Ungumoya wasimahla ongenakukwazi ukubakho kwaye unethamsanqa elininzi ngeendlela ezininzi. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awunayo imizabalazo embalwa yokulwa nayo.
imiqondiso yomhla wokuqala wokuqala
Awuziva unyanzelekile ziindibano zenkcubeko okanye uxanduva uninzi lwabantu abaphila ubomi babo ngalo.
Ungumntu oqwengwe yincwadi yemithetho kwaye wenza izinto ngendlela yakho. Umntu ocingelayo ngokumangalisayo, unendlela eyahlukileyo yokuphila, okanye ongaliboniyo ilizwe ngale lens njengabanye abantu. Wenza into okholelwa ukuba ilungile kunokufuna uluvo lwabanye.
Abanye abantu banokukujonga ukulungela kwakho ukuzama izinto ezintsha kwaye uthathe umngcipheko njengesibindi, kodwa kumntu okhululekileyo onjengawe, ubomi abunakufaneleka ukuphila ngaphandle kokutyhala imida ngokufuthi.
Ngokusisiseko, awunamdla wokuhambelana noko kuyalelwa luluntu yindlela 'eqhelekileyo' yokuphila ubomi bakho.
… Ulandela intliziyo yakho endaweni yoko.
Imimoya yasimahla inokuza kuzo zonke iimilo kunye nobukhulu. Unokukhathalela ngokunzulu malunga neemvakalelo zabanye abantu, okanye akunjalo. Unokuba ukulungele ukulalanisa, okanye akunjalo. Usenokungakhathali, okanye ungangabinako.
Unokukhetha ukuwukhulula umoya wakho, okanye usenokuzalwa nje unjalo.
Oko bonke abagcini bomoya okhululekileyo babelana ngako, nangona kunjalo, luthando ngobomi.
Imivuzo ingaphezulu kwemizabalazo, ukuba uyandibuza, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba, kuluntu lwethu, imimoya ekhululekileyo ayizabalazi ngeendlela ezininzi…
1. Ubonwa njengongakhathaliyo.
Kubantu imimoya yabo ayichongi njengekhululekile, nabani na onomoya ojikelezayo uthathwa njengongakhathaliyo okanye obalekayo.
Ngenxa yokuba ukhethe ukuthatha indlela engahambanga kangako, kunokuba nzima kuwe ukweyisela abantu ukuba (mhlawumbi) unoxanduva njengomntu olandelayo.
2. Akukho ndlela yendlela.
Into emnandi ngokwenza into eyenziwa ngumntu wonke ebomini kukuba abantu abaninzi baye bayenza phambi kwakho, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho imephu ecacileyo ebekiweyo, kunye nemizekelo emininzi ekufuneka ilandelwe.
Ukuba ukhetha ukungalandeli indlela esele ihanjwe ngabanye ngaphambili, kukuwe ukuba uzive indlela yakho ngaphandle kwemephu okanye naziphi na iinyawo ezikwisanti ukukukhokela.
3. Kucacile ngakumbi xa ufumana izinto ezingalunganga.
Ngenxa yokuba uzibethile wedwa kwaye ushiye isihlwele ngasemva, utyhileka ngakumbi kwaye uyabonakala. Ke xa, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, usilele kwinto ethile, abantu banokubona, bagqabaze, kwaye bagxeke.
Ngelixa imimoya yasimahla enethamsanqa iya kuba nayo ukhuselekile koko abanye abantu bakucingayo , uninzi lwethu lusakufumana oku kwenzakalisa ngokunzulu, kwaye kunokusenza sithandabuze kwisigqibo sethu sokuqhubeka nokwenza izinto ngendlela yethu.
Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, sifumanisa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba sibuyele umva kwaye siphinde sijoyine umhlambi xa sele siphuliwe.
4. Abantu banokuzama uku uyijongele phantsi impumelelo yakho .
Ngelishwa, abanye abantu abanomoya okhululekileyo banokungonwabi xa uzama into eyahlukileyo kwaye uyenze isebenze.
Rhoqo awufumani ndumiso okanye ikhredithi ekufaneleyo, kwaye ufumanise ukuba abantu bazama ukukubeka phantsi ukuze bazive bebhetele kukhetho lwabo lobomi.
5. Awunakuze ulunge ngokwaneleyo.
Ujonge abanye abantu abanamaqela amakhulu, omeleleyo obuhlobo kwaye uyazibuza ukuba kutheni ungazange ube naloo nto.
Kungenxa yokuba iilebhile azikusebenzeli, kwaye ngelixa uza kudibana nabantu obathandayo, akunakufane ube neqela elandisiweyo labahlobo onokuthi ubachonge ngokwenyani.
Ungathanda ndiziva ndibanjisiwe Ngokuzibophelela ekubeni lilungu leqela kubeka ekubeni ungumntu onjani. Ungaphezulu kwebhabhathane ekuhlaleni, ukubhabha kwiqela ukuya kwiqela.
Xa wawusemncinci, wawuziva ngathi ulahliwe, kodwa njengoko ukhula, wafunda ukuthanda amandla akho okudibana nazo zonke iintlobo zabantu ezahlukeneyo.
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6. Uthanda yonke into, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unokugweba kakubi abantu.
Imimoya yasimahla inokububona ubuhle kuyo yonke into. Uyayazi indlela yokuxabisa izinto ezincinci ebomini, ukusuka kwindlela imitha yelanga engena ngayo ngefestile isandi semvula kwintente yakho.
Uyabona okuhle kuyo yonke into kwaye uhlale unethemba.
Xa udibana nabantu abatsha, ubona okuhle kubo, kwaye unokukhetha ukungahoyi- okanye ungazi kwaphela - okubi.
umenza njani umntu azi ukuba uyabathanda
Kungathabatha ixesha elide ukuba uchonge iziphene zabo kunokuba unokwenza umntu ongathathi ngoluvo lothando lwehlabathi. Oku kunokukufaka kwiimeko ezinamathelayo.
7. Ungaze uthathe ilizwi lomnye umntu ngalo.
Le yeyona nto inokubangela iintlungu, kodwa ikwenza ubomi bakho butyebe kakhulu. Uyakuthanda ukufunda izinto ezintsha kwaye unomdla ongonelisiyo wokuhlola.
Ukuba umntu othile ukulumkisa ukuba into ayiyongcamango ilungileyo, mhlawumbi uyayenza, njengoko kufuneka uzibonele. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yintoni engakubulali ikwenza womelele… akunjalo?
Uhlala uphetha ukonzakala xa uzama into entsha okanye udibana nomntu omtsha kuba kufuneka uyazi ukuba ivakalelwa njani, kwaye unomdla ongapheliyo malunga nokuba kungenzeka ntoni.
Kwicala lokudibanisa, uhlala ukhula, kwaye uphuma kumava njengomntu olumkileyo.
8. Awunakuhlala uzolile ixesha elide.
Ngokuqinisekileyo unetyala elinzulu lokuzula… okanye iimbovane kwiibhlukhwe zakho.
Uninzi lomoya okhululekileyo ufuna ukubona umhlaba, kodwa kunokuba yimiceli mngeni mitsha sisiyobisi sakho, indawo okuyo ayinamsebenzi konke oko kuwe.
Ukuphononongwa kuyakuvuyisa, kwaye ulungile ekukhutsheni abantu abatsha, izimvo, kunye neendawo ohlangana nazo.
Nje ukuba uqhelane nento ethile, kwenye indawo, okanye nokuba ngubani, ingqondo yakho iya kujikela kumngeni olandelayo. Ukuba awunalo utshintsho oluqhubekayo ebomini bakho, uyadika .
Oko kunokuthetha ukuba utshintsha imisebenzi rhoqo xa utshintsha iimpahla zakho, uchitha yonke imali yakho ekuhambeni, okanye unentambo ende yobudlelwane.
Kunganzima ukuthi kuthi ndlela-ntle kubantu nakwiindawo oye wazithanda, kwaye kuya kubakho iinyembezi, kodwa icala elisecaleni lelo kukuhlangana kwakhona okuvuyisayo.
Ukuba ufumene kwenye indawo, into ethile, okanye umntu onamathele kuye, ingahlala ikhokelela kwimfazwe yangaphakathi phakathi kwecala lakho elifuna ukuhlala kunye nelakho elingasoze lifune ukuyeka ukuhlola.
9. Ucinga ukuba wazi ngcono.
Kwaye, nangona uhlala usenza, ayisiyiyo leyo umama wakho, utitshala, okanye umqeshi afuna ukuyiva.
Uyila kwaye ubukhali, ke uhlala uza neendlela ezingcono zokwenza izinto kunaleyo uyixelelwa ukuba uzenze, enokuthi ngamanye amaxesha ikhuhle abantu ngendlela engeyiyo.
10. Uyakucaphukela ukufana nabanye abantu.
Ubume bakho bomoya okhululekileyo buthetha ukuba kunqabile ukuba uphele usenza into enye okanye unxibe into efanayo naye wonke umntu okujikelezile. Ke xa umntu ebonakala enxibe ilokhwe efanayo, uyasokola.
Ngokuqinisekileyo awukholelwa ukuba ungcono kunomnye umntu, kodwa uyaphumelela ngokwahluka. Ke loo mpahla ayinakulindeleka ukuba ibone ukukhanya kweminye iminyaka embalwa, ngelo xesha akukho mntu uya kuyinxiba ngayo.
Kutheni ndiziva ngathi andingowakhe?
11. Ukhula ngobuhlobo.
Umoya wakho okhululekileyo uthetha ukuba uhlala uhlala amava amatsha kwaye uhlala ukhula kwaye utshintsha. Uninzi lwabahlobo bakho aluyi kukwazi ukuqhubeka naloo nto.
Ngelixa kuyakubakho imimoya yasimahla eya kukhula ecaleni kwakho, ungafumanisa ukuba awusenanto ufana ngayo nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni ofunda kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo.
Kungaba lusizi xa uqaphela ukuba ubuhlobo nomntu obekade eyinxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho ubhubhile, kodwa kubalulekile ukuyamkela, ubanqwenelele okuhle kwaye uqhubeke.
Kufanelekile…
Ubomi njengomoya okhululekileyo buya kuhlala butyebile, bunomvuzo kwaye buzele yimimangaliso.
Kunokubakho amaxesha amafutshane okuthandabuza apho unqwenela khona Yonwaba uze waneliseke ngendlela izinto eziyiyo. Apho awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale ukhangela izinto ezintsha nezinomdla.
Kodwa ngaphandle kwemizabalazo, andiqondi ukuba akukho moya ukhululekileyo unokuze uthathele ingqalelo ukufakelwa kobuntu… nokuba banokukhetha.
