Sakhe sabakho ngaphambili-izinto zihamba kakuhle kakhulu nomfana esimbonayo, sineencoko ezimnandi, kwaye sihlala sithumela imiyalezo ubusuku bonke.
Kodwa, uyaqaphela kungekudala ukuba nguwe oqala zonke izingxoxo. Uhlala umthumelela umyalezo kuqala kwaye, nangona ehlala ephendula kuwe, akaze aqalise izinto!
Iyadida kwaye iyakhathaza, akunjalo?
Kulungile, ngethamsanqa, sichazile ukuba kuthetha ntoni oku ukuze ungabi naxhala kwakhona…
1. Udlala imidlalo.
Asitsho ukuba bonke abafana bangabadlali, kodwa esi sisizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuba abafana bangathumeli imiyalezo kuqala.
Usenokuba ukudlala imidlalo yengqondo kunye nawe kwaye wonwabele ukuzinyusa kokubonisa ukuba unomdla kuye.
Kuyacaphukisa xa abafana besenza le nto kwaye inokudideka ngokwenene, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba udlala imidlalo nawe.
Zama ukuyeka ukuba ngowokuqala ukuthumela imiyalezo amaxesha ambalwa kwaye- ukuba uyakhathala ngawe - uza kubuya ngokukhawuleza, ekhathazekile ngokuba uhambile!
Kwaye ukuba akwenzi njalo, kulungile ... uyayazi indlela aziva ngayo kwaye ume phi.
2. Eneneni uneentloni.
Kukho uluvo olunje ngamadoda anamehlo angabinazimvakalelo kwaye eyinto yonke.
Kodwa, kuya kufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo into yokuba anganentloni!
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ebengathandanga kakhulu ngaphambili, okanye unokuba nokuzithemba kwaye angaqiniseki ngendlela yokuqalisa incoko entle kwaye ugcine unomdla kuye.
24 akazange akhe abe kubudlelwane
Uyakuvumela ukuba ukhokele kwaye usete isantya, kwaye ucinga ukuba lolona khetho lukhuselekileyo.
3. Unemiqobo yakhe.
Njengabafazi abathile, lo mfana usenokuba wenzakele kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye ngoku woyika ukwaliwa.
Ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala ukuba amadoda mahle kakhulu njengabafazi xa kufikwa kolu hlobo lwento.
Ukuthandana kunzima, kwaye uninzi lwethu lunexhala lokuba siza kuthandwa kubomi bokwenyani hayi kwiTinder nje. Sinovalo lokuba umntu esimthanda ngokwenene usenokungasithandi kangako kwaye uza kusala.
Ke, sibeka oonogada bethu kwaye siyarhoxa kancinci. Yindlela yokuzikhusela kwaye, ngelixa ingekho mpilweni, yona ngu ixhaphake kakhulu.
Usenokungathumeli umyalezo kuqala kuba ukhathazekile ngokuzibeka phaya, kodwa uya kuhlala ekuphendula kuba unomdla wokwenene!
4. Akafuni ukubonakala eswele.
Kwindlela efanayo ukuya kwinqanaba elingasentla- usenokuba wagxekwa ngu-ex ngokuba eswele ngokwenene okanye ncamathela .
Nje ukuba utyholwe ngaloo nto, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubuye umva kakhulu kwaye uzame ukuyidlala ipholile.
Ukuba unomdla wokuthetha xa sele uqalile incoko, kodwa akaze akubhalele kuqala, mhlawumbi uyakuthanda, kodwa uzama ukugcinwa kwaye azibambe kancinci!
ungaxela njani ukuba uyasetyenziswa
5. Woyikiswa nguwe.
Ukuba akabhaleki kuqala, kodwa uhlala ephendula, usenokuziva esoyikiswa nguwe.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uqala incoko ngemiyalezo emnandi nenomdla! Yinto eyoyikisayo ke leyo kwamanye amadoda aqhele ukuba ‘kulawulo’ xa ethandana.
Ukuba zange babenentombazana ebenesibindi sokuyiphinda kabini imiyalezo okanye ubathumelele umyalezo kuqala, banokungaqiniseki ukuba bayiphatha njani.
Banokuba novalo malunga nendlela yokudlala izinto kwaye bafuna ukuqiniseka ukuba bayakuchukumisa. Bayakuvumela ukuba ukhokele, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo basenomdla kuwe.
6. Iincoko zakho azonwabisi.
Ngexesha elithile, nokuba uthumela imiyalezo ngaphambi komhla wokuqala okanye uthumela imiyalezo kwisoka lakho leminyaka emi-3, izinto zinokudika.
Yinto eqhelekileyo! Asinakwenza izinto ezinomdla, ezifanelekileyo itekisi konke ixesha, iincoko zinokutshintsha ziye malunga nokuba ulale kakuhle kangakanani, ifoto yesidlo sakusasa, kunye nohlaziyo lomntu emsebenzini omthiyileyo.
indlela ukuxelela ukuba a guy uyakuthanda ngokwenene okanye ufuna nje ukulala nawe
Kuhle ukuba usafuna ukuthetha omnye nomnye kwaye sabelane ngezinto, kodwa kunokuba kukudika.
Ukuba izingxoxo zakho mva nje bezintle, ngekuthe kanti bathathe inyathelo elincinci ukubuyela umva.
Akuthethi ukuba abakuthandi, mhlawumbi balinde de babe banento emnandi ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangabelana nawe ngayo!
7. Inokuba ubona omnye umntu.
Le ibuhlungu, kodwa inokuba yinyani.
Ukuba akabandakanyeki nawe kwaye akaqali incoko rhoqo, unokuphazanyiswa ngomnye umntu.
Ukuba uvumile ukuba kulungile ukubona abanye abantu, uvumelekile ukuba uzive ukhathazekile, kodwa ngekhe umxelele ngenene ngaloo nto.
Inkunkuma, kodwa ingachaza ukuba kutheni engekho kancinci kuwe kwaye angaze enze umzamo wokukuthumela umyalezo kuqala.
8. Akakhangeli nantoni na enzulu.
Abanye abafana bayathanda ukugcina izinto eziqhelekileyo - oko kuthetha ukuba abaqhotyoshelwanga, ababi nzulu kakhulu, kwaye abalibeki ngokwenene ixesha elininzi okanye amandla 'kubudlelwane' babo.
Ukuba akaze enze mzamo wokukuthumelela umyalezo kuqala, usenokungafuni ukukunika umbono ombi. Uhlala ahlukane kancinci kuba akafuni ukuba izinto zisondelelene kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo okanye kakhulu kuwe.
Kuyacaphukisa ukuba kunjalo, kodwa kuyanceda ukufumanisa ukuba umi phi.
Nokuba unamathela kuyo kwaye wamkele ukuba akazukukhathalela ngendlela ofuna ngayo, okanye uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ngaphezulu kwaye ufumane omnye umntu.
Umahluko phakathi kothando olunemiqathango nolungenamiqathango
9. Ngokwenene uxakekile!
Yintoni, amadoda anokuthi anyaniseke kakhulu ukuba angathumela imiyalezo?!
Ukuqhula ecaleni, esi sesona sizathu sokuba angakuthumeli imiyalezo kuqala.
Ngaba ukhe waxakeka kakhulu, wabona isicatshulwa sifika, wacinga ukuba 'ndiza kuphendula kamva' kwaye ndilibale ngokupheleleyo ukubuyela kubo? Ngokwenene iyenzeka!
Siyaxinezeleka kakhulu ngokucinga ngazo zonke izizathu ezinokubangela ukuba umntu angaphenduli kuthi, kodwa eyona nto icace gca ayikhathalelwa.
Kuyakhathaza, kodwa kulungile ukuba awunguye ophambili kuye ngalo lonke ixesha. Ungamazisa ukuba ikwenza uzive njani, kodwa awunakulindela ukuba umntu aphendule ngaphakathi kwemizuzu emi-2 ngalo lonke ixesha - okanye umyalezo kuqala lonke ixesha.
Usenokuba uxakeke zezinye izinto ezininzi, okanye uziva uxinezelekile kwaye ungaziva.
10. Awumniki thuba.
Masithi umthumele umyalezo wakutshanje kwincoko. Emva kwexesha, ufuna ukuncokola naye kwakhona kodwa akathumelwanga myalezo ukuqala incoko.
Inokucaphukisa- kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba umyalezo wakho wokugqibela uvale izinto!
Ukuba awumniki amathuba avulekileyo ukuba aqale incoko okanye uqhubeke nokuthetha, mhlawumbi uziva edidekile kwaye urhoxile kancinci.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuphazamisa umntu oza kuvela exakekile kwaye ecaphukisa isicatshulwa!
Phinda ufunde imiyalezo yakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba awucimi ngengozi izinto okanye unike i-vibe ukuba awunomdla wokuthetha naye!
11. Kubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuye.
Ndandinalo mbandela ngqo nge-ex kwaye, ngenye imini, ndamcaphukisa kakhulu kuba ndaziva ngathi bendisoloko ndingulowo wenza umgudu wokuncokola okanye iFaceTime.
Waphendula wathini? Wafumanisa ukuba oko kwakusebenza kakuhle kwaye sobabini sasiphepha elinye!
Ekuqaleni, bendididekile- angacinga njani ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ilungile?! Ndaye ndaqonda ukuba yile ndlela izinto bezisoloko ziphakathi kwethu!
Akayinto eninzi yokuthambisa, ngoko ke bendihlala ndingowokuqala ukuthumela umyalezo. Kuye, bekunjalo nje ukuba izinto zisebenza njani, umkhwa omhle kunye 'nenkqubo,' ukuba uyathanda, esonwabileyo sobabini. Kutheni ezakucinga ukuba ngumba ukuba ngekhe ndimxelele, ngapha koko?
Mhlawumbi umntu wakho ucinga nje ukuba le yindlela izinto ezisebenza ngayo phakathi kwenu-uthumela umyalezo kuqala, uyaphendula. Kutheni angatshintsha into acinga ukuba iyasebenza, ngakumbi ukuba awuzange umxelele ukuba awuyithandi?
ungalithanda njani iqabane lakho kwakhona
Umntu kufuneka abhale umyalezo kuqala, akunjalo?
12. Akunjalo nje kuwe - uxolo!
Ukuba awukayiboni imovie akasayi kungena kuwe, siyichaza njengomsebenzi wasekhaya! Umboniso bhanya-bhanya ngokuyintloko uphethe umyalezo wokuba xa umntu ekuwe, uya kufumana indlela yokuba nawe.
Ukuba akakuthumeli imiyalezo kuqala, usenokungazikhathazi ngokulandela izinto kunye nawe.
Kubuhlungu ukwaliwa, kodwa kukwalungile ukuba ekugqibeleni uqaphele ukuba akaphikisani nawe njengawe!
Kuya kuthatha ixesha elincinci ukudlula, kodwa kulungile ukwazi ukuba umi phi ukuze ukwazi ukuya phambili.
Usenokuphendula nje ngembeko okanye ngokungathandekiyo, kodwa ukuba ufumana isimanga uvakalelo lwesisu , Kuya kufuneka uncokole naye malunga nokuba izinto zihamba phi.
Isenokuba naziphi na izizathu ezingentla, ewe- asitsho ukuba ugwetyiwe! -Kodwa usenokungathumeli umyalezo kuqala kuba akakhathali ngokwaneleyo.
Uyakufumana umntu ongenakulinda ukuba abelane nawe ngezinto, okubhala kabini, kwaye uyonwabile ukukwazisa ukuba uyakuthanda kangakanani, ungakhathazeki.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze malunga nalo mfo kunye nokungafuni kwakhe ukuthumela imiyalezo kuqala? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
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