Ukuba ungumntu waseCassandra wale mihla oxelwa kwangaphambili ngekamva elihlala liphuma lichanekile, amathuba okuba ungaphaya kokuqonda okuqinisekileyo. Unokuba namandla angaqhelekanga okufumana abahlobo abalungileyo (kwaye uphephe ukubakho ezikhupha amanzi ), kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uye wakwazi 'ukuqikelela' ngokuchanekileyo isini sabantwana babahlobo bakho abangakazalwa amatyeli aliqela.
Ezi zinto zokuba zinomdla zinokulunga kwaye zilungile, kodwa kukho ukwehla kuwo onke amandla, akunjalo? Nokuba kungenxa yokuba unemvakalelo eyoyikisayo yokuba kukho into eyoyikekayo eyenzekayo kumntu omkhathaleleyo, okanye ukuba uyazi ukuba uya kugxothwa kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba uye emsebenzini ngaloo mini, umbono ococekileyo we-intuition unokwenza imeko yoxinzelelo imbi kakhulu. Ukwazi into embi kwangaphambili kwaye kufuneka ulinde ide idlale kubangela ukuba nexhala, kwaye ayinakukhutshwa nje ngokuba nengcinga egqithisileyo.
Nokuba ungoyena unomdla okanye ungabahlobo abasenyongweni kunye, kunokwenzeka ukuba wena (okanye bona) ukhe waqubisana nobuncinci obu bunzima kwezi zihlandlo.
1. Intuitives Yazi Xa Abantu Baxoka Kubo
Uninzi lwabantu luya kuthi ngamanye amaxesha lube nolwazi lokuba kukho umntu oxokayo kubo , kodwa abantu abanomdla baya kuyazi inyani xa isenzeka. Oku kunzima ngokwaneleyo xa iye iqabane okanye umzali oxokayo, kuba oko kunokubangela ububi Imiba yokuthemba kumanqanaba amaninzi, kodwa kunokuba nzima ngakumbi xa ixoki lisendaweni yegunya.
Xa usazi ukuba umphathi wakho uxokile ebusweni bakho, ngekhe ubabize kakuhle ngenxa yokuba unokugxotha iesile lakho. Ukujongana noprofesa malunga nokuxoka kunokubangela ukuba udidi lungaphumeleli, kwaye ngekhe singene nakwinto enokwenzeka ukuba umntu olixoki ngumntu othotyelwa ngumthetho.
Ukuya kude kubenomdla, ukungazi kakuhle kunokuba lolonwabo.
2. Amaphupha ahlala ezaliseka ngokwenyani
Ukuba wakha waphupha into eyaphela izaliseka, kungenzeka ukuba ikukhuphele ngaphandle kancinci, ngaphandle kwento epholileyo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba kusenzeka ngalo lonke ixesha, ukusuka ekuphupheni ngokuchitha ikofu yakho kwindawo yokutya oyityelelayo rhoqo ukuya kwimibono yokufa kwabantu. Inokuba yimibala emininzi enzima kwaye yoyikisayo, kwaye inokubangela uxinzelelo oluninzi xa kufikwa ekulaleni ngokunesidima.
andinakuze ndenze nantoni na elungileyo
Ezinye i-intuitives zenza inqaku lokuthatha iipilisi zokulala okanye ezinye iziyobisi ukuzama ukulala ungaphuphi, kuba kungadinisa ukuzibuza rhoqo ukuba amaphupha abebenawo yimifanekiso nje engaqhelekanga, okanye imiboniso yentshabalalo esondeleyo.
Uyabona, xa amaphupha akho ezaliseka rhoqo, imifanekiso enokuthi ibhululwe njengeengcinga ezingenangqondo ngumntu oqhelekileyo kunokuba sisizathu sokwenene sokukhathazeka.
Umyeni wam undiqumbele ngalo lonke ixesha
Banokuba luncedo ngokunjalo, ngakumbi ukuba abanye baya kukumamela ukuba / xa ubachazela ngezinto ezibaxhalabisayo, kodwa uninzi lwabantu luya kuhlekisa ngemibono yexesha lamaphupha njengelokuhlekisa, okanye lungaqiniswa xa luzaliseka. Kananjalo, umntu ophuphayo uhlala enyanzelekile ukuba akhethe phakathi koloyiko lwabantu 'nobungqindilili' babo, okanye athule athwale yedwa loo mthwalo.
3. Intuition, nangona inamandla, kodwa ayixabiswanga
Ungaqinisekisa njani umphathi okanye iqabane lakho ukuba isigqibo esithile okanye ulwalathiso loluchanekileyo lokukhetha kuba 'uziva' kulungile? Kwilizwe elixabisa ingcaciso esengqiqweni, esekwe kwinyani, ukuba noluvo oluphucukileyo lwengqondo rhoqo kuhlala kuyisifo kunokuba kube yintsikelelo.
Isikhokelo esinobuchule asiphathi iigravitas ezenziwa yingcinga eqiqayo, kwaye itolikwa njengokuchema nokungakhathali endaweni yenkqubo enokubakho. Nokuba uyazi (ngokuqinisekileyo yazi ) ukuba isigqibo silungile, ukungabikho kwezixhobo ezixhasayo kunye nobungqina kunokuhlala kunika iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokuqonda kungasebenzi.
… Owu, kwaye kamva, uthi 'Ndinixelele njalo' yenza Nina ijerk.
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4. Abakwazi Ukukhohlisa Inzondelelo Xa Bayazi Into Engazukusebenza
Ngaba wakha waba namathumbu uziva ukuba into ayizukusebenza ngendlela owawunethemba lokuba iyakwenzeka, kodwa wothuka kamnandi xa isenzeka? Ewe, abantu abanomdla badla ngokuba nolwazi oluchanekileyo xa kukho into eza kuya esihogweni, kwaye kunqabile ukuba imeko yokungabi nathemba.
Kunzima ngenene, ukuba akunakwenzeka ngokupheleleyo, ukubonisa umdla kwi-intanethi okanye ngomhla owaziyo ngayo ukuba akukho nto iya kuqhubeka, kwaye omnye umntu uhamba nje.
5. Ukuba Hyper-Aware Kuyangaphezulu
Ukuqaqanjiswa kobungakanani be-crap eyenzekayo macala onke kunokubeka umntu onomdla kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo. Amathuba kukuba, ngaxa lithile ebomini bakho, ubukwivenkile yesebe okanye i-Best Buy okanye enye into kwaye wabona udonga olukhulu lweTV, zonke zikhwaza iinkqubo ezahlukeneyo. Khawufane ucinge ngokufumana loo nto mihla le, ngaphandle nje kokubona imifanekiso, uziva iingcinga neemvakalelo zabanye abantu, kwaye ucofe amandla okulunga kwaye kungalunganga kubo bonke ubomi babo.
Abantu abanomdla kakhulu bathambekele kuxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, kunye nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi , kwaye uninzi luye luvale iimvakalelo zalo luze lurhoxe ngaphakathi luzama ukuthintela uhlaselo lwegalelo loluvo oluza kubo macala onke.
6. Ukuzicingela okwesibini
Sonke sikulungele ukukholelwa ukuba ingcinga esengqiqweni kuphela komthombo weempendulo kunye nesenzo, ukuba abantu abanomdla bahlala beqikelela xa kusenziwa isigqibo. Kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukuhamba kumhlaba ophakathi phakathi 'kokwazi' ukuba ulwalathiso lulungile ukukhetha, kwaye uziva isidingo sokucacisa loo nto ngengcaciso esengqiqweni.
Ngaba uke wazibona iikhosi malunga 'nokuthemba isikhokelo sakho esinomdla' kwiikholeji nakwiiyunivesithi? Kuthekani 'ngokucinga nzulu'? Nako usiya.
7. Abanye abantu banokuba ziiLeeches
Uninzi lwabantu abanomdla kakhulu lunovelwano kakhulu kwaye lunemfesane. Ukukwazi ukuthepha amandla kunye neemvakalelo zabanye kuthetha ukuba kuninzi kakhulu indawo yokuqonda kunye nokuvelana neentlungu zabo. Kananjalo, ii-intuitives zihlala zinomnqweno onzulu wokunceda abanye… kwaye oko kunokuba nokuxhamla. Rhoqo.
I-Intuitives kufuneka zifunde ukuzikhathalela ngaphambi kokuba zibakhathalele abanye, kwaye inxenye yoko ibandakanya ukufunda ukuba ubuya nini umva kwabo babasusayo.
Ukuba unomdla kwaye uzithembile, yazi ukuba awuwedwa: baninzi abanye abafana nawe phaya. Kungayinto encinci-ukusonga 'ukuphuma' njengobuchule kuba abantu abaninzi bayabugxotha obu buchule, kodwa ukuba ungasifumana isizwe sakho, uyakuzifumana ujikelezwe ngabanye abaziva kwaye babone izinto ngendlela efanayo naleyo unako.
ngaba ukhona umahluko phakathi kokuthanda umntu nokuthandana
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni okanye amaqabane nomntu onomdla ngokumangalisayo, ungamxhasa ngokukholelwa kubo, kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba bathembele kubuchule babo. Zimbalwa izinto ezithuthuzelayo njengokuba nabo basondeleyo kuthi bekholelwa kuthi, nokuba sinengxaki yokukholelwa kuthi.
