Ngamanye amaxesha unokuba neengcinga ezingafunekiyo ofuna ukuzikhupha ezingqondweni zakho. Zincamathela entlokweni yakho njengoko uzabalaza ukhululeka kwilogu eqhubeka nokubabuyisa.
Ezo ngcinga zinokuvela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo nezingabalulekanga kuphazamiso nokoyikisayo.
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Banokuvela kulindelo, njengoloyiko malunga nodliwanondlebe lomsebenzi oza kuza kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Banokuvela kumava adlulileyo, njengamava abuhlungu.
Abanye abantu basokoliswa kukungena ngaphakathi, ukuhambisa iingcinga ngenxa yokugula ngengqondo okutyhala ezo ngcinga kuthi nasekucingeni kwethu nokuba sizama kangakanani na ukunqanda.
Apho zivela khona ezo ngcinga, kuya kufuneka ube neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucima ingqondo yakho kuzo.
Kuhle ukuba neendlela ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo xa ezi ngcinga zivela. Akunakulindeleka ukuba icebo elinye lisebenze lonke ixesha. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ngekhe ukwazi ukuthatha ingqondo yakho kubo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ukhwele iliza de ligqibe.
Ngoku, masithi ungumntu onesifo sengqondo esijamelana neengcinga ezingalunganga, nezilungisiweyo. Kwimeko apho, ukubheja kwakho okuhle kuya kuba kukuthetha nengcali yezempilo yengqondo eqinisekisiweyo. Oko kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki enkulu ekufuneka ijongiwe kwaye ilawulwe ngoncedo lobuchule.
Kodwa, ukuba ungumntu osokolayo nje ukukhupha ingqondo yakho kwiingcinga ezingafunekiyo, sineziphakamiso ezingamashumi amabini ezinokunceda.
1. Yenza into oyithandayo.
Into oyithandayo kukuphazamisa kakhulu ukukhupha ingqondo yakho kwinto ethile. Khetha umsebenzi ofuna ukuba ugxile kwinto oyenzayo, njengoko usenza. Ngale ndlela, ushiya igumbi elincinci ukuze ingqondo yakho ibhadule kwaye ilungelelanise ezo ngcinga zikhanyayo.
2. Fumana intsini.
Mhlawumbi uqhula ujikeleze nomhlobo, ubukele umdlalo othile wokuma, okanye uthatha nje into ezisa uyolo kuwe.
Ukuhleka kuvelisa uninzi lweekhemikhali eziziva zilungile ezinokunceda ukukhulisa imo yakho kunye nokutshintsha imeko-bume yengqondo yakho ngokubanzi. Ezo mvakalelo zintle zinokunceda ekuvuseleleni ezinye iimvakalelo ezilungileyo, ukuseta ukukhathazeka, ixhala kunye nokungakhathali.
3. Bhala ngako.
Umsebenzi wokubhala okanye wokushicilela unokuba lonyango. Zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba malunga nokubhala ukuze ususe ingqondo yakho kwiingcinga ezingapheliyo. Siphakamisa ukuba uhlale phantsi ngepeni kunye nencwadana yokubhala.
Isenzo sokubhala ngabom, ngokucocekileyo iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho sisenzo somonde kunye nengqondo. Uyacelwa ukuba ube kulo mzuzu ukuzicacisa gca.
Ukuchwetheza kungcono kunanto, kodwa ayisiyiyo njengokubandakanyeka njengokubhala ngokwasemzimbeni.
4. Yenza umsebenzi ophindaphindwayo.
Kukho uhlobo lokucamngca olubandakanya ukuphulukana nokuziphindaphinda, imisebenzi yesiqhelo. Ujolisa ingqondo yakho kwisenzo njengoko usenza ukuze ingqondo yakho icace.
Cinga ngokutyhoboza umgangatho. Ufaka i-mop emanzini, uyihluze, emva koko uyibeke phantsi. Ukubetha ngakunye kwe-mop kucoca umphezulu womgangatho. Ujonge i-mop njengoko uyihambisa ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ufumana i-intshi nganye yomgangatho. Ufuna ukungcola okanye amabala osenokuba uphoswe kukupasa kokuqala.
Olu hlobo lomsebenzi kukukhumbula ukusebenza.
5. Khangela umbulelo.
Umbulelo sisixhobo esinamandla sokulwa neenkqubo zokucinga ezingalunganga. Abantu bahlala bethetha ngokungacacanga malunga namandla ombulelo kwaye butshintshe ubomi babo. Abathethi kangako malunga nendlela esebenza ngayo.
Kuza kuqeqesho lobuchopho bakho ukuze ububone ubunyani ngokwahlukileyo. Xa unombulelo ngezinto onazo, xa iingcinga zakho zigxile kuzo ukuxabisa izinto onazo , ayishiyi sithuba sezinto ongenazo.
Ukwenza oku ukuphindaphinda uqeqesha ingqondo yakho ukuba ijonge ubumnandi, eya kuthi incede ususe ingqondo yakho kwiingcinga ezingalunganga.
6. Thetha ngayo kumhlobo wakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha sidinga ukuhlala phantsi kunye nomhlobo esimthembileyo size sichithe amathumbu ethu malunga nento esikhathazayo. Umhlobo othembekileyo ngexesha losweleyo anganceda ukuhambisa ngaphezulu kwamaxhala, aqondise iingcinga ezingalunganga, kwaye alwe nesizungu esinokuziva ngamanye amaxesha ebomini.
Yama kumhlobo omthembileyo okanye umntu omthandayo ukuba ukhetha njalo. Ukuba akunjalo, unokufuna nokuzama iqela lenkxaso kwi-intanethi apho unokufumana inkxaso ngokukhawuleza. Abanye babhetele kunabanye, nangona kunjalo, ke yiba nemvakalelo yeqela ngaphambi kokuba ungene.
7. Mamela into ekhuthazayo.
Izithethi ezikhuthazayo zikhona phaya zizama ukuba namandla okunyanzelisa kweli hlabathi linzima. Usenokungabi nabadlamli bakho, kodwa kulungile ukumamela amabali avela kubantu abaye boyisa imiceli mngeni esilwa nayo kwaye sizikhumbuze ukuba singoyisa nathi.
Fumana abantu abanemiyalezo ovumelana nayo, ikwenza uzive unethemba kwaye ukhuthazekile, kwaye umamele umsebenzi wabo.
8. Cinga ukucoca ingqondo yakho.
Ingqondo ecacileyo kunye neemvakalelo zenza ukuba ubomi bube lula ngakumbi ekusebenzeni nasekulawuleni. Ukucamngca sisakhono esibalulekileyo esisetyenziswe kumawaka eminyaka ukwamkela iimvakalelo zomntu kwaye uziyeke zibaleke.
Ukufunda indlela yokucamngca kunokukunceda ukuba ulawule ngakumbi iingcinga zakho, zenze ukuba kube lula ukuzilawula ezo ngcinga. Kuthatha ixesha ukufumana okuhle kuyo. Ziqhelise rhoqo.
Zilolonge umzimba.
Ukuzivocavoca kunika uninzi lwezinto ezintle kwimpilo yakho yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ayigcini nje ngokugcina izihlunu zomelele kwaye ikunceda uhlale ulungile, kodwa ikwaququzelela ukuveliswa kweekhemikhali zokuziva zilungile ezinceda ukukhulisa ingqondo yakho.
Ukuzivocavoca kungabandakanywa kwimisebenzi yengqondo ngokugxila kwiingcamango zakho kwizenzo zakho kunye nokunyakaza. Ukuzilolonga okuninzi kufuna ifom elungileyo, ukuze ungazenzakalisi, efuna ukuba kugxilwe.
10. Funda into.
Ngaba ufuna ukususa ingqondo yakho kwinto ethile? Ukufunda yindlela emnandi yokuhlala kwaye uqondise iingcinga zakho nakweyiphi na into oyifundayo.
Sicebisa ukuba singafundi izinto eziphazamisayo okanye zoxinzelelo, ezinje ngeendaba okanye amanqaku amanqaku. Endaweni yoko funda into emnandi okanye eya kukwenza ucinge. Ngale ndlela, ungayenza lula imeko-bume engqondweni yakho kwaye ngethemba lokufumana iingcinga zakho kwindlela eyahlukileyo.
11. Thatha inyathelo lokufikelela usukelo.
Yenza into! Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ikhona into onokuyenza eya kukunceda ukusondeza kufutshane kwinjongo onokuba unayo. Yenza enye yezinto ezincinci ekufuneka zenziwe ukukunceda uye empumelelweni.
Ukuba awunazo naziphi na iinjongo, ngoku kunokuba lixesha lokuhlala phantsi kwaye u-ayine eyona nto ufuna ukuyilandela.
12. Guqula indlela ocinga ngayo.
Zama ukuvuselela iingcinga onazo kwinto eyakhayo. Endaweni yokugxila kwinto enokuthi ihambe gwenxa okanye uloyiko lwakho, jolisa kwinto enokuhamba ngokuchanekileyo.
Zingakunceda njani ezi meko? Zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo ezinokuvela kuko konke oku? Yintoni elungileyo onokuzenzela yona kunye nobomi bakho kuyo yonke le nto?
13. Cwangcisa ixesha lokucinga ngako.
Ngamanye amaxesha sineengcinga ezingafunekiyo kuba asibaniki xesha elifanelekileyo kubo. Banyanzela ukuba bangene ngenxa yokuba bafuna ingqalelo, kodwa sixakeke kakhulu sizama ukuziphazamisa.
Kunokuba luncedo ukucwangcisa ixesha elithile lokuhlala phantsi kwaye ucamngce ngeengcinga ezikhathazayo. Thatha nje isiqingatha seyure okanye njalo, xa unexesha lakho wedwa, lokuhlala phantsi ucinge izinto.
Kwaye xa isiqingatha seyure sinyukile, unokufumana kulula ukuba ususe ingqondo yakho kwezo ngcinga ngokwenza enye into evela kolu luhlu.
14. Thatha usuku lwakho.
Ngaba kufuneka utshintshe izinto phezulu? Zikhuphe ngomhla. Yitya isidlo sasemini, ubukele imovie, uhambe uhambe epakini, okanye uthathe ikhefu elincinci uye kwisixeko esiseduze. Impelaveki kwigumbi lasehotele lutshintsho oluhle lwendawo entle kunye nesantya esivela kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Olo phazamiso lunokukunika ikhefu elincinci kwiingcinga ozikhanyiselayo ezinokubangelwa luxinzelelo lobomi bakho.
Chitha ixesha elincinane uphupha.
Abantu abadala banokuxhamla ekuphupheni bephupha kanye njengabantwana. Kulungile ukuvumela ingqondo yakho kunye nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho uzulazule wedwa, kanye ngexeshana. Kuyanceda ukusebenzisa la malungu okucinga obuchopho akhuthaza ukucinga okuyilayo.
Oko kuyanceda ekusombululeni iingxaki. Ukuphupha kancinci kunokuba sisimo esamkelekileyo kwimijikelezo yesiqhelo kunye nendalo yobomi bemihla ngemihla.
Musa nje ukukwenza rhoqo kangangokuba iphazamisane nokukwazi kwakho ukuqhuba ubomi bakho.
16. Funda into entsha.
I-intanethi yindawo emnandi ngokwenene apho unokufunda zonke iintlobo zezinto ezintsha nezinomdla. Susa ingqondo yakho kwiingxaki onazo ngoku ngokufunda into entsha.
Kukho iiwebhusayithi phaya ezinemfundo yasimahla, eyakhiwe malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zezihloko ezahlukeneyo ezinokukunceda ufunde into entsha. Yindlela elungileyo yokuchitha ixesha lakho endaweni yokuhlala kwiingcinga zakho.
17. Mamela umculo othile.
Ukukhawuleza komculo owuthandayo kunokunceda ukukhupha ingqondo yakho kwezi ngcinga zingafunekiyo. Crank ezinye zeetunes zakho ozithandayo kwaye ugxile kuzo.
Gxila kwizinto ezahlukeneyo zengoma, phulaphula ngokunzulu kumagama omculi, kwaye vumela nje ukuba uhambe ngengoma okwethutyana. Masikuse kwenye indawo.
Ziqhelise ukuxolela.
Ukuxolela kunokuba sisihloko esinzima. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ngokuxolela kuphela ngengqondo yokucela uxolo usamkela komnye umntu ukubakhulula kwiziphoso zabo. Kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela uhlobo lokuxolelwa.
Ikwamalunga nokwamkela izinto ezenzekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezoyikekayo ongasafuni ukulawula ubomi bakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha kumalunga nokuzixolela ngokwenza ukhetho olungelulo kunye nokukhetha ukuphilisa kunye nokudlulela kubo. Ubomi abumi ngxi. Iyaqhubeka nathi okanye ngaphandle kwethu. Ukuhlala ngasemva kunye nokuhlala kwezo mvakalelo kunye nezenzo ezingalunganga ngokwenyani akwenzeli mntu okulungileyo.
Ziva iimvakalelo zakho, emva koko uziyeke zihambe.
Uxakekile! Awunalo ixesha lokuziva iimvakalelo zakho! Umsebenzi kufuneka wenziwe, abantwana kufuneka bondliwe, indlu ifuna ukucocwa, kukho enye imfumba yokuhlamba iimpahla ekufuneka yenziwe. Ayipheli!
Okwangoku, ukwenza ixesha lokuziva iimvakalelo zakho kwaye uziyeke zihambe yinto enokuthomalalisa ingqondo yakho.
Usenokungakwazi ukuhlala phantsi nabo ngoku kuba unezinto ekufuneka uzenzile, kodwa mhlawumbi ngokuhlwa nje kwindawo yokuhlambela eshushu kunye namakhandlela okukhanya kwemood.
Zikhumbuze uzakulunga.
Uhleli apho, ufunda eli nqaku, akunjalo? Usindile kuyo yonke into obuphoselwe bubomi ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, andibi kunjalo?
Jonga wena! Isenokungavakali ngathi, kodwa wenza kakuhle. Wenza okuhle ngokujonga nje ukwandisa ulwazi lwakho kwaye ufumane iindlela zokujongana nezinto ezinzima ezenzeka engqondweni yakho.
Oko kuthetha ukuba usendleleni eya empumelelweni. Uyazama. Uyahamba. Usebenza ekufumaneni iindlela zokwenza ngcono - oko kuthetha ukuba likho ithemba.
Phazamisa ezo ngcinga ngesikhumbuzi. Uya kulunga. Ezi ngcinga aziyi kuhlala ngonaphakade, kwaye uya kuzifumana. Cinga ngezinto osele uzenzile, kwaye uyazi ukuba uza kudlula koku.
Uya kulunga.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayikhupha njani ingqondo yakho kwinto ethile? Thetha nomcebisi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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