisa izinto ukuze bakwazi ukukuxhasa, kwaye bakubambise uxanduva ukuba awusenzi isigqibo sakho kwangoko kunangoku .
Inyathelo lesibini: yazisa isithandwa sakho ukuba kuphelile.
Le ayizukuba yinto elula ukuyenza, ke kuya kufuneka ulume imbumbulu kwaye uyenze ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuyibeka kude kuya kuyenza nzima ngakumbi.
Unokulingwa ukuba uhlale ulibazisa ukuba isithandwa sakho sihamba ngexesha elinzima okanye usuku lwabo lokuzalwa luza, okanye enye into, kodwa utsalela nje iintlungu kuni nobabini.
Isithandwa sakho sifanelwe yintlonipho naso, ke ukuba uyanyamezela, kuhlala kungcono ukwenza ezi zinto ubuso ngobuso.
Kodwa ukuba ucinga ukuba isisombululo sakho siza kutshintsha xa ubabona buqu, umnxeba, i-imeyile, okanye ileta ihlala ikhetho.
Kungabonakala ngathi kulunge kubo ukuvakalisa ukuzisola kwaye ubaxelele ukuba uyabathanda, nangona uthathe isigqibo sokuba izinto azisoze zisebenze phakathi kwakho, kodwa enyanisweni wenza kubenzima kubo ukwamkela.
Sele besazi isizathu sokuba uphelise izinto kunye nabo-ubudlelwane bakho okanye umtshato.
Ke, akukho mfuneko yokuba ungene kwinkcazo ende ukuba ubucinga ntoni kwaye uziva njani.
Bazise ukuba kugqityiwe, ukuba uyazisola, ubanqwenelela okuhle, kwaye nobabini ngekhe nikwazi ukuqhubeka nidibana.
Into ekungadityanwa nayo isisitshixo.
Lo ngu-ex omnye ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe ukwazi hlala ungumhlobo . Ayinakulunga kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo ukuba uqhubeke uthetha nabo.
Kuya kufuneka uphume uphume.
uyeke njani ukuba nenkani kubudlelwane
Cima inani labo, ungabinabahlobo kubo kuFacebook, tshintsha indlela yakho yokusebenza.
Kwiimeko ezinzima, kusenokufuneka uhambise indlu. Yenza nantoni na eyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba awuyi kulingeka ukuba uthethe nabo okanye ungqubeke kubo.
Inyathelo lesithathu: yiza kunye neqabane lakho.
Kukho enye incoko engathandekiyo oyigcinileyo, kwaye ikunye neqabane lakho, othembele kuye ngokungcatsha ngomcimbi wakho.
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwenza ubudlelwane busebenze nabo, emva koko ke kufuneka ucocekile malunga nokuqhubekayo.
Cinga ngendlela onokuziva ngayo ukuba banokufumanisa komnye umntu okanye inyani iphume iinyanga okanye iminyaka emgceni.
Umcimbi ngokwawo uya kuba nzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba iqabane lakho live ngalo, kodwa ukwazi ukuba ubugcinele ixesha elide kunokuba ngumququ ophula umqolo weenkamela.
Amathuba uziva unetyala kakhulu, kwaye oko kuyakufika phakathi kwakho. Iya kudla iziseko zobudlelwane bakho kwaye ibangele iingxaki phakathi kwakho.
Ngenye imini, ukuba netyala kunokuba yinto eninzi kakhulu kuwe, kwaye iqabane lakho liya kwenzakala ngakumbi ukuba lifumanisa ukuba uligcinile kubo ixesha elide.
Mhlawumbi unengcamango enhle ukuba iqabane lakho liza kusabela njani kwezi ndaba. Kukhuselekile ukutsho ukuba abayi kuvuya ngayo.
Kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba ngelixesha unokukwazi ukusebenza ngale nto, inokuthi ichaze ukuphela kobudlelwane bakho.
Basenokungakwazi ukuxolela ukungcatshwa ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni, kodwa luphawu lwentlonipho onayo kubo ukubavumela bathathe isigqibo malunga noku, kunokuba ubagcine kubo kwaye ubakhanyele ukuba bathini malunga nobudlelwane bakho.
Inyathelo lesine: jonga kwikamva.
Ukuba uzibophelele ngokwenyani ekwenzeni obu budlelwane busebenze, ke unemisebenzi enzima phambi kwakho.
Ukuthandana kuhlala kunjalo, kodwa akusoloko kunjalo, uphawu lokuba into ayilunganga ncam kubudlelwane bakho okanye umtshato wakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, usenokuba uthandane nomlingane wakho, kodwa ubuya kulwamkela olo thando ngenxa yento ebomini bakho engalunganga.
Isenokuba iphantsi kwemicimbi yobuqu, njengokungazithembi okanye isidingo sokuqinisekiswa, okanye imiba yobudlelwane, njengokunqongophala kobudlelwane obusenyameni okanye inkxaso yeemvakalelo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba yimpazamo nakubani na.
Awunakugxeka iqabane lakho ngokukuqhubela kwimicimbi yothando, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba kukho imingxunya kulwalamano lwakho efuna ukulungiswa.
Cinga malunga nalapho ikhoyo imiba, emva koko ujonge ukuba ungenza ntoni ukuyilungisa.
Umcebisi kwezobuhlobo uya kuba yinto enengqondo yokwenza ukuba uqonde okwenzekileyo, ukulungisa umonakalo, kunye nokuqhubela phambili njengeqela.
Sincoma kakhulu-inkonzo ekwi-Intanethi apho izibini zinokufumana iingcebiso ezenzelwe bona zokuphilisa ubudlelwane babo okanye umtshato ngencoko kunye nevidiyo.
Izinto zisenokungaze zibuyele ekubeni zazinjani ngaphambi komcimbi, kodwa ukuba ukulungele ukubeka umsebenzi, banokuphela bengcono.
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